You may think that you are a great talker, and have a huge number of highly successful strategies at your disposal with a decent enough score rate. Perhaps you have trained yourself to become an excellent listener too, and squirrel away all relevant and useful information on your target.

However Successful in the Dating Field You Are, you’re Never A Don Juan or Casanova Unless you can Decipher Just What Women Are Thinking.

Despite your capabilities in these areas, you should become familiar with reading body language and sooner or later, you will realize that this is the secret key to unlock what that hottie is really thinking.

If a picture says a hundred words, then the lift of an eyebrow can speak volumes. But you have to be able to decipher the code. Key areas to watch and pay attention to are her eyes, her arms, and her hands.

Be Careful: Women May Say One Thing Yet Feel The Exact Opposite, so Knowing How To Read Her Signals Is Crucial.

Whilst guys have different meanings for words women use, it can be hard to understand their real meaning with dialogue alone. But when it comes to body language, the signals are rarely wrong. They are produced subconsciously, mostly without the woman’s knowledge, and so can provide vital clues and feedback as to your progress. Ideally, what the body language tells you and what she says should match, but very often they can conflict, and studying body language will be your only way of finding out for sure what this cutie is really thinking.

The biggest giveaway and the most highly expressive feature to observe are her eyes. Simple basic rules can tell you a great deal. Holding eye contact with you while you are speaking means she likes what she hears, and certainly wants to hear more.

If the Eyes are The Window to the soul, Her eyes are the Window to Your Chance of Scoring Her – or Not At All.

If her eyes are flickering all over the place while you are talking, she is not fully engaged in your conversation and might well be checking out the other guys since you have clearly lost her attention.

Sometimes harder to spot, but a truly definitive test, is the pupil, or black part of the eyeball. If it grows in size as you chat, she is interested, and likes what she is seeing as well as what you are saying. If on the other hand they contract to tiny pinpricks, then you need to urgently reassess your tactics and try again. This is foolproof since pupil dilation is a completely autonomic process.

Any Successful Don Juan knows that He Needs To Stay Alert For Any Signal She May Convey, because your reaction It Could Make Or Break The Evening.

Being aware it is time to switch tack and revise your tactics ‘on the hoof’ is essential, and should be second nature to Don Juans or Casanovas who score regularly. In the split second you notice a significant change in her body language, you should be prepared to tailor your response to reflect her reaction.

Let’s clear up one thing, a couple of minor negative moves to start with does not mean you should give up and back off. It could just be that one small thing was not to her taste, but maybe you can remedy it. But it is essential to be quick to pick up on the negative and to reassess your moves accordingly.

Learn From Your Mistakes: take note of The Things That Make Her Back Off and Try A Safer Move For The Meantime.

Maybe that joke was rather too risqué for the lady, in which case you need to try a different and subtler technique. If her body language after the negative reverts to positive, then give it another shot.

This is something the Don Juan or Casanova knows instinctively, but can be learned over time. Don’t get too up close and personal too fast, respect her boundaries and comfort zone and use it to afford you a better opportunity to view her entire body, and consequently gain the full benefit of assessing her body language.

Showing her that You Respect Her Personal Space Endears Her To You and Allows You To Establish Yourself As A Gentleman.

You will also add points in keeping out of her personal space and be considered the perfect gentleman, which can only add to your chances of a score. Is she crossing her arms over her chest while looking vacant? Bad sign. Definitely time to change tactics. Has she crossed her legs with the upper leg facing towards you? Good sign. Keep on doing whatever you are doing, it is working. Is she playing with her hair or licking her lips? Both are signs she likes what she is seeing and hearing.

These are all fantastic guides to the Don Juan or Casanova, and should be taken into account in every case. They help you as part of the overall impression and are pretty much fool-proof. The information you gain from studying body language is highly worthwhile and will pay you back in greatly increased scores.

In Reality, Women have Often Already Decided Early On Whether To Let You Pass Go With Her Or Not, so you’ll be Doing Her A Favour by Interpreting Her Signs Accurately.

You may find this hard to believe, but typically a woman has decided whether you have permission to pass go with her or that you will get your marching papers quickly, and conveys this via body language signals long before the thoughts are put into words.

Being able to decipher her body language gives you the one up on your target every time. It may even allow you to save face and back off before she actually gives you your verbal dismissal, thus saving your ego from any damage.

As with most things in life, the more often you do it, the more proficient you get at it. It is something very worthy of study and the efficient use of this tool will give serious Don Juans or Casanovas the upper hand each and every time they try to score. Plenty of positive body language can mean only one thing – you have scored big-time and are about to enjoy the fruits of your labour.