No matter where you live, a condo or house, the opportunity to score that single hottie neighbor should not be passed up, but care and attention is needed to avoid possible future problems.

Be aware that this lady may know a darn sight more about you than you think. She’s probably spotted you in your old bathrobe picking up the newspaper, and knows your bedroom curtains or blinds don’t open all day on a Sunday.

Any Don Juan or Casanova is Aware of the Need To Be Extra Vigilant in taking steps to Score That Hot Female Neighbor.

None of this should deter the seasoned Don Juan or Casanova, but there can be pitfalls to scoring your neighbor, so just be aware of them from the start.

Bear in mind that this cutie has access to information and you are not just an anonymous gentleman to her. She will have privileged access to your home which is strictly off limits to most other targets. It is definitely risky but adapting to your circumstances is essential for success.

After the Welcome Wagon has waved goodbye and new faces have called to say hi, you ponder the available hotties in your new Hood. The cutie next door is top of your hit list, and she could not have been friendlier or more welcoming. You know she is available from the friendly chit-chat and she seems to have many of the qualities you are looking for in a target.

Handled badly, hitting on a neighbor could turn out to be a disaster of monumental proportions, since she is on your home turf. So absorb the Don Juan or Casanova tips below to ensure this does not happen to you …

Make Sure You Know What You Are Getting Into

Maybe there is something your realtor forgot to tell you when you snapped up this bargain of a condo? If it seemed too good to be true, there could be a skeleton in the closet in the form of a ‘neighbor from hell’.

Any hopeful Don Juan or Casanova should be careful to Conduct Proper Research on his Target’s Attitudes before Taking Any Step.

Think of the ‘Bunny Boiler’ in the movie ‘Fatal Attraction’ and take every step you can to make absolutely sure this hottie is not of the same type. Find a chatty neighbour who is happy to dish the dirt on everyone around and who will inform you of your target’s past.

Remember reading about the crazy woman who discovered her husband was ‘having a fling’? She shredded every single piece of clothing he had, gave each neighbor a crate of his vintage wine collection until it was gone, then poured paint stripper on the hood of his brand new Mercedes. And need us to really mention Mr. Bobbit and his unfortunate dismemberment?

It never hurts to Know The Girl’s Background before even wondering How To Score Her, since Not Every Hot Female Neighbor Is A Safe Target.

Be absolutely sure of your interpretations of her signals before making a move. It could be she is being pleasant because she is happy to have a guy as a neighbor to help when the electrics go on the fritz.

Or maybe she just feels the Hood is a safer area with a man living right next door? Again, your best bet is to find out as much as you can about her from other friendly neighbors, who are usually only too happy to dish the dirt on others.

An elderly woman who monitors every coming and going in your block may be a vital help to you discovering the background of your selected hottie. Drop in for a coffee and instigate the friendly neighbor routine with her to start finding out what really is going on in your area.

Once the Coast Is Clear, Consider The Future (In Case She Turns You Down) and Take This Into Account Before Making Any Big Move.

If you have done all the groundwork, and assured yourself that the cutie next door is not the psycho bitch from hell, then you are two steps nearer to your target.

One more point to consider is the fallout if she turns you down. If she does, be very ready for awkward chitchat every time you bump into her at the mailboxes or whilst getting the trash out.

Unless you are confident that you can cope with rejection from this cutie, and won’t end up trying to avoid her at all costs, then continue at your own risk.

A sensible Don Juan or Casanova makes sure he has Mapped Out The Area and Picked The Hottest Female In The Neighborhood before Making Locking In On Her.

Remember that when you target the cutie next door, you are automatically restricting yourself and jeopardizing your opportunities with all the other hotties in your neighborhood. This is a common error which many men make.

They jump at the first opportunity, instead of waiting until a bigger fish swims into view. Give yourself the time to scope out the neighborhood for an even cuter hottie before settling for the one next door.

Let’s assume the best. You’ve scored with the girl next door but she is becoming over-friendly now and calling over (uninvited) at all hours and for the most ridiculous reasons.

Before you know it she is trying to move in. This will put a terrible strain on the relationship and make you feel like you have no place to hide from the insistent pursuit of this woman.

If Things Turn From OK to Bad with This Neighbour, keep these steps in mind to Avoid Making The Situation Even Worse.

Everyone needs some alone-time but you are unlikely to get it after hooking up with this lady, especially if things go sour early on.

The only way to handle this situation is to be frank with her, tell her you enjoyed her company but that now it is over. Now you want your space and your life back.

The other option left to you is moving home again – but you’ve only been there less than two months, do you really want the cost and aggravation of moving home all over again?

Expert Don Juans or Casanovas know the Costs of Trying To Score (or scoring) A Neighbour, so it’s Best to Save Such Moves Until After Some Time in the Neighborhood.

Hooking up with the nubile neighbor may have been fun, but realize that whether you like it or not, you and your relationship with this lady is the number one hot gossip on the block.

Depending upon how long your liaison lasted with her, you could well be viewed by any other local hotties as merely a gigolo. All this attention to you and your life is counterproductive to being a Casanova, so the best tip to follow is delay any move on nooky with the neighbor until you have at least been a resident for a couple of months.

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You must have noticed that men and women have completely opposite ideas on just about everything. The differences are magnified when looking at the dating game. Men don’t have many hard and fast rules about a pickup, whereas females have dozens designed to protect and further their own goals.

A prime example is a guy scoring at a club. He instantly forgets the guys he arrived with and those guys get it. On the other hand, when one of a gaggle of girls hooks up with a guy in a club, the rest of the women become like clucking mother hens, hovering and being generally protective of her.

Any Veteran Don Juan or Casanova Knows The Importance of Dating The Girl’s Friends For More Reasons Than One.

Make no mistake, meeting her friends can be one of the toughest challenges a player can face. You will want to take an overview of your opportunities amongst her friends and after your current target is in the past, seek to expand your connections of more available hotties. Simply put, get friendly with her friends – but not too friendly. The eye of your current hottie will be firmly assessing your attitude to her friends so keep it friendly and not even slightly flirtatious.

A true Don Juan or Casanova does not cheat on any woman so you must proceed with caution, employing tact, patience and sincerity to gather details about possible future hookups with other hotties amongst her friends.

If your current hottie is relatively new, and you want to plan a romantic interlude, it is unlikely that you will know her personal preferences yet.

Any True Don Juan or Casanova is aware of the Rules and Techniques of Knowing One’s Current Date while Knowing A Potential Future One – At The Same Time.

Strike up a conversation with that gorgeous girlfriend of hers ostensibly to find out your current hottie’s likes and dislikes, so you can incorporate her likes into a future date.

The girlfriend will be happy to help and will also be impressed with your thoughtfulness towards her friend. Later when the current hottie is no more, the gorgeous friend will remember your thoughtfulness, which will give you an automatic edge.

This technique is a double whammy – showing you as a thoughtful gentleman with your present hottie, whilst lining up another as a future target.

It would be a mistake to ignore your current hottie’s friends because you can use this time to create new connections which will benefit you in the future.

Date In The Present To Find More Dates In The Future—this Technique is Very Useful For Every Hopeful And Determined Don Juan or Casanova.

She is likely to see your suggestion of meeting her friends as a positive sign that you want to get to know her better. This makes you appear like the perfect gentleman.

Aim for achieving a light friendly banter with her friends and address them in a friendly way whenever you meet them. In having a conversation with one of her friends while she is in the ladies’ room, if your technique is right, you will be earning points from both of them.

The Art of Being A Don Juan or Casanova requires that you Find The Perfect Median in terms of Your Friendliness With Her Friends.

Be aware that you could risk upsetting your current partner if you are over-friendly with her girl friends, so made sure you are not overtly friendly but strike the exact balance between being friendly but not over-familiar. This needs careful handling but encapsulates the art of the player.

If you spot one of her friends who is obviously recovering from being dumped, this is one of those golden opportunities for the player. But it is not so easy as consoling her and then making a move.

Your aim here is to be someone she can pour her heart out to, a friend like her girl friends rather than a man to lean on. Maintain your distance but be sympathetic and supportive of her. It’s kind of like you are there for her, but at the same time you are not.

If she is the vindictive type or feels she has a score to settle, then she may well be looking for revenge by engaging in a retaliatory sexual fling. This is the perfect scenario for the player – a score which needs no planning, go ahead and enjoy.

The Key to Dating Her Friends is to be Present At All Possible Times With Them, leading you to A Win-Win Situation that Only Don Juans or Casanovas Could Create.

Put simply, if you are not there, then nothing can happen. Engineer situations where you are invited along with ‘the girls’. You may have to endure movies which are not to your taste, but it will be worth the sacrifice.

In going along with a group meet like this, you are giving yourself plenty of future opportunities.

Another ploy is to casually drop in on her when you know in advance that at least some of her friends will be there.

Your thoughtfulness will be appreciated and yet again, your moves will be taken to be considerate and kind. The perfect win-win scenario for a player.

Being primarily a social chameleon, changing from romantic partner to platonic friend in the blink of an eye, you should try to keep ‘in’ with her group of friends, even after your liaison with her is over.

If you cut yourself off from her completely, you will lose the connections you have so carefully constructed with her gorgeous girlfriends.

Even When you are Done Dating The Girl, you may still Find Smart Ways To Remain In Good Terms (and be a possible date) To Her Friends.

You should strive to remain social acquaintances (this is vastly different from being friends). Try to manipulate the situation so that a favourite weekend hangout meet is still acceptable, so that you can only improve upon your rapport with the group of hotties who are her friends.

Obviously, if the break up does not go according to plan, it will be difficult to keep within the circle of her acquaintances. An emotionally traumatic split is going to mean that there will be little opportunity for scoring with one of her friends. So do your best to ease out of the situation leaving the lady with as much dignity as possible.

Blaming Yourself For The Breakup is One Time-And-Tested Means of Staying In The Loop Of Her Dateable Friends.

A good vehicle for this approach is to blame yourself. You can see she is great for you but you just have this thing about commitment. You are hoping to get over it but for now, it is deeply entrenched. This also gives her the idea that if she allows you to stick around with her group, you may change your mind and want her back.

It’s worth repeating that hot women usually have hot friends. But remember that being a player means that you have a reputation to consider and maintain.

Don Juans do not cheat or give outright lies to satisfy their vanity. Being sleazy is completely counterproductive to the sensibilities of a Don Juan.

So resist all urges to do un-Don Juan like actions and your circle of red hot hotties could only increase.

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Casanova and the Enigma Machine: Cracking the Code of Feminine Behavior in the Dating Scene

You’ve done everything you can to be more attractive to women, but also you need to learn how to spot the women who are most likely to be interested in you at any given time.

Begin by Acknowledging that you Face a Superior Enemy, Reared from Childhood in Warfare and Espionage.

The truth is most guys find it hopeless to read a woman’s intentions. Is she into me or isn’t she? Actually, men fail to recognize 80% of the signals that women send them. The reason is very simple, women are much better than men in sending and understanding non-verbal cues because from a young age they have been taught how to read people. Since childhood, women have been sending and receiving non-verbal signals all the time.

You Miss Out on Great Opportunities and will Even Offend Women, if you Can’t “Decode” Their Behavior.

Women get very frustrated when guys that they really like fail to get the hint of the non-verbal cues that they are sending towards them while guys that they’re not so keen on keep hitting on them! For women, what they are communicating through their non-verbal signals and/or body language is perfectly clear they will never say anything because that is not how it works. No self-respecting woman will ever come right out and tell a man what she thinks of him. Although there may be some women out there who will, they’re usually the rule breakers in other areas of life as well.

Therefore, the facts of the matter are that women spend their time sending carefully crafted non-verbal signals, which we completely miss out on because we’re men. In the meantime, we miss great opportunities because we don’t know when they like us and they think we’re dissing them because we are not responding positively to their signals!

Your Approach should Involve Both Learning to Decode Women’s Signals and Actually Keeping An Eye Out For Them. Knowledge Without Awareness is Useless.

What do you have to do?
You have to develop and observant attitude and learn how to spot the non-verbal cues of a girl who’s interested in you so you can hit the ground running. You need to learn to read women’s non-verbal signals so that you don’t lose out on opportunities that are staring you in the face.

Take a Calm, Broad View of her Behavior As A Whole. Do Not Fixate on A Single “Safe” Spot or Get Distracted By Nervousness. Your State Of Mind Affects What You See, and How You See Your Environment.

Obviously, the first thing you have to do is keep your eyes open. The surest way to tell if a girl is interested in you is to see if she is checking you out. The problem is that most guys, especially those with low self-confidence, have tunnel vision. They either look at where they’re going or at their feet. Somebody could be staring right at them and they’d never notice. It’s time to get eyes all around you and use the surroundings to your advantage!

Your Observational Skills can also Help You to Find Gorgeous Girls that would only Catch The Attention of A Man of Taste And Discernment—Without Getting Caught!

You’ll get numerous benefits by keeping your eyes open. First of all, you’ll start to see how many hot babes are actually out there surrounding us all the time, but most guys don’t have their eyes open to see this. Second, you’ll be able to check really hot chicks out at a glance because you’ve already established a habit of taking in the presence of the people around you. You won’t ever make the mistake of being too obvious because a lingering gaze when you’re already looking around and checking out the area in front of you will not look out of place. Lastly, of course, if a woman is looking your way and checking you out, you’ll certainly be able to intercept her glance in time to send an answering glance of your own.

Keep Your Eyes Open All The Time. A Real Casanova Does Not Limit His Hunting Grounds To Singles Bars.

So make it a habit to always look around you, whether you’re in the grocery store or on the street. Make keeping your eyes open a habit. Never assume that at any given moment a woman isn’t checking you out.

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