Bars and clubs are not the easiest environment for picking up women and in fact may present several challenges you would not face in other locations.

Practice Makes Perfect—This Rule applies even in the Realm of Picking Up Hotties In Bars And Clubs!

Give yourself a head start by putting in some practice, especially if you are nervous. Being relaxed will come as second nature to you if you practice putting your personality on display.

Ideally, while you are refining your game, go out at least three or four times a week to clubs. Lots of guys feel more comfortable in going to another town where no-one knows them, which gives them a psychological edge to their game.

Follow these useful tips on how to pick up women successfully in bars and clubs, and not come off looking like a sleaze…

Remember the Double Standard in terms of Approaching The Other Gender When Drunk: it’s Perfectly Fine with us men (actually, it’s great!) If It’s The Woman Who Is Drunk, but Not The Other Way Around.

This is rather a puzzle and to some degree, there appears to be a double standard at play here. Women often get drunk and kind of sloppy when they go out to a bar or club, and it seems perfectly acceptable.

But if a man approaches a woman and he appears to be even slightly drunk, he may as well give up before he starts. To approach a woman when you are drunk, as much as you feel it boosts your ego, it a big mistake.

You are likely to let yourself down and to embarrass the female thus ruining your chances almost before you have opened your mouth. Breaking all the rules of being a player (and gentleman) and acting like a sleaze ball are so much easier when you are drunk.

So enjoy your beer, but do not drink so much that it clouds your judgment and makes you obnoxious or appear out of control.

Make Any Woman Crave For More About You (and of you) by Heading To Exit Before It’s Too Late.

Always leave the conversation first, making the woman want to talk to you more. Do not exhaust the conversation as an awkward silence can be death for a pick-up and she will lose interest fast.

Have in your mind already a good way to conclude the conversation, before you begin. Something like “I’d love to hear more but I have to go now. Let’s talk some more over dinner maybe next week?” These ploys only go towards making you seen like a kind of mystery.

Take Advantage of the Fact that Women Enjoy Grooving On The Dance Floor to Get Closer To Her, in More Ways Than You Could Think Of.

Most hotties love to show their moves on the dance floor, and it also gives you a chance to show off your latest rhythm and movement together action.

Dancing is one of the most sensual things a couple can do, so getting her onto the dance floor is a great move on your part.

The Law of Supply and Demand Works Just As Well In The Dating Field as it does in the markets: Use It to Make Her Want to Know You More!

If you have successfully approached a woman and you can feel that there is a good chemistry between the two of you, the next step is to get her contact information.

Everyone has at least one e-mail address these days, so ask her if she does. Once she has said yes, she is much more likely to write it down for you.

Another way of dealing with this, which incorporates an element from another tip is for you to suggest swapping information and catching up with each other another time. Introducing the element of elusiveness will only help her to want to see you again more quickly based on the standard rule of ’supply and demand’.

Using your cell phone is easier and more casual than exchanging numbers. Casually hand her your cell after you have told her you must leave, and she will feel obligated to type in her number. Soon as she has, tell her you will call her cell right now, to make sure she has your number.

Keep Her Guessing About Who’s Got The Hots For Her, and Get To Score while You’re At It.

If there is a hottie in your office and you know your colleagues are planning their usual Friday night drink before heading home, ask a friend to find out if your target is going to be there.

If your (preferably male) friend asks her, and she says she has no plans to do so, your friend and colleague can casually say that her attendance was hoped for, but leaving out by whom.

In this way the hottie goes and you will have your opportunity to score, but she will have no clue as to who has their eye on her.

A great way of connecting with other businesspeople on a social basis is the traditional Happy Hour after work, usually on a Friday night. Most offices have a ‘local’ bar where they go to unwind on Fridays, and to interact socially, rather than on a business basis.

If there is a hottie in your office and you know your colleagues are planning their usual Friday night drink before heading home, ask a friend to find out if your target is going to be there. If she reveals she has no plans to do so, your friend can casually say that her company has been requested, but of course, leaving out again by whom.

A True Don Juan Knows How to Use His Senses to Observe The Girl He Likes and Plans His Next Moves Based on His Observations of the Scenario.

This may be more difficult than it seems. Follow these player’s tips to get it right from the start and make a successful pick-up in what can be a difficult environment.

It is likely that you will have plenty of potential targets if you are out clubbing or pubbing on a Friday night. Before you even think of selecting your target, take some time to observe the top two and try to analyze their situation.

Is she alone? Or is she waiting for someone? Is she with a group of friends? If so, you do not necessarily need to give up. It is likely that if she is in a group the group will divide and split as the evening goes on, thus making it much easier for you to get her attention.

Observe her to see if she appears bored or unhappy. Maybe she did not really want to go and feels rather out of place in such an overwhelming and often noisy environment. In which case she is likely to be grateful to you for suggesting you go to a coffee bar or bistro for a quiet chat.

Use Her Weaknesses to Make Her Feel Insecure, and Once She Is, she will Do Anything and Everything To Please You.

This technique involves picking up on a woman’s weaknesses and vulnerability and using them to playfully disqualify them from the game.

They will then find you a challenge and work hard to gain your approval which opens up the possibilities for extended dialogue.

Before approaching her, use extended eye contact to test whether she is interested. Catch her gaze then hold it until she looks away. If she does this with you a couple of time, use the bartender to offer her a drink from you. This will pique her interest even more in you, the mysterious gentleman.

Finding women in bars who want attention is pretty simple. Check out the women who keep scanning the bar and making eye contact. Does it look as though she put a lot of effort into looking ‘hot’?

When you approach your target, don’t do what she expects you to do, like buy her a drink; instead, come up with something fun which has an emotional edge like celebrity drama.

Anything will work if you are assured and confident in yourself. And remember that practice makes perfect.