Are you somehow frustrated about your ability to date and hook up with women you like? If you are, it is high time you assess yourself and classify if you are a ‘nice guy’ or a ‘bad guy.’ In the dating scene, it is not at all bad to be ‘bad.’ In fact, bad boys are considered winners in the dating game. You do not need to absorb and apply dating routines and approaches of aggressive alpha males. But you could use to your advantage the perks of being a bad boy.

There is a long-standing misconception about being a bad boy. To be one, you need not seek and get into troubles. By just being confident, independent, adventurous, careless, wild and free-spirited, you could easily become one and instantly enjoy winning in the dating game. Being bad boy commands so much balance in behavior. Here are some guidelines on how you could adopt a bad boy stance and image so you could always succeed in hooking up with women.

Learn to Set Your Very Own Dating Rules

Bad boys naturally take their rough and firm stance from the rejection and prejudice of the society. Bad boys do not usually meet the standards set by the norms and the society for being an ideal or good boy. Consequently, bad boys tend to set their own rules, which most women find sexy. Bad boys exhibit strong survival skills and superiority. To be the effective bad boy in dating, always be in control, resist giving in to demands of women and take the dominating role. Most women love to be dominated by their stronger, confident and reliable men.

Strive to Be Real No Matter What

Before proceeding to be a bad boy, settle your inner issues and accept yourself for who you are. You sure have flaws, inabilities and unlikely features. To be a real bad boy, just be real. There is no need to put up a front. You do not need to be artificially sweet to please a woman. It could only make her throw up in time. You do not need to be insecure about your scars, your warts and your being a stutterer. Do you think you are not that smart? Bad boys are confident about themselves, thinking as if they are smartest guys in town when in truth there are many good guys far brighter than they are. The funny thing is that bad boys carry themselves well, to the delight of seeking women.

Assume the ‘Protector’ Role

Of course, women will always want to feel totally safe and secure when you are around. That means you should be able to give her an impression that you are a strong wall to protect her from all troubles. You should be able to get into brawls with other men just to protect her. Maximum tolerance should be practiced, but you should limit boundaries so you know the perfect timing to get into fights just to protect your date. Bad boys also know how to stand by what they believe are right. Such men are strong, reliable and undeniably sexy to the eyes of most women.

Be Confident in Handling Any Situation

Dating is an opportunity to impress women. To score more points, be confident and effective in making tough decisions, especially when such decisions involve her. Take action independently and act in your own initiative. Bad boys like to decide on their own, without consulting their women. Some women, on the other hand, may not like the idea; but there are more of them who find thrills in it. To be perfectly attractive, act like a bad boy, especially in exuding capability, strong decision and confidence. It may not be sexy asking the opinion of a woman especially on decisions involving dates. Always take control.

Be Brave in Facing Unlikely Consequences of Your Actions

Bad boys are afraid of nothing, even rejections. If you want to truly impress your woman, be responsible and accountable for all your actions. There is no need to fret about what other people will say. Bad boys do not care much about what other people will say. Show your woman that you are always firm in standing by your actions and decisions. Try not to be too emotionally timid, overly anxious and cautious so you could exhibit some sense of sensitivity and emotions, which will further boost your sexiness, in the eyes of women.

Bad boys walk the walk and talk the talk. If you are not sure you could do being a bad boy well, just be yourself and defy the norms, just to stand on your opinions and beliefs. This way, you could be the bad boy you are trying to be. To win in the dating game, remember some words: courage, confidence, independence and adventure. Do not be afraid to lose and be rejected, but always be ready to move on and find other women to date, if initiatives fail.

When it comes to dating, bad boys stand out because they are almost always able to lure more women. You could learn so much from bad boys’ approach to dating. If you want to make women swoon over you instead of rejecting your invitations, then, you should know by heart and apply several bad boy techniques when attracting women.

You could start by adopting the bad boy look. When you say looks, it does not mean fashion, though bad boys typically wear rugged, tough and rock-star outfits. To attain the natural bad boy look, there is a need to set the mood. Condition yourself to be tough, serious and furious to imbibe that natural bad boy look. It should exude from within. Here are some other effective guidelines you could try out if you want to attract and date more women, the bad boy style.

Do Not In Any Way Try to Impress Her

Nice guys almost always fail because they think impressing women is the key to dating (and getting laid). Learn from the failures of good guys. They think that by impressing women, they could likely please them. The usual results: nice guys fall nervous, get self conscious, feel tensed, stutter and exhibit stilted behavior, which all could instantly turn any normal woman away. If you want to take the bad boy approach, just be calm, relaxed and laid back. It could be effective if you condition your mind to not think about impressing any woman. Instead, set your mind to expect women to impress you.

Do Not Give Her the Chance to Test You

In general, women conduct character tests without directly stating so. They may subject you to such tests to determine your level of composure, drive and dominance. Usually, such tests are done by challenging you, playing hard to get, requesting special actions to please her or changing plans without notice. Such actions will surely annoy you. If you react violently and unlikely, you could possibly fail the test. How to win this one? First, do not give her the idea or hint that you are aware of her tactics. Then, deal with all her tests accordingly. Do not give in to her requests and stick to your decisions no matter what. This way, you will exhibit a firm and confident attitude that will certainly make her realize that you are the guy she should know better.

Be A Master Kisser

The art of kissing is somehow mastered by bad boys. It could be their sense of confidence or just their plain wild, adventurous personality. Nice guys tremble when kissing women on dates, especially if they hardly know each other. In general, bad boys kiss very well, even on first dates. How do you make the kissing scene romantic and overly exciting? Start by doing a little flirting action. Touch her hair and utter simple compliments. If she smiles and seems not to turn away from you, continue stroking her hair, this time, looking down to her lips and then her eyes. If she does not resist, attack—go and kiss her. Be comfortable and passionate in doing so. Who knows, one thing might lead to another and it could be one of your lucky nights.

Try to be Comfortable at All Times

Bad boys do not run intimidated. If you want to make good at it, always feel comfortable with yourself, with your date and with everything around you. Establish eye contact and never let go of it. Nice guys almost always find it hard to keep the rapport especially when they feel somehow intimidated. As a bad boy, be different and bold. Remember: you need not feel afraid or intimidated by anything.

Make Your Date Drool with Anticipation

To accelerate your attraction approach, try to build a level of anticipation. This could be a little tricky but it is fun and surely effective, you will be surprised how you could manipulate her and make her aggressive. As you kiss, hold hands or be intimate, stop without warning and lean back. She will be intrigued and surprised. By the time it shows in her face, resume what you are doing; only this time make it more passionate and intense. Do several repetitions until you observe she exhibits a sexual tension, more of anticipating for an explosive intimacy.

Play a little and Make her Exude Her Animalistic Responses

Bad boys are afraid of nothing. You should care less about what other people will say or think. As you go out on a date, start flirting by becoming more touchy. If she does not resist, go a little high notch. Smell her shoulders, then move up to her neck. At the same time, run your hand gently up the back of her hair, to the neck. Tell her how she turns you on. In no time, expect her to bring out the animal in her. If you are so lucky, you could cap your romantic date in bed. Expect her to initiate calling you and inviting you to dates. Bad boys are just so lucky.

Bad boys are disliked by parents who want the best men for their daughters. The society in general has higher regards for nice guys than bad boys. But why is it that when it comes to dating, bad guys get more leverage and do better compared to good guys? Interestingly, more women are attracted to bad boys more than they could be attracted to nice guys.

Experts could only have one simple explanation. Women like bad guys more because they want challenges. Nice guys are so pleasant they will almost always make lives easier for their women. In contrast, many women dislike the idea. Being empowered that they are, many women want to enjoy the sense of self actualization they get from taking the challenges posed by bad guys.

In terms of excitement, bad guys seem to always have the greater advantage. They are intriguing enough to keep the interest of any woman. They are unpredictable, making every date surprising and full of unexpected occurrences. Moreover, bad guys are also seen as more fun and adventurous, thus many women find them totally not boring, compared to the typical nice guys.

If you classify yourself as among those nice guys, you should strive and aim to develop the bad boy personality in you. You do not need to be delinquent and set aside your values to do so. You want to win more dates and get more women to admire you? Here are some practical measures you should do:

Pull out a Fashion Makeover

Bad boys have that animalistic appeal. It begins on the way they look. There is no such thing as bad boy fashion, but you could observe the kind of attitude bad guys wear that make them look alluring and irresistible to women. Mess up that hair a little bit. Try not to shave for a few days. Go out on jeans instead of formal pants and wear shirts that will accentuate your masculine shape and muscles.

Nice guys’ fashion is easy and pleasing to the eyes. But in comparison, bad boys’ fashion gets more animalistic responses from women. The rugged look, worn with so much attitude and confidence will work wonders if you want to develop a bad boy personality.

Develop A Sense of Independence

If you have a set of beliefs, be firm on standing by them. You should not care about who your beliefs and actions might upset or about reactions you might attain. Remember that women will take you for who you actually are. Do not feel insecure or unconfident.

In contrast, independence is shed off by nice guys, who almost always seem to agree about things everybody says. Nice guys tend to lose themselves by acting in consideration with what people might say, feel or do. Women like their men firm and principled.

Try to Be as Spontaneous as Possible

Bad boys are naturally spontaneous. They tend to do exactly what they want, whenever, wherever. What is important to bad guys is that they have fun and they enjoy the moment. They go out without plans and could take any woman with them. What is surprising is that there are more women who like to be a part of such unplanned and spontaneous activities of bad boys. In this way, women assert that bad guys do not become boring and they tend not to be predictable, giving a sense of excitement, thrill and adventure.

Employ Disconnectors In Conversations

It will not be hard shifting from being a complacent nice guy into being an independent bad boy. But you could also start setting the mood by watching the way you carry conversations with women. Shed off your quiet and sensitive personality by applying disconnectors, statements that intentionally disagree with conversation flow. Do not hesitate to disagree with women, who will almost always find it interesting to converse with a man with a different opinion.

Turn Into A Snob

You may have been nice and pleasant all your life. If you usually smile to everyone when you go out, this time, try to act as if you do not know people. Women like snobbish bad guys, who to them look challenging, mysterious and hard to please. You do not need to be Mr. Personality when with a woman. By being a little rude, you are surely getting her attention and interest.

One of the most puzzling phenomena of relationships is the undeniable fact that though women are looking for good guys to settle down with, they have this desire to live life on the danger zone and explore a relationship with men they perceive as bad guys!

As incongruous as it seems, men should take full advantage of this irony and put it to good use to their advantage in order to get more than their fair share of booty in the dating game! Just open your eyes and you will see several examples of that validate the theory that women always fall for the men who are bad guys!

One thing you should realize is that it is not simply being bad to for the sake of being bad but more like projecting a bad (read dangerous, exciting, thrilling, confident and adventurous) personality and lifestyle that can spellbind women and make them passionate with desire.

You don’t necessarily have to dress up and look like Indiana Jones or live the daredevil life of Dominic Toretto but you can successfully project and develop the ultimate bad boy image if you follow these four simple tips.

Always Carry Yourself in a Relaxed and Confident Manner, Do Not Loose Your Cool!

It’s all about how you carry and project yourself in front of others. It’s very similar to being on stage. Your success depends on how well you can project the attitude and personality of the cool bad boy that attract tons of women.

To put it briefly, bad boys are always relaxed, confident and cool no matter what kind of situation they are in—they are always in control and never allow themselves to fall to pieces simply because things did not work out as planned.

Bad Guys Never Allow Themselves to be Tested by Women, They Are the Ones Who Test Women!

It is not without reason that women have a partiality to test men every chance they get. They do this to determine how far they can go in manipulating men and to establish control.

Bad boys never allow themselves to be manipulated or controlled by women. For you to be successful as a bad boy, you have to ignore all attempts of any woman to put you to the test. You simply ignore her tricks or call her out on what she’s trying to do!

Bad boys do not brown nose or fall head over heels over women! You do everything and anything for them because you want to, not because they tell you to!

In fact, you are supposed to be the one to test women to find out if they meet your standards—and you tell them so!

Act Like Hooking Up Is The Least of Your Concerns. Not!

Women are aware that men are always on the lookout for women they can hook up with. This knowledge gives them ample warning and defense to size up any man they meet or encounter especially in bars and nightclubs on weekends!

Well, this time around it’s your chance to turn the tables on women who are expecting this! Enjoy meeting women, have fun talking to them, tease and flirt them all you want but never hit on them or try to hook up!

Just enjoy their company and act like you don’t care whether she goes home with you or not for the evening! This way, you are literally separating yourself from other men because of your I-couldn’t-care-less attitude! As a result, she’ll be the one who’ll put in the efforts into chasing you because of your seeming display of disinterest!

Your Life is Full of Adventure, Excitement and Challenges!

Women get very excited by men who live adventurous and challenging lives! Something about the inherent buzz of taking risks and living adventurously make women fall for men who live this kind of adrenaline-laced lifestyle—a thrill they cannot achieve in their 9 to 5 job!

Excitement does not necessarily mean you have to live dangerously, substitute interesting for dangerous and you’ve got a whole range of options to choose from to make you stand out from the rest! You can decide on learning how to tune up cars, take up airsoft, or simply take long road trips on weekends to exotic destinations to sample their food and spend time with nature!

The secret is in making it appear that you have all you want in an exciting life and that if she wants to, she can be part of your life not the other way around!

So you see, adopting the bad guy attitude does not necessarily entail being bad in the real term of the word, all it means is being confident, cool, in control and knowing how to handle challenges in order to succeed!

Many guys don’t understand what is meant by a ‘bad boy’. It conjures up men doing bad things to women like abusing women in one way or another.

But in realty a ‘bad boy’ is just a man who does not please a woman by doing everything she expects or asks for when she expects or wants it.

Any Don Juan or Casanova who Wishes to Get Any Girl’s Interest should Learn What A True ‘Bad Boy’ Is: One Who Puts His Own Interests Before Any Girl’s (No Matter How Hot She Is).

It is this seeming lack of interest in the ‘bad boy’ that attracts her interest and labels the man who dares to behave in this manner the tag of ‘bad boy’. So in one way of thinking, being a bad boy is actually a good thing.

In essence, the characteristic that makes a good guy a bad boy is that the bad boy always puts his own best interests, and himself, before that of any lady.

A prime example of bad boy behavior would be canceling a date with a woman simply because a more enticing dating opportunity presented itself at the last minute. When viewed from the seasoned Don Juan or Casanova’s angle, all that the bad boy is really doing is playing the game – without the disguise of doing it solely for the woman’s interest.

So now you see how easy it is to be a good ‘bad boy’. All you have to do is to allow your own self-interests to become your main goal, and don’t turn yourself inside out trying to fit in and please any woman, no matter how cute. Players who have been doing this so long that it becomes second nature to them may find this hard to do at first.

Women are accustomed to guys who do what they want, when they want it. Pleasing them in any way that they can. So a guy who does not conform to these types of actions, is classed as being ‘bad’. In truth the women are curious as to why the ‘bad boy’ acts differently and in doing so you will certainly raise the question in a woman’s mind.

Classic Well Known Bad Boys

It helps to Choose Bad Boys To Emulate, although you don’t need to follow their fashion getup as much as you need to Copy Their Devil-May-Care Attitude Toward Women.

Classic ‘bad boys’ of the silver screen like Marlon Brando, James Dean and Sean Penn spring to mind. They all have the tough exterior, leathers, tattoos, but more significantly they all have the ‘couldn’t care less attitude’ which women find so appealing.

Act Indifferent Towards Her

Hot women are not used to being treated indifferently by guys. Most guys will do anything for them, but bad boys refuse to play her game, and instead, concentrate on their own, making them even more attractive and difficult to attain for the determined hottie.

Dressing The Part Helps You Focus on Bad Boy Traits

Of course, it helps if you are halfway good-looking, but getting your mind around acting the part of the bad boy is much more important than actually dressing like one. Although if you do, you are likely it will give you more credibility in your own mind, as well as that of the ladies.

Traits To Copy To Put You In Bad Boy Mode:

Be the Maverick Who Stands Out From The Crowd

Stand out as a certified Don Juan from the rest of the male pack by Conforming To Your Own Set Of Preferences.

Don’t slavishly follow the latest styles of clothing. Adapt them to your own individual style and strut your stuff. This conveys the message that you know about style but prefer to stick to your own rules, rather than everyone else’s. It marks you out as a leader, not a follower.

Dare To Be Different And Revel in Being Bold

In a bar, be decisive about what you want, don’t simply follow the rest of the guys. Allow the ladies to order first because as a Casanova, you are still a gentleman, but then be strong and stand out from the crowd.

Keep Personal Details Elusive For The Bad Boy Effect

Women Love the Mystery of Bad Boys; so make sure that you Keep Enough Questions On Her Mind that makes her Go On A Quest For You!

Don’t give away information about yourself and never tell anyone more than you absolutely have to about you or your life. Keep your business to yourself and appear elusive. The more enigmatic you seem the better, women love a puzzle.

Show Fickle & Impulsive In a Good Way

Allowing your maverick nature to show in some way will intrigue any woman. Maybe a song comes on you just love, so you grab the nearest hottie (not the target) and whirl her off into a wild frenzy of close action on the dance floor. Only to drop her as soon as the song ends.

These types of ‘bad boy’ actions make your target feel she wants to learn more about you, and to be around you. She is intensely curious as to why you are like you are and intends to find out. These are all positives from the ‘bad boy’ attitude.

The Bad Boy Is Bad – Not Rough Crude or Mean

Just to clarify, although a ‘bad boy’, using this persona you should not be dishonest, deceitful, mean, crude or rude. The bad boy is still a gentleman. His attitude to most things is classic indifference, he could care less either way, especially those things which seem to matter to the others.

Standing alone, he really does not seem to give a damn whether the attention of the most gorgeous lady in the room is on him or not. But it is very likely it will be, for the same reason.

His aloofness makes him appear somewhat unattainable, a definite attraction with any determined woman. Most women love a challenge and always want what it appears they cannot have.

This nonchalant attitude makes him seem unattainable, and even more of a catch in the eyes of the women in his presence. Women are likely to compete fiercely for his attention.

Winning over a seeming maverick who does not appear to care one way or the other is great kudos to a woman. She will be perceived that that much better herself for having pulled off the seemingly impossible.

Rock-Solid Self-Confidence is the Key To Winning The Interest Of Every Hot Momma in your list.

The main factor in pulling off this ‘bad boy’ act is to be supremely self-confident. You can still flirt with woman, but you will be more selective as the ‘bad boy’ and only go for the cream of the crop, who by now will be flocking to your side to discover what is so different about you. The less attainable you appear to be, the more interest you will generate.

Act Disinterested In Women

Standing alone, he really does not seem to give a damn whether the attention of the most gorgeous lady in the room is on him or not. But it is very likely it will be, for the same reason.

Be Great In The Sack And Women Will Spread Word

Woman love to talk, they talk to anyone, and to each other more particularly. To harness the power of female gossip, make sure that you are impressive when it comes to skills in the bedroom.

This blog Casanovasystem.org has many articles on this subject to help you learn more about being a superstar between the sheets. But bad boys tend to go that one step further and act even more dominant. Teasing her until she is out of her mind with desire is one aspect that makes her realize that you can please her or leave her, and do exactly as you please.

Keep Every Woman Guessing Things About You—including whether She Could Turn You Into A Nice Guy Using Her Own Charms!

Another well known ‘bad boy’ trait is to be unpredictable. Take her immediately with barely controlled passion one minute, and then contrast this with a long slow adventure into something she is not familiar with. Be imaginative and use your creativity in capturing this alluring woman with your individual style.

Be Slightly Aloof To A Woman

His aloofness makes him appear somewhat unattainable, a definite attraction with any determined woman. Most women love a challenge and always want what it appears they cannot have.

This nonchalant attitude makes him seem unattainable, and even more of a catch in the eyes of the women in his presence. Women are likely to compete fiercely for his attention.

What Makes Bad Boys So Attractive To Hotties?

You are probably wondering why The Perfect Ten or that gorgeous hottie gives her bad-boy such power and control over her.

The trick to this is fairly easy – she never knows what he will do next. He appears mysterious, doesn’t give away too much about himself, and that kind of mystery is a challenge to a woman who is used to getting things her own way. His confident manner and consistently confident approach entrances her.

Another reason those hot women are attracted to bad boys is that they feel that with their experience and love they can change that bad boy into a nice guy. They represent a challenge to her femininity that is irresistible.

Hot women are not used to being treated indifferently by guys. Most guys will do anything for them, but bad boys refuse to play her game, and instead, concentrate on their own, making them even more attractive and difficult to attain for the determined hottie

Become More Spontaneous and Less Predictable

To keep that hottie attracted to you, you need to play it another way. Instead of returning acts of kindness with even bigger and immediate acts of kindness what you need to do is become more spontaneous and less predictable.

Bad Boys Don’t Suffocate Her With Boredom

Establish Your Reputation as a Carefree, Confident, and Independent Guy, and soon You will Have Women Doting On You!

Bad boys can have an ego the size of Texas, be loud and opinionated but at heart, don’t really care what anyone else thinks of them. It is even possible to be a complete jerk and still score that hottie.

The truth is that bad boys are unpredictable. They don’t ramble on and on about the latest ball game, or bore her to tears with the details of that latest upgrade to your classic car. It is this same old behaviour again and again which will in the end drive her away from the nice guy, and into the arms of that dangerous unpredictable bad boy.

There is another variety of nice guy that will drive her nuts too – that is the normal man who turns into a quivering mass of nerves when approaching a hottie. He is likely to ramble on in the same way as hundreds of other nice guys before him. Again, this is a sure-fire killer of interest in hot women. They’ve heard it all a thousand times before.

And no matter how good looking this guy is, the second she spots that he is going to be a nice guy, just like every other nice guy she will lose interest and know that this is yet another guy she can have and wind around her little finger. So why should she bother?

Learn To Create Attraction Over Affection

If you are the kind of guy that thought showering your woman with gifts and doing everything you can think of to treat her like your Queen is the way to hang on to that hottie, think again.

There can be too much of a good thing you know. This doesn’t mean being nice now and again and treating her to something you know she will love occasionally is a bad thing.

To keep that hottie attracted to you, you need to play it another way. Instead of returning acts of kindness with even bigger and immediate acts of kindness what you need to do is become more spontaneous and less predictable.

You are trying to maintain her attraction to you rather than growing her affection towards you, and giving too many nice things and behaving exactly as she thinks you will is going to reduce your value in the attraction stakes.

The last thing you want her to think of you as is a reliable old comfortable pair of shoes. The ones she wears when she is cleaning up the yard as she knows they don’t pinch and are reliably comfortable and always there. We tend to take regular and reliable things for granted, they lose their mystery and therefore there attraction.

By Challenging Women’s Instinct to Keep A Man Interested In Them and Them Alone, you will find that indeed, Women Enjoy Being With A ‘Bad Boy’.

Using bad boy tactics will counter this very effectively. Keep her walking on eggshells, never quite knowing what to expect from you. You will appear more of a challenge.

Warning – This Routine Can Become Addictive

When you first take on this ‘bad boy’ attitude it may all seem very false to you, and you are bound to take some practice to really get into it. But it is worth persevering, as the rewards are great.

When you start getting positive feedback by scores you thought you could never pull off, the role will become second nature to you. You will learn how to adapt your attitude to any given scenario to reap the rewards.

If you are a Don Juan who’s keen on keeping your relationship with the woman you’re currently with, avoid taking her for granted.

You may find this hard to believe, but it is much easier to take another man’s woman than you might think. Most men (especially in long term relationships) neglect their woman and take the relationship for granted. They stop thinking about how to please her and generally don’t bother to pay attention to her needs.

This makes it much easier for other men to grab the opportunity and steal your woman. A man who neglects his relationship (and woman) is easy to spot. And thus the woman is a prime target for other guys.

You can Keep Any Woman You Like Forever Yours by Keeping Her Satisfied and Feeling Cared For.

A little caring and tenderness is required to keep the lady happy and to nurture the relationship. By neglecting her, whether it is ignoring her when you are concentrating on sports or never offering to help around the home, all these are signs to her that you are losing interest in her and taking her for granted.

Fulfilling your woman’s needs should be your number one priority. If they are not, you can be sure there is another guy just around the corner who will make sure she is happy.

That’s right guys, if your woman has a new male ‘friend’, particularly if she has not had them before, then you could well have something to worry about. And if she insists he is ‘only a friend’ then you could well have more problems ahead unless you get your act together and show her you care like you used to. Follow these seasoned Don Juan or Casanova tips to succeed and keep your woman …

A Handful of Don Juans or Casanovas Have Gotten It from their Experience that No Man Could Ever Go Wrong by Being Open and Honest with Their Partner.

If you want your relationship to be long term, then you must ensure that your feelings towards your woman are always open and honest. In this way you will never have to worry about what she is doing because you have a strong foundation of trust that makes the relationship secure and long lasting.

Contrary to what Most Men Assume, Women actually Admire Men Who Share Their Troubles, Fears, and Insecurities with Them.

This may seem like a no-brainer but there are so many guys out there that bottle up their feelings, keeping everything to themselves and not being completely honest with their partner.

Even if you do feel like this, discussing it and getting it all out in the open will be a huge relief to you. It will also have the guaranteed effect of her respecting you even more for being a man and telling her how you feel. These are both attributes which help the two of you work together to make the relationship that much stronger and keep the partnership going from strength to strength.

When your partner starts to doubt your feelings for her and when being careless and thoughtless or being so tied up in your own ‘thing’ that your neglect her starts to eat away at what you two had, the red flag should be waving.

Any Sensible Man should be Wary of the Signs that His Girlfriend Is Starting To Feel Neglected, before she is Whisked Away by a Less Worthy Man.

When a woman senses that you no longer care for her in the way you used to, she will be unhappy and has probably tried to bring the problem up with you. If there is a man ‘friend’ on the horizon, he may be ready to take her off your hands – and all because you were neglectful.

If this has the ring of truth about it and you know in your heart that you have been taking her for granted, and putting your own needs and fun way ahead of hers, then this is your wake up call.

If you wish to Keep A Woman Glued To You, you need to Treat Her In The Same Manner as When You First Started Dating.

If this is the situation you find yourself headed for, and you have a ‘good’ woman, then it is highly possible that your neglect towards her is driving her to consider her other options. And when another man is in the wings, friend or no friend, it is much easier for her to decide enough is enough.

In the beginning you knew that you had to respect her, and take care of her at all times. But over time you got absorbed into other interests and neglected to do the required ‘upkeep’ on the relationship, putting your needs ahead of hers. The damage done to relationships by this type of neglect can be irreversible.

Revive Her Desire For and Interest In You by Openly Discussing Sex and Preparing Wild Nights with Her.

Using the need for sex to your advantage is a valid way to arouse her interest in you again. The new guy she has lined up is probably just waiting for the time when she can resist him no longer. The caring friendly shoulder to cry on phase will move swiftly to an intimate relationship, at least that is what the new guy is waiting for.

Your best technique for using this to your advantage is to make sure you talk openly about what each of you needs. Visit your local sex shop and buy some toys to spice up the action in the bedroom and take advantages of different environments such as a cheap motel or in the car, anywhere which makes her feel aroused. The most important aim of this strategy is to make her feel desired physically and emotionally.

Next its time to surprise her and allow her all the free time to do what she wants when she wants. When she has become so used to all your attention again, and is basking in your admiration and kindness towards her, you might want to suggest that she spend some time with her new man friend.
This can be a risky strategy and is only to be recommended if you are quite sure that all the extra love and attention you have lavished on her in the past couple of months has paid off.

Use Reverse Psychology to Reinforce Your Concern and Affection For Her, Both of which are Enough to Make Any Woman Cozy Up To You.

You can say that you don’t want to be responsible for her neglecting her friends and understand if she would like some time with them. This will appear to make you even more loving and attentive, and will probably result in her wanting to spend more time with you.

Assuming she sees him now, he will soon pick up on the fact that she is not going be intimate with him and set his eyes on someone else’s woman. At this point your partner will see him for what he really was – a vulture waiting to jump on her.

The last step is to keep adding passion upon passion. Don’t let her think that you only changed your habits and became more loving because of the threat of another guy. As long as you keep your woman’s needs completely fulfilled you shouldn’t have anything to worry about.

Use the Very Same Techniques that Work For Any Successful Don Juan or Casanova in dating, in Wooing Your Own Girl and Winning Her Back Before You Even Lose Her.

Many women are emotionally needy for a variety of reasons and they often need men to validate them. They want men to assure them that they are desirable, sexy and beautiful and that they are loved for more than just being an efficient housekeeper with cooking abilities.

The key to achieving this is to take her out someplace special, like her favourite restaurant or a movie and take the time to talk to her. Ask about her aims and desires in life and what she dreams of achieving. Try to avoid the trap of falling into discussions about the kids or home repairs.

She wants to know that you cherish and care for her deeply on an emotional and physical level.

The biggest mistake that most men make is that they become too used to being comfortable and their tiniest needs taken care of, by their loving partner, on a daily basis.

The result of this is that they take their woman for granted. To counteract this feeling within her, before it is too late, compliment her from time to time. There is no need to do it too often as that may seem phony.

Just pick something about her and tell her how much you like it. You used to boast about being a ‘new man’ and helping with the dishes – what happened to that?

If you enjoy your car you maintain it from time to time, don’t you? Well it is even more important to protect and maintain the relationship with your partner.

Even when you do spend time in taking care of your woman’s needs, you are still going to come across rough times. That is just life. There are always times of great elation and times of feeling low in all relationships, and this is perfectly normal.

In times like this, stay very much aware of the positives in your life. Don’t lament over what could have been. We all make choices and we are all adults and we live with those choices.

Focus on how well she takes care of you, how much she always puts what you need first. You should be reciprocating and, if you are not, you could be in for trouble.

The best way to keep your union a strong one is to focus on the positive aspects and to work together in improving those that are not so positive.

The main thing is to give your partner the proper attention she deserves on a daily basis and in this way hard times will not seem so very hard, and will in fact pull you two together. A positive attitude is very likely to re-create a positive relationship with your special lady.

When the single guy traditional approach to pickups failed repeatedly, guys teamed up and found that working together gave them a better chance of scoring with their desired chick.

Whilst it was the solution to the problem at the time, many women have caught on to this technique and have adapted their own techniques to thwart the wingman pickup strategy.

The most successful counter-strategy for men for this maneuver is defined by seasoned Don Juans or Casanovas as ‘The Wingwoman Coalition’ (maybe you prefer ‘Wingwoman Union’ or ‘Wingwoman Partnership’). When used correctly, and working on the assumption that you are not a complete creep and are reasonable looking, this technique rarely fails and has a massive conversion rate of 90%.

To master this powerful and successful original Don Juan or Casanova strategy, read on …

Preselection: Value Being Affirmed Ahead By Other Women

It is a known fact that pre-screened men are more successful in scoring. It has been scientifically proven.

Any successful Don Juan or Casanova has Scored Dozens Of Women by First Scoring Off Similar Women.

Men who have already passed the ’screening’ test of another equally attractive female, stand a much higher chance of achieving their goals with their next selected target.

Your presence in the company of another woman of equal value to that of your target confirms your value to the object of your desire.

The Law of Supply & Demand (aka The Law of Scarcity) – Telegraphing That You Are ‘Scarce’, and Hard-To-Get

To understand this point, recall one basic economic principle which the commercial world has been employing to great effect for centuries – the Law of Scarcity.

If the person or organization trying to sell the product limits the availability of the product, whilst also creating a ‘need’ for it, then it makes this product (you) more scarce and at the same time more desirable. This is leveraging the economists’ view as a parallel for the explanation of the classic ‘Wingwoman’ strategy, but for all the same reasons as with any other product, it works powerfully in the game of dating and seduction.

By Adapting The Law of Scarcity into your own dating life, You Make More Women ‘Demand’ For You after They See That Your ‘Supply’ Is Consumed By This Wingwoman.

In appearing to already have scored a ‘perfect ten’, you instantly become much harder to get and present a challenge to this perfect ten who is very accustomed to men falling at her feet and doing precisely what she wants when she wants.

Decreased availability, by appearing to have been ‘taken’ by your ‘wingwoman’ makes you that much more desirable. It is very sound economic principle that underlays this almost fail-proof ‘Wingwoman Technique’.

Now consider this principle as applied to really beautiful successful and perfect women – if they think you are already taken, by seeing you with this ‘Wingwoman’ (who should be in their league looks-wise at the very least) they are going to think you are taken, and want you even more.

Any determined Don Juan or Casanova can Make ‘Perfect 10’ Women Beg For His Attention simply by Focusing His Own Attention To His Wingwoman.

The fact that you appear to be already ’spoken for’ only increases your value in the eyes of the ‘Perfect 10′ and makes you even more of a challenge to them.

‘Perfect Ten’ women are used to calling the shots and having any guy she wants at her beck and call anytime, any day and anywhere. If you were in her presence alone, and appeared to be available, it could actually have the reverse of the effect you are aiming for.

The perceived value from the ‘Perfect Ten’s’ point of view is that you are great enough to have already apparently been ensnared by another ‘Perfect Ten’. If the woman you are trying to attract believes that you are highly desired by others, hence your demand outweighs your supply, then your value will go up.

These ‘Perfect Ten’ women Enjoy Challenges and Going After Challenging Men, particularly Those Who Are Already ‘Taken’.

She also sees you as a ‘challenge’ to her, particularly as from her point of view, there is another woman who beat her to it. Most women of this calibre are extremely competitive, not to mention jealous, which gives this woman, who usually finds all guys a pushover, a serious challenge (or so she thinks).

Having a wingwoman elevates your status even more. You become the ultimate catch to this ‘Perfect Ten’ who will consider beating off this other woman to get the pick of the crop: this is one of her main missions in life.

Now consider this principle as applied to really beautiful successful and perfect women – if they think you are already taken, by seeing you with this ‘Wingwoman’ (who should be in their league looks-wise at the very least) they are going to think you are taken, and want you even more.

The fact that you appear to be already ’spoken for’ only increases your value in the eyes of the ‘Perfect 10′ and makes you even more of a challenge to them.

Your Wingwoman Helps Provide Social Proof of Your Desirability and Worthiness To The Perfect Ten

Having a ‘wingwoman’ brings the element of competition into the game and makes other women even keener to get you, because women usually want what other women have.
In essence, your ‘Wingwoman’ is elevating your status and adding value to you as a man, because your target perceives that another woman (your wingwoman) has already preselected you.

In the mind of the target, because you have other attractive women around you, you instantly become more appealing to her.

Your Wingwoman Helps To Evoke Jealousy in The Perfect Ten

The fact that the Wingwoman can stay in your periphery, enjoying all manner of intimate relations with you, while the ‘Perfect 10′ woman stays outside the boundaries of your interactions, can cause the latter to view the former (i.e., Wingwoman) with a combination of envy and jealousy.

This only raises your perceived value in the eyes of the ‘Perfect 10′ and makes you even more of an object of seduction to them.

Make any ‘Perfect 10′ woman HUNGRY For You by Making Her Jealous of the Wingwoman You Choose.

In this way having a wingwoman of similar status to your target raises a tinge of jealousy in your target, who is accustomed to getting whichever men she wants, when she wants them. You can use this characteristic to level the playing field in your favour.

A less obvious advantage of having a very attractive ‘wingwoman’ (but one which is not to be overlooked) is that it truly helps to ‘seed’ an idea in her mind of your worth. This means she realizes that you are in demand by other women of equal quality, and this makes you even more desirable to her.

Other Reasons Why this Strategy Works – Helps a Hot Woman to Gain Validation

In choosing the Wing Woman over the Perfect Ten, you already conveyed that you are a selector and you set standards! This makes you a greater challenge, because seducing you away from the Wingwoman is going to take some effort, and more importantly when she succeeds, it helps her to affirm that she is desirable and more worthy than the wingwoman. This explains why, all so often, you have heard of stories of hot women going to bed with a bad boy personality who sleeps around with other women, but who are all quite alluring, because the hot woman wants an affirmation that she is beautiful herself.

Make Any Woman Want You To Score Her by Choosing The Appropriate Wingwoman to Make Her Desire The Position Of.

Yes! Hot women are extremely competitive and do need a constant stream of validation of their own worth and beauty, especially when they meet someone who raises their doubts over their appeal.

The kudos and vanity in ’snatching’ you from another attractive woman satisfies the narcissistic nature of your target. More value is accorded to you – you are much more highly ‘prized’ by the target since you were taken from another woman that already gives you ‘instant value’.

So in understanding this strategy completely and how it works, you will realize that the wingwoman does not have to be the equal of the Perfect Ten in the area of physical beauty, but she should have some other features that the target recognizes as being equal to or close to her own status.

If You Can, Get the Perfect Ten’s Trusted Friend as Your Wingwoman

Truly, your ‘Wingwoman’ does not need to be physically as attractive as ‘The Perfect Ten’ woman who is your target. Having some attributes that make her someone your target admires, often, is good enough.

To Make This Strategy Work, a Don Juan or Casanova should Choose His Wingwoman Carefully: Either a Very Successful, Intelligent Girl, or simply a Friend of your ‘Perfect 10′ target.

Qualities such as elegance and style, or success in her chosen career field as well as intelligence and being witty and eloquent could be examples of some traits that the perfect ten hottie admires in the ‘Wingwoman’ – a lady in your game. Or your Wingwoman could be a trusted friend of the ‘Perfect Ten’ target, thus elevating your status and credibility in the target’s eyes even further.

Indeed, having been validated by one of her closest friends is the best possible reference you could ever receive, since your target hottie knows and trusts your wingwoman’s judgment and opinions implicitly.

And who knows – perhaps your target hottie is hiding a secret to herself, after listening to all the positive feedback that has reached her via her trusted friend? Everyone has heard stories of best friends betraying friendship, and stealing their best friend’s boyfriend. What happened often was they were eventually caught in the act together, to the horror of the person who discovers that her close friend and her own boyfriend has betrayed her! (This book, though, is not encouraging you to do the same, but is alerting you to the possibility that a close friend’s compliments and accolades does indeed have a material impact on another woman’s judgment of a man’s worth or desirability, regardless of whether the ‘referring’ woman is a hottie or just an average-looking woman, which does not matter!)

Make Sure that Your Wingwoman’s Attributes and Credibility are Satisfactory Enough to Gain the Trust of Your Target Lady.

The attributes of your ‘wingwoman’, and her credibility to the target hottie, often combine to raise your perceived desirability to the woman whom you consider as the ‘Perfect Ten’. Physical appeal of your wingwoman is important, but not as important as the credibility that the Perfect ten finds in her closest friend’s judgement. Thus, in the eyes of the target hottie, you could then be perceived as a great catch, and women all want men they believe are a great catch! Getting such a man, who is already desired by other women, or a man who is at or above her league (depending on the strength of the accolades and positive third-party references she receives), makes getting him all the more satisfying for herself, instead of the man she flatly rejected the other day.

Utilize The Competitive Nature of Women in The Dating and Mating Game!

It is in the female’s nature to compare themselves to other women. This fact can be utilized to your advantage. It is hardwired into their brain-circuitry. Therefore, physical endowments and looks of another woman are often just the tip of the ice-berg. So long as the target hottie is close in league, say, a 7/10 or 8/10 compared with the target hottie, who is a 10/10, this close proximity in league combined with the scenes in which you both behave intimately towards each other, will flip her ‘attraction switches’ in you. This will make her envy that woman and see you as a good catch!

So in understanding this strategy completely and how it works, you will realize that the wingwoman does not even need to be equal to the Perfect Ten in the area of physical beauty, but they should be close in league. Evidences of being the “competitive” center of attention and object of seduction with multiple ladies are more powerful ways to influence perception of who, ultimately, is more desirable.

Selecting Your Wingwoman

You will probably find your ideal ‘Wingwoman’ among these women you know.

Your Ex-Girlfriend:

Choosing Your Ex as Your Wingwoman is A Bit Risky and Entails That Your Relationship Had A Good Closure.

Ex-girlfriends often provide a good source of suitable candidates for the position of ‘wingwoman’. It is essential that you are on good terms with your ex and that no negative vibes are picked up by your target from your ‘Wingwoman’. The idea here is for your wingwoman to be the magnet to draw the target into your circle and to make the opening contact by starting up a conversation.

Make sure that if you select your wingwoman from this group of females, that there are no lingering feelings of resentment on the part of the ex girlfriend so that they do not surface at an inappropriate time.

Your Current Girlfriend:

It is Even Riskier to Use Your Current Girlfriend as Your Wingwoman, so make sure you WEIGH DOWN YOUR PRIORITIES before continuing.

You may be on thin ice if you use your current girlfriend as you wingwoman, so tread extremely carefully here.

Women have an instinct about situational awareness, and if she picks up on the fact that she is actually helping you to ensnare your next conquest, it will not be a pretty scene.

Just remember that all is fair in love and be as careful as you can in this situation.

Your Other Female Admirers:

You may Hit Two Birds With One Stone by Using One of Your Female Admirers as Your Wingwoman, as you make yourself and her Both Happy.

This group is probably the elite of the ‘Wingwoman’ categories. Most men have a group of women who are acquaintances, whether they be colleagues at your present employers, or previous, or women you used to hang out with at college or the gym.

Amongst these ladies is sure to be the perfect ‘wingwoman’. It is much better if your selected woman actually does still admire you, and like you, as these qualities will be obvious in her interaction with you, and on full view for the target to see.

Your Best Friend’s Woman

When All the Above Scenarios are Not Possible, you may Ask For Your Best Buddy’s Girlfriend’s Help, but Only After You’re Sure of Certain Things.

This suggestion assumes that your best buddy and his woman are both up for it, and there is not a hint of jealousy from your buddy. It also assumes that you would never in a million years consider hitting on your best friend’s woman.

But be aware that at this crucial point in the game, you should display no interest whatsoever in your target. On no account make or hold eye contact.

You must rely solely on your wingwoman to attract the other woman and then to open a dialogue for you.

Women Admire Men who Get Along Well With Females, so Bringing Female Relatives Along Into The Game would Be of Help To You.

Your Sister

Men who get along well with their female siblings are highly attractive to other women. The other women see it as proof that you are a man who is well versed in being around a certain type of woman. The idea here is for your sister to be the magnet to draw the target into your circle and to make the opening contact with your target by starting up a conversation. This will create a chain reaction that results in you scoring big-time.

Cousins

Probably the elite of the ‘Wingwoman’ categories, if you are lucky enough to have a cousin who is also a ‘Perfect Ten’ then she should be your first choice, assuming that she has not been secretly in love with you since you were ten.

Family allegiance is strong and they will do their utmost to make sure of your success. It will become a matter of pride to them that you two teamed up and got one over on someone who is not a part of your family.

Playing Hard To Get

Always make sure that you never permit anyone to take your company for granted, or to assume you will always be available.

In order to establish your value in the eyes of your potential target, it is best that the other woman already values you. She is guaranteed to take other women’s judgement of you into account when she assesses your desirability, and will definitely be affected by their judgement of you.

By reading and digesting this invaluable Don Juan or Casanova’s guide to recruiting the assistance of a ‘Wingwoman’, you will dramatically increase your chances of scoring with a chick that you may otherwise consider out of your league.

You must have noticed that men and women have completely opposite ideas on just about everything. The differences are magnified when looking at the dating game. Men don’t have many hard and fast rules about a pickup, whereas females have dozens designed to protect and further their own goals.

A prime example is a guy scoring at a club. He instantly forgets the guys he arrived with and those guys get it. On the other hand, when one of a gaggle of girls hooks up with a guy in a club, the rest of the women become like clucking mother hens, hovering and being generally protective of her.

Any Veteran Don Juan or Casanova Knows The Importance of Dating The Girl’s Friends For More Reasons Than One.

Make no mistake, meeting her friends can be one of the toughest challenges a player can face. You will want to take an overview of your opportunities amongst her friends and after your current target is in the past, seek to expand your connections of more available hotties. Simply put, get friendly with her friends – but not too friendly. The eye of your current hottie will be firmly assessing your attitude to her friends so keep it friendly and not even slightly flirtatious.

A true Don Juan or Casanova does not cheat on any woman so you must proceed with caution, employing tact, patience and sincerity to gather details about possible future hookups with other hotties amongst her friends.

If your current hottie is relatively new, and you want to plan a romantic interlude, it is unlikely that you will know her personal preferences yet.

Any True Don Juan or Casanova is aware of the Rules and Techniques of Knowing One’s Current Date while Knowing A Potential Future One – At The Same Time.

Strike up a conversation with that gorgeous girlfriend of hers ostensibly to find out your current hottie’s likes and dislikes, so you can incorporate her likes into a future date.

The girlfriend will be happy to help and will also be impressed with your thoughtfulness towards her friend. Later when the current hottie is no more, the gorgeous friend will remember your thoughtfulness, which will give you an automatic edge.

This technique is a double whammy – showing you as a thoughtful gentleman with your present hottie, whilst lining up another as a future target.

It would be a mistake to ignore your current hottie’s friends because you can use this time to create new connections which will benefit you in the future.

Date In The Present To Find More Dates In The Future—this Technique is Very Useful For Every Hopeful And Determined Don Juan or Casanova.

She is likely to see your suggestion of meeting her friends as a positive sign that you want to get to know her better. This makes you appear like the perfect gentleman.

Aim for achieving a light friendly banter with her friends and address them in a friendly way whenever you meet them. In having a conversation with one of her friends while she is in the ladies’ room, if your technique is right, you will be earning points from both of them.

The Art of Being A Don Juan or Casanova requires that you Find The Perfect Median in terms of Your Friendliness With Her Friends.

Be aware that you could risk upsetting your current partner if you are over-friendly with her girl friends, so made sure you are not overtly friendly but strike the exact balance between being friendly but not over-familiar. This needs careful handling but encapsulates the art of the player.

If you spot one of her friends who is obviously recovering from being dumped, this is one of those golden opportunities for the player. But it is not so easy as consoling her and then making a move.

Your aim here is to be someone she can pour her heart out to, a friend like her girl friends rather than a man to lean on. Maintain your distance but be sympathetic and supportive of her. It’s kind of like you are there for her, but at the same time you are not.

If she is the vindictive type or feels she has a score to settle, then she may well be looking for revenge by engaging in a retaliatory sexual fling. This is the perfect scenario for the player – a score which needs no planning, go ahead and enjoy.

The Key to Dating Her Friends is to be Present At All Possible Times With Them, leading you to A Win-Win Situation that Only Don Juans or Casanovas Could Create.

Put simply, if you are not there, then nothing can happen. Engineer situations where you are invited along with ‘the girls’. You may have to endure movies which are not to your taste, but it will be worth the sacrifice.

In going along with a group meet like this, you are giving yourself plenty of future opportunities.

Another ploy is to casually drop in on her when you know in advance that at least some of her friends will be there.

Your thoughtfulness will be appreciated and yet again, your moves will be taken to be considerate and kind. The perfect win-win scenario for a player.

Being primarily a social chameleon, changing from romantic partner to platonic friend in the blink of an eye, you should try to keep ‘in’ with her group of friends, even after your liaison with her is over.

If you cut yourself off from her completely, you will lose the connections you have so carefully constructed with her gorgeous girlfriends.

Even When you are Done Dating The Girl, you may still Find Smart Ways To Remain In Good Terms (and be a possible date) To Her Friends.

You should strive to remain social acquaintances (this is vastly different from being friends). Try to manipulate the situation so that a favourite weekend hangout meet is still acceptable, so that you can only improve upon your rapport with the group of hotties who are her friends.

Obviously, if the break up does not go according to plan, it will be difficult to keep within the circle of her acquaintances. An emotionally traumatic split is going to mean that there will be little opportunity for scoring with one of her friends. So do your best to ease out of the situation leaving the lady with as much dignity as possible.

Blaming Yourself For The Breakup is One Time-And-Tested Means of Staying In The Loop Of Her Dateable Friends.

A good vehicle for this approach is to blame yourself. You can see she is great for you but you just have this thing about commitment. You are hoping to get over it but for now, it is deeply entrenched. This also gives her the idea that if she allows you to stick around with her group, you may change your mind and want her back.

It’s worth repeating that hot women usually have hot friends. But remember that being a player means that you have a reputation to consider and maintain.

Don Juans do not cheat or give outright lies to satisfy their vanity. Being sleazy is completely counterproductive to the sensibilities of a Don Juan.

So resist all urges to do un-Don Juan like actions and your circle of red hot hotties could only increase.

Pick up these five winning tips on sweet-talking your way with women…

As the number one quest for all players, something near 65% of all of a player’s energy goes into scoring that targeted hottie. A mere 14% of time is spent on finding food and shelter and the rest, some 21%, goes towards some form of porn.

All our resources are channeled at this one goal – yet there is one simple tool that is often overlooked in the noble pursuit of that fine lady. And that is the power of words. I don’t mean just hackneyed pick up lines she’s heard a dozen times before, but fully engaged interesting and entertaining conversation. Can you honestly say you know how to sweet talk women?

If You want to Keep Scoring Gorgeous Women, it’s time that you spend more time Learning How To Give Any Woman The Sweet Talk She Likes.

No matter how you work on your body, or throw expensive gifts at her or wine and dine with her at the most exclusive venues, the time will come when she is done admiring your body and expects some intelligent conversation, most of it focused on her and how you find her intriguing.

If you blurt out some meaningless drivel then all the other support strategies are meaningless if you sound like the Cletus the slack jawed Yokel from the Simpsons.

You know whether you need help in this area. If you do, then study these quick top five tips for simple ways to sweet talk women…

Focus on that Girl’s Physical Attributes – and Only Hers – whenever you spend time Trying To Score Her.

Be sure to grab every opportunity to flatter and compliment her on how beautiful she is and how attractive she looks. This holds true whether you have just met or known her since high school.

It goes without saying that you only focus on one hottie at a time, and the woman you are talking to should be the only focus of your sweet talk.

Compliments are worth their weight in gold to the player, but cost very little. It’s a strategy which needs little investment of time or money but which reaps rich rewards every time.

Any Seasoned Don Juan or Casanova knows how Giving UNIQUE Compliments Hits Two Birds With One Stone: not only does She Like You More but Also Herself More.

But your compliments have another, more subtle effect. They go towards boosting your target’s self esteem and women who feel good about themselves always feel more attractive.

An insider player’s tip that never fails is to pick a compliment which is totally unique to her, maybe the shade of her eyes or the sensual shape of her lips. She will be convinced that she is the only one on your mind.

Don’t Let Your Quest For A Score Show when you are talking with her, As It’s A Turn-off For Most Women.

Make quite sure that she realises that you are gazing deeply into her eyes and absorbing every word she utters because her beauty entrances you. The thought of scoring tonight was furthest from your mind. But of course, if she were up for it, then it would be lovely. Keep it casual and low key if you want to score.

Appearing desperate and ogling her boobs is a definite turn off to all women. As is the impression that anything with a pulse would substitute for her. Make sure your eye contact with her is with her eyes only.

Make HER (and not you) Consider Sex by Casually Inserting INNUENDOES In Your Discussions, Without Any Hint of How Badly You Want It With Her.

This is the tricky part – you have to make her think she brought up the possibility of sex first. If you feel she is not even considering this, you could throw in something you ‘heard about’ and gradually work your way closer to the topic. Bring up something playful and innocent but keep the conversation on this track.

It will look as though your ‘off the cuff’ provocative conversation turned you from innocent companion to possible love match. It will seem as though your idea of scoring came out of the flow of conversation and was not planned at all. Women equate this with romance. Just keep the flavoured accessories out of sight until the right moment.

Don Juans or Casanovas are Smart Enough to Conduct THOROUGH Research of the Girl’s Biography and Interests Before Any Date to Avoid Any FAUX PAS.

To avoid such gaffes as comparing her favourite actor to a senile old fool, do your research carefully first.

Taking some time to get to know her likes and dislikes puts you way ahead of virtually any other guy. Ladies often feel that guys to not really listen to them. Give her this impression and you are waving goodbye to that night of fun.

Stand Out from the Rest Of The Male Population by Letting Her Know That You Share Interests With Her, as this Ensnares Many Women.

Here is the perfect example of sweet-talking a woman. At a bar-b-q you meet a cute woman and you see she is repeatedly approached by men who babble on about the ball game or their latest car.

But you have taken the time to chat to her friend and discovered she is into antique book collecting. So you can go in with the opening line of “Hey, I hear you collect antiquarian books – me too.” Your score is virtually a done deal. That’s how to sweet-talk a hottie.

Once You’ve Hooked Her Up on Talk With Innocuous Topics, you may proceed to Discussing More Personal Ones including the Things That Turn Her On.

Finding out the type of guy she finds a turn on works for you on many different levels, all encouraging a successful outcome to the evening. If the opportunity arises, tell her what you’re into and ask her the same.

Most obviously, you are collecting valuable information for use now and for later. Even if a store tonight is out, she could tell you something that you can use to your advantage in the future.

Another plus is that discussing things that turn you both on is definitely going to get her thinking about the possibilities, and can be a huge turn on in itself.

You will also get appreciation for seeming to care about her likes and dislikes and for seeming to be intrigued by her answers. And in sharing your fantasies in such a low key way, non threatening way may actually stimulate her into surprising you by trying them out with you.

Whilst working with your silver tongue on sweet-talking her, remember to be respectful – not only to her, but to everyone around, even the waiter. Women don’t like guys who treat other people badly, and may suspect that once you have what you want, you could turn that rudeness on her.

Casually running into an old flame that compliments your lady by saying she is one lucky woman will do you nothing but good. Your target will fantasize about her future and see only positive things.

So now you are a graduate of the silver tongue. The blarney stone doesn’t only work for the Irish you know. Use this five successful ways of sweet-talking that hottie and be confident that when she asks what you would like to talk about, you can practice one of the newest and most effective tools in your player kit – the gift of the gab.

Let’s face it, some guys just know what to say and do at the most propitious time. They are natural players and the game in their hands seems so easy. Their natural talents for selecting their targets and adjusting their play as required in virtually any situation is nothing short of awesome.

And not all of these natural born players are wealthy and endowed with physical prowess and natural good looks. Don’t get me wrong, these are all fine qualities to bring to the party and will only enhance your chances of success, but they are not essential requirements for the successful player.

For Men Who Want to Emulate The Successes Of Natural-Born Don Juans or Casanovas, make sure that you Tap One Of The Most Overlooked Weapons You Can Use: Her Info.

What is essential to those who are not blessed with this seemingly effortless talent, is to mimic their strategies and habits. These vital tips will ensure that you are the winner in any seduction scene.

This tip is probably the single most important tool in the art of the player. Yet it is the most commonly over-looked. Your targeted lady is providing you with a constant supply of vital information, via conversation. It is all essential intelligence about this adorable creature that you must store away and remember if you want a successful score.

Use What You Know About Her To Know More And More and to Make Her Interested In You — and keep it that way.

Light flirtatious conversations are keys to painting a picture of this particular female’s character, likes, interests, and dislikes. Remembering these facts about this enticing creature and employing them in your strategy will allow you to ensure that she maintains her interest in you. As a player, it is your job to judge the right questions to ask her and to reply appropriately, so that you can build upon the bond and trust between you.

Listen attentively, and Plan Accordingly: these are Your Surefire Strategies To Scoring with Any Woman You Want.

Equally as important as asking key questions to give you insights into this lady is storing and making sure that you take careful note of her replies. Nothing is so appealing to a woman as a guy who actually listens to and remembers what she says.

If she enjoys classic movies, buy a DVD of ‘Casablanca’ and arrange a romantic evening enjoying the movie together. If she loves white chocolate instead of dark bitter chocolate, remember to bring her only white chocolates while you watch the movie. Attention to detail and meticulous planning are most important if you want to score big-time and be a successful player.

Bring 007 to mind whenever you Try To Score As A Gentleman, and you just might Score Not Just Seven But Dozens Of Hot Girls in no time!

If you aspire to be a player with a high score rate, then you should practice being a gentleman. Gentlemen are becoming an endangered species, but every player worth his salt is a gentleman. Suave and sophisticated players do not play at being gentlemen – they already are – and it is a full time job. It is one that will reap you huge benefits and a high score rate.

If you are at a loss to think of a gentleman upon whom to model your behavior, then you could consider Ian Fleming’s character of James Bond. A quintessential gentleman who is also a classic (and highly successful) player, he is the epitome of a gentleman.

Take After Your Gentlemanly Role Model and Adopt Their Attitudes Into Your Own Life, while keeping in mind that All Women Are Different Especially in terms of Their Preferred Type Of Guy.

Whoever you decide to select as your role model, you will quickly see that they all show similar qualities and traits. These include subtle gentlemanly acts like opening doors for her and complimenting her sincerely on a particular aspect of her appearance. More overt gentlemanlike behavior includes being respectful to her family and sociable and friendly towards her friends.

Gentlemanly habits should become second nature to those who wish to be successful players and to those who yearn to be key players with a high score rate. This is probably the most overlooked aspect of being a player in today’s world, but it is an essential part of your player’s kit.

It is inevitable that occasionally making that score is simply going to be impossible, no matter which techniques or strategies you employ. Some ladies simply will not be attracted to you, for any number of reasons, so be ready for rejection. View every slap down as one step nearer to your perfect score. Feelings of anger and upset can do nothing but impair your game, and leave a bad feeling that will not help you in any way. Just accept that you will not be every woman’s cup of tea, and move on. Bemoaning your rejections and dwelling upon them does you no good.

A simple analogy which may help is mango. Not everyone likes mangoes. The slippery slithery sensation of holding an unpeeled mango turns some people off. The scent for some is pure nectar and to others quite revolting. Just accept that some people like mango and others don’t.

Never let any Woman’s Rejection Shatter Your Self-Esteem; rather, make it A Stepping-Stone and A Lesson To Learn From and Use In Your Future Targets.

So keep your self-esteem intact, and count that rejection as just one more move towards your perfect score. Learning how to deal with rejection is a skill which all successful players have mastered, so do yourself a favour, and make this an integral part of your player’s stratagems.

This is a toughie. Men are generally taught to aim for the top their whole lives from infancy onwards: to strive for the best and to go as high up the ladder of success as one can in life, sport or business. Sadly, the same is not true with pickups.

Every Successful Don Juan or Casanova has learned that One should be Realistic in his Dating Objectives and Re-assess His Targets to Avoid Possible Rejection.

So many men select ladies so obviously out of their league that watching the rejection and the consequent fall is downright painful, but oh so predictable. The instinct to aim high is thrust down our throats at every opportunity by all the main authority figures in our life, but in the arena of seduction, it is setting yourself up again and again for failure.

In selecting your target as the most gorgeous girl at a party or the foxiest female at a college reunion is simply creating the scenario for you to fail. If this is something that you do repeatedly, then you need to reassess your targets. Learning how to accept rejection is one thing, but setting yourself up for disappointment after disappointment is not the action of a successful player.

Try to judge the type of woman you know you can probably score. Instead of trying to leap in one bound to the top of the tree, branch out, target a woman you would probably usually ignore – there are some very undervalued women of quality out there who are vastly under appreciated.

These four habits of successful players are actions that a natural player uses without thought. They come naturally. Whether you are a ‘natural’ or not, cultivating these habits will ensure that your game is enhanced exponentially. No matter what level of player you are, practice these habits until they are second nature, and you will be the benefactor of great rewards and high success when it comes to scoring.