Are you somehow frustrated about your ability to date and hook up with women you like? If you are, it is high time you assess yourself and classify if you are a ‘nice guy’ or a ‘bad guy.’ In the dating scene, it is not at all bad to be ‘bad.’ In fact, bad boys are considered winners in the dating game. You do not need to absorb and apply dating routines and approaches of aggressive alpha males. But you could use to your advantage the perks of being a bad boy.

There is a long-standing misconception about being a bad boy. To be one, you need not seek and get into troubles. By just being confident, independent, adventurous, careless, wild and free-spirited, you could easily become one and instantly enjoy winning in the dating game. Being bad boy commands so much balance in behavior. Here are some guidelines on how you could adopt a bad boy stance and image so you could always succeed in hooking up with women.

Learn to Set Your Very Own Dating Rules

Bad boys naturally take their rough and firm stance from the rejection and prejudice of the society. Bad boys do not usually meet the standards set by the norms and the society for being an ideal or good boy. Consequently, bad boys tend to set their own rules, which most women find sexy. Bad boys exhibit strong survival skills and superiority. To be the effective bad boy in dating, always be in control, resist giving in to demands of women and take the dominating role. Most women love to be dominated by their stronger, confident and reliable men.

Strive to Be Real No Matter What

Before proceeding to be a bad boy, settle your inner issues and accept yourself for who you are. You sure have flaws, inabilities and unlikely features. To be a real bad boy, just be real. There is no need to put up a front. You do not need to be artificially sweet to please a woman. It could only make her throw up in time. You do not need to be insecure about your scars, your warts and your being a stutterer. Do you think you are not that smart? Bad boys are confident about themselves, thinking as if they are smartest guys in town when in truth there are many good guys far brighter than they are. The funny thing is that bad boys carry themselves well, to the delight of seeking women.

Assume the ‘Protector’ Role

Of course, women will always want to feel totally safe and secure when you are around. That means you should be able to give her an impression that you are a strong wall to protect her from all troubles. You should be able to get into brawls with other men just to protect her. Maximum tolerance should be practiced, but you should limit boundaries so you know the perfect timing to get into fights just to protect your date. Bad boys also know how to stand by what they believe are right. Such men are strong, reliable and undeniably sexy to the eyes of most women.

Be Confident in Handling Any Situation

Dating is an opportunity to impress women. To score more points, be confident and effective in making tough decisions, especially when such decisions involve her. Take action independently and act in your own initiative. Bad boys like to decide on their own, without consulting their women. Some women, on the other hand, may not like the idea; but there are more of them who find thrills in it. To be perfectly attractive, act like a bad boy, especially in exuding capability, strong decision and confidence. It may not be sexy asking the opinion of a woman especially on decisions involving dates. Always take control.

Be Brave in Facing Unlikely Consequences of Your Actions

Bad boys are afraid of nothing, even rejections. If you want to truly impress your woman, be responsible and accountable for all your actions. There is no need to fret about what other people will say. Bad boys do not care much about what other people will say. Show your woman that you are always firm in standing by your actions and decisions. Try not to be too emotionally timid, overly anxious and cautious so you could exhibit some sense of sensitivity and emotions, which will further boost your sexiness, in the eyes of women.

Bad boys walk the walk and talk the talk. If you are not sure you could do being a bad boy well, just be yourself and defy the norms, just to stand on your opinions and beliefs. This way, you could be the bad boy you are trying to be. To win in the dating game, remember some words: courage, confidence, independence and adventure. Do not be afraid to lose and be rejected, but always be ready to move on and find other women to date, if initiatives fail.

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When it comes to dating, bad boys stand out because they are almost always able to lure more women. You could learn so much from bad boys’ approach to dating. If you want to make women swoon over you instead of rejecting your invitations, then, you should know by heart and apply several bad boy techniques when attracting women.

You could start by adopting the bad boy look. When you say looks, it does not mean fashion, though bad boys typically wear rugged, tough and rock-star outfits. To attain the natural bad boy look, there is a need to set the mood. Condition yourself to be tough, serious and furious to imbibe that natural bad boy look. It should exude from within. Here are some other effective guidelines you could try out if you want to attract and date more women, the bad boy style.

Do Not In Any Way Try to Impress Her

Nice guys almost always fail because they think impressing women is the key to dating (and getting laid). Learn from the failures of good guys. They think that by impressing women, they could likely please them. The usual results: nice guys fall nervous, get self conscious, feel tensed, stutter and exhibit stilted behavior, which all could instantly turn any normal woman away. If you want to take the bad boy approach, just be calm, relaxed and laid back. It could be effective if you condition your mind to not think about impressing any woman. Instead, set your mind to expect women to impress you.

Do Not Give Her the Chance to Test You

In general, women conduct character tests without directly stating so. They may subject you to such tests to determine your level of composure, drive and dominance. Usually, such tests are done by challenging you, playing hard to get, requesting special actions to please her or changing plans without notice. Such actions will surely annoy you. If you react violently and unlikely, you could possibly fail the test. How to win this one? First, do not give her the idea or hint that you are aware of her tactics. Then, deal with all her tests accordingly. Do not give in to her requests and stick to your decisions no matter what. This way, you will exhibit a firm and confident attitude that will certainly make her realize that you are the guy she should know better.

Be A Master Kisser

The art of kissing is somehow mastered by bad boys. It could be their sense of confidence or just their plain wild, adventurous personality. Nice guys tremble when kissing women on dates, especially if they hardly know each other. In general, bad boys kiss very well, even on first dates. How do you make the kissing scene romantic and overly exciting? Start by doing a little flirting action. Touch her hair and utter simple compliments. If she smiles and seems not to turn away from you, continue stroking her hair, this time, looking down to her lips and then her eyes. If she does not resist, attack—go and kiss her. Be comfortable and passionate in doing so. Who knows, one thing might lead to another and it could be one of your lucky nights.

Try to be Comfortable at All Times

Bad boys do not run intimidated. If you want to make good at it, always feel comfortable with yourself, with your date and with everything around you. Establish eye contact and never let go of it. Nice guys almost always find it hard to keep the rapport especially when they feel somehow intimidated. As a bad boy, be different and bold. Remember: you need not feel afraid or intimidated by anything.

Make Your Date Drool with Anticipation

To accelerate your attraction approach, try to build a level of anticipation. This could be a little tricky but it is fun and surely effective, you will be surprised how you could manipulate her and make her aggressive. As you kiss, hold hands or be intimate, stop without warning and lean back. She will be intrigued and surprised. By the time it shows in her face, resume what you are doing; only this time make it more passionate and intense. Do several repetitions until you observe she exhibits a sexual tension, more of anticipating for an explosive intimacy.

Play a little and Make her Exude Her Animalistic Responses

Bad boys are afraid of nothing. You should care less about what other people will say or think. As you go out on a date, start flirting by becoming more touchy. If she does not resist, go a little high notch. Smell her shoulders, then move up to her neck. At the same time, run your hand gently up the back of her hair, to the neck. Tell her how she turns you on. In no time, expect her to bring out the animal in her. If you are so lucky, you could cap your romantic date in bed. Expect her to initiate calling you and inviting you to dates. Bad boys are just so lucky.

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Bad boys are disliked by parents who want the best men for their daughters. The society in general has higher regards for nice guys than bad boys. But why is it that when it comes to dating, bad guys get more leverage and do better compared to good guys? Interestingly, more women are attracted to bad boys more than they could be attracted to nice guys.

Experts could only have one simple explanation. Women like bad guys more because they want challenges. Nice guys are so pleasant they will almost always make lives easier for their women. In contrast, many women dislike the idea. Being empowered that they are, many women want to enjoy the sense of self actualization they get from taking the challenges posed by bad guys.

In terms of excitement, bad guys seem to always have the greater advantage. They are intriguing enough to keep the interest of any woman. They are unpredictable, making every date surprising and full of unexpected occurrences. Moreover, bad guys are also seen as more fun and adventurous, thus many women find them totally not boring, compared to the typical nice guys.

If you classify yourself as among those nice guys, you should strive and aim to develop the bad boy personality in you. You do not need to be delinquent and set aside your values to do so. You want to win more dates and get more women to admire you? Here are some practical measures you should do:

Pull out a Fashion Makeover

Bad boys have that animalistic appeal. It begins on the way they look. There is no such thing as bad boy fashion, but you could observe the kind of attitude bad guys wear that make them look alluring and irresistible to women. Mess up that hair a little bit. Try not to shave for a few days. Go out on jeans instead of formal pants and wear shirts that will accentuate your masculine shape and muscles.

Nice guys’ fashion is easy and pleasing to the eyes. But in comparison, bad boys’ fashion gets more animalistic responses from women. The rugged look, worn with so much attitude and confidence will work wonders if you want to develop a bad boy personality.

Develop A Sense of Independence

If you have a set of beliefs, be firm on standing by them. You should not care about who your beliefs and actions might upset or about reactions you might attain. Remember that women will take you for who you actually are. Do not feel insecure or unconfident.

In contrast, independence is shed off by nice guys, who almost always seem to agree about things everybody says. Nice guys tend to lose themselves by acting in consideration with what people might say, feel or do. Women like their men firm and principled.

Try to Be as Spontaneous as Possible

Bad boys are naturally spontaneous. They tend to do exactly what they want, whenever, wherever. What is important to bad guys is that they have fun and they enjoy the moment. They go out without plans and could take any woman with them. What is surprising is that there are more women who like to be a part of such unplanned and spontaneous activities of bad boys. In this way, women assert that bad guys do not become boring and they tend not to be predictable, giving a sense of excitement, thrill and adventure.

Employ Disconnectors In Conversations

It will not be hard shifting from being a complacent nice guy into being an independent bad boy. But you could also start setting the mood by watching the way you carry conversations with women. Shed off your quiet and sensitive personality by applying disconnectors, statements that intentionally disagree with conversation flow. Do not hesitate to disagree with women, who will almost always find it interesting to converse with a man with a different opinion.

Turn Into A Snob

You may have been nice and pleasant all your life. If you usually smile to everyone when you go out, this time, try to act as if you do not know people. Women like snobbish bad guys, who to them look challenging, mysterious and hard to please. You do not need to be Mr. Personality when with a woman. By being a little rude, you are surely getting her attention and interest.

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If you tend to think that your friends who act silly and seem immature are annoying and loud, then you could benefit from the advice given here.

If you enjoy sensible, adult, clever conversation and are logical and a clear thinker, then it is highly likely that you would be intensely irritated by the seemingly juvenile antics of others around you.

It is Normal to Have Both A Serious and A Quirky Side of Our Personality, so Make Sure You Let Both Sides Grow And Show.

If this sounds familiar to you, then you ought to give yourself a break and try letting the inner child out now and again. Being tuned into the lighter side of your inner creature when going out to have fun or party for the night can be liberating to someone who is mostly sensible and ‘grown-up’.

Believe it or not, these two types of behavior are not mutually exclusive and can both come into play from the same person at different times. They are simply different aspects of your personality.

‘Letting your hair down’ and lightening up can have an extraordinary effect on your social interactions and will lead you to being perceived as being more fun and less stuffy, thus generating even more opportunities to join in and have fun, thus supercharging your social value.

Letting Your Hair Down and ALLOWING YOURSELF TO HAVE EVEN JUST A LITTLE FUN IN SOCIAL SETTINGS would Bring You More Friends In The Long Run.

People naturally gravitate towards those who are ‘fun’ so make an effort to let the fun side of your inner creature show to increase your social value.

Practice the following tips to give your lighter side a chance to glow – the rewards in increasing your social prowess will become obvious very quickly…

You can Easily Upsize Your Attractiveness In Society by Increasing Your Sense of Humor and INCLINATION FOR FUN.

If you are naturally one of life’s jokers and always telling jokes and making your friends laugh, then you already know that joking around and being playful makes people laugh, and want to be with you more.

It’s time for you to realize that being fun and showing humor is a very magnetic and sexy attribute. Especially if you add a little sizzle to your banter with some carefully selected trigger words used in an entirely innocent way.

Including TRIGGER WORDS Into Your Daily Conversations with people would Increase Your Likeability and Chance To Know People On A Deeper Level.

Here is an example. You have introduced yourself to the gorgeous woman who is handing out finger food. You can just pop one of those big black olives she just gave you into your mouth and murmur, “Hmmm… I love something juicy to suck” while staring deep into her eyes.

Follow this with a sincere smile, and say something like “Maybe we can speak later when you are free?” Her subconscious mind will remember you with a certain ‘frisson’ even if her conscious mind does not know it.

Originality, Confidence, and Preparedness Equal To MAXIMUM RETURNS In Terms of New and Interested Social Contacts.

There is nothing so powerful as words. You need to exercise that part of your brain which controls words and come up with some really inviting, humorous, and sexy trigger words to slip in to your light hearted banter whenever you are practicing your social skills. But remember to maintain the air of confidence we discussed in an earlier article.

If you can come up with something which is funny as well as sassy then all the better. Make a list of words, put them into sentences you can use, and then either memorize them or keep the list in your pocket.

To become a master at social skills and increase your prowess to the maximum, you must develop your own style and method of applying these subtle yet hyper-effective techniques.

Everyone has a Fun Side; so Let Yours Go Far and Free by Saying What You Want To Say in The MOST QUIRKY Manner.

Just rely on the ‘inner you’ and give it some freedom. You need to get in touch with the fun side which may be buried deep inside you and to show the rest of the world that you are not stuffy and dull.

You don’t need to follow any formulas – just let yourself be your true self. And if you are normally a very reserved person, then even making a humorous observation will grab the attention of those around you and notice you for your quick wit.

Make Sure that What You Do COMES NATURALLY FROM WHAT YOU ARE, and the People will Naturally Flock To You!

If on the other hand you are generally a loud and playful person, you will probably have to be fairly ‘out there’ to make an even more fun impression on your circle of friends.

The lesson here is simple – stick to the golden rule of being yourself, but adapt a more fun outlook to social situations to watch your social prowess spring from a tiny seed to a mighty oak.

Naturally Inserting Trigger Words into Appropriate Situations is A Skill of Natural People Magnets that Anyone Could Become.

Those natural jokers we all know who are considered fun people with seemingly little effort always seem to just know fun places to hang out and are an endless source of fun things to do.

Others tend to stumble into funny or unusual situations and make the best of them, by carrying others along with the fun of it. Work on creating a funny inner creature and eventually you will be seen as a fun and charming person to be around.

You can also work on ways of saying intelligent witty things about some current event that you can slide trigger words into or make some provocative banter about.

Get Out of Your Comfort Zone and Surprise the People who have Long Established You as A Serious Person by Making SPUR-OF-THE-MOMENT Remarks.

A good tip for creating fun situations and scenarios is to deviate from your usual behaviour. If you would normally never crack a joke to a waiter, then make an effort to be a little more impulsive and spur-of-the-moment in your interactions.

This can lead you and your friends into really fun areas and will make you memorable as having a fun side as well as a clever and articulate side. Naturally, this goes a long way to elevate your social value in the eyes of your friends.

Every Don Juan or Casanova WORTH HIS SALT knows that Having Fun and Being An Honest Flatterer is Enough To Attract Anyone.

Many people get used to living life the way they are and the way they feel most of the time. If they are shy and reserved, then that seems the norm to then, and anything louder or more fun may seem way too ‘over-the-top’ for their taste.

People who are considered to be good fun are often able to help others to see the fun side of a situation that normally because of their reserved attitude they may otherwise miss.

Throw yourself into having a good time, and remember to use sincere honest flattery and compliments when you are chatting to someone you would like to get to know better.

Hopeful Don Juans or Casanovas Who Wish To Compliment Others should Learn To Avoid Certain Taboos and to Include Trigger Words For Success.

A genuine spontaneous compliment is a natural and honest way to stroke someone’s ego, but make sure you are being sincere and never comment on what a great body they have. You are straying into awkward territory if you go there and it could have entirely the opposite effect. Compliment them on their style, their hair, their scent or a particular item or accessory they are wearing. Slip in a trigger word for maximum effect.

Knowing how to Tease Oneself and Influencing Others using One’s Zeal are Powerful Ingredients for Brewing Social Success.

Another technique guaranteed to lighten the mood is to poke a little gentle fun at yourself; this can have the instant effect of making other people feel good even about subjects that are usually taboo in general conversation. It will also have them think that you are not too ‘high and mighty’ and are a genuinely humble person.

Yet another type of fun inducing character is boundlessly passionate about something, and manages to carry the whole group along with their own brand of contagious humour and excitement. You probably know someone like this who manages to talk the whole group into going for a Chinese meal when half of them say they don’t much care for Chinese cuisine.

So let your hair down and show your passion for life – it is almost guaranteed to increase your social worth in the eyes of others.

Knowing the Limitations of Having Fun will Keep Them From Backfiring At You, the exact opposite of What You Want To Achieve!

We’ve all heard it said that a little child lurks inside every man. Sometimes it is good fun to be immature and juvenile. This is fairly easy to do if you are around people you know well, who also reveal their childish side to you from time to time.

Try to suspend disbelief and leave your serious adult at home sometimes, laugh along with the others at foolish antics you would normally frown upon, and join in with the inane fun.

Others seem to have a natural ability to be funny in a clever way; with just the lift of an eyebrow, they can have the whole table in hysterics.

Steer away from making jokes about other people behind their back, and don’t be overly critical of the targets of your jokes, or you may be perceived as being a ‘nasty’ type of person who is intolerant of other people’s flaws.

There is Only One Way to Bring Your Social Worth To Zero, and that is to Make Yourself Unavailable At All Times.

If you have had a long hard week and are really stressed out, and all you want to do is to go out and have some simple fun with the guys, there is nothing more irritating than hanging around with someone who never wants to do anything that anyone suggests.

Refusing invites to go some place or do something new simply because you don’t feel like it will result in invites stopping completely, and you will be branded as ‘funless’ by your friends.

There is no miracle in making people attracted to you or want to know you better. You already have all the attributes you need to accomplish this buried deep inside of you.

Don’t waste any more of your valuable time about worrying over what you think you have not got or what your faults are. Start spending time in following these tips to expand your social worth exponentially. You can create any type of inner creature you want, but it is essential that you do not stop opportunities for developing yourself by refusing every invite.

Allow EVENTS to TURN OUT FOR THE BETTER, for You Never Know What Opportunity Awaits You For Your Patience in Such Social Events.

Needless to say, that attitude will not add to you social value one iota. You need to be open-minded as much as possible and to go along with other people’s ideas at least some of the time.

Once you have committed to going and trying this new idea, don’t be the one to back out before the evening is over. Give the situation time to develop and you may even find yourself having more fun than you ever thought possible.

This tip is all about giving yourself the opportunity to experience new places and new things to do – you may be pleasantly surprised and your social value will have jumped because you were willing to give it a try.

Discover One Of The Best-Kept Secrets of Successful Don Juans or Casanovas to Attract Confident, Engaging, and Interesting People in Any Social Setting!

Instead of being too meticulous and fussy about what you need to have fun, force yourself to join in and to take part in whatever your friends are doing.

You may secretly think to yourself that the venue is boring, or that the people there are snobby or that there are not enough hotties to go around. If you do feel tempted to allow yourself to say any of these things, then bite your tongue and make the most of the situation.

This next tip is logical and well proven, but people do seem to overlook the well known fact that ‘like tends to attract like’. Put simply; if you appear confident, engaged, and interested in the people around you, you are likely to attract the same type of people.

Nobody likes to hear that boring person saying again and again that they think this place is too hot or too loud or that the drinks are too expensive.

Concentrate on the positives of the situation to increase your fun factor and to increase the value of your social worth in your friend’s eyes. Not everything in life is perfect, so don’t expect it to be – and have fun anyway.

TAKE THE INITIATIVE TO HAVE FUN and Be Known As A Fun Person To Be With, and you’ll instantly Make People Flock To You.

We all know someone like this. They are content to sit back and wait for other people to provide the laughs and amusement. It might be that they are just shy, but they may also simply not be taking the time or effort to participate. Don’t let yourself slip into this category if you want to see your social worth rise.

Un-fun people like this are very common. Instead of taking the bull by the horns and throwing themselves into a situation, they rely on other people to notice their isolation and to make an effort to involve them.
If their friends get sidetracked and no one notices them, they can become offended and bitter and are very unlikely to put themselves in that position again.

So don’t stand back and wait for others to bring fun to you on a plate; get out there and be creative – initiating something fun with others will increase your social prowess and make people think of you as a fun person to be around.

If You Wish to Have A Good Public Image, Avoid Discussing Heavy, Boring, and Dragging Topics Like A PLAGUE.

Being a social downer means your social value will take a header downwards too. People who always notice and comment upon the negative side of things can become very wearing to be around, particularly if you are out partying after a hard week and just want to relax and have some fun.

Time out with your friends is usually reserved for letting go and having some fun. It is unlikely that anyone is going to want to discuss world politics or even office politics after a long and demanding week at work.

So don’t use the light fun times for heavy topics, or your social prowess will take a hit and instead of being known as ‘that fun guy’ you will be branded as ‘that boring guy’. No prizes for guessing which of these titles will enhance your social prowess.

Changing Your Public Image to Fun And Fab can Leave An Indelible Mark On All The Hot Ladies in Town.

When you have mastered the art of slipping in some sassy trigger words and paying natural and genuine compliments, this combined with your confidence and attitude will all combine to make you highly desirable both as a mate and a friend.

Once the hottest lady in the room has you targeted, this will also elevate your worth, and faster than you can imagine, you will be surrounded by hotties all competing for your attention.

In order to become this magnetic social creature you only need to work on the attributes you already have. You need to build on your natural personality and sculpt and shape it into the personality that you want to project.

After reading this, you can probably see the social value in letting your fun side out sometimes. You may even realise now that it might be easier than you ever thought.

Changing your attitude towards ’silly’ behaviour is worth it in the long term, because being known for being a fun person is priceless when it comes to social value.

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When advising people how to make ’small talk’ with people one has just met, there is plenty of advice around, but all of it much the same. They stress the need to maintain eye contact, to ask questions which cannot be answered with a simple ‘yes’ or ‘no’ or to be a great listener. Although these tips are common knowledge, they are essential.

But there is more to making conversation than those. There are other not so obvious points which one needs to consider carefully when talking to new people and trying to get to know them.

Before Heading into The Fierce Social Arena, Study Yourself and Strive To Find Out just Who You Are and What You Offer.

Make sure that you do not have anything that is working against you without you even knowing it before you start a conversation. Try to take in the overview of the whole package that is ‘you’ and make sure you give yourself the best possible chance to make a fantastic first impression.

Here are some ideas to help you fine-tune the overall image of you that may help you to make an instant and lasting impact, for all the right reasons. Once you are sure you have your whole persona tied down and put together perfectly, get out there and practice to see your social reputation make you a people magnet…

You can Make Virtually All people Around You Interested In Knowing You More by WIDENING Your OWN ROSTER Of INTERESTS.

If you think about it, a person who likes lots of other people, keeps up with current affairs, and has many varied interests and a wealth of life experiences is more likely to be a great conversationalist.

Living In Your Own World will Not Help In Your Social Life—just think of How It Could Ruin Your Dating Life.

Compare this person with one who really can’t be bothered to make the effort to make friends, and who is a complete nerd, spending almost every waking minute glued to his computer playing computer games.

Who has the larger pool of information to dip into to come up with instant conversation on a broad range of subjects?

Take this to heart and keep informed. Try to broaden your interests to make yourself much more interesting to others.

Talking Naturally With People and Distinguishing Whether You Have A Deeper Motive (and what they are) are Keys To Having SMOOTH Conversations.

Sometimes chatting is just for fun, without any preset goals or aims. You are just chatting to pass the time, or to discuss something that interests you.

Other times you will have a specific aim – getting to know someone on a deeper level and making a full on effort to connect with him or her on a personal level.

But be aware of the difference. Just hanging out and joking with acquaintances is fun as well, so try not to be too wary of people, and just let the conversation flow naturally.

Every successful Casanova or Don Juan seeks to Find the Common Ground Between Himself And The Person He Likes To Know More.

When you are chatting with someone you just met, and would like to know more, an effective tip is to find something which you both feel passionate and excited about. This spark will ignite the flame of conversation without you having to put a huge amount of effort into it.

Whether the subject is the latest blockbuster movie or classic cars, once you hit on a subject you both love, the time will fly by and you will already have connected in a very meaningful way.

To Make People know you and Want to Know You Even More, You’ve Got To Learn More About More Things In General.

It just makes plain old common sense to have a wide range of knowledge about subjects which are currently ‘hot’ and subjects which the people you are going to be introduced to are more than likely going to be involved in or know about.

Being a Jack Of All Trades Type of person is a Valuable Asset In Terms of Broadening One’s Social Circle.

You don’t need to know the whole plot of the blockbuster, but knowing the celebrities who are acting in it by name will show that you are socially aware and will earn you points. When discussing the stock market, you don’t need to know all about commodities in detail, just an overall structure and perhaps whether things are generally on the up or are moving down.

The effort you put into being ‘in the know’ will more than pay you back in social points, so take some time and effort to be the one who knows. Your conversations will improve and your social standing will go supersonic.

Accept with arms wide open the Limitations Of Even The Most Conversant Don Juan or Casanova, and use them to propel you to farther goals.

Sure, the aim of a great conversationalist is to be able to talk to anyone, anywhere, anytime, and about anything.

But even the best conversationalist can run dry when faced with someone whose sole interest in life is the mating habits of the fruit fly, or some other obscure subject.

You will Get Better in terms of your Social Interaction Skills if you Make The Most Out of Each Horrible Situation and Learn From It.

Be realistic in your aspirations and realize that however good you are (and by now after reading these tips you are probably very good) you are not going to score a bull’s-eye each and every time.

Occasionally you are going to dry up, or feel stuck and not have one idea in your head about what to say, and that is ok, these things happen. Just accept it was not perfect and try harder to create a broader range of subjects on which you can converse.

There is no need to beat yourself up just because the occasional conversation did not go precisely as smoothly as you planned. Practice makes perfect and that is what you have to do to leverage your social prowess into overdrive.

Even Seasoned Don Juans or Casanovas Encounter Some Difficulty In Their Social Dealings Every Now And Then, so learn not to fret about such instances.

You know the feeling, you have been chatting with this person for a few minutes and already you feel like you have known them forever. This is great because it means that you have really ‘clicked’ with this person and probably because you have a great deal in common.

In contrast, we have all chatted to people who were almost impossible to engage in conversation for one reason or another, and no matter how hard we tried, it was just awkward and difficult to find any common ground at all.

Putting Yourself In The Other Person’s Shoes is One Of The HUMBLEST and yet Sure-Fire Ways of Gaining Their Empathy And Agreement.

There can be many reasons for this difficulty in communication, ranging from what they heard about you from someone else, to the values and morals that they hold compared to you.

You might even appear to have several key areas in common yet still find it hard to converse. It could be that you are both from the same small town, but one of you is the son of the Mayor and the other a daughter of a mail carrier. The social gulf between you two may become apparent as the conversation continues.

The next time this happens to you try to empathize with the other person, walk a mile in their shoes and try to imagine how they are feeling. This may guide you in what to say next and is sure to make the conversation flow more freely.

Make An Effort to Learn About the Lives, Habits, and Interests of People You Wish To Interact More With, and soon you’ll Be Doing That.

Everyone is different: some folks you will get on well with, and others you won’t. If you feel comfortable around someone and seem tuned in to the same wavelength, then conversation will probably flow smoothly.

If other types of personality make you nervous, then your aim should be to try to understand them and to get accustomed to being around them. If you are nervous speaking to executives who hold a higher position than you, then you may want to read up on what it is like to be a CEO of a company and the kinds of decisions they have to make. Understanding their responsibilities may help you to understand them.

Knowing the LATEST EVENTS Both in your Town and Beyond will Increase Your Social Worth and your knowledge as well.

Do everything you can to improve the brand called ‘you’. Add value in every way you can possibly think of, by reading at least one international newspaper per day and one of the local tabloids in your location.

To Be A Social Magnet, you’ve Got to Keep Rehearsing Your Lines Even Before You Go Out.

Watch at least the headlines on the news station to keep abreast of current events and occasionally challenge yourself to tackle people that you would normally consider ‘difficult’. The more practice you get, the better the social creature you are creating will become, meaning your social value will escalate until you become the ultimate social being who acts like a magnet to other high-calibre people.

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This series of articles is to guide you towards improving your “Social Prowess” generally, which will have the pleasing by-product of attracting more women to you in the long term and generally elevating your social value.

Increasing A Person’s Social Prowess Hits Two Birds With One Stone: it Improves Scoring Chances and Enhances Life In General.

Developing your social skills and increasing your ’social desirability’ will give you added advantages, not just in scoring but also in your profession and life in general.

Being perceived by your boss as someone who has great social prowess and who is well liked by others will gain you points when opportunities for promotion arise.

By ensuring that you are generally socially connected and highly spoken of, you are increasing your social status and making your company much more desirable. It is well worth investing some time in acquiring these skills.

We all know that popular guy who has women flocking to him because he is well liked and popular. Follow these top ten tips to add that special something which women find irresistible…

Go Out Of Your Comfort Zone and Try Out Something New For You That Has Always Been A Staple Of The Popular.

What do the popular people in your social circle do for fun? Play golf? Practice at the Shooting Range? Support the local sports team? Belong to the Bowling Club?

Find out where those who are popular and well connected like to hang out, what their main interests and hobbies are, and consider giving them a try. You might find a lifelong passion.

If the popular crowd at your office hangs out at a specific bar after work, then join them instead of making your excuses as you usually do.

Make sure you take a stack of your business cards, with your cell phone number hand written on the back, to hand out.

Make Yourself Versatile and Your Schedule Flexible; Allow Yourself To Go With The Flow and Have Fun While At It.

If you hate last minute changes, you need to review your attitude. Even if plans change several times and it drives you crazy, you need to master your annoyance and learn to adapt and ‘go with the flow’ with a smile on your face.

Sometimes the majority opinion of the group may override your plans, but you simply have to learn to go along with it – if you want to be a part of that social group and elevate your own social worth.

Things change and not everything is under your control in a group situation, so learn to go along with changes with a smile on your face. Don’t let your irritation show and don’t hold resentment or grudges against people. Life is too short.

Loosen up and go along for the fun of it – and you never know, it may end up being more fun than the original plan you had in mind.

Get Into This New Habit by Letting Your Mind Rule Your Body, and All of Your Actions Will Follow Naturally.

You might be thinking “Yeah…right. That is easier said than done.” You don’t actually have to be confident, to look confident. This is a well known sociological fact. It is similar to smiling. If you feel ‘down’ then smile. Keep smiling. After a while, you will see that you actually do feel happier. The same rule holds true with confidence.

Just tell yourself that for this evening, you are going to act in a confident manner, no matter what. As with many other things, just practicing this will make it come naturally to you. The more you do it, the easier it is. Picture someone you know who is confident, and then ‘mirror’ or copy their moves. It will soon be a part of you.

Be In Control, Stay Confident, and Let The Whole World Witness You. Let Your Actions and Even Your Posture Attest To These.

Confident people don’t hesitate. They are decisive and sure of themselves. Once you have gotten into the role, you will find it is addictive and eventually becomes a part of your persona.

Your posture is another clue – hold your shoulders back and walk tall and look the world right in the eye. You have nothing to apologize for and much to contribute. Keeping this in your mind will help increase your confidence levels.

A word of warning – don’t allow this confidence to appear as arrogance, as that is definitely not an attribute of popular people. Stay confident but relaxed with a smile on your face, and you will be fine.

Every Casanova or Don Juan Stays Updated and Ready With Topics For Conversation, Proving To Everyone That There Is No Dull Moment With Him.

Give yourself the best chance on joining in with all topics of conversation that are brought up, not just commenting on the number of hotties in the room.

Keep ahead with current affairs no matter how much they bore you. An easy way to do this is get the CNN headlines sent to your cell phone by RSS. Make sure you are well informed on what is going on internationally, as well as in your hometown.

You can always ask questions as well as comment, thus showing that you are not too ‘high and mighty’ to admit you may not know everything about the situation being discussed.

Being Friendly, Cheerful, and Interactive Will Earn You Brownie Points with Everyone You Encounter, Thereby Expanding Your Circle and Possible Targets.

People who are silent and who don’t contribute to discussions can be perceived as being boring or snooty. Neither gains you points in social prowess. Popular people who always make an effort, will quickly notice if you are not.

Popular people have broad social networks, and are generally genial and easy-going, getting along seemingly effortlessly with most everyone from the chairman of the board to the janitor.

A simple, friendly wave of thanks and a smile to the barman, or a chirpy ‘See ya guys’ to the group at the next table marks you out as easy to get along with and friendly, both characteristics of all popular people.

Stay Alert for Every Bit Of Information You Can Gather From People’s Own Words—and Use Those To Your Advantage.

These guys you want to hang with are giving you constant clues and information that you can use to help integrate yourself within the group.

But to take advantage of this free source of unique information, you have to actually take the time and listen carefully to what is being said by whom, and remember it.

Treat this information like gold-dust – you can use it later to get in even tighter with the core of this cool crowd, but not if you don’t pay attention.

There is nothing so attractive to other people of either sex, than those people who actually do listen and seem very interested in what they are saying. Return the compliment and you will be one of them sooner than you think.

Everyone will recognize this situation. Part of the group meets someone they all know (but you don’t) and they take the time to chat and get up to date. You are not included since you don’t know this person, and are left more or less alone.

Have A Backup Plan Ready For Those Occasions When You Don’t Know A Newcomer To The Group or You’re Left All Alone.

Or you are out with a buddy who scores and leaves you alone at the bar for the rest of the night. These are familiar social situations that are more than likely to happen to you, so be prepared with these techniques for making the most out of them.

The best way to deal with this is to have a backup plan. You can’t count on being with ‘the gang’ all the time, so you need to cultivate the ability to find your own fun when required.

If your friends insist on playing poker for two hours and you are bored to tears by it, then this is a time to use your backup plan.

Use All of Your Idle Time Wisely by Practicing Your Gab On The Available Ladies Around.

Use the time to assess the room for available ladies, and practice your ice breaking conversation openers. Maybe they have a dance floor and you can pick a cutie that looks like she would be open to a dance or two?

Look on this time as the opportunity to practice the ‘gift of the gab’ and to chat to random people in the room. The more you do this, the easier it becomes and soon it is second nature and making you much more socially in demand.

Any of these options increase your social desirability and help you to perfect your people skills. They will also prevent you from looking like the saddo at the bar who has no other option than to watch the behind-bar TV.

Stay Patient, Attentive, and Interested In The Topic, however Unattractive It Is To You, knowing.

Sometimes in a group, when the chat drifts off to something that does not interest you, it is easy to switch off. Appear to be engrossed in the group chat, no matter what the discussion is about.

Even if you have to consciously make yourself keep tuned into the others in the group, make sure you stay connected to the conversation, chipping in when appropriate, or asking questions to show you are still listening.

Staying Humble and Accepting Some Pokes of Fun From The Group is One Way to Endear You To The Gang.

Eventually, and maybe sooner than you think, being the new guy in the crowd could mean you are the target of general jokes and teases as a part of the initiation ritual into the group. This is standard sociological behavior and not personal.

Whatever you call this, it is probably going to happen to you, the same as it did with the others. Don’t take things personally – they are testing you as the new guy, so don’t get upset, defensive, hurt or angry.

Pouting, sulking or going into a rage is not going to endear you to the group. So do yourself a favor and give them a funny comeback. Smiling and shaking your head whilst looking down is a good tactic here, it is not defensive and keeps you included in the circle and shows you are not offended. You should portray the sentiment of ‘You guys! You really got me, but I am not angry or upset’.

Another aspect of tolerance to practice is equally important. Often restaurants, bars and clubs can be packed with irritating and pretentious people, or be too noisy, too hot or full of morons you would not be seen dead with on usual occasions.

Lighten up and accept that sometimes the group will want to go to places like this. Accepting these petty annoyances with a gracious smile is just a part of hanging with the cool crowd. And increasing your social worth is your overall game plan so just grin and bear it.

Never Allow Disappointment Over Other People’s Attitudes to Get The Better Of You and Bring Your Reputation Down With Them.

Your standards and social values do not apply to everyone. There is often one in a group who is always late, or another unreliable person who, despite making what you thought were definite plans, turns out to be a no-show. Just accept it with grace.

Even though these types of behavior may be completely unacceptable to you, you have to learn to not let them get to you. Just accept that that is how some people are.

By not being like these flakes, you are going to distinguish yourself within the group as being reliable as well as popular, which can only be a good thing for your social prowess.

Keep in Mind that Like Most Things, Being Popular Has Its TRADE-OFFS and Spending A Bit More Is One Of Them.

No matter how cheap you are or how carefully you live, appearing to be overly ‘tight’ with money when you are with popular people is a huge mistake.

If you love saving your money so much that it is affecting your ability to join in with the popular folks, then you are not doing yourself any favor.

Most leisure pursuits cost money to some degree. Groups eat out together, they go to bars and clubs and sometimes they are going to want to go places where to you the cover charge seems daylight robbery. Try to train yourself not to be concerned about it. It is the price you pay for being with the popular crowd, but it will reap you huge rewards in the long term, both privately and professionally by marking you out as a member of one of the most socially desirable groups around. Think of it as a trade-off.

Being generous has a way of rebounding on you at the most unexpected times. Maybe you spend some extra cash on buying dinner for some guys without them asking. More often than not, the next time you are out, they will return the favor or keep you topped up with your favorite bourbon all night and paying for the taxi home.

Stay open-minded, and try not to dwell on holding a balance sheet in your head of who owes you what. It usually boils down to what you lose on the swings you gain on the roundabouts.

Despite All The Possible Difficulties You May Encounter, remember to Keep Your Eyes On The PRIZE: The HOT Ladies You Like!

Sometimes the effort on your part to acquire better social skills and the opportunity to enhance your social reputation may be the last thing you feel like doing after a tough day at work.

But taking the time and effort to build a great reputation with others, to increase your social status in the eyes of those around you, will reward you in many ways and for years to come. It is well worth the investment of your time, energy and money.

Most women are attracted to guys who are thought highly of by others and who have a great reputation amongst friends and acquaintances. We all know the woman magnet that always has gaggles of women around him without seeming to put any effort into it at all. Having social prowess is his secret.

Follow these top ten tips above and soon that guy will be you!

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Out on dates, you should be able to take the pressure of keeping your woman engaged. Of course, you do not want to bore her and make her dread the moment she agrees to go out with you. To keep her up and interested, you should be able to pull off and tell several stories and anecdotes, which should all be quite interesting, fun, and engaging.

Telling stories is One Powerful Means of Drawing Women Closer to Your Ears—and the Rest of your Body

Guys, did you know that through telling stories, you could actually establish or start up sexual tension between you and your date? She could instantly feel a sexual attraction if she sees her connection to you. That is why as much as possible, you should learn the art of masterfully telling stories. You need not be a master story teller. But you could surely make your story telling ability better in your aim to seduce women.

Many men fail to impress dates because they could not sustain fun and easy conversations. Many men fail to build up sexual attraction because of their inability to arouse the interest of women. You might agree that most men commit mistakes when trying to do so. Here are some don’ts you should avoid when trying to seduce any woman using stories in your conversations.

Make sure you Build Her Energy Up and Stay With Her until She Reaches Climax (of the story)

Women hate it when men hop on to the next story when the first one seems still not ended. Remember that stories have climax, too. Women surely want to get to that end of your story, so give her the satisfaction to do so. After every story, you may spend several minutes trying to discuss any meaning, profoundness, or depth in your story. At least give every story its due attention before deciding to hop on to the next one. I bet you may already be itching to tell your next one, but the night is still young. You can have more time later.

Divert the attention to her every now and then to show that you’re not only a storyteller but also an attentive partner

When telling your story, perhaps you could also commend her for being a nice and attentive listener. You may tell her how pretty and interesting she is as you continue telling your story. You should not take the attention all to yourself. In several moments during the date, you should let her know how focused you are to her.

Keep those Explicit ‘R-rated’ Sexual Stories in Your Head until she is obviously Very Comfortable and Ready to Hear them

Many men, in their pursuit to easily get laid, immediately tell sexual stories on first encounters. There is nothing wrong to that. In fact, some men testify that this style works. However, in general, women would surely be turned off and could be uncomfortable when you immediately jump into that bandwagon on hour 1. You may seduce her verbally just by using subtle sexual innuendos instead. Do not bring about sex-related topics until you feel she has already built comfort being around you.

Every Don Juan or Casanova Became Who He Is now by Being Attentive to women and Sensitive to their Needs and Wants

It is good to tell sexy and naughty stories, but do not go overboard. You should still be sensitive to her feelings and her sexuality. Many men fail to seduce women through stories because they tend to overdo their efforts, making their stories offending in many ways. Remember to get the feel of the woman you are with before assuming she is like other girls you dated before who are always game when it comes to highly explicit sexual stories.

Avoid Sounding, Looking, and Acting like A Pervert – unless you Discover and Guarantee that She Is Attracted to Them

You should not in any way create an impression that you are sex starved and are desperate to get laid tonight. When telling stories to seduce and impress a woman, remember not to sound, look, and act like a total pervert. Rarely will you find women who are turned on by perverted ways of men. It is safer to assume that not all women are like that. If during the date, you have found out she likes perverted men, then it is time you act like one. Otherwise, stay decently sexy.

If you want to Stick to Her Memory (and later on, Her Body), then Avoid Long, Dragging, and Boring stories – Go For Short and Exciting Ones

In your desire to impress a woman, perhaps you might have ramped up your memory bank so you could have plenty of interesting stories to tell. Choose the shorter stories. Your woman surely will not want to hear novels on your date. Keep your stories, short, lively, and highly interesting.

Be a Gentlemanly Don Juan by Letting Your Date Laugh First before you join her in the fun

If you are telling anecdotes or funny stories, remember not to laugh at yourself. It may be too funny that you could not resist laughing at your own story, but make sure you finish delivering it first before you laugh. It is also better if you laugh with her instead of you laughing all by yourself while she stares and look at you confusingly.

Take your time in Establishing Yourself as a Great Story Teller and Wonderful date and she’s Bound to Want You Even More

Every story you tell her should be treated equally. You may have lousy ones, but try to spend as much time on those as you spend more time telling the interesting and fun ones. Do not worry that you will bore her. If you strive harder to tell her every story in a fun and interesting manner as you could, even the most boring story will turn into an interesting one. Recognize the value of good and effective delivery, taking note of your voice tone, facial expressions, and physical gestures.

Avoid Praising Yourself, and if you couldn’t, Salvage Your Humble Reputation as soon as you can

You may not be able to resist throwing comments during or after every story. You may opine about the characters or plot of your own stories. It is okay, but do not try to inject bragging comments as doing so may spoil all your efforts. You should not sound too proud. If you fail to hold yourself, try to stage a redemption by saying, ‘I may have sounded boastful or something, but what I meant was that I just got very lucky.’ This way, she may continue building up a good impression about you.

Get Her Participation by Asking Her Opinion during Various Stages Of Your Stories—she’ll love you for it

It will be most effective if you will make your every story as interactive as possible. You may eventually enjoy doing all the talking, but remember you are out to impress and seduce her. You can get her involved in your stories by asking her questions during openers or soliciting her comments during your stories. Doing so could make her feel more important and could make her more interested and up all night. Share the limelight as often as you could.

Cap each story off with a Good Punch Line or an appropriate Pickup Line combined with a Hint of Sexual innuendo

Summarizing every story is a way to make her develop good impression of you as a story teller. You do not need to spend so much time wrapping up. A sentence or two will do. This is also the part where you could logically and easily throw your sexual innuendos and teasing pick up lines. You may ask her if she wants to experience the kinkiness and excitement in your recently concluded sexy story. Or you may try other lines that may not be directly related to your story. Just make sure you are not overdoing it, or else she may immediately turn uncomfortable and call the night off without you even getting to the first base.

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Men, you should be raving about the next statement. Talking about sex or sex-related matters with any woman could be a prelude to actually having it. For guys who could make conversations so engaging, that women tend to stick more until something more intimate happens, getting laid is so easy. You surely will not want to be included in the demographics of men who screw up by failing to gear conversations with women towards that direction.

You can Learn How to Use your Gift Of Gab to Get Women In Bed, just like any Tried-and-Tested Casanova

Are you a great storyteller? If not, do you want to be one? Do you want to use storytelling as a creative strategy to hit on any woman you like? If you are on the affirmative, then you should learn how to inject and use sexual innuendos in stories so you could effectively and immediately seduce any woman you desire.

Is it easy using sexual innuendos in conversations to flirt with and seduce women? If you are that determined to do so, you could easily infuse sexual innuendos and use them creatively to your favor. You could actually tease, flirt, and seduce just by filling your statements with sexual implications, connotations, and innuendos. Try it and be surprised with the possible consequences. Here are several ideas to help you do so.

Project your Own Desires using her own statements—She’ll Be Entertained and Aroused Both At The Same Time

Do you want to invoke a little humor that will surely make any woman laugh? Look for or at least make up sexual innuendos in her words. You could start by jokingly accusing her of trying to seduce you. When she mentions something about tiredness and bed, run a joke by accusing her of trying to get you into bed. You will surely love it when she starts getting more comfortable with you. Before you know it, your innuendos could already be up for something you want to do with her tonight.

Let her Cozy Up for Some Storytelling as Warm-Up for what Might Lead to A Hot Time Later In Bed

Women surely will not want to get bored. They are fascinated by men who provide no dull moment. If you want to keep her up, tell interesting, funny, and really engaging stories. To set the mood for intimacy, you could incorporate sex and flirting into your stories. Sexual innuendos are subtle means of introducing and tackling sex topics and subjects into the conversation. If she rides on and goes along with your innuendos, it might be one of your lucky nights.

Convey that you’re a Much Sought-After Stud by cleverly Infusing It (or Connotations of it) in Your Conversations

One of the practical ways of sexual innuendos in stories is that you could use such statement to indirectly convey your sexual message. So instead of you telling directly how great a lover you are, you could tell it indirectly. For example, if she happens to say you are good at keeping a date entertained, you could tell her jokingly that you are indeed very good at a lot more other things. The message will be that you are a stud. Start from there and let her feel the urge to know more about you more. Perhaps, she is already out to prove if you really are the stud she thinks.

Touch on The Topic of Sex when she Least Expects It, in a Very Light and Unoffensive Manner

It is always great to sexually flirt with a woman through comparing casual activities to things exclusively found and done in the bedroom. For instance, if you give a glass of water to your date, you can run a joke like, ‘Today, you seem like you are on the receiving end. I bet you also like to be on the giving end at times.’ Do not forget to smile and see how her face lights up.

Use the idea of Payback Creatively by letting Her Mind Wander to More Exciting Means of Paying each Other Back

Many men find this style easy and naughty. After she thanks you for doing a nice deed, you could crack a half-meant joke like, ‘You are welcome. You could opt to pay me back later.’ If she did a nice thing and you want to thank her, use the opportunity for your sexual innuendo. You could say, ‘I will pay you back. I might be short of cash now. Could you think of creative payment options?’

Work your way to Becoming A Wordsmith: Use Double-meaning Words to your Seduction and Dating advantage

What is good about the English language is that it is packed with so many terms that you can readily twist around to convey sexual messages. How about juicy, fast, wet, hard, and hot? Are they prompting you to think about kinky stuff? There are many other similar words. If you practice adding sexuality to daily conversations, you will soon get to master this style.

Let her know she is A ‘Naughty’ Girl – and soon She’ll Be Acting Exactly Like One!

Telling her how naughty she is always works. She may not mean to be kinky and naughty, but let her realize how her words and deeds create sexual meaning and connotations. Smile and keep your eye contact with her as you do so.

Set the Right Mood and make the Best First Impression by Using Unique Conversation Starters

The opening of your conversation sets a make or a break; if you do not pull it off rightly, you may totally screw the opportunity up. Thus, when getting into a conversation during dates, strive to be interesting and original especially prior to your intention to tell sexy and naughty stories, which are aimed at further seducing her. As a tip, start by asking her opinion about an interesting topic, which you think she is mostly interested in. You can subtly infuse your mild, yet flirty sexual innuendos after her statements. Again, be creative and cautious at the same time when doing it.

Be a true Casanova by Rehearsing Some Catchy, Cocky, and Sexy Pickup lines so you’ll Get Her Ready When She’s not

Only a few guys know some of the best and most effective pickup lines that could also serve as sexual innuendos. If you are not good at coming up with your own creative lines, maybe you can spend some minutes memorizing some. Here are some of the most amusing, naughty, yet effective sexual innuendos-slash-pickup lines: I’ve got a job for you, but take caution because it blows; I think I would fall in bed with you; It is not Christmas but you should know Santa’s lap is all the time ready; I’m like a dog who needs to bury his bone; Nice pair of legs there. What time do they open?

Intentionally Misinterpret Her Words to send her imagination RUNNING Wild and free to what you Implied

If you are running out of antics to be funny and statements to showcase your targeted sexual innuendos, try this trick. Intentionally misinterpret her words, but be sure you do it in a way you could make her laugh. For example, you are suggesting the two of you to come to the bar to get some drinks, wait until she says, ‘Let’s do it.’ Immediately turn to her saying, ‘Let’s do it? Really? Right here? Don’t you want to do it somewhere more private?’ Expect her chuckles after a while.

While a Smile might Bring People to A Closer Friendship, it usually Brings A Couple Farther from The Bed

Women are intrigued by men with serious faces. Try mastering the art of telling jokes and funny stories without laughing or smiling too much. If you smile and laugh often during the date, she might get overly comfortable and you two might lose the sexual tension. Strive to keep a straight face even when telling funny stories and cute sexual innuendos.

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Women hate dull moments. One of the most dreaded possibilities women avoid these days is dating a boring and self-centered man. If you want to be active in the dating scene, you need to ramp up your story telling ability. If you are able to pull off good and interesting anecdotes, jokes, and stories you surely are always up to attract, seduce, and bed any woman you like.

Seduce any woman you like using your sense of humor and Wonderful Array of Funny Stories

Men should realize that comedy pieces or funny stories are staples in storytelling. To be safe, it is always better and more recommended to tell funny stories than serious ones. You could easily make any woman comfortable with you if you are able to make her smile and laugh along with your stories.

When telling funny stories, you should still remember that you are out to impress her. Always be self-conscious so that you will not overdo and spoil your initiative. Here are some practical guidelines that will surely help you deliver your funny stories better and in the process successfully impress and seduce any woman.

Be ready to get real and Tease yourself to Show Her Your Down-to-earth and Fun Side

You need not make fun of yourself, but you could tell some of your funny and amusing experiences. You could begin your dates by telling her more about yourself. Doing so could help make her feel more comfortable being with you. Perhaps, you could start by telling some funny instances and experiences you had yesterday or last week. Remember to tell your stories as if they happened only yesterday.

Establish an Intimate Connection with her by Talking with Her Like A Best Friend Does

Women should instantly feel the level of comfort between you and her. When telling your stories, that level of comfort should still show. The trick is to tell your story like you are telling it to your best friend. If you take this kind of mental conditioning, you can easily take off nervousness, giving you more chance to tell your stories like a real pro. The result could be pleasing as you could surely impress any woman you date.

Start being a True Don Juan by Injecting Erotic Stories or Sexual Innuendos in your conversations

Surprisingly, women are also thinking more about sex like men do. Most of them will be entertained and delighted to hear sexual stories. But if you are still not that comfortable telling one, you could focus on your casual and wholesome stories, but be sure not to miss sexual innuendos, which are subtle ways of sexually flirting using your words and statements.

Finish Off Your story with An Effective One-liner as Punch Line to seal the deal with your attentive target

Funny stories must have punch lines. You should realize that comedy antics, anecdotes, and funny stories seem to exist for the punch line, which is usually a one-sentence statement to cap and wrap the entire piece. Make sure your date still hangs on and keeps interest until your funny story reaches its punch line. Be cautious, though. It could be considered a crime to throw jokes and funny stories that have no punch lines.

Hook any hot woman with your strong and funny personality that they just could not resist!

Story telling is the best way you could display and showcase your sense of humor and your overall personality. By successfully pulling off funny stories and running hilarious jokes, you are making it clear to your date that you are gifted with a good sense of humor. Women like men like you. They do not want to be in company of boring and dull men. By being a good storyteller, you are also showcasing your good personality.

Talk to Impress: make sure your Confidence Remains High All Throughout The Night if you want to earn this girl

Women love confident men. You can showcase your overall confidence by the way you tell your stories all night. You do not need to look arrogant. You could simply be comfortable with the situation, look her straight into her eyes, and speak clearly and comfortably. Try not to stutter or run out of words, as doing so could easily give away your level of discomfort, anxiety, and pressure. Do not let your date feel your stress. Remember that you are out to impress her. If you want something good to happen tonight, you should be confident you could succeed at doing so. Start from there.

Be a real Gentlemanly Don Juan by Letting Your Date Laugh at your jokes—and join her in

Some men get annoying by laughing at their own stories or jokes. It is practically okay to laugh, but make sure you do so along with her. It will make her feel more comfortable around you if you will laugh together. But it would do otherwise if you laugh while she stares confusingly trying to figure out what is really going on. You certainly would not want to look like a fool, would you? You better choose the stories you will tell so that you will not be out of control.

Be Creative and Resourceful in finding ways to Let your date Have A Good Laugh

You may use things and people around to add fun and laughter to your story. How to do it? Here’s an example. Suppose a lady with huge ‘behind’ walks by. Make your date notice that observable feature and say, ‘Looks like Jennifer Lopez is currently in the house.’ If you run out of stories and funny antics, why not trying looking around and making fun of everyone. She will surely get good laughs. Do not overdo it though, as you may create an impression that you are making fun of everyone behind his or her back. And be careful when talking about or making fun of other people. Do not let them hear you make your date hilarious at their expense.

A little Exaggeration could Go A Long Way in terms of Making your Target Comfortable in Your Presence

You can make her laugh all the way by exaggerating. If an obese woman walks by, you may guess her weight and use exaggeration. How about telling your date you think the woman weighs 1,000 pounds? Or you could also make fun of your date by exaggerating her embarrassment. If she says she is not comfortable with the way her hair is done, say, ‘Yes, and I do not want to comment on that but it is really humongous.’ She will definitely smile or better, laugh. You can use her hair as a source of laughter all through the night.

Slowly inject sex into your conversations by Giving Your Opinion on Some Kinky Shows and Items

You may talk about your favorite kinky movie like Austin Powers or kinky television series like Sex and the City. To lead the conversation towards sex, think of some funny lines, situations, or scenes and ask her if she has ever done similar acts. Be amazed at how she eventually opens up and makes you take a peek into her private life. Take this as a queue as you march yourself up to a really fun and sexy night.

Use Clever Pickup Lines after your story’s Punch Line as your Finale to the Story—and Opening to Some Wild Action tonight

As she laughs all her heart out, you may seize the opportunity to throw up your sexy pick up line. How about telling her ‘Trust me when I say I am only kinky during the first time.’? How about another pick up line: ‘My word for the day is legs. Come with me and let me spread the word.’? You will be surely amazed at where good humor could take you.

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Not many men are aware that women also think much about sex like they do. That is why a lot of guys often prefer to be ‘safe’ when conversing with women during dates. In general, many men think sex-related topics are taboo, which should be avoided during dates. Now is the time men realize the dawn of new dating and seduction techniques, especially when aiming to attract women through conversations.

If you Wish to Attract A Woman and Make Her Eager For More, you’ll need to Cleverly Insert Innuendos into Your Conversations.

You will find it much easier to establish chemistry with a woman if you would effectively flirt a little through bringing in sex topics into conversations. However, you should watch your words and your overall manners because certainly, taking the effort too far could undoubtedly backfire. How do you arouse her interest, keep her engaged, and set the mood for some kinky action? Sexual innuendos in your stories, anecdotes, and statements could truly serve as subtle and at the same time effective technique in attracting and seducing women.

Slowly but Surely is the Way every Expert Don Juan injects INNOCENT Sexual Innuendos into SEEMINGLY Normal Conversations.

Before you get into more details, set your mind to stimulate the woman you are targeting subconsciously through a good mix of interesting, funny, and sexy stories. Why are sexual innuendos effective tools when you aim to attract and seduce women? The reason is quite logical: the exciting topic of sex is subtly introduced and eventually discussed in a thrilling, yet non-threatening and non-offending manner. If you will be able to deliver stories with sexual innuendos, you could surely establish necessary sexual tension the attractive way.
Here are some tips:

Prime yourself as a ‘bad boy’—Women like FRANKNESS and are Easily Enticed By a ‘Bad Guy’

Before you get into a date or any conversation with women you plan to seduce, you should first condition yourself to become a sexy and naughty bad boy. This way, you could take away your inhibitions so you could take the guts to deliver your sexual innuendos without hassles. Instead of striving not to offend her, why not attempt to go straight into subtle sexual discussions? In a few minutes, you would notice that the woman would instantly turn comfortable and be willing to get into your game. You can take it from there.

Get into the Sexual Topic from the Side: a Friend’s ‘Sexcapade’ could Help you out

If you are still not comfortable about opening up the topic of sex in a date, you could intend to approach the subject in a sideways direction. You could start by sharing a humorous, yet interesting sexual story about a friend of yours The story need not be true. Your friend could also be fictional. The point is that you are starting to hit on her.

Spice it up and TURN the Heat HIGH Up with the Proper Accompanying Facial Expressions and Gestures

Women are easily bored when hearing uninteresting and dragging stories. You could spice up an ordinary-sounding one by focusing on your delivery. You may not be the master story teller, but you could use facial expressions and gestures to make her engaged. You can also use your face to emphasize your sexual innuendos. Women usually find it sexy.

Subtly Inject some Sensual (and not necessarily sexual) Acts into your Fabricated (or Real) Story

If you want to make it more subtle, you may tell wholesome and clean stories. But if you are creative enough, you could still strategically manage to infuse some sexual angle to it. You may tell a fairytale, but still inject sexiness by subtly discussing how the princes and princesses make out. How about that for an idea?

Display your Crafts as a Real Don Juan or Casanova by being Naughty (not rude) and Playful, but also Sensitive to Women’s reactions

The advantage of using sexual innuendos is that you could be naughty without necessarily being rude. Little taint in a hero could make women very interested. When trying to be naughty through your sexual innuendos, always make sure to monitor her reaction. If she looks a little unpleased and uncomfortable, change your gears for a while until she finds coziness around you.

Connect with Your Target on a Deeper, More Intimate level by keeping Your Attention on Her

In any form of story telling, there is a need for every story teller to ‘connect’ with listeners. The same goes if you are telling a story to a woman in a desire to impress her. If you are integrating sexual innuendos into your stories, the more you should aim to establish and keep rapport. Look into her eyes as you roll out your story. Try to exude your sexiness and your desire to have her when you get to the part of your story where you intend to flirt with her.

Use Specific and Lightly Erotic body actions to Get her Body ready for More action

To heighten the sexual tension and attraction, you may intend to strategically use mannerisms and body language. You may start holding her hand lightly then try to massage it lightly while you go on to the sexual part of your story. You can also lightly touch her shoulders, her face, or even her hair as you continue your story telling and maintain your eye contact.

Take advantage of Deadpans to BRING COLOR to the Boring details of your Stories—before she gets bored herself!

A deadpan is technically an edgy part of any story. Use it to spice up several boring details of your story. Everyone knows that all stories have their own ups and downs. During the down part, boredom usually sets in. If not properly addressed, your date will surely feel bored and you may find it harder to bounce back. To state a deadpan, set aside any inhibitions and try to be candid as you can. Then, try to infuse several sexual innuendos to make her more interested and more attentive.

Use Vivid, Sexy, and Descriptive language in Getting her interest and making her Imagination Roll Beyond Her Control

In story telling, you should know that using the most vivid and most descriptive words will always hold up listeners’ interest and excitement. If you are describing a woman in the story, tell all about her vital statistics, hair color, facial features, her vivacious curves, and her sexy physical attributes. Doing so would enable your date to be more visual. Then, try to be as vivid and descriptive when telling parts of stories that involve lovemaking. Doing so not only facilitates for a great use of sexual innuendos. You could also arouse her feelings, her interest, and her curiosity to get more into you.

Take all your time as a storyteller; You’ll Never Be Sorry when She Takes All The Time With You Tonight

As the night goes through, the more you want to end the date and take her somewhere private where you can get laid. But do not get into rush. You still have to set her mood. When telling her a story, never give in to the temptation to finish your pieces in a hurry. It will do you better if you hang on a little more and make her more engaged and yearning for more. She may be interested to spend the entire night listening to your stories. If that happens, you have a greater chance of getting what it is you want from her tonight.

Tickle her imagination and humor by incorporating Well Thought-of Pickup Lines and Innuendos Into Your Story

Remember to throw several funny, naughty, and kinky pick up lines or sexual innuendos while you are telling a story. Here are some effective and sure funny lines you might want to memorize:
-I am looking for some treasure. Could I check around your chest?
-You practically have more curves compared to a race track.
-Are you good at jigsaw puzzles? Come with me and let us put all our pieces together.
-Let me loosen your tight belt for you.
-I am dreaming about making you the most satisfied woman on the planet tonight.

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