To put things in perspective for you if you are still hurt after a rejection, take a look at these most incredible rejections ever:

* The head honcho of Warner Brothers movie studios famously derided the idea of ‘talkies’ saying “No one would ever want to hear movie actors talk.”

*The New York Times rejected the idea of television completely. It was written off by them as never appealing to the average American family.

*Most everyone rejected their invitation to witness one of mankind’s most historic events ever – the Wright brothers’ first flight in their flying machine. Just five people turned up to watch.

Learn to Accept Rejections In Life, Including In Your Dating Life, armed with the knowledge that by Staying In The Game, You’ll Eventually Win.

The best kept secret of Don Juans and Casanovas who win is that in order to be successful, first you have to keep losing. Remember you have to be in the game to win it; giving up to retreat and then lick your wounds is not the habit of a successful Casanova.

If you quit, you are guaranteeing your own failure. Success could be just around the corner. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and try again.

The biggest tip to overcome rejection is to decide that you will not take it personally. Deal with it objectively and you will get over it and move on.

Learn the following tips from the seasoned Don Juans to help you adjust and realise that all is not lost …

Every Successful Don Juan or Casanova has Learned Sometime Along His Dating Life When To Quit and When To Pursue A New Target.

Whilst you should not take every rejection personally, you also need to know when to persevere with the target and when to move on.

However, if you are sure she is not trying to test you or play mind games with you, then it is time to let go and hang onto your self-respect at all costs.

In the Same Way that Not Every Hot Girl Automatically Gets Into Your Target List, you have to Accept That Some Girls Will Never Be Interested In You.

Understand that there is nothing wrong with you; it is just that not every chick is going to be turned on by your combination of character and looks. It is a blow even to seasoned Don Juans when someone says to you “Thanks, but no thanks”.

Accept the highs of dating, along with the lows. You have to learn from your rejections, and realise you are not everyone’s preference, but there are thousands of chicks out there that would kill to date a guy like you.

It may seem like a raw spot now, but time will make it less painful, especially if you do not over-think every move. Sure, analyse your play but don’t end up falling on your own sword. Use it as a learning experience and move on to your next target.

Take It from the Veteran Don Juans or Casanovas who have long accepted that Saving A Man’s Self-Esteem Is More Important Than Trying To Hold On To An Unworthy Girl.

If the person you are dating decides they want to take a break, and you are sure that it is not some kind of test or mind game, then it is best for everyone (including you) to let them go. Even if you think it is a huge mistake on their part, you owe it to your self-esteem not to plead beg or whine. Try to hold onto your dignity at all costs.

When the initial wound has started to heal (which I guarantee you, it will) you will be glad that you held onto your self-respect and simply let go at the appropriate time.

After this phase has passed, you will move on to feel pity for the person who was so shortsighted as to have rejected you. The way to view it is that ultimately it is their loss and not yours.

Use your Experience to Assess What You Need To Improve On, and if there is none, seek to Find The Other Women Who Would Love To Have You.

The next step on the road to recovering from rejection is to analyse objectively why the rejection happened. If you can see that your game plan needs modifying after this rejection, then the rejection was worth it, since your game will be a success with some minor adjustments.

If you decide there was nothing wrong with the way you handled things, and do not think that changing your plan would have made a difference, then maybe it is time to look for new places where chicks who are more appreciative of your assets hang out.

Like many aspect of life, dating is a numbers game. You have to endure a certain number of rejections before you score. Take the long view and see that in accepting rejection you are taking yourself one step closer to sweet success and acceptance of your next score.

If You Want to Master The Art Of Dating and Seduction, you first have to muster the courage and Master Your Own EMOTIONS And Thinking.

According to experts, one of the most common fears among humans is rejection. The fear of rejection can stop you from trying again. It can impede your daily progress and ruin your life – if you allow it to.

The point to remember is that the fear of rejection is not something tangible. It is something you can entirely change in your mind – it is an emotion.

The fear only exists in our head, and you need to remember that only you are the master of your emotions. It is up to you to re-train your mind to accept the odd rejection as a part of the learning curve towards scoring more often and becoming a true Don Juan or Casanova.

Prepare to Win in The Dating Game by Refocusing your thinking into how Small that Rejection is Compared To The Winnings You’ll Be Having In A Short While.

Train your mind to accept what appears like rejection as merely another step towards success. Instead of blowing a rejection out of context and anguishing over every word and move, simply imagine that you are looking at the whole thing through a very strong telescope.

Then turn the viewfinder so that the image becomes smaller and smaller. This represents the impact that this rejection has upon you. Realise that the effect this trifling rejection has had upon you is getting smaller and smaller, and becoming less and less significant in your mind.

If you perceive the impact to be small, then it will be small. If you do not allow it throw you off track, it will not. By mentally attuning yourself to the fact that you are immune to negative feelings about rejection, you are setting yourself up to win.

The seasoned Don Juans’ final thought on this subject, and one that you should take to heart, is to remember that winners lose more than losers lose. To be a winner you first have to keep losing for a while.

When the single guy traditional approach to pickups failed repeatedly, guys teamed up and found that working together gave them a better chance of scoring with their desired chick.

Whilst it was the solution to the problem at the time, many women have caught on to this technique and have adapted their own techniques to thwart the wingman pickup strategy.

The most successful counter-strategy for men for this maneuver is defined by seasoned Don Juans or Casanovas as ‘The Wingwoman Coalition’ (maybe you prefer ‘Wingwoman Union’ or ‘Wingwoman Partnership’). When used correctly, and working on the assumption that you are not a complete creep and are reasonable looking, this technique rarely fails and has a massive conversion rate of 90%.

To master this powerful and successful original Don Juan or Casanova strategy, read on …

Preselection: Value Being Affirmed Ahead By Other Women

It is a known fact that pre-screened men are more successful in scoring. It has been scientifically proven.

Any successful Don Juan or Casanova has Scored Dozens Of Women by First Scoring Off Similar Women.

Men who have already passed the ’screening’ test of another equally attractive female, stand a much higher chance of achieving their goals with their next selected target.

Your presence in the company of another woman of equal value to that of your target confirms your value to the object of your desire.

The Law of Supply & Demand (aka The Law of Scarcity) – Telegraphing That You Are ‘Scarce’, and Hard-To-Get

To understand this point, recall one basic economic principle which the commercial world has been employing to great effect for centuries – the Law of Scarcity.

If the person or organization trying to sell the product limits the availability of the product, whilst also creating a ‘need’ for it, then it makes this product (you) more scarce and at the same time more desirable. This is leveraging the economists’ view as a parallel for the explanation of the classic ‘Wingwoman’ strategy, but for all the same reasons as with any other product, it works powerfully in the game of dating and seduction.

By Adapting The Law of Scarcity into your own dating life, You Make More Women ‘Demand’ For You after They See That Your ‘Supply’ Is Consumed By This Wingwoman.

In appearing to already have scored a ‘perfect ten’, you instantly become much harder to get and present a challenge to this perfect ten who is very accustomed to men falling at her feet and doing precisely what she wants when she wants.

Decreased availability, by appearing to have been ‘taken’ by your ‘wingwoman’ makes you that much more desirable. It is very sound economic principle that underlays this almost fail-proof ‘Wingwoman Technique’.

Now consider this principle as applied to really beautiful successful and perfect women – if they think you are already taken, by seeing you with this ‘Wingwoman’ (who should be in their league looks-wise at the very least) they are going to think you are taken, and want you even more.

Any determined Don Juan or Casanova can Make ‘Perfect 10’ Women Beg For His Attention simply by Focusing His Own Attention To His Wingwoman.

The fact that you appear to be already ’spoken for’ only increases your value in the eyes of the ‘Perfect 10′ and makes you even more of a challenge to them.

‘Perfect Ten’ women are used to calling the shots and having any guy she wants at her beck and call anytime, any day and anywhere. If you were in her presence alone, and appeared to be available, it could actually have the reverse of the effect you are aiming for.

The perceived value from the ‘Perfect Ten’s’ point of view is that you are great enough to have already apparently been ensnared by another ‘Perfect Ten’. If the woman you are trying to attract believes that you are highly desired by others, hence your demand outweighs your supply, then your value will go up.

These ‘Perfect Ten’ women Enjoy Challenges and Going After Challenging Men, particularly Those Who Are Already ‘Taken’.

She also sees you as a ‘challenge’ to her, particularly as from her point of view, there is another woman who beat her to it. Most women of this calibre are extremely competitive, not to mention jealous, which gives this woman, who usually finds all guys a pushover, a serious challenge (or so she thinks).

Having a wingwoman elevates your status even more. You become the ultimate catch to this ‘Perfect Ten’ who will consider beating off this other woman to get the pick of the crop: this is one of her main missions in life.

Now consider this principle as applied to really beautiful successful and perfect women – if they think you are already taken, by seeing you with this ‘Wingwoman’ (who should be in their league looks-wise at the very least) they are going to think you are taken, and want you even more.

The fact that you appear to be already ’spoken for’ only increases your value in the eyes of the ‘Perfect 10′ and makes you even more of a challenge to them.

Your Wingwoman Helps Provide Social Proof of Your Desirability and Worthiness To The Perfect Ten

Having a ‘wingwoman’ brings the element of competition into the game and makes other women even keener to get you, because women usually want what other women have.
In essence, your ‘Wingwoman’ is elevating your status and adding value to you as a man, because your target perceives that another woman (your wingwoman) has already preselected you.

In the mind of the target, because you have other attractive women around you, you instantly become more appealing to her.

Your Wingwoman Helps To Evoke Jealousy in The Perfect Ten

The fact that the Wingwoman can stay in your periphery, enjoying all manner of intimate relations with you, while the ‘Perfect 10′ woman stays outside the boundaries of your interactions, can cause the latter to view the former (i.e., Wingwoman) with a combination of envy and jealousy.

This only raises your perceived value in the eyes of the ‘Perfect 10′ and makes you even more of an object of seduction to them.

Make any ‘Perfect 10′ woman HUNGRY For You by Making Her Jealous of the Wingwoman You Choose.

In this way having a wingwoman of similar status to your target raises a tinge of jealousy in your target, who is accustomed to getting whichever men she wants, when she wants them. You can use this characteristic to level the playing field in your favour.

A less obvious advantage of having a very attractive ‘wingwoman’ (but one which is not to be overlooked) is that it truly helps to ‘seed’ an idea in her mind of your worth. This means she realizes that you are in demand by other women of equal quality, and this makes you even more desirable to her.

Other Reasons Why this Strategy Works – Helps a Hot Woman to Gain Validation

In choosing the Wing Woman over the Perfect Ten, you already conveyed that you are a selector and you set standards! This makes you a greater challenge, because seducing you away from the Wingwoman is going to take some effort, and more importantly when she succeeds, it helps her to affirm that she is desirable and more worthy than the wingwoman. This explains why, all so often, you have heard of stories of hot women going to bed with a bad boy personality who sleeps around with other women, but who are all quite alluring, because the hot woman wants an affirmation that she is beautiful herself.

Make Any Woman Want You To Score Her by Choosing The Appropriate Wingwoman to Make Her Desire The Position Of.

Yes! Hot women are extremely competitive and do need a constant stream of validation of their own worth and beauty, especially when they meet someone who raises their doubts over their appeal.

The kudos and vanity in ’snatching’ you from another attractive woman satisfies the narcissistic nature of your target. More value is accorded to you – you are much more highly ‘prized’ by the target since you were taken from another woman that already gives you ‘instant value’.

So in understanding this strategy completely and how it works, you will realize that the wingwoman does not have to be the equal of the Perfect Ten in the area of physical beauty, but she should have some other features that the target recognizes as being equal to or close to her own status.

If You Can, Get the Perfect Ten’s Trusted Friend as Your Wingwoman

Truly, your ‘Wingwoman’ does not need to be physically as attractive as ‘The Perfect Ten’ woman who is your target. Having some attributes that make her someone your target admires, often, is good enough.

To Make This Strategy Work, a Don Juan or Casanova should Choose His Wingwoman Carefully: Either a Very Successful, Intelligent Girl, or simply a Friend of your ‘Perfect 10′ target.

Qualities such as elegance and style, or success in her chosen career field as well as intelligence and being witty and eloquent could be examples of some traits that the perfect ten hottie admires in the ‘Wingwoman’ – a lady in your game. Or your Wingwoman could be a trusted friend of the ‘Perfect Ten’ target, thus elevating your status and credibility in the target’s eyes even further.

Indeed, having been validated by one of her closest friends is the best possible reference you could ever receive, since your target hottie knows and trusts your wingwoman’s judgment and opinions implicitly.

And who knows – perhaps your target hottie is hiding a secret to herself, after listening to all the positive feedback that has reached her via her trusted friend? Everyone has heard stories of best friends betraying friendship, and stealing their best friend’s boyfriend. What happened often was they were eventually caught in the act together, to the horror of the person who discovers that her close friend and her own boyfriend has betrayed her! (This book, though, is not encouraging you to do the same, but is alerting you to the possibility that a close friend’s compliments and accolades does indeed have a material impact on another woman’s judgment of a man’s worth or desirability, regardless of whether the ‘referring’ woman is a hottie or just an average-looking woman, which does not matter!)

Make Sure that Your Wingwoman’s Attributes and Credibility are Satisfactory Enough to Gain the Trust of Your Target Lady.

The attributes of your ‘wingwoman’, and her credibility to the target hottie, often combine to raise your perceived desirability to the woman whom you consider as the ‘Perfect Ten’. Physical appeal of your wingwoman is important, but not as important as the credibility that the Perfect ten finds in her closest friend’s judgement. Thus, in the eyes of the target hottie, you could then be perceived as a great catch, and women all want men they believe are a great catch! Getting such a man, who is already desired by other women, or a man who is at or above her league (depending on the strength of the accolades and positive third-party references she receives), makes getting him all the more satisfying for herself, instead of the man she flatly rejected the other day.

Utilize The Competitive Nature of Women in The Dating and Mating Game!

It is in the female’s nature to compare themselves to other women. This fact can be utilized to your advantage. It is hardwired into their brain-circuitry. Therefore, physical endowments and looks of another woman are often just the tip of the ice-berg. So long as the target hottie is close in league, say, a 7/10 or 8/10 compared with the target hottie, who is a 10/10, this close proximity in league combined with the scenes in which you both behave intimately towards each other, will flip her ‘attraction switches’ in you. This will make her envy that woman and see you as a good catch!

So in understanding this strategy completely and how it works, you will realize that the wingwoman does not even need to be equal to the Perfect Ten in the area of physical beauty, but they should be close in league. Evidences of being the “competitive” center of attention and object of seduction with multiple ladies are more powerful ways to influence perception of who, ultimately, is more desirable.

Selecting Your Wingwoman

You will probably find your ideal ‘Wingwoman’ among these women you know.

Your Ex-Girlfriend:

Choosing Your Ex as Your Wingwoman is A Bit Risky and Entails That Your Relationship Had A Good Closure.

Ex-girlfriends often provide a good source of suitable candidates for the position of ‘wingwoman’. It is essential that you are on good terms with your ex and that no negative vibes are picked up by your target from your ‘Wingwoman’. The idea here is for your wingwoman to be the magnet to draw the target into your circle and to make the opening contact by starting up a conversation.

Make sure that if you select your wingwoman from this group of females, that there are no lingering feelings of resentment on the part of the ex girlfriend so that they do not surface at an inappropriate time.

Your Current Girlfriend:

It is Even Riskier to Use Your Current Girlfriend as Your Wingwoman, so make sure you WEIGH DOWN YOUR PRIORITIES before continuing.

You may be on thin ice if you use your current girlfriend as you wingwoman, so tread extremely carefully here.

Women have an instinct about situational awareness, and if she picks up on the fact that she is actually helping you to ensnare your next conquest, it will not be a pretty scene.

Just remember that all is fair in love and be as careful as you can in this situation.

Your Other Female Admirers:

You may Hit Two Birds With One Stone by Using One of Your Female Admirers as Your Wingwoman, as you make yourself and her Both Happy.

This group is probably the elite of the ‘Wingwoman’ categories. Most men have a group of women who are acquaintances, whether they be colleagues at your present employers, or previous, or women you used to hang out with at college or the gym.

Amongst these ladies is sure to be the perfect ‘wingwoman’. It is much better if your selected woman actually does still admire you, and like you, as these qualities will be obvious in her interaction with you, and on full view for the target to see.

Your Best Friend’s Woman

When All the Above Scenarios are Not Possible, you may Ask For Your Best Buddy’s Girlfriend’s Help, but Only After You’re Sure of Certain Things.

This suggestion assumes that your best buddy and his woman are both up for it, and there is not a hint of jealousy from your buddy. It also assumes that you would never in a million years consider hitting on your best friend’s woman.

But be aware that at this crucial point in the game, you should display no interest whatsoever in your target. On no account make or hold eye contact.

You must rely solely on your wingwoman to attract the other woman and then to open a dialogue for you.

Women Admire Men who Get Along Well With Females, so Bringing Female Relatives Along Into The Game would Be of Help To You.

Your Sister

Men who get along well with their female siblings are highly attractive to other women. The other women see it as proof that you are a man who is well versed in being around a certain type of woman. The idea here is for your sister to be the magnet to draw the target into your circle and to make the opening contact with your target by starting up a conversation. This will create a chain reaction that results in you scoring big-time.

Cousins

Probably the elite of the ‘Wingwoman’ categories, if you are lucky enough to have a cousin who is also a ‘Perfect Ten’ then she should be your first choice, assuming that she has not been secretly in love with you since you were ten.

Family allegiance is strong and they will do their utmost to make sure of your success. It will become a matter of pride to them that you two teamed up and got one over on someone who is not a part of your family.

Playing Hard To Get

Always make sure that you never permit anyone to take your company for granted, or to assume you will always be available.

In order to establish your value in the eyes of your potential target, it is best that the other woman already values you. She is guaranteed to take other women’s judgement of you into account when she assesses your desirability, and will definitely be affected by their judgement of you.

By reading and digesting this invaluable Don Juan or Casanova’s guide to recruiting the assistance of a ‘Wingwoman’, you will dramatically increase your chances of scoring with a chick that you may otherwise consider out of your league.

No matter where you live, a condo or house, the opportunity to score that single hottie neighbor should not be passed up, but care and attention is needed to avoid possible future problems.

Be aware that this lady may know a darn sight more about you than you think. She’s probably spotted you in your old bathrobe picking up the newspaper, and knows your bedroom curtains or blinds don’t open all day on a Sunday.

Any Don Juan or Casanova is Aware of the Need To Be Extra Vigilant in taking steps to Score That Hot Female Neighbor.

None of this should deter the seasoned Don Juan or Casanova, but there can be pitfalls to scoring your neighbor, so just be aware of them from the start.

Bear in mind that this cutie has access to information and you are not just an anonymous gentleman to her. She will have privileged access to your home which is strictly off limits to most other targets. It is definitely risky but adapting to your circumstances is essential for success.

After the Welcome Wagon has waved goodbye and new faces have called to say hi, you ponder the available hotties in your new Hood. The cutie next door is top of your hit list, and she could not have been friendlier or more welcoming. You know she is available from the friendly chit-chat and she seems to have many of the qualities you are looking for in a target.

Handled badly, hitting on a neighbor could turn out to be a disaster of monumental proportions, since she is on your home turf. So absorb the Don Juan or Casanova tips below to ensure this does not happen to you …

Make Sure You Know What You Are Getting Into

Maybe there is something your realtor forgot to tell you when you snapped up this bargain of a condo? If it seemed too good to be true, there could be a skeleton in the closet in the form of a ‘neighbor from hell’.

Any hopeful Don Juan or Casanova should be careful to Conduct Proper Research on his Target’s Attitudes before Taking Any Step.

Think of the ‘Bunny Boiler’ in the movie ‘Fatal Attraction’ and take every step you can to make absolutely sure this hottie is not of the same type. Find a chatty neighbour who is happy to dish the dirt on everyone around and who will inform you of your target’s past.

Remember reading about the crazy woman who discovered her husband was ‘having a fling’? She shredded every single piece of clothing he had, gave each neighbor a crate of his vintage wine collection until it was gone, then poured paint stripper on the hood of his brand new Mercedes. And need us to really mention Mr. Bobbit and his unfortunate dismemberment?

It never hurts to Know The Girl’s Background before even wondering How To Score Her, since Not Every Hot Female Neighbor Is A Safe Target.

Be absolutely sure of your interpretations of her signals before making a move. It could be she is being pleasant because she is happy to have a guy as a neighbor to help when the electrics go on the fritz.

Or maybe she just feels the Hood is a safer area with a man living right next door? Again, your best bet is to find out as much as you can about her from other friendly neighbors, who are usually only too happy to dish the dirt on others.

An elderly woman who monitors every coming and going in your block may be a vital help to you discovering the background of your selected hottie. Drop in for a coffee and instigate the friendly neighbor routine with her to start finding out what really is going on in your area.

Once the Coast Is Clear, Consider The Future (In Case She Turns You Down) and Take This Into Account Before Making Any Big Move.

If you have done all the groundwork, and assured yourself that the cutie next door is not the psycho bitch from hell, then you are two steps nearer to your target.

One more point to consider is the fallout if she turns you down. If she does, be very ready for awkward chitchat every time you bump into her at the mailboxes or whilst getting the trash out.

Unless you are confident that you can cope with rejection from this cutie, and won’t end up trying to avoid her at all costs, then continue at your own risk.

A sensible Don Juan or Casanova makes sure he has Mapped Out The Area and Picked The Hottest Female In The Neighborhood before Making Locking In On Her.

Remember that when you target the cutie next door, you are automatically restricting yourself and jeopardizing your opportunities with all the other hotties in your neighborhood. This is a common error which many men make.

They jump at the first opportunity, instead of waiting until a bigger fish swims into view. Give yourself the time to scope out the neighborhood for an even cuter hottie before settling for the one next door.

Let’s assume the best. You’ve scored with the girl next door but she is becoming over-friendly now and calling over (uninvited) at all hours and for the most ridiculous reasons.

Before you know it she is trying to move in. This will put a terrible strain on the relationship and make you feel like you have no place to hide from the insistent pursuit of this woman.

If Things Turn From OK to Bad with This Neighbour, keep these steps in mind to Avoid Making The Situation Even Worse.

Everyone needs some alone-time but you are unlikely to get it after hooking up with this lady, especially if things go sour early on.

The only way to handle this situation is to be frank with her, tell her you enjoyed her company but that now it is over. Now you want your space and your life back.

The other option left to you is moving home again – but you’ve only been there less than two months, do you really want the cost and aggravation of moving home all over again?

Expert Don Juans or Casanovas know the Costs of Trying To Score (or scoring) A Neighbour, so it’s Best to Save Such Moves Until After Some Time in the Neighborhood.

Hooking up with the nubile neighbor may have been fun, but realize that whether you like it or not, you and your relationship with this lady is the number one hot gossip on the block.

Depending upon how long your liaison lasted with her, you could well be viewed by any other local hotties as merely a gigolo. All this attention to you and your life is counterproductive to being a Casanova, so the best tip to follow is delay any move on nooky with the neighbor until you have at least been a resident for a couple of months.

Scientists insist that most communication is shown through actions and expressions, before we even start a verbal conversation. Assuming the boffins have it right, then it seems obvious that we can create interest and attraction in a woman without the need for words.

People, Particularly The Fairer Gender, are created in such a way that They could Communicate Without The Need For Words.

Women are far more highly attuned to receiving subtle messages via expressions and so are quick to catch on to even the tiniest nuance of action or gesture.

The aim of this silent attraction is to lead to a verbal flirting session which, when combined with more actions, will lead to the ultimate aim – a score.

Knowing how to Attract Any Woman Without Any Word At All, combined with Proper Grooming and Decent Clothing, all work without fail in Helping You Score.

We all know that the first impression is almost instant, and is often created without any exchange of words, so make sure your other silent messengers like grooming and clothes are all speaking the same silent language, and not letting you down by declaring you a slob.

Here are some tips to help you conquer the silent approach and give you tips on how to get a head start using nonverbal communications.

A Longer-Than-Usual Eye Contact is One of the Most Potent Weapons any Don Juan or Casanova could and should Use To Attract Any Woman He Likes.

The first tip should be considered one of the most powerful in your player’s tool kit. Before you are even close enough to your target to speak, your eyes should meet. When humans are interested in each other, they make eye contact. There is a fixed time for this to convey the meaning ‘oh hello I see you’. But everyone must have heard about the trick of holding eye contact with your hottie a couple of second longer than the norm.

This has an entirely different meaning that is different from the quick ‘I see you glance’. It shows you like what you see, and that you want to see and learn more. After holding her glance for about four seconds, try to ensure it is her who glances away first. Don’t be discouraged; this is how it should be.

Never has Distance Stopped any Don Juan or Casanova from Grabbing The Eyes and Interest of That Hot Girl.

If you are on opposite sites of a room, and each engaged in conversation with another person, then while continuing the chat with the person you are talking to, from time to time, keep looking at your target to see if she is doing the same thing with you. If she is, you have made the first non-verbal contact.

If she isn’t checking you out, then try to ‘catch her eye’ and hold it for four or five seconds again. Assuming you succeed at this, the next step is catching her eye again, but this time turning on the most subtle but sincere smile in your repertoire. Assuming she smiles back, even slightly for a split second, then you’ve cracked it.

Even a Woman’s Posture and Most Minute Movements could Give Away Whether She’s Waiting For You To Get Her Or Not.

Take note of how she is standing. A neutral stance with at least one arm by her side and relaxed is a sign she is open to conversation. If she is seated and a leg or knee is pointing towards your location, this is another subconscious hint that she would like to interact with you.

The amount of information you can pick up from facial expressions alone speaks volumes. Catching her staring at you with a lick of the lips or a flutter of the eyelashes are all subconscious signs that show she is interested in learning more about you.

Another massive clue is fiddling or playing with the hair, like pulling it back from the face and shaking it, ostensibly to get it out of the way. Make no mistake; women know that their crowning glory has a great hold over men and use it to communicate regularly.

The logic behind the hair fiddling is that she is trying to draw attention to her hair and to fix it to make herself appear more attractive to you.

Often the next step after meeting and holding your gaze and giving you the merest flicker of a smile, the next action from your target is probably that she will walk past you, with the intention of making herself more available.

After Being Receptive to All Of Her Actions and Giving Away Your Interest In Her Through Your Own, Expect Any Interested Party to Take Further Steps.

She is also hoping that you will notice her more and is putting herself in your proximity to make contact easier for you.

If she is sitting down, crossing and uncrossing her legs repeatedly is another way in which women try to grab a guy’s attention. For the most part, all of these actions are subliminal signals and not done consciously.

You may also find as well as the walking past you, or even brushing against you technique, she gradually gets closer and closer to you often to within a few feet if they want the man to initiate conversation.

Note any physical contact she makes with you. If she touches your arm or your hand that’s a surefire sign that she is interested in you.

Another seemingly insignificant move is if she ‘accidentally’ brushes against you when walking by, murmuring a soft ‘excuse me’. This is designed to remind you of your earlier non-verbal communication and to tell you she is ready for more.

Most men are not as adept as women when it comes to automatic gestures designed to convey your desire for contact. But don’t be dismayed, these things are easily mastered and should quickly become part of any player’s tool kit.

Chill out! Every Don Juan or Casanova knows that Once They’ve Captured The Woman’s Interest, she’s Bound To Come For You By Herself.

Try to keep your facial muscles relaxed. Relax your jaw muscles and don’t clench your teeth. Have the hint of a smile curling the corners of your mouth for the next time you make eye contact and hold her gaze again for a second or two longer than she is comfortable with. Allow her to be the first to look away probably with a downward look and flutter of her eyelashes.

Check your posture, stand tall and straight but in a relaxed manner. Avoid fidgeting and over use of your arms for gestures.

Convey Your Manliness to All Potential Targets through Your Posture, Hand Movements, and Even in Choosing Your ‘Territory’.

Overall you should be maintaining a complete body gesture that is soft and fluid, rather than quick or jerky.

The Alpha male is always confident and dominant in a crowd, even if he does not know all of them.

The first strategy when entering a room is to find an area to mark as ‘your’ territory from which you can survey all the potential females in the area. This is usually with your back against a wall. If you are sitting on a sofa, put your drink and plate of nibbles on the table beside you. In doing this you are marking out space as being ‘yours’.

However you feel, try to relax and maintain a good posture, hold your head up high and indicate that you are the Alpha male in this space. This is an ideal position from which to mark your target and initiate non-verbal contact by holding the gaze for longer than usual, ensuring the target looks away first. This means you are asserting your dominance.

The Eyes are Very Important in Relaying To Women that you are an Alpha Male who can Take Control, Protect Them, and Keep Them Safe.

Use this position of power to assess your targets, and if your selected hottie looks down after breaking eye contact, she is interested. If your target merely looks away it means that they are not particularly interested in you right now.

In most societies, including developed ‘Western’ society, the person who looks away or breaks eye contact first is viewed as being submissive. This is not usually appealing to most women so avoid it at all costs.

However you feel inside, it is essential to maintain a steady gaze with the hint of a smile and to remain feeling completely confident and in control of the situation.

Using silent language to establish yourself as the Alpha Male in any group will show that you are well able to combine being a provider with being protective and without losing your status as the ‘top dog’.

It also shows your potential targets that you are a master of social rules and etiquette and leads them to believe that they will be safe in your hands.

You must have noticed that men and women have completely opposite ideas on just about everything. The differences are magnified when looking at the dating game. Men don’t have many hard and fast rules about a pickup, whereas females have dozens designed to protect and further their own goals.

A prime example is a guy scoring at a club. He instantly forgets the guys he arrived with and those guys get it. On the other hand, when one of a gaggle of girls hooks up with a guy in a club, the rest of the women become like clucking mother hens, hovering and being generally protective of her.

Any Veteran Don Juan or Casanova Knows The Importance of Dating The Girl’s Friends For More Reasons Than One.

Make no mistake, meeting her friends can be one of the toughest challenges a player can face. You will want to take an overview of your opportunities amongst her friends and after your current target is in the past, seek to expand your connections of more available hotties. Simply put, get friendly with her friends – but not too friendly. The eye of your current hottie will be firmly assessing your attitude to her friends so keep it friendly and not even slightly flirtatious.

A true Don Juan or Casanova does not cheat on any woman so you must proceed with caution, employing tact, patience and sincerity to gather details about possible future hookups with other hotties amongst her friends.

If your current hottie is relatively new, and you want to plan a romantic interlude, it is unlikely that you will know her personal preferences yet.

Any True Don Juan or Casanova is aware of the Rules and Techniques of Knowing One’s Current Date while Knowing A Potential Future One – At The Same Time.

Strike up a conversation with that gorgeous girlfriend of hers ostensibly to find out your current hottie’s likes and dislikes, so you can incorporate her likes into a future date.

The girlfriend will be happy to help and will also be impressed with your thoughtfulness towards her friend. Later when the current hottie is no more, the gorgeous friend will remember your thoughtfulness, which will give you an automatic edge.

This technique is a double whammy – showing you as a thoughtful gentleman with your present hottie, whilst lining up another as a future target.

It would be a mistake to ignore your current hottie’s friends because you can use this time to create new connections which will benefit you in the future.

Date In The Present To Find More Dates In The Future—this Technique is Very Useful For Every Hopeful And Determined Don Juan or Casanova.

She is likely to see your suggestion of meeting her friends as a positive sign that you want to get to know her better. This makes you appear like the perfect gentleman.

Aim for achieving a light friendly banter with her friends and address them in a friendly way whenever you meet them. In having a conversation with one of her friends while she is in the ladies’ room, if your technique is right, you will be earning points from both of them.

The Art of Being A Don Juan or Casanova requires that you Find The Perfect Median in terms of Your Friendliness With Her Friends.

Be aware that you could risk upsetting your current partner if you are over-friendly with her girl friends, so made sure you are not overtly friendly but strike the exact balance between being friendly but not over-familiar. This needs careful handling but encapsulates the art of the player.

If you spot one of her friends who is obviously recovering from being dumped, this is one of those golden opportunities for the player. But it is not so easy as consoling her and then making a move.

Your aim here is to be someone she can pour her heart out to, a friend like her girl friends rather than a man to lean on. Maintain your distance but be sympathetic and supportive of her. It’s kind of like you are there for her, but at the same time you are not.

If she is the vindictive type or feels she has a score to settle, then she may well be looking for revenge by engaging in a retaliatory sexual fling. This is the perfect scenario for the player – a score which needs no planning, go ahead and enjoy.

The Key to Dating Her Friends is to be Present At All Possible Times With Them, leading you to A Win-Win Situation that Only Don Juans or Casanovas Could Create.

Put simply, if you are not there, then nothing can happen. Engineer situations where you are invited along with ‘the girls’. You may have to endure movies which are not to your taste, but it will be worth the sacrifice.

In going along with a group meet like this, you are giving yourself plenty of future opportunities.

Another ploy is to casually drop in on her when you know in advance that at least some of her friends will be there.

Your thoughtfulness will be appreciated and yet again, your moves will be taken to be considerate and kind. The perfect win-win scenario for a player.

Being primarily a social chameleon, changing from romantic partner to platonic friend in the blink of an eye, you should try to keep ‘in’ with her group of friends, even after your liaison with her is over.

If you cut yourself off from her completely, you will lose the connections you have so carefully constructed with her gorgeous girlfriends.

Even When you are Done Dating The Girl, you may still Find Smart Ways To Remain In Good Terms (and be a possible date) To Her Friends.

You should strive to remain social acquaintances (this is vastly different from being friends). Try to manipulate the situation so that a favourite weekend hangout meet is still acceptable, so that you can only improve upon your rapport with the group of hotties who are her friends.

Obviously, if the break up does not go according to plan, it will be difficult to keep within the circle of her acquaintances. An emotionally traumatic split is going to mean that there will be little opportunity for scoring with one of her friends. So do your best to ease out of the situation leaving the lady with as much dignity as possible.

Blaming Yourself For The Breakup is One Time-And-Tested Means of Staying In The Loop Of Her Dateable Friends.

A good vehicle for this approach is to blame yourself. You can see she is great for you but you just have this thing about commitment. You are hoping to get over it but for now, it is deeply entrenched. This also gives her the idea that if she allows you to stick around with her group, you may change your mind and want her back.

It’s worth repeating that hot women usually have hot friends. But remember that being a player means that you have a reputation to consider and maintain.

Don Juans do not cheat or give outright lies to satisfy their vanity. Being sleazy is completely counterproductive to the sensibilities of a Don Juan.

So resist all urges to do un-Don Juan like actions and your circle of red hot hotties could only increase.

Pick up these five winning tips on sweet-talking your way with women…

As the number one quest for all players, something near 65% of all of a player’s energy goes into scoring that targeted hottie. A mere 14% of time is spent on finding food and shelter and the rest, some 21%, goes towards some form of porn.

All our resources are channeled at this one goal – yet there is one simple tool that is often overlooked in the noble pursuit of that fine lady. And that is the power of words. I don’t mean just hackneyed pick up lines she’s heard a dozen times before, but fully engaged interesting and entertaining conversation. Can you honestly say you know how to sweet talk women?

If You want to Keep Scoring Gorgeous Women, it’s time that you spend more time Learning How To Give Any Woman The Sweet Talk She Likes.

No matter how you work on your body, or throw expensive gifts at her or wine and dine with her at the most exclusive venues, the time will come when she is done admiring your body and expects some intelligent conversation, most of it focused on her and how you find her intriguing.

If you blurt out some meaningless drivel then all the other support strategies are meaningless if you sound like the Cletus the slack jawed Yokel from the Simpsons.

You know whether you need help in this area. If you do, then study these quick top five tips for simple ways to sweet talk women…

Focus on that Girl’s Physical Attributes – and Only Hers – whenever you spend time Trying To Score Her.

Be sure to grab every opportunity to flatter and compliment her on how beautiful she is and how attractive she looks. This holds true whether you have just met or known her since high school.

It goes without saying that you only focus on one hottie at a time, and the woman you are talking to should be the only focus of your sweet talk.

Compliments are worth their weight in gold to the player, but cost very little. It’s a strategy which needs little investment of time or money but which reaps rich rewards every time.

Any Seasoned Don Juan or Casanova knows how Giving UNIQUE Compliments Hits Two Birds With One Stone: not only does She Like You More but Also Herself More.

But your compliments have another, more subtle effect. They go towards boosting your target’s self esteem and women who feel good about themselves always feel more attractive.

An insider player’s tip that never fails is to pick a compliment which is totally unique to her, maybe the shade of her eyes or the sensual shape of her lips. She will be convinced that she is the only one on your mind.

Don’t Let Your Quest For A Score Show when you are talking with her, As It’s A Turn-off For Most Women.

Make quite sure that she realises that you are gazing deeply into her eyes and absorbing every word she utters because her beauty entrances you. The thought of scoring tonight was furthest from your mind. But of course, if she were up for it, then it would be lovely. Keep it casual and low key if you want to score.

Appearing desperate and ogling her boobs is a definite turn off to all women. As is the impression that anything with a pulse would substitute for her. Make sure your eye contact with her is with her eyes only.

Make HER (and not you) Consider Sex by Casually Inserting INNUENDOES In Your Discussions, Without Any Hint of How Badly You Want It With Her.

This is the tricky part – you have to make her think she brought up the possibility of sex first. If you feel she is not even considering this, you could throw in something you ‘heard about’ and gradually work your way closer to the topic. Bring up something playful and innocent but keep the conversation on this track.

It will look as though your ‘off the cuff’ provocative conversation turned you from innocent companion to possible love match. It will seem as though your idea of scoring came out of the flow of conversation and was not planned at all. Women equate this with romance. Just keep the flavoured accessories out of sight until the right moment.

Don Juans or Casanovas are Smart Enough to Conduct THOROUGH Research of the Girl’s Biography and Interests Before Any Date to Avoid Any FAUX PAS.

To avoid such gaffes as comparing her favourite actor to a senile old fool, do your research carefully first.

Taking some time to get to know her likes and dislikes puts you way ahead of virtually any other guy. Ladies often feel that guys to not really listen to them. Give her this impression and you are waving goodbye to that night of fun.

Stand Out from the Rest Of The Male Population by Letting Her Know That You Share Interests With Her, as this Ensnares Many Women.

Here is the perfect example of sweet-talking a woman. At a bar-b-q you meet a cute woman and you see she is repeatedly approached by men who babble on about the ball game or their latest car.

But you have taken the time to chat to her friend and discovered she is into antique book collecting. So you can go in with the opening line of “Hey, I hear you collect antiquarian books – me too.” Your score is virtually a done deal. That’s how to sweet-talk a hottie.

Once You’ve Hooked Her Up on Talk With Innocuous Topics, you may proceed to Discussing More Personal Ones including the Things That Turn Her On.

Finding out the type of guy she finds a turn on works for you on many different levels, all encouraging a successful outcome to the evening. If the opportunity arises, tell her what you’re into and ask her the same.

Most obviously, you are collecting valuable information for use now and for later. Even if a store tonight is out, she could tell you something that you can use to your advantage in the future.

Another plus is that discussing things that turn you both on is definitely going to get her thinking about the possibilities, and can be a huge turn on in itself.

You will also get appreciation for seeming to care about her likes and dislikes and for seeming to be intrigued by her answers. And in sharing your fantasies in such a low key way, non threatening way may actually stimulate her into surprising you by trying them out with you.

Whilst working with your silver tongue on sweet-talking her, remember to be respectful – not only to her, but to everyone around, even the waiter. Women don’t like guys who treat other people badly, and may suspect that once you have what you want, you could turn that rudeness on her.

Casually running into an old flame that compliments your lady by saying she is one lucky woman will do you nothing but good. Your target will fantasize about her future and see only positive things.

So now you are a graduate of the silver tongue. The blarney stone doesn’t only work for the Irish you know. Use this five successful ways of sweet-talking that hottie and be confident that when she asks what you would like to talk about, you can practice one of the newest and most effective tools in your player kit – the gift of the gab.

Can you spot the seven types of femme fatale to steer clear of?

No it isn’t just you, women everywhere are being much more selective about the partners they choose than ever before. And is it any wonder? Media screams the images of hot and successful men from movie billboards to movie trailers like never before.

Women Of Today are on an Aggressive Lookout for Alpha Males – so Shouldn’t We Men be on a Lookout for the Best Women As Well?

The cold truth is that on the dating scene of today a combination of looks and wealth, along with a sharp mind and a charismatic personality are all required. We are not talking about understated wealth here, it is expected that men flaunt their assets – from clothes to the condo and career – in fact, anything which marks them out as the alpha male, as one step above the ordinary guy.

Given the attention focused on equality of women, why can’t men be more choosey as well? The answer is simple: they can. Be selective in the type of woman you try to score and avoid time and money wasted on chicks that are not worth your time.

Use this Don Juan’s or Casanova’s guide to avoid seven types of femme fatal you really should not get involved with. This is not a definitive list, merely some observations from the players’ many and varied experiences with all types of women. The aim is to avoid meeting Dr. Jekyll only to find out that she has morphed into Mrs. Hyde…

The Know-It-All

Ok let’s admit we like a woman who has intelligence to impress our buddies, but it’s quite another thing to hook up with a strident woman who is very opinionated and likes to show it.

Some Women Act as if They Know Everything, only to Make You See That She Is Powerful or to see How You Would Take Her Actions.

You may have been lucky enough not to have stumbled upon this type of lady before, and if that is the case, oh boy – you should be grateful.

Some women use this technique to assert their own power, others to push you to see how you respond. Believe me when I say this is a type of woman to avoid if you possibly can. She will do nothing to boost your ego and is a mobile no-go zone.

The Psycho Bitch

Characteristics shown by this type of woman include constantly interrupting you when you are busy at work with trite telephone calls and trying her best to combine your personal life with your business life. She is never conspicuous by her absence and makes quite sure you know her every move from dusk till dawn.

On the other hand, Any Don Juan or Casanova should Steer Clear From any Woman Who Tries to Dominate Your Life and Rule Your Every Action.

What makes it even harder to deal with this type is that the more you try to stop her being so dependent and obsessive, the worse she gets. Being in a Catch-22 situation with this type is definitely best avoided.

This lady will never give up, and the more you back off, the more she will try to swallow you up in problems in her life in general. If you need a living nightmare there are other less painful ways to go.

The Female Gigolo

You know You’re a Hot Guy and Desirable Enough on that account alone, so don’t Let Any Woman Spend Time Only For Your Money.

The Gold-digger is any woman who is only interested in the material benefits you can bring to the party. Standard dating practice dictates that you have to spend on her whilst entertaining her – a show or movie followed by late supper plus flowers and a weekend away at a cosy retreat – these are all expected.

Convincing this cutie that you can afford her and that she is the centre of your world takes conspicuous spending. But be very sure from the start she is merely viewing you as a walking wallet, not a hot interesting guy.

Spotting this type is by careful observation. If when at dinner you ask what she would like to eat and she picks the most expensive item on the menu, when she just told you earlier she does not like lobster much is a big red flag.

This woman will bleed your credit card and bank balance dry given half a chance, so proceed with great caution. Remember what John Lennon said? “Money can’t buy you love”.

High-Maintenance Women

Similar to the Female Gigolo, High-Maintenance Women also Drain The Bank Accounts of Many Men due to their Exorbitant Spending and Financial Reliance On Us Men.

This is the type of lady who likes high-value gifts, rather than sentimental ones. You can’t bring this hottie a bunch of wild flowers and get away with it. She wants only the finest long-stem imported red roses all in a Tiffany vase.

This lady expects nothing but high-end stuff, and will look down on you if you even think of taking her anywhere but the most expensive place in town. She equates love with money – your money – so cut your losses early on and bail out while you still have the shirt on your back.

Another clue to this type is that she is into designer names big-time and points out her new Blahnik shoes the second you meet her. The next step is the latest ‘body sculpting’ technique or a larger pair of boobs.

Unless you are lucky enough to have a money tree in the back yard, or a bottomless pit of treasure, this is one more chick to avoid literally at all costs.

The Rebound

We’ve all heard of this type of chick. Make quite sure that you are not just a temporary ‘comfort zone’ for her while she licks her wounds and recovers from being dumped by another guy.

There are Lots Of Fish In The Sea, so don’t let any woman use a handsome Don Juan or Casanova like you Only To Make Her Feel Liked After A Breakup or To Make Her Ex Jealous.

This is one difficult hottie to spot but a clue is if her friends seem to be urging her to hook-up and she seems like she is not up for it. Any hint of reluctance and go with your gut – bail out. Another point to consider – it could all just be a set-up to make her ex jealous.

Rebound relationships can be a way of avoiding dealing with the pain of a rejection. The shiny new Rebound Guy makes them still feel wanted, despite the rejection of the man before you.

You don’t want to be the new kitty bought to ease the pain of losing the old one who got creamed by a car, do you?

The Drama Queen

The problem with this type of woman is that every trivial event is blown way out of proportion on a monumental scale and all the time.

Avoid Every Drama Queen to Keep Your Sanity

Even giving this little lady the time of day can result in an endless session of moaning about how fat she is as she can’t fit into her size 0 jeans. This over-dinner conversation can easily be followed by an all-night crying marathon.

If you value your sanity, avoid this attention-seeking, dysfunctional whack job like the plague. Life is tough enough, without the drama queen.

Ms. Stubborn As a Mule

No number of outstanding qualities can make up for a woman who always thinks she is right. This type of lady is like a mule, even if she doesn’t look like one. Honery and stubborn and fixed in her outlook and attitude, she insists on the last word and will strike like a cobra at anyone who has the temerity to disagree with her.

Avoid Ms. Stubborn as a Mule to Keep Your Manliness and Have The Last Word.

It is a pity but don’t even consider trying to change her ways, you will be wasting your precious time on this cute waste of space.

Don’t Give Up

Now your mind is probably full of those types to avoid that you could forgiven for wondering if there are any hotties left to score. Yes, of course there are, millions of them.

So when you target your next hottie, just keep your eyes and ears open for warning signs of the above types. After all, it is in your best interests to avoid these femmes fatales like the plague.

Not everyone is born with the gift the Irish have for ‘Blarney’ or has the ability to strike up a conversation with a lovely lady spotted at the gas station or supermarket. But opportunities for the observant Don Juan or Casanova abound. From the cutie in the queue at the taxi rank to the assistant manager at your local bank, each situation is ripe for the versatile and alert Don Juan or Casanova.

A True Don Juan or Casanova is Fully Aware that Pickup Lines NEVER Work As Well As Customized, Thoughts At The Spur of The Moment Are Ones That Do.

Preparing a list of standard pickup lines is more suited to the lounge bar lothario than to a gentleman player. You need to come up with a unique icebreaker that is ideally suited to your surroundings and situation, which will make your target realize immediately that she is in the company of a gentleman, and someone with whom she can communicate.

If the thought of this turns you from a confident charming conversationalist into a gibbering mass of nerves, then you need practice. Get your head around these top three conversation starters which are sure to pique your target’s interest in you and help you score big-time.

There is One Proven and Guaranteed Technique that You can use to Grab The Interest (and earn you a thousand of brownie points) Of The Woman You Like, Wherever You May Be.

This is a favorite of every successful Don Juan or Casanova. It is the most versatile and useful tip out of all and can be applied to your advantage in almost any situation. It is a fantastic conversation starter with women, particularly if you are in a situation that is traditionally considered a ‘woman’s domain’, such as a supermarket or a clothing shop for women.

The versatility of this technique is only matched by its success. It is a trusted friend especially when one spots a lady who is blissfully unaware that on her home turf she is fair game for the seasoned Don Juan or Casanova. This technique also allows you to take advantage of unexpected situations and acquaintances. Sharing a taxi with a hottie? The ideal opportunity. New chick as receptionist at your oral hygienist’s office? The perfect target for the hottest tip around.

Smart Don Juans or Casanovas use this clever trick not only to Initiate Conversation (and Automatically Keep It Going) but also to Satisfy Two Of Women’s Needs: that for Recognition and that to Come From A Man.

Starting a conversation with a woman by asking her for her opinion is a seriously successful score opener. You are paying her a compliment in an indirect manner, by assuming she is intelligent enough to know the answer, and admitting to vulnerability on your part. Both are highly endearing traits for all women. As if that were not enough, you are also avoiding the usual trite conversation openers with which most women are bombarded throughout their lives.

You will be showing that you value her intelligent input on a question, whether it be to ask if oregano is the best herb to use in Italian food or which is the best colour to compliment a woman with black hair (like your targets). Be ready to receive an interesting and educated reply and probably a continuance of the conversation you initiated.

As seasoned Don Juans or Casanovas know, it is often the simplest of strategies that work the best. This is certainly a prime example of that and something that every aspiring Don Juan or Casanova should take to heart.

Initiating Talk About Her Travels will Bring You To Places and Scores Farther Than You Could Ever Dream Of.

Since the advent of mass travel, most people today have experienced travel to what were once perceived as far off and exotic lands. And most are delighted to share their experiences, whether they left a good or a bad expression.

Millions work in the travel industry and if you are lucky enough to spot a hottie who looks like she could be a member of an airline cabin crew, then this question is likely to garner you untold compliments. Everyone knows that top airlines only recruit the brightest and the best so you are indirectly paying her a huge compliment.

Even if your target has only ever been to visit Paris on the school trip, the experience will have left her with lasting impressions, which she will probably be only too willing to share with you.

Seasoned Don Juans or Casanovas, in general, have Gone To Far Places In Search Of The Hottest Dates, so make sure you have Rehearsed Well Ahead Of Time your Own Interesting Travel Stories.

Generally women love to talk about their travels, so dont be shy in enquiring about where she has been, and where she would like to go. It is pretty much guaranteed that she will ask you in turn about your travel experiences, so have some interesting stories and opinions to respond with. Common sense would tell you to leave out any embarrassing experiences like the time you got locked outside your hotel room in Bangkok at 4.00 am stark naked.

This quirky and entertaining conversation opener is one of my personal favorites. As silly and obvious as this seems, it works like a treat every time and I am happy to say it has never let me down. Experienced successful Don Juans or Casanovas keep this one up their sleeve, as one never knows when it can be usefully employed.

Do Not Grumble if this Third Trick Gets You Tons of Scores With Women: Making Light of A Common Gripe is One Highly Effective Way of Getting The Ball Rolling.

And let’s face it, there is plenty in life to gripe about: from standing in line at the post office while some idiot tries to send a monstrous parcel to someplace the hapless counter clerk has never even heard of, to waiting in a queue at a taxi rank in the early hours along with what seems like the entire Welsh rugby team and all their supporters plus some dismayed Japanese tourists who think they are waiting at a bus stop.

All these types of scenarios are ideal for the third and final master trick in opening a successful conversation with your selected cutie. Another huge bonus to this strategy is that it appears to be completely uncontrived. It is a unique set of circumstances that it is perfectly obvious you have not co-ordinated or planned. But recognizing the opportunity and zoning in on your target with this conversation opener is highly successful.

Find Something Good or Funny To Say However Terrible the Situation You Are Both In Is.

Find a mutual gripe and make light of it, keep it jokey and good-humoured with some tongue in cheek remarks. Ensure that you do not go over the top and lapse into some serious rage or unpleasant rant. It is unlikely that this will impress anyone, never mind that gorgeous looking lady.

The aim here really is to poke fun and alleviate the annoyance of a situation, rather than come out and complain forcefully in order to change something. So pick out the common annoyance and make a joke of it. Something you can buddy up with her on and scoff at. Like the volume of a Welsh rugby player’s voice, or what the heck is in that parcel? Keep it easy-going and soon you will be united in more ways than one.

Let’s face it, some guys just know what to say and do at the most propitious time. They are natural players and the game in their hands seems so easy. Their natural talents for selecting their targets and adjusting their play as required in virtually any situation is nothing short of awesome.

And not all of these natural born players are wealthy and endowed with physical prowess and natural good looks. Don’t get me wrong, these are all fine qualities to bring to the party and will only enhance your chances of success, but they are not essential requirements for the successful player.

For Men Who Want to Emulate The Successes Of Natural-Born Don Juans or Casanovas, make sure that you Tap One Of The Most Overlooked Weapons You Can Use: Her Info.

What is essential to those who are not blessed with this seemingly effortless talent, is to mimic their strategies and habits. These vital tips will ensure that you are the winner in any seduction scene.

This tip is probably the single most important tool in the art of the player. Yet it is the most commonly over-looked. Your targeted lady is providing you with a constant supply of vital information, via conversation. It is all essential intelligence about this adorable creature that you must store away and remember if you want a successful score.

Use What You Know About Her To Know More And More and to Make Her Interested In You — and keep it that way.

Light flirtatious conversations are keys to painting a picture of this particular female’s character, likes, interests, and dislikes. Remembering these facts about this enticing creature and employing them in your strategy will allow you to ensure that she maintains her interest in you. As a player, it is your job to judge the right questions to ask her and to reply appropriately, so that you can build upon the bond and trust between you.

Listen attentively, and Plan Accordingly: these are Your Surefire Strategies To Scoring with Any Woman You Want.

Equally as important as asking key questions to give you insights into this lady is storing and making sure that you take careful note of her replies. Nothing is so appealing to a woman as a guy who actually listens to and remembers what she says.

If she enjoys classic movies, buy a DVD of ‘Casablanca’ and arrange a romantic evening enjoying the movie together. If she loves white chocolate instead of dark bitter chocolate, remember to bring her only white chocolates while you watch the movie. Attention to detail and meticulous planning are most important if you want to score big-time and be a successful player.

Bring 007 to mind whenever you Try To Score As A Gentleman, and you just might Score Not Just Seven But Dozens Of Hot Girls in no time!

If you aspire to be a player with a high score rate, then you should practice being a gentleman. Gentlemen are becoming an endangered species, but every player worth his salt is a gentleman. Suave and sophisticated players do not play at being gentlemen – they already are – and it is a full time job. It is one that will reap you huge benefits and a high score rate.

If you are at a loss to think of a gentleman upon whom to model your behavior, then you could consider Ian Fleming’s character of James Bond. A quintessential gentleman who is also a classic (and highly successful) player, he is the epitome of a gentleman.

Take After Your Gentlemanly Role Model and Adopt Their Attitudes Into Your Own Life, while keeping in mind that All Women Are Different Especially in terms of Their Preferred Type Of Guy.

Whoever you decide to select as your role model, you will quickly see that they all show similar qualities and traits. These include subtle gentlemanly acts like opening doors for her and complimenting her sincerely on a particular aspect of her appearance. More overt gentlemanlike behavior includes being respectful to her family and sociable and friendly towards her friends.

Gentlemanly habits should become second nature to those who wish to be successful players and to those who yearn to be key players with a high score rate. This is probably the most overlooked aspect of being a player in today’s world, but it is an essential part of your player’s kit.

It is inevitable that occasionally making that score is simply going to be impossible, no matter which techniques or strategies you employ. Some ladies simply will not be attracted to you, for any number of reasons, so be ready for rejection. View every slap down as one step nearer to your perfect score. Feelings of anger and upset can do nothing but impair your game, and leave a bad feeling that will not help you in any way. Just accept that you will not be every woman’s cup of tea, and move on. Bemoaning your rejections and dwelling upon them does you no good.

A simple analogy which may help is mango. Not everyone likes mangoes. The slippery slithery sensation of holding an unpeeled mango turns some people off. The scent for some is pure nectar and to others quite revolting. Just accept that some people like mango and others don’t.

Never let any Woman’s Rejection Shatter Your Self-Esteem; rather, make it A Stepping-Stone and A Lesson To Learn From and Use In Your Future Targets.

So keep your self-esteem intact, and count that rejection as just one more move towards your perfect score. Learning how to deal with rejection is a skill which all successful players have mastered, so do yourself a favour, and make this an integral part of your player’s stratagems.

This is a toughie. Men are generally taught to aim for the top their whole lives from infancy onwards: to strive for the best and to go as high up the ladder of success as one can in life, sport or business. Sadly, the same is not true with pickups.

Every Successful Don Juan or Casanova has learned that One should be Realistic in his Dating Objectives and Re-assess His Targets to Avoid Possible Rejection.

So many men select ladies so obviously out of their league that watching the rejection and the consequent fall is downright painful, but oh so predictable. The instinct to aim high is thrust down our throats at every opportunity by all the main authority figures in our life, but in the arena of seduction, it is setting yourself up again and again for failure.

In selecting your target as the most gorgeous girl at a party or the foxiest female at a college reunion is simply creating the scenario for you to fail. If this is something that you do repeatedly, then you need to reassess your targets. Learning how to accept rejection is one thing, but setting yourself up for disappointment after disappointment is not the action of a successful player.

Try to judge the type of woman you know you can probably score. Instead of trying to leap in one bound to the top of the tree, branch out, target a woman you would probably usually ignore – there are some very undervalued women of quality out there who are vastly under appreciated.

These four habits of successful players are actions that a natural player uses without thought. They come naturally. Whether you are a ‘natural’ or not, cultivating these habits will ensure that your game is enhanced exponentially. No matter what level of player you are, practice these habits until they are second nature, and you will be the benefactor of great rewards and high success when it comes to scoring.

For whatever reason they may have, women are known to test men who try to make overtures to them especially if the man’s motive is personal. The tests begin even from the initial meeting, the first date and even during the relationship stage. Failing any of a woman’s tests almost always leads to the breakup of a relationship. For this reason alone, men must be aware of what and how women conduct their random tests.

To all Casanovas out there: beware of women’s version of “reward and punishment”: the ‘carrot and stick technique’.

These random tests that women give men can be compared to the systematic persuasion methodology of reward and punishment used at home, at work, in school, and almost anywhere else. It is also commonly referred to by laymen as the ‘carrot and stick technique’ to encourage a specific behavior pattern.

The ‘carrot and stick technique’ works by taking advantage of our fear of failure and their rejection.

Women are very good at doing this kind of behavior modification to men maybe because of their emotions or their physical weakness compared to men. Whatever the reason, the tests that women give to men in the course of their association with one another also take advantage of men’s fear of rejection and failure!

Never fear rejection. Look at it as a learning experience towards bigger things in the future for that’s what rejections really are—learning experiences in order to avoid committing the same mistakes in the future. It’s okay to make a mistake, what’s not okay is to commit the same mistake twice or over and over again—that is stupidity!

To be successful in the field of romance and dating, you’ve got to turn tables around and let the woman run after you, Casanova!

Remember, before success there is failure. That’s just the way things work in life. You have to go through a baptism of fire and get things right before success comes into your life. The same holds true in a man-woman relationship.

Do not worry too much about failure; forget the cliché that failure is not an option—that’s only in the movies! Instead of focusing on how much you like to date a particular girl, it should be the other way around: make the girl come after you and like you a lot! As military men say, a good soldier is always willing to die for his country—that may be so but you don’t win wars by dying for your country, you win wars by making the other soldier die for his country!

Women use the ‘carrot and stick technique’ to challenge us, make judgements of us, and trick us into being at their mercy.

When women test men, they judge men by their actions. When women do this regularly, most men usually end up justifying their actions and behaviors, and start explaining things they shouldn’t explain in the first place but by then it’s too late. You are at the mercy of the woman whom you have made into some sort of a headmistress.

You know your woman is testing you if she commands you to do things and treats you badly for no reason.

To test you, a woman may simply ask you to do things for her in an almost imposing and authoritative manner; sometimes she may simply act bitchy for no reason at all just because she feels like being one at the moment.

Be wary, once you let your guard down and let a girl have her way on you, you’re on your way to being her slave!

These types of tests are so well crafted and have evolved dramatically but they are all deliberately designed in such a way as to determine whether you would allow them to take advantage of your goodness because men naturally cozy up to women. When you fall for this kind of surprise attack, she will undoubtedly begin stepping on you every chance she gets!

Get your act together by showing her that you’re a real man: Be dominant and let her know it’s your call.

To counter this maneuver most women are wont to do most of the time, men should play women in their own game by putting off what the woman requests. He does this calmly and diplomatically.

Although being a nice guy gets you brownie points, impressing and attracting women with your emotional strength and self-confidence is much more effective than kowtowing to them.

These type of women fall under two categories: one whom you should avoid, and another whom you should play the game with.

Women like to engage in these testing games and you have to determine the type of woman you’re with in order to determine why they’re doing what they’re doing. There are basically two categories under which women fall under when it comes to testing men.

A woman who puts men through tests by making eccentric requests is one who simply loves to test guys for the fun of it. More than likely, these women have unresolved emotional baggage. It is best to stay away from them.

On the other hand, someone who likes to test guys once in a while is one who’s on a fishing expedition trying to find out if she can manipulate you. To handle this type of women, you can let her know in a joking manner that you know what she’s doing and you can start messing with her mind and even try to turn the tables around.

The best way to handle test-y women is by not giving her a direct answer to her questions or requests to establish that you are not someone to be played games with. Ignoring this woman’s game is one way of establishing your status as higher than hers—something which women want all the time!