It is not easy to be a Top Dog or an Alpha Male. But you surely want to enjoy the perks and advantages that come with being one. Do you think you will need to come a long way to become an Al Capone, a Brad Pitt, or an Obama? You should not be surprised that you can be an alpha male in fast and easy ways. You should start by re-assessing and revamping your attitude.

Set your goal to be an alpha male if you want to be one. By attaining the courage and the drive, you can surely attain your goal. To attain a sought-after alpha male status, you should adopt the mentality of a real one. Condition your mind to think like an alpha male. Convince your self each day that you are naturally one. Here are several recommended insights and guidelines you should live by.

Alpha Males are Always Confident no matter What the Circumstances Turn Out To Be

Usually, there will always be an area where a guy can have problems at. Alpha males are not bogged by such problems. Thus, they are exuding utmost confidence all the time. Do you want to appear very confident? Here are some tips. Try your best to always stand straight, pulling your shoulders slightly backwards. Walk straight and keep your head on your focus. Smile with confidence. It will also be best if you will eliminate unlikely mannerisms like fidgeting of hands, folding of arms, and stooping down.

Alpha Males Know how to Treat Others and Win Their Support and Respect

Surely, alpha males are superior but they still know how to listen intently when other people talk. You do not have to be a bully to be one. Thus, there is no need to make fun of people or ridicule them no matter how inferior they may seem to be. Alpha males still value the principle that to command respect, respect should be first accorded to other people. Alpha males also earn respect by being a pleasant company for everyone. Lastly, alpha males know how to use right manners to generate respect from people. No matter how superior and tough you think you are, try not to look funny and disrespectful by avoiding picking nose, scratching of genitals, picking out of underwear, and farting in public.

Alpha Males Do Not Panic Nor Get Nervous, But Always Stay Calm

Remember that alpha males do not look nervous, do not get into pressure, and do not rush things especially around women. If you want to be an alpha male, you should always bear in mind that the moment you walk into a room or a venue, you are the alpha male that everyone will be looking at. There is no need for you to feel shy and timid. You have to always exude your sense of self esteem and self confidence.

Alpha Males are Naturally and Most of the Time, Looking Relaxed

You do not need to be a Buddhist or a meditation master to look and feel naturally relaxed. The underlying principle, again, is to be confident. By thinking that you are always in control of situations, you will not feel any stress and pressure. Instead, you will be calm and peaceful to enjoy life. Be aware always of what you are doing. Always control your actions and your thoughts and everything will flow smoothly.

Alpha Males are Obviously Always Goal Oriented

Identify your goals and your dreams and take active actions to fulfill them. Now is the time you begin efforts to reach those goals. Alpha males know how to plan well to take actions and ultimately attain goals. In the process, they can be scheming and strategic but they are always proactive.

Alpha Males know Exactly How to Look Pleasing and Attractive to Everyone, Especially Women

Fashion is one thing alpha males care less about. But you should notice that all alpha males look pleasant, appealing, and attractive, especially to women. What could be their secret? It is all about attitude. By being careless and confident, alpha males exude this positive aura that makes them fashionably fit with the clothes they wear and the accessories they carry. Because they are physically active, their physiques are in good shape. They are free from annoying body odor and are appearing neat and clean even if their apparels are not too expensive.

Alpha Males Take Quality Time For Themselves

Since alpha males care not about pleasing other people, they spend time to please themselves. To be able to do this, be honest to yourself when identifying your likes and interests. Do not hesitate to go out and do what activities please you even if you are alone. You should worry less about going to the gym alone, dining by yourself, or going mountain climbing without company. This only shows that you fear nothing and that you can go on even without company and help from others.

To effectively attract women, men should really strive to facilitate conversations that are not boring. The best way to make an impression during conversations with your date is to tell her several interesting stories that will surely arouse interest and keep her engaged. You might want to tell experiences about other people, places, emotions, and other fun stuff.

You could Gain a Lot of Benefits by simply Learning How to Tell Stories to Your Date

Storytelling could be a great way to make any woman realize and see for herself that you are independent, interesting, and confident. What’s more? Stories do not fail to make conversations feel really fun. Through telling stories, you could be able to cover significant subjects. Stories not only keep conversations alive, they also could make her feel comfortable with you and eventually make her tell her own stories. In the process, you two could get to know more of each other.

Do you intend to tell stories within your conversation to seduce a woman? Here are several tips that could really help you do so.

Carefully Select Which Stories to tell: stick to Those That Are Interesting, Fun, and do not degrade anyone

It is very important that you take time to choose the stories you will tell during dates. You do not want to spoil the mood by telling tragedies. You should also strive not to tell stories that are offensive and sexist in any way. Remember that you are telling stories to impress and seduce her, not the other way around. Stick to interesting and fun ones, and surely you will be able to make her more comfortable with you.

While adding some stories of your friends (or imaginary friends at least) is helpful, It’s Most Appealing To Her If They’re Your Own

When telling stories, it is better to tell your own experiences than to talk about others’. She might be a little bored to hear good stories about your friends, especially if she does not know them. Also, to some women, it may not create a good impression if you speak about other people behind their back. It may look like you are trying to impress her at other peoples’ expenses if you stick to telling stories not of your own. However, for variety, it may be healthy telling one or two, but do not linger too much.

Be Detailed and Accurate in Stating The Details of your stories to Build Your Credibility

It is safer to assume that she is a good listener. In this way, do not miss on pertinent details of your stories. Do not make her look stupid by telling insensible and highly incredible stories. Be cautious especially if you are telling fictions that you have just made up yourself. Tell a story as if you are telling it to an interrogator. Be ready to answer several questions that she may pop every now and then.

Every Casanova is at least Capable and at most Very Skilled in Infusing Sexual Innuendos into Seemingly INNOCENT Stories

If you aim to seduce her, lightly bring out the topic of sex. However, as she may not be comfortable yet, it is best to be subtle. This is why sexual innuendos are truly helpful and useful. Through using subtle words and suggestive statements, you are pulling off sexual hints and trying to test the waters at the same time. If she is into you, she will instantly get your sexual innuendos. If she does not get them, it means you should strive harder in pleasing and impressing her. The night is still long and you still have time and opportunities to do so.

If you Truly Wish to be Closer to that Hot Babe’s body, make use of Your Own Body to Complement Your Story

You could actually make your story more interesting if you will use facial expressions and gestures. You could make faces to complement funny stories and use hand movements to illustrate movements involved in your story. If you are comfortable enough, you could even re-enact actions by standing from your seat. Doing so could further animate your piece and make it truly impressive, interesting, and highly engaging. She will surely appreciate your efforts to make her visualize and understand well what you are conveying.

Get Her Imagination Up and Rolling by Asking for Her Own Ideas In Between The Storyline

The best stories you could deliver on dates are those that are designed to involve her. Nothing is more effective than the interactive type of storytelling. Perhaps during your story, you may want to ask her questions like ‘What are you going to do in such a situation?’ or ‘What do you think?’ This way, you get to pause and devise other instant strategies to make the conversation more fun and exciting. This style could also set instant connection between you and your date.

Get More Intimate Without Touching Her – use your Eyes like an Expert Don Juan does

Storytellers and listeners need rapport. You need to connect with her while delivering your stories. To do so, you should establish and maintain proper and effective eye contact between the two of you. If you look straight to her eye, you are also in some form directly seducing and flirting to her, which could be significant if you are intending to develop sexual tension and attraction.

Your Story’s Outcome (ie Whether She Loves It or Dumps You) is made or broken by the Opening Lines, so Choose Them Wisely

Any story should be uniquely opened so as to make an initial good impression on your date. When writing any composition or piece of mind, you know that the hardest part is opening up or stating the lead sentence. This is because the opening sentence could make or break any story. As much as possible, use unique openers to all your stories so that you could instantly arouse her attention, interest, and curiosity right at the very moment you aim to start rolling out the details. One simple tip: be interesting and original then see how the flow runs smoothly.

Strive to Do what all Don Juans Could Do: Act Cocky Yet Seem Funny at the same time

You do not need to be a master story teller to learn how to be cocky and funny at the same time when delivering stories. To be interestingly cocky for any woman, try to be playful when teasing her while at the same time also saying subtly arrogant comments. You should aim to keep her right on her toes as you strive to make her laugh. If you succeed in being cocky, you could establish a personality that will make her wonder if you are really into her. This sense of intrigue will be your key to making her interested and all the more passive all throughout the night.

Keep your Mutual Sense of Privacy and Make Things a Bit More Intimate by Whispering Into her Ear

As the night moves on, you might decide to tell her really sexy and hardcore sexy stories. As you do so, try to whisper every word into her ear. Doing so may not only save you from embarrassment when other people overhear what you are talking about. You could also tickle her and raise the intensity and sexual tension up between the two of you. She definitely will also like it when she feels your breath touching the surface of her ears.

Invite her to a Nice Private Place for some More Sizzling Stories (now Hopefully Your Own)

After hours of talking, laughing, and exchanging ideas, you may feel too comfortable at each other. How about inviting her to your place or to somewhere private where the two of you could spend more quality moment? You may assure her that you still have more stories to tell. Of course, at the back of your head, you are up for something more naughty and kinky. Just do not force yourself into her and make sure she gives her full consent.

Gone are the days when the clean-cut, decent and most polite men dominate the dating game. In the past, and more so today, women are almost always thrilled to be hanging out (read: dating) with the not-so-ordinary and gutsy men, who will more likely break the rules and the norms just to be always in control.

For quite some time, psychologists, researchers and sociologists have been closely studying the phenomenal appeal of ‘bad boys’ to women. Many parents are worried that their daughters will soon fall to such men, who are so tough, yet to charismatic to women despite their roughness. The Pamela Andersons and the Paris Hiltons logically and obviously will always fall for bad boys than for the Bill Gates and the Pope Benedicts. Where could such attraction come from? Why are bad boys, despite having fewer likely characters as nice guys, harder to resist?

Bad boys seem to have distinct personality that naturally lures more women. The rough spirit, the edge and the sarcasm oozing in such men seem to make wonders. Here are several observable factors that are believed to make the bad boy image click, especially when men hit on women.

There is Something About the Look

Many women assert that there is definitely something alluring about unshaven moustache, uncombed hair, rugged clothing and tough stance. The look of a bad boy surely sets the mood. Looking certainly less than crisp could most of the time work to any man’s advantage. The visual impression is so powerful, that bad boys are almost always getting the edge. Bad boys look wild, uncaring, playful and relentless. Amazingly, numerous women fantasize such men.

You do not need to feel and look like an alpha male to get that rugged, bad boy look. Just exude the right confidence and look as if you are unafraid of anything. Being a little playful on the look could also be effective. The traditional cowboy look is always a hit. A good leather jacket will surely be an effective accessory, giving the impression as if you jumped out of an action flick. Ladies out there almost always find leather in men sexy.

Bad boys’ Ways and Attitudes Impress

If you have been nice and wholesome all your life, it may be the best time you be something else. Adopt the ‘devil-may-care’ attitude so you could effectively exude intensity and at the same time coziness. Strive to talk to a woman on the basis that she interests you. How could you do that? Throw insights right to her soul, instead of focusing on small and insignificant talks.

Women almost always fall for bad boys who hint of danger, not necessarily in a fatal way, but more on being uncaring about potential consequences of rudeness and roughness of manners. When talking to a lady (and seducing her), look right to her eyes, without winking. Do not be the first to look away first, unless a segment of a conversation is through. When into conversations, always go straight to the point.

Bad boys Have a Unique Rebel Appeal

Rebels are known to be free-spirited, doing anything they like. Many women like their men independent, uncaring about others’ opinions and dominant. Rebels care less about time. They will always splurge in fun no matter what rules they break. Most importantly, women feel the rebellious character makes bad boys very real. Such men are perceived to take their own destiny, to defy the convention and to act in a way befitting his path. That defines sexiness to many.

Bad boys Hardly Get Intimidated

Many women, especially those with strong personalities, know how to intimidate men. Bad boys are different because they do not seem to get intimidated at all by any woman. Bad boys are almost always able to carry themselves well especially when women get annoying, inquisitive, interrogative and threatening. You should be the bad boy who does not succumb to fear, especially the type brought about or hurled by a prospective bedmate.

Be as Mysterious as You Could Be

Bad boys are mysterious in many ways. A good seduction strategy is to keep her guessing. When conversing with a prospect, do not give away important details about yourself so easily. Women like to play games. They will be thrilled to take strategies in unveiling what they are interested to know. In the conventional world, men are born to talk less and women to talk more. If you could only remember that, for sure you will not have a hard time keeping women’s interest in you. Intrigue her, thrill her.

Use Extraordinary Sense of Attraction

Funny, but did you know that in some cultures, many men are already doing odd things just to be bad boys? In some nations in Europe, many men do not bathe for a few days to attract women. In Japan, some men spend hours to make their hair appear disheveled. Have you ever wondered why rock stars almost always succeed in making many women scream in admiration? It could be the animalistic appeal.