If you are a Don Juan who’s keen on keeping your relationship with the woman you’re currently with, avoid taking her for granted.

You may find this hard to believe, but it is much easier to take another man’s woman than you might think. Most men (especially in long term relationships) neglect their woman and take the relationship for granted. They stop thinking about how to please her and generally don’t bother to pay attention to her needs.

This makes it much easier for other men to grab the opportunity and steal your woman. A man who neglects his relationship (and woman) is easy to spot. And thus the woman is a prime target for other guys.

You can Keep Any Woman You Like Forever Yours by Keeping Her Satisfied and Feeling Cared For.

A little caring and tenderness is required to keep the lady happy and to nurture the relationship. By neglecting her, whether it is ignoring her when you are concentrating on sports or never offering to help around the home, all these are signs to her that you are losing interest in her and taking her for granted.

Fulfilling your woman’s needs should be your number one priority. If they are not, you can be sure there is another guy just around the corner who will make sure she is happy.

That’s right guys, if your woman has a new male ‘friend’, particularly if she has not had them before, then you could well have something to worry about. And if she insists he is ‘only a friend’ then you could well have more problems ahead unless you get your act together and show her you care like you used to. Follow these seasoned Don Juan or Casanova tips to succeed and keep your woman …

A Handful of Don Juans or Casanovas Have Gotten It from their Experience that No Man Could Ever Go Wrong by Being Open and Honest with Their Partner.

If you want your relationship to be long term, then you must ensure that your feelings towards your woman are always open and honest. In this way you will never have to worry about what she is doing because you have a strong foundation of trust that makes the relationship secure and long lasting.

Contrary to what Most Men Assume, Women actually Admire Men Who Share Their Troubles, Fears, and Insecurities with Them.

This may seem like a no-brainer but there are so many guys out there that bottle up their feelings, keeping everything to themselves and not being completely honest with their partner.

Even if you do feel like this, discussing it and getting it all out in the open will be a huge relief to you. It will also have the guaranteed effect of her respecting you even more for being a man and telling her how you feel. These are both attributes which help the two of you work together to make the relationship that much stronger and keep the partnership going from strength to strength.

When your partner starts to doubt your feelings for her and when being careless and thoughtless or being so tied up in your own ‘thing’ that your neglect her starts to eat away at what you two had, the red flag should be waving.

Any Sensible Man should be Wary of the Signs that His Girlfriend Is Starting To Feel Neglected, before she is Whisked Away by a Less Worthy Man.

When a woman senses that you no longer care for her in the way you used to, she will be unhappy and has probably tried to bring the problem up with you. If there is a man ‘friend’ on the horizon, he may be ready to take her off your hands – and all because you were neglectful.

If this has the ring of truth about it and you know in your heart that you have been taking her for granted, and putting your own needs and fun way ahead of hers, then this is your wake up call.

If you wish to Keep A Woman Glued To You, you need to Treat Her In The Same Manner as When You First Started Dating.

If this is the situation you find yourself headed for, and you have a ‘good’ woman, then it is highly possible that your neglect towards her is driving her to consider her other options. And when another man is in the wings, friend or no friend, it is much easier for her to decide enough is enough.

In the beginning you knew that you had to respect her, and take care of her at all times. But over time you got absorbed into other interests and neglected to do the required ‘upkeep’ on the relationship, putting your needs ahead of hers. The damage done to relationships by this type of neglect can be irreversible.

Revive Her Desire For and Interest In You by Openly Discussing Sex and Preparing Wild Nights with Her.

Using the need for sex to your advantage is a valid way to arouse her interest in you again. The new guy she has lined up is probably just waiting for the time when she can resist him no longer. The caring friendly shoulder to cry on phase will move swiftly to an intimate relationship, at least that is what the new guy is waiting for.

Your best technique for using this to your advantage is to make sure you talk openly about what each of you needs. Visit your local sex shop and buy some toys to spice up the action in the bedroom and take advantages of different environments such as a cheap motel or in the car, anywhere which makes her feel aroused. The most important aim of this strategy is to make her feel desired physically and emotionally.

Next its time to surprise her and allow her all the free time to do what she wants when she wants. When she has become so used to all your attention again, and is basking in your admiration and kindness towards her, you might want to suggest that she spend some time with her new man friend.
This can be a risky strategy and is only to be recommended if you are quite sure that all the extra love and attention you have lavished on her in the past couple of months has paid off.

Use Reverse Psychology to Reinforce Your Concern and Affection For Her, Both of which are Enough to Make Any Woman Cozy Up To You.

You can say that you don’t want to be responsible for her neglecting her friends and understand if she would like some time with them. This will appear to make you even more loving and attentive, and will probably result in her wanting to spend more time with you.

Assuming she sees him now, he will soon pick up on the fact that she is not going be intimate with him and set his eyes on someone else’s woman. At this point your partner will see him for what he really was – a vulture waiting to jump on her.

The last step is to keep adding passion upon passion. Don’t let her think that you only changed your habits and became more loving because of the threat of another guy. As long as you keep your woman’s needs completely fulfilled you shouldn’t have anything to worry about.

Use the Very Same Techniques that Work For Any Successful Don Juan or Casanova in dating, in Wooing Your Own Girl and Winning Her Back Before You Even Lose Her.

Many women are emotionally needy for a variety of reasons and they often need men to validate them. They want men to assure them that they are desirable, sexy and beautiful and that they are loved for more than just being an efficient housekeeper with cooking abilities.

The key to achieving this is to take her out someplace special, like her favourite restaurant or a movie and take the time to talk to her. Ask about her aims and desires in life and what she dreams of achieving. Try to avoid the trap of falling into discussions about the kids or home repairs.

She wants to know that you cherish and care for her deeply on an emotional and physical level.

The biggest mistake that most men make is that they become too used to being comfortable and their tiniest needs taken care of, by their loving partner, on a daily basis.

The result of this is that they take their woman for granted. To counteract this feeling within her, before it is too late, compliment her from time to time. There is no need to do it too often as that may seem phony.

Just pick something about her and tell her how much you like it. You used to boast about being a ‘new man’ and helping with the dishes – what happened to that?

If you enjoy your car you maintain it from time to time, don’t you? Well it is even more important to protect and maintain the relationship with your partner.

Even when you do spend time in taking care of your woman’s needs, you are still going to come across rough times. That is just life. There are always times of great elation and times of feeling low in all relationships, and this is perfectly normal.

In times like this, stay very much aware of the positives in your life. Don’t lament over what could have been. We all make choices and we are all adults and we live with those choices.

Focus on how well she takes care of you, how much she always puts what you need first. You should be reciprocating and, if you are not, you could be in for trouble.

The best way to keep your union a strong one is to focus on the positive aspects and to work together in improving those that are not so positive.

The main thing is to give your partner the proper attention she deserves on a daily basis and in this way hard times will not seem so very hard, and will in fact pull you two together. A positive attitude is very likely to re-create a positive relationship with your special lady.

When the single guy traditional approach to pickups failed repeatedly, guys teamed up and found that working together gave them a better chance of scoring with their desired chick.

Whilst it was the solution to the problem at the time, many women have caught on to this technique and have adapted their own techniques to thwart the wingman pickup strategy.

The most successful counter-strategy for men for this maneuver is defined by seasoned Don Juans or Casanovas as ‘The Wingwoman Coalition’ (maybe you prefer ‘Wingwoman Union’ or ‘Wingwoman Partnership’). When used correctly, and working on the assumption that you are not a complete creep and are reasonable looking, this technique rarely fails and has a massive conversion rate of 90%.

To master this powerful and successful original Don Juan or Casanova strategy, read on …

Preselection: Value Being Affirmed Ahead By Other Women

It is a known fact that pre-screened men are more successful in scoring. It has been scientifically proven.

Any successful Don Juan or Casanova has Scored Dozens Of Women by First Scoring Off Similar Women.

Men who have already passed the ’screening’ test of another equally attractive female, stand a much higher chance of achieving their goals with their next selected target.

Your presence in the company of another woman of equal value to that of your target confirms your value to the object of your desire.

The Law of Supply & Demand (aka The Law of Scarcity) – Telegraphing That You Are ‘Scarce’, and Hard-To-Get

To understand this point, recall one basic economic principle which the commercial world has been employing to great effect for centuries – the Law of Scarcity.

If the person or organization trying to sell the product limits the availability of the product, whilst also creating a ‘need’ for it, then it makes this product (you) more scarce and at the same time more desirable. This is leveraging the economists’ view as a parallel for the explanation of the classic ‘Wingwoman’ strategy, but for all the same reasons as with any other product, it works powerfully in the game of dating and seduction.

By Adapting The Law of Scarcity into your own dating life, You Make More Women ‘Demand’ For You after They See That Your ‘Supply’ Is Consumed By This Wingwoman.

In appearing to already have scored a ‘perfect ten’, you instantly become much harder to get and present a challenge to this perfect ten who is very accustomed to men falling at her feet and doing precisely what she wants when she wants.

Decreased availability, by appearing to have been ‘taken’ by your ‘wingwoman’ makes you that much more desirable. It is very sound economic principle that underlays this almost fail-proof ‘Wingwoman Technique’.

Now consider this principle as applied to really beautiful successful and perfect women – if they think you are already taken, by seeing you with this ‘Wingwoman’ (who should be in their league looks-wise at the very least) they are going to think you are taken, and want you even more.

Any determined Don Juan or Casanova can Make ‘Perfect 10’ Women Beg For His Attention simply by Focusing His Own Attention To His Wingwoman.

The fact that you appear to be already ’spoken for’ only increases your value in the eyes of the ‘Perfect 10′ and makes you even more of a challenge to them.

‘Perfect Ten’ women are used to calling the shots and having any guy she wants at her beck and call anytime, any day and anywhere. If you were in her presence alone, and appeared to be available, it could actually have the reverse of the effect you are aiming for.

The perceived value from the ‘Perfect Ten’s’ point of view is that you are great enough to have already apparently been ensnared by another ‘Perfect Ten’. If the woman you are trying to attract believes that you are highly desired by others, hence your demand outweighs your supply, then your value will go up.

These ‘Perfect Ten’ women Enjoy Challenges and Going After Challenging Men, particularly Those Who Are Already ‘Taken’.

She also sees you as a ‘challenge’ to her, particularly as from her point of view, there is another woman who beat her to it. Most women of this calibre are extremely competitive, not to mention jealous, which gives this woman, who usually finds all guys a pushover, a serious challenge (or so she thinks).

Having a wingwoman elevates your status even more. You become the ultimate catch to this ‘Perfect Ten’ who will consider beating off this other woman to get the pick of the crop: this is one of her main missions in life.

Now consider this principle as applied to really beautiful successful and perfect women – if they think you are already taken, by seeing you with this ‘Wingwoman’ (who should be in their league looks-wise at the very least) they are going to think you are taken, and want you even more.

The fact that you appear to be already ’spoken for’ only increases your value in the eyes of the ‘Perfect 10′ and makes you even more of a challenge to them.

Your Wingwoman Helps Provide Social Proof of Your Desirability and Worthiness To The Perfect Ten

Having a ‘wingwoman’ brings the element of competition into the game and makes other women even keener to get you, because women usually want what other women have.
In essence, your ‘Wingwoman’ is elevating your status and adding value to you as a man, because your target perceives that another woman (your wingwoman) has already preselected you.

In the mind of the target, because you have other attractive women around you, you instantly become more appealing to her.

Your Wingwoman Helps To Evoke Jealousy in The Perfect Ten

The fact that the Wingwoman can stay in your periphery, enjoying all manner of intimate relations with you, while the ‘Perfect 10′ woman stays outside the boundaries of your interactions, can cause the latter to view the former (i.e., Wingwoman) with a combination of envy and jealousy.

This only raises your perceived value in the eyes of the ‘Perfect 10′ and makes you even more of an object of seduction to them.

Make any ‘Perfect 10′ woman HUNGRY For You by Making Her Jealous of the Wingwoman You Choose.

In this way having a wingwoman of similar status to your target raises a tinge of jealousy in your target, who is accustomed to getting whichever men she wants, when she wants them. You can use this characteristic to level the playing field in your favour.

A less obvious advantage of having a very attractive ‘wingwoman’ (but one which is not to be overlooked) is that it truly helps to ‘seed’ an idea in her mind of your worth. This means she realizes that you are in demand by other women of equal quality, and this makes you even more desirable to her.

Other Reasons Why this Strategy Works – Helps a Hot Woman to Gain Validation

In choosing the Wing Woman over the Perfect Ten, you already conveyed that you are a selector and you set standards! This makes you a greater challenge, because seducing you away from the Wingwoman is going to take some effort, and more importantly when she succeeds, it helps her to affirm that she is desirable and more worthy than the wingwoman. This explains why, all so often, you have heard of stories of hot women going to bed with a bad boy personality who sleeps around with other women, but who are all quite alluring, because the hot woman wants an affirmation that she is beautiful herself.

Make Any Woman Want You To Score Her by Choosing The Appropriate Wingwoman to Make Her Desire The Position Of.

Yes! Hot women are extremely competitive and do need a constant stream of validation of their own worth and beauty, especially when they meet someone who raises their doubts over their appeal.

The kudos and vanity in ’snatching’ you from another attractive woman satisfies the narcissistic nature of your target. More value is accorded to you – you are much more highly ‘prized’ by the target since you were taken from another woman that already gives you ‘instant value’.

So in understanding this strategy completely and how it works, you will realize that the wingwoman does not have to be the equal of the Perfect Ten in the area of physical beauty, but she should have some other features that the target recognizes as being equal to or close to her own status.

If You Can, Get the Perfect Ten’s Trusted Friend as Your Wingwoman

Truly, your ‘Wingwoman’ does not need to be physically as attractive as ‘The Perfect Ten’ woman who is your target. Having some attributes that make her someone your target admires, often, is good enough.

To Make This Strategy Work, a Don Juan or Casanova should Choose His Wingwoman Carefully: Either a Very Successful, Intelligent Girl, or simply a Friend of your ‘Perfect 10′ target.

Qualities such as elegance and style, or success in her chosen career field as well as intelligence and being witty and eloquent could be examples of some traits that the perfect ten hottie admires in the ‘Wingwoman’ – a lady in your game. Or your Wingwoman could be a trusted friend of the ‘Perfect Ten’ target, thus elevating your status and credibility in the target’s eyes even further.

Indeed, having been validated by one of her closest friends is the best possible reference you could ever receive, since your target hottie knows and trusts your wingwoman’s judgment and opinions implicitly.

And who knows – perhaps your target hottie is hiding a secret to herself, after listening to all the positive feedback that has reached her via her trusted friend? Everyone has heard stories of best friends betraying friendship, and stealing their best friend’s boyfriend. What happened often was they were eventually caught in the act together, to the horror of the person who discovers that her close friend and her own boyfriend has betrayed her! (This book, though, is not encouraging you to do the same, but is alerting you to the possibility that a close friend’s compliments and accolades does indeed have a material impact on another woman’s judgment of a man’s worth or desirability, regardless of whether the ‘referring’ woman is a hottie or just an average-looking woman, which does not matter!)

Make Sure that Your Wingwoman’s Attributes and Credibility are Satisfactory Enough to Gain the Trust of Your Target Lady.

The attributes of your ‘wingwoman’, and her credibility to the target hottie, often combine to raise your perceived desirability to the woman whom you consider as the ‘Perfect Ten’. Physical appeal of your wingwoman is important, but not as important as the credibility that the Perfect ten finds in her closest friend’s judgement. Thus, in the eyes of the target hottie, you could then be perceived as a great catch, and women all want men they believe are a great catch! Getting such a man, who is already desired by other women, or a man who is at or above her league (depending on the strength of the accolades and positive third-party references she receives), makes getting him all the more satisfying for herself, instead of the man she flatly rejected the other day.

Utilize The Competitive Nature of Women in The Dating and Mating Game!

It is in the female’s nature to compare themselves to other women. This fact can be utilized to your advantage. It is hardwired into their brain-circuitry. Therefore, physical endowments and looks of another woman are often just the tip of the ice-berg. So long as the target hottie is close in league, say, a 7/10 or 8/10 compared with the target hottie, who is a 10/10, this close proximity in league combined with the scenes in which you both behave intimately towards each other, will flip her ‘attraction switches’ in you. This will make her envy that woman and see you as a good catch!

So in understanding this strategy completely and how it works, you will realize that the wingwoman does not even need to be equal to the Perfect Ten in the area of physical beauty, but they should be close in league. Evidences of being the “competitive” center of attention and object of seduction with multiple ladies are more powerful ways to influence perception of who, ultimately, is more desirable.

Selecting Your Wingwoman

You will probably find your ideal ‘Wingwoman’ among these women you know.

Your Ex-Girlfriend:

Choosing Your Ex as Your Wingwoman is A Bit Risky and Entails That Your Relationship Had A Good Closure.

Ex-girlfriends often provide a good source of suitable candidates for the position of ‘wingwoman’. It is essential that you are on good terms with your ex and that no negative vibes are picked up by your target from your ‘Wingwoman’. The idea here is for your wingwoman to be the magnet to draw the target into your circle and to make the opening contact by starting up a conversation.

Make sure that if you select your wingwoman from this group of females, that there are no lingering feelings of resentment on the part of the ex girlfriend so that they do not surface at an inappropriate time.

Your Current Girlfriend:

It is Even Riskier to Use Your Current Girlfriend as Your Wingwoman, so make sure you WEIGH DOWN YOUR PRIORITIES before continuing.

You may be on thin ice if you use your current girlfriend as you wingwoman, so tread extremely carefully here.

Women have an instinct about situational awareness, and if she picks up on the fact that she is actually helping you to ensnare your next conquest, it will not be a pretty scene.

Just remember that all is fair in love and be as careful as you can in this situation.

Your Other Female Admirers:

You may Hit Two Birds With One Stone by Using One of Your Female Admirers as Your Wingwoman, as you make yourself and her Both Happy.

This group is probably the elite of the ‘Wingwoman’ categories. Most men have a group of women who are acquaintances, whether they be colleagues at your present employers, or previous, or women you used to hang out with at college or the gym.

Amongst these ladies is sure to be the perfect ‘wingwoman’. It is much better if your selected woman actually does still admire you, and like you, as these qualities will be obvious in her interaction with you, and on full view for the target to see.

Your Best Friend’s Woman

When All the Above Scenarios are Not Possible, you may Ask For Your Best Buddy’s Girlfriend’s Help, but Only After You’re Sure of Certain Things.

This suggestion assumes that your best buddy and his woman are both up for it, and there is not a hint of jealousy from your buddy. It also assumes that you would never in a million years consider hitting on your best friend’s woman.

But be aware that at this crucial point in the game, you should display no interest whatsoever in your target. On no account make or hold eye contact.

You must rely solely on your wingwoman to attract the other woman and then to open a dialogue for you.

Women Admire Men who Get Along Well With Females, so Bringing Female Relatives Along Into The Game would Be of Help To You.

Your Sister

Men who get along well with their female siblings are highly attractive to other women. The other women see it as proof that you are a man who is well versed in being around a certain type of woman. The idea here is for your sister to be the magnet to draw the target into your circle and to make the opening contact with your target by starting up a conversation. This will create a chain reaction that results in you scoring big-time.

Cousins

Probably the elite of the ‘Wingwoman’ categories, if you are lucky enough to have a cousin who is also a ‘Perfect Ten’ then she should be your first choice, assuming that she has not been secretly in love with you since you were ten.

Family allegiance is strong and they will do their utmost to make sure of your success. It will become a matter of pride to them that you two teamed up and got one over on someone who is not a part of your family.

Playing Hard To Get

Always make sure that you never permit anyone to take your company for granted, or to assume you will always be available.

In order to establish your value in the eyes of your potential target, it is best that the other woman already values you. She is guaranteed to take other women’s judgement of you into account when she assesses your desirability, and will definitely be affected by their judgement of you.

By reading and digesting this invaluable Don Juan or Casanova’s guide to recruiting the assistance of a ‘Wingwoman’, you will dramatically increase your chances of scoring with a chick that you may otherwise consider out of your league.

Scientists insist that most communication is shown through actions and expressions, before we even start a verbal conversation. Assuming the boffins have it right, then it seems obvious that we can create interest and attraction in a woman without the need for words.

People, Particularly The Fairer Gender, are created in such a way that They could Communicate Without The Need For Words.

Women are far more highly attuned to receiving subtle messages via expressions and so are quick to catch on to even the tiniest nuance of action or gesture.

The aim of this silent attraction is to lead to a verbal flirting session which, when combined with more actions, will lead to the ultimate aim – a score.

Knowing how to Attract Any Woman Without Any Word At All, combined with Proper Grooming and Decent Clothing, all work without fail in Helping You Score.

We all know that the first impression is almost instant, and is often created without any exchange of words, so make sure your other silent messengers like grooming and clothes are all speaking the same silent language, and not letting you down by declaring you a slob.

Here are some tips to help you conquer the silent approach and give you tips on how to get a head start using nonverbal communications.

A Longer-Than-Usual Eye Contact is One of the Most Potent Weapons any Don Juan or Casanova could and should Use To Attract Any Woman He Likes.

The first tip should be considered one of the most powerful in your player’s tool kit. Before you are even close enough to your target to speak, your eyes should meet. When humans are interested in each other, they make eye contact. There is a fixed time for this to convey the meaning ‘oh hello I see you’. But everyone must have heard about the trick of holding eye contact with your hottie a couple of second longer than the norm.

This has an entirely different meaning that is different from the quick ‘I see you glance’. It shows you like what you see, and that you want to see and learn more. After holding her glance for about four seconds, try to ensure it is her who glances away first. Don’t be discouraged; this is how it should be.

Never has Distance Stopped any Don Juan or Casanova from Grabbing The Eyes and Interest of That Hot Girl.

If you are on opposite sites of a room, and each engaged in conversation with another person, then while continuing the chat with the person you are talking to, from time to time, keep looking at your target to see if she is doing the same thing with you. If she is, you have made the first non-verbal contact.

If she isn’t checking you out, then try to ‘catch her eye’ and hold it for four or five seconds again. Assuming you succeed at this, the next step is catching her eye again, but this time turning on the most subtle but sincere smile in your repertoire. Assuming she smiles back, even slightly for a split second, then you’ve cracked it.

Even a Woman’s Posture and Most Minute Movements could Give Away Whether She’s Waiting For You To Get Her Or Not.

Take note of how she is standing. A neutral stance with at least one arm by her side and relaxed is a sign she is open to conversation. If she is seated and a leg or knee is pointing towards your location, this is another subconscious hint that she would like to interact with you.

The amount of information you can pick up from facial expressions alone speaks volumes. Catching her staring at you with a lick of the lips or a flutter of the eyelashes are all subconscious signs that show she is interested in learning more about you.

Another massive clue is fiddling or playing with the hair, like pulling it back from the face and shaking it, ostensibly to get it out of the way. Make no mistake; women know that their crowning glory has a great hold over men and use it to communicate regularly.

The logic behind the hair fiddling is that she is trying to draw attention to her hair and to fix it to make herself appear more attractive to you.

Often the next step after meeting and holding your gaze and giving you the merest flicker of a smile, the next action from your target is probably that she will walk past you, with the intention of making herself more available.

After Being Receptive to All Of Her Actions and Giving Away Your Interest In Her Through Your Own, Expect Any Interested Party to Take Further Steps.

She is also hoping that you will notice her more and is putting herself in your proximity to make contact easier for you.

If she is sitting down, crossing and uncrossing her legs repeatedly is another way in which women try to grab a guy’s attention. For the most part, all of these actions are subliminal signals and not done consciously.

You may also find as well as the walking past you, or even brushing against you technique, she gradually gets closer and closer to you often to within a few feet if they want the man to initiate conversation.

Note any physical contact she makes with you. If she touches your arm or your hand that’s a surefire sign that she is interested in you.

Another seemingly insignificant move is if she ‘accidentally’ brushes against you when walking by, murmuring a soft ‘excuse me’. This is designed to remind you of your earlier non-verbal communication and to tell you she is ready for more.

Most men are not as adept as women when it comes to automatic gestures designed to convey your desire for contact. But don’t be dismayed, these things are easily mastered and should quickly become part of any player’s tool kit.

Chill out! Every Don Juan or Casanova knows that Once They’ve Captured The Woman’s Interest, she’s Bound To Come For You By Herself.

Try to keep your facial muscles relaxed. Relax your jaw muscles and don’t clench your teeth. Have the hint of a smile curling the corners of your mouth for the next time you make eye contact and hold her gaze again for a second or two longer than she is comfortable with. Allow her to be the first to look away probably with a downward look and flutter of her eyelashes.

Check your posture, stand tall and straight but in a relaxed manner. Avoid fidgeting and over use of your arms for gestures.

Convey Your Manliness to All Potential Targets through Your Posture, Hand Movements, and Even in Choosing Your ‘Territory’.

Overall you should be maintaining a complete body gesture that is soft and fluid, rather than quick or jerky.

The Alpha male is always confident and dominant in a crowd, even if he does not know all of them.

The first strategy when entering a room is to find an area to mark as ‘your’ territory from which you can survey all the potential females in the area. This is usually with your back against a wall. If you are sitting on a sofa, put your drink and plate of nibbles on the table beside you. In doing this you are marking out space as being ‘yours’.

However you feel, try to relax and maintain a good posture, hold your head up high and indicate that you are the Alpha male in this space. This is an ideal position from which to mark your target and initiate non-verbal contact by holding the gaze for longer than usual, ensuring the target looks away first. This means you are asserting your dominance.

The Eyes are Very Important in Relaying To Women that you are an Alpha Male who can Take Control, Protect Them, and Keep Them Safe.

Use this position of power to assess your targets, and if your selected hottie looks down after breaking eye contact, she is interested. If your target merely looks away it means that they are not particularly interested in you right now.

In most societies, including developed ‘Western’ society, the person who looks away or breaks eye contact first is viewed as being submissive. This is not usually appealing to most women so avoid it at all costs.

However you feel inside, it is essential to maintain a steady gaze with the hint of a smile and to remain feeling completely confident and in control of the situation.

Using silent language to establish yourself as the Alpha Male in any group will show that you are well able to combine being a provider with being protective and without losing your status as the ‘top dog’.

It also shows your potential targets that you are a master of social rules and etiquette and leads them to believe that they will be safe in your hands.

For whatever reason they may have, women are known to test men who try to make overtures to them especially if the man’s motive is personal. The tests begin even from the initial meeting, the first date and even during the relationship stage. Failing any of a woman’s tests almost always leads to the breakup of a relationship. For this reason alone, men must be aware of what and how women conduct their random tests.

To all Casanovas out there: beware of women’s version of “reward and punishment”: the ‘carrot and stick technique’.

These random tests that women give men can be compared to the systematic persuasion methodology of reward and punishment used at home, at work, in school, and almost anywhere else. It is also commonly referred to by laymen as the ‘carrot and stick technique’ to encourage a specific behavior pattern.

The ‘carrot and stick technique’ works by taking advantage of our fear of failure and their rejection.

Women are very good at doing this kind of behavior modification to men maybe because of their emotions or their physical weakness compared to men. Whatever the reason, the tests that women give to men in the course of their association with one another also take advantage of men’s fear of rejection and failure!

Never fear rejection. Look at it as a learning experience towards bigger things in the future for that’s what rejections really are—learning experiences in order to avoid committing the same mistakes in the future. It’s okay to make a mistake, what’s not okay is to commit the same mistake twice or over and over again—that is stupidity!

To be successful in the field of romance and dating, you’ve got to turn tables around and let the woman run after you, Casanova!

Remember, before success there is failure. That’s just the way things work in life. You have to go through a baptism of fire and get things right before success comes into your life. The same holds true in a man-woman relationship.

Do not worry too much about failure; forget the cliché that failure is not an option—that’s only in the movies! Instead of focusing on how much you like to date a particular girl, it should be the other way around: make the girl come after you and like you a lot! As military men say, a good soldier is always willing to die for his country—that may be so but you don’t win wars by dying for your country, you win wars by making the other soldier die for his country!

Women use the ‘carrot and stick technique’ to challenge us, make judgements of us, and trick us into being at their mercy.

When women test men, they judge men by their actions. When women do this regularly, most men usually end up justifying their actions and behaviors, and start explaining things they shouldn’t explain in the first place but by then it’s too late. You are at the mercy of the woman whom you have made into some sort of a headmistress.

You know your woman is testing you if she commands you to do things and treats you badly for no reason.

To test you, a woman may simply ask you to do things for her in an almost imposing and authoritative manner; sometimes she may simply act bitchy for no reason at all just because she feels like being one at the moment.

Be wary, once you let your guard down and let a girl have her way on you, you’re on your way to being her slave!

These types of tests are so well crafted and have evolved dramatically but they are all deliberately designed in such a way as to determine whether you would allow them to take advantage of your goodness because men naturally cozy up to women. When you fall for this kind of surprise attack, she will undoubtedly begin stepping on you every chance she gets!

Get your act together by showing her that you’re a real man: Be dominant and let her know it’s your call.

To counter this maneuver most women are wont to do most of the time, men should play women in their own game by putting off what the woman requests. He does this calmly and diplomatically.

Although being a nice guy gets you brownie points, impressing and attracting women with your emotional strength and self-confidence is much more effective than kowtowing to them.

These type of women fall under two categories: one whom you should avoid, and another whom you should play the game with.

Women like to engage in these testing games and you have to determine the type of woman you’re with in order to determine why they’re doing what they’re doing. There are basically two categories under which women fall under when it comes to testing men.

A woman who puts men through tests by making eccentric requests is one who simply loves to test guys for the fun of it. More than likely, these women have unresolved emotional baggage. It is best to stay away from them.

On the other hand, someone who likes to test guys once in a while is one who’s on a fishing expedition trying to find out if she can manipulate you. To handle this type of women, you can let her know in a joking manner that you know what she’s doing and you can start messing with her mind and even try to turn the tables around.

The best way to handle test-y women is by not giving her a direct answer to her questions or requests to establish that you are not someone to be played games with. Ignoring this woman’s game is one way of establishing your status as higher than hers—something which women want all the time!

It is not easy to be a Top Dog or an Alpha Male. But you surely want to enjoy the perks and advantages that come with being one. Do you think you will need to come a long way to become an Al Capone, a Brad Pitt, or an Obama? You should not be surprised that you can be an alpha male in fast and easy ways. You should start by re-assessing and revamping your attitude.

Set your goal to be an alpha male if you want to be one. By attaining the courage and the drive, you can surely attain your goal. To attain a sought-after alpha male status, you should adopt the mentality of a real one. Condition your mind to think like an alpha male. Convince your self each day that you are naturally one. Here are several recommended insights and guidelines you should live by.

Alpha Males are Always Confident no matter What the Circumstances Turn Out To Be

Usually, there will always be an area where a guy can have problems at. Alpha males are not bogged by such problems. Thus, they are exuding utmost confidence all the time. Do you want to appear very confident? Here are some tips. Try your best to always stand straight, pulling your shoulders slightly backwards. Walk straight and keep your head on your focus. Smile with confidence. It will also be best if you will eliminate unlikely mannerisms like fidgeting of hands, folding of arms, and stooping down.

Alpha Males Know how to Treat Others and Win Their Support and Respect

Surely, alpha males are superior but they still know how to listen intently when other people talk. You do not have to be a bully to be one. Thus, there is no need to make fun of people or ridicule them no matter how inferior they may seem to be. Alpha males still value the principle that to command respect, respect should be first accorded to other people. Alpha males also earn respect by being a pleasant company for everyone. Lastly, alpha males know how to use right manners to generate respect from people. No matter how superior and tough you think you are, try not to look funny and disrespectful by avoiding picking nose, scratching of genitals, picking out of underwear, and farting in public.

Alpha Males Do Not Panic Nor Get Nervous, But Always Stay Calm

Remember that alpha males do not look nervous, do not get into pressure, and do not rush things especially around women. If you want to be an alpha male, you should always bear in mind that the moment you walk into a room or a venue, you are the alpha male that everyone will be looking at. There is no need for you to feel shy and timid. You have to always exude your sense of self esteem and self confidence.

Alpha Males are Naturally and Most of the Time, Looking Relaxed

You do not need to be a Buddhist or a meditation master to look and feel naturally relaxed. The underlying principle, again, is to be confident. By thinking that you are always in control of situations, you will not feel any stress and pressure. Instead, you will be calm and peaceful to enjoy life. Be aware always of what you are doing. Always control your actions and your thoughts and everything will flow smoothly.

Alpha Males are Obviously Always Goal Oriented

Identify your goals and your dreams and take active actions to fulfill them. Now is the time you begin efforts to reach those goals. Alpha males know how to plan well to take actions and ultimately attain goals. In the process, they can be scheming and strategic but they are always proactive.

Alpha Males know Exactly How to Look Pleasing and Attractive to Everyone, Especially Women

Fashion is one thing alpha males care less about. But you should notice that all alpha males look pleasant, appealing, and attractive, especially to women. What could be their secret? It is all about attitude. By being careless and confident, alpha males exude this positive aura that makes them fashionably fit with the clothes they wear and the accessories they carry. Because they are physically active, their physiques are in good shape. They are free from annoying body odor and are appearing neat and clean even if their apparels are not too expensive.

Alpha Males Take Quality Time For Themselves

Since alpha males care not about pleasing other people, they spend time to please themselves. To be able to do this, be honest to yourself when identifying your likes and interests. Do not hesitate to go out and do what activities please you even if you are alone. You should worry less about going to the gym alone, dining by yourself, or going mountain climbing without company. This only shows that you fear nothing and that you can go on even without company and help from others.