Most women hate pick-up lines. They recognize them and have mostly heard them all before.

So instead of falling into the trap of using some worn-out cliché, be creative and start a conversation with your target that will light her fire as well as be an icebreaker.

A Truly Effective Conversation Opener Piques A Girl’s Interest and Makes Her Want to Continue Talking With You for Hours On End.

The aim of an effective opening line is to start a conversation she will want to continue. You need something that will capture her interest in a chat and help you to find out more about her. Using a tired clichéd pick-up line is likely to have the opposite effect on her.

Ensure you are natural and confident in your approach. Appearing confident is essential even if you are not feeling it.

These valuable effective openers from the seasoned Don Juan or Casanova’s personal vault will pretty much assure you of success…

A Rule Of Thumb for Popular Don Juans or Casanovas is to NEVER Compliment Any Woman On Her Appearance Or Her Body, but instead Other External Attributes Of Hers.

There is one absolute rule here – never compliment a woman on her looks. You can admire her style, her purse, her dress-sense, or her shoes but never ever admire her body.

Complimenting a woman on something like her style is always an effective conversational starter. By complimenting her on her choices you will immediately stand out from the other guys who have hit on her.

You may also compliment her about the unusual color of her eyes or hair, but don’t be tempted to mention any other part of her anatomy, no matter how enticing she is.

Many Don Juans or Casanovas Rely on Another Factor in Making Their Conversation Starters: the Surroundings, in which case you’ve Got To Be Attentive of What Happens Around You.

Another way to strike up a natural conversation with a woman is to observe something around you.

Like if you are waiting in line for take out coffee and you see a big fat old guy driving a brand new tiny red sports car jump the traffic lights with a scream of tires, you may base your opening line upon that situation.

So you might say something like “Nice car, shame he can’t tell red from green. Unlike you, I love that green jacket, it’s my favourite shade of green”. This is a double whammy as you are using a situational opener, but combined with a personal compliment about her good taste.

Remember this: Men who Say Conversation Starters Naturally And Confidently Never Fail to Capture Any Woman’s Interest.

These are deceptively simple, and devastatingly successful. But with this strategy it is essential that you keep your approach natural and confident.

You could just approach her and say “Hi” or “Hi – I’m Jim, what’s your name?” You are not using any gimmicks or tricks; you are being straightforward and honest in your approach and that will automatically score you points.

So long as you appear to be spontaneous, completely confident and natural, these disarmingly honest approaches rarely fail.

Make Her Very Interested In You by Appearing As If You’re Interested In Someone Else Other Than Her.

This is one of the most effective opening lines, and is also one of the most successful. Asking her view on something makes you immediately seem unthreatening in her eyes, which is a huge bonus.

When selecting your question, be creative. Try to make it a question that will pique her interest in you and lead on to more conversation. A good example of this is to ask “Who’s your friend?” to a woman who is with someone else. She will immediately wonder why you are asking about her friend and not her. This will doubtlessly lead to more conversation.

Try not to get too engrossed and don’t forget to impose a time limit upon your conversation. Make some excuse to cut the conversation short, even when it is obvious to you that she is interested in continuing the conversation.

LIMITING The Time You Spend in Showing Interest In A Girl has a HANDFUL of Benefits that Make It Truly Worthwhile For Your Purposes.

Another must is that you impose some kind of time limit on your contact with her while you are using your conversation opener.

You want to make a great impression by being confident and natural, but you should also be trying to gain her interest so she want to speak to you further, and for a longer time.

Seeming like you have forever to chat can be intimidating to women, so make up some excuse like “I have to be back in the office in five minutes”. In this way, your target will not be worried about you being some kind of stalker who will pester her all day long. She will immediately feel more relaxed and confident about talking with you.

Another aspect of restricting time, is limiting yourself once you ’spot’ a target. Make sure that the time between you making lingering eye contact with her and the time you actually approach her is no longer than five seconds – yes, as quick as that.

This is not some mysterious rule, it is simple common sense. If you allow yourself even a minute to consider all the possible consequences of your approach, you will talk yourself out of even approaching her to start with.

Don’t Let Your Inner Voice Talk You Out of Your Don Juan or Casanova strategies; Act Quickly or You’ll Risk Losing That Girl!

Any longer than five seconds and your inner voice will start to persuade you that the rejection is not worth the risk. Don’t even allow the time for all those negative thoughts to appear. You will also come over to the woman as being confident and a man of action, who follows through confidently, which all women appreciate.

Many wannabe players just lounge around looking at women; they don’t have the courage to approach a woman from cold. And being one of those who actually does marks you as a man among men before you have even opened your mouth.

Not everyone is born with the gift the Irish have for ‘Blarney’ or has the ability to strike up a conversation with a lovely lady spotted at the gas station or supermarket. But opportunities for the observant Don Juan or Casanova abound. From the cutie in the queue at the taxi rank to the assistant manager at your local bank, each situation is ripe for the versatile and alert Don Juan or Casanova.

A True Don Juan or Casanova is Fully Aware that Pickup Lines NEVER Work As Well As Customized, Thoughts At The Spur of The Moment Are Ones That Do.

Preparing a list of standard pickup lines is more suited to the lounge bar lothario than to a gentleman player. You need to come up with a unique icebreaker that is ideally suited to your surroundings and situation, which will make your target realize immediately that she is in the company of a gentleman, and someone with whom she can communicate.

If the thought of this turns you from a confident charming conversationalist into a gibbering mass of nerves, then you need practice. Get your head around these top three conversation starters which are sure to pique your target’s interest in you and help you score big-time.

There is One Proven and Guaranteed Technique that You can use to Grab The Interest (and earn you a thousand of brownie points) Of The Woman You Like, Wherever You May Be.

This is a favorite of every successful Don Juan or Casanova. It is the most versatile and useful tip out of all and can be applied to your advantage in almost any situation. It is a fantastic conversation starter with women, particularly if you are in a situation that is traditionally considered a ‘woman’s domain’, such as a supermarket or a clothing shop for women.

The versatility of this technique is only matched by its success. It is a trusted friend especially when one spots a lady who is blissfully unaware that on her home turf she is fair game for the seasoned Don Juan or Casanova. This technique also allows you to take advantage of unexpected situations and acquaintances. Sharing a taxi with a hottie? The ideal opportunity. New chick as receptionist at your oral hygienist’s office? The perfect target for the hottest tip around.

Smart Don Juans or Casanovas use this clever trick not only to Initiate Conversation (and Automatically Keep It Going) but also to Satisfy Two Of Women’s Needs: that for Recognition and that to Come From A Man.

Starting a conversation with a woman by asking her for her opinion is a seriously successful score opener. You are paying her a compliment in an indirect manner, by assuming she is intelligent enough to know the answer, and admitting to vulnerability on your part. Both are highly endearing traits for all women. As if that were not enough, you are also avoiding the usual trite conversation openers with which most women are bombarded throughout their lives.

You will be showing that you value her intelligent input on a question, whether it be to ask if oregano is the best herb to use in Italian food or which is the best colour to compliment a woman with black hair (like your targets). Be ready to receive an interesting and educated reply and probably a continuance of the conversation you initiated.

As seasoned Don Juans or Casanovas know, it is often the simplest of strategies that work the best. This is certainly a prime example of that and something that every aspiring Don Juan or Casanova should take to heart.

Initiating Talk About Her Travels will Bring You To Places and Scores Farther Than You Could Ever Dream Of.

Since the advent of mass travel, most people today have experienced travel to what were once perceived as far off and exotic lands. And most are delighted to share their experiences, whether they left a good or a bad expression.

Millions work in the travel industry and if you are lucky enough to spot a hottie who looks like she could be a member of an airline cabin crew, then this question is likely to garner you untold compliments. Everyone knows that top airlines only recruit the brightest and the best so you are indirectly paying her a huge compliment.

Even if your target has only ever been to visit Paris on the school trip, the experience will have left her with lasting impressions, which she will probably be only too willing to share with you.

Seasoned Don Juans or Casanovas, in general, have Gone To Far Places In Search Of The Hottest Dates, so make sure you have Rehearsed Well Ahead Of Time your Own Interesting Travel Stories.

Generally women love to talk about their travels, so dont be shy in enquiring about where she has been, and where she would like to go. It is pretty much guaranteed that she will ask you in turn about your travel experiences, so have some interesting stories and opinions to respond with. Common sense would tell you to leave out any embarrassing experiences like the time you got locked outside your hotel room in Bangkok at 4.00 am stark naked.

This quirky and entertaining conversation opener is one of my personal favorites. As silly and obvious as this seems, it works like a treat every time and I am happy to say it has never let me down. Experienced successful Don Juans or Casanovas keep this one up their sleeve, as one never knows when it can be usefully employed.

Do Not Grumble if this Third Trick Gets You Tons of Scores With Women: Making Light of A Common Gripe is One Highly Effective Way of Getting The Ball Rolling.

And let’s face it, there is plenty in life to gripe about: from standing in line at the post office while some idiot tries to send a monstrous parcel to someplace the hapless counter clerk has never even heard of, to waiting in a queue at a taxi rank in the early hours along with what seems like the entire Welsh rugby team and all their supporters plus some dismayed Japanese tourists who think they are waiting at a bus stop.

All these types of scenarios are ideal for the third and final master trick in opening a successful conversation with your selected cutie. Another huge bonus to this strategy is that it appears to be completely uncontrived. It is a unique set of circumstances that it is perfectly obvious you have not co-ordinated or planned. But recognizing the opportunity and zoning in on your target with this conversation opener is highly successful.

Find Something Good or Funny To Say However Terrible the Situation You Are Both In Is.

Find a mutual gripe and make light of it, keep it jokey and good-humoured with some tongue in cheek remarks. Ensure that you do not go over the top and lapse into some serious rage or unpleasant rant. It is unlikely that this will impress anyone, never mind that gorgeous looking lady.

The aim here really is to poke fun and alleviate the annoyance of a situation, rather than come out and complain forcefully in order to change something. So pick out the common annoyance and make a joke of it. Something you can buddy up with her on and scoff at. Like the volume of a Welsh rugby player’s voice, or what the heck is in that parcel? Keep it easy-going and soon you will be united in more ways than one.