Scientists insist that most communication is shown through actions and expressions, before we even start a verbal conversation. Assuming the boffins have it right, then it seems obvious that we can create interest and attraction in a woman without the need for words.

People, Particularly The Fairer Gender, are created in such a way that They could Communicate Without The Need For Words.

Women are far more highly attuned to receiving subtle messages via expressions and so are quick to catch on to even the tiniest nuance of action or gesture.

The aim of this silent attraction is to lead to a verbal flirting session which, when combined with more actions, will lead to the ultimate aim – a score.

Knowing how to Attract Any Woman Without Any Word At All, combined with Proper Grooming and Decent Clothing, all work without fail in Helping You Score.

We all know that the first impression is almost instant, and is often created without any exchange of words, so make sure your other silent messengers like grooming and clothes are all speaking the same silent language, and not letting you down by declaring you a slob.

Here are some tips to help you conquer the silent approach and give you tips on how to get a head start using nonverbal communications.

A Longer-Than-Usual Eye Contact is One of the Most Potent Weapons any Don Juan or Casanova could and should Use To Attract Any Woman He Likes.

The first tip should be considered one of the most powerful in your player’s tool kit. Before you are even close enough to your target to speak, your eyes should meet. When humans are interested in each other, they make eye contact. There is a fixed time for this to convey the meaning ‘oh hello I see you’. But everyone must have heard about the trick of holding eye contact with your hottie a couple of second longer than the norm.

This has an entirely different meaning that is different from the quick ‘I see you glance’. It shows you like what you see, and that you want to see and learn more. After holding her glance for about four seconds, try to ensure it is her who glances away first. Don’t be discouraged; this is how it should be.

Never has Distance Stopped any Don Juan or Casanova from Grabbing The Eyes and Interest of That Hot Girl.

If you are on opposite sites of a room, and each engaged in conversation with another person, then while continuing the chat with the person you are talking to, from time to time, keep looking at your target to see if she is doing the same thing with you. If she is, you have made the first non-verbal contact.

If she isn’t checking you out, then try to ‘catch her eye’ and hold it for four or five seconds again. Assuming you succeed at this, the next step is catching her eye again, but this time turning on the most subtle but sincere smile in your repertoire. Assuming she smiles back, even slightly for a split second, then you’ve cracked it.

Even a Woman’s Posture and Most Minute Movements could Give Away Whether She’s Waiting For You To Get Her Or Not.

Take note of how she is standing. A neutral stance with at least one arm by her side and relaxed is a sign she is open to conversation. If she is seated and a leg or knee is pointing towards your location, this is another subconscious hint that she would like to interact with you.

The amount of information you can pick up from facial expressions alone speaks volumes. Catching her staring at you with a lick of the lips or a flutter of the eyelashes are all subconscious signs that show she is interested in learning more about you.

Another massive clue is fiddling or playing with the hair, like pulling it back from the face and shaking it, ostensibly to get it out of the way. Make no mistake; women know that their crowning glory has a great hold over men and use it to communicate regularly.

The logic behind the hair fiddling is that she is trying to draw attention to her hair and to fix it to make herself appear more attractive to you.

Often the next step after meeting and holding your gaze and giving you the merest flicker of a smile, the next action from your target is probably that she will walk past you, with the intention of making herself more available.

After Being Receptive to All Of Her Actions and Giving Away Your Interest In Her Through Your Own, Expect Any Interested Party to Take Further Steps.

She is also hoping that you will notice her more and is putting herself in your proximity to make contact easier for you.

If she is sitting down, crossing and uncrossing her legs repeatedly is another way in which women try to grab a guy’s attention. For the most part, all of these actions are subliminal signals and not done consciously.

You may also find as well as the walking past you, or even brushing against you technique, she gradually gets closer and closer to you often to within a few feet if they want the man to initiate conversation.

Note any physical contact she makes with you. If she touches your arm or your hand that’s a surefire sign that she is interested in you.

Another seemingly insignificant move is if she ‘accidentally’ brushes against you when walking by, murmuring a soft ‘excuse me’. This is designed to remind you of your earlier non-verbal communication and to tell you she is ready for more.

Most men are not as adept as women when it comes to automatic gestures designed to convey your desire for contact. But don’t be dismayed, these things are easily mastered and should quickly become part of any player’s tool kit.

Chill out! Every Don Juan or Casanova knows that Once They’ve Captured The Woman’s Interest, she’s Bound To Come For You By Herself.

Try to keep your facial muscles relaxed. Relax your jaw muscles and don’t clench your teeth. Have the hint of a smile curling the corners of your mouth for the next time you make eye contact and hold her gaze again for a second or two longer than she is comfortable with. Allow her to be the first to look away probably with a downward look and flutter of her eyelashes.

Check your posture, stand tall and straight but in a relaxed manner. Avoid fidgeting and over use of your arms for gestures.

Convey Your Manliness to All Potential Targets through Your Posture, Hand Movements, and Even in Choosing Your ‘Territory’.

Overall you should be maintaining a complete body gesture that is soft and fluid, rather than quick or jerky.

The Alpha male is always confident and dominant in a crowd, even if he does not know all of them.

The first strategy when entering a room is to find an area to mark as ‘your’ territory from which you can survey all the potential females in the area. This is usually with your back against a wall. If you are sitting on a sofa, put your drink and plate of nibbles on the table beside you. In doing this you are marking out space as being ‘yours’.

However you feel, try to relax and maintain a good posture, hold your head up high and indicate that you are the Alpha male in this space. This is an ideal position from which to mark your target and initiate non-verbal contact by holding the gaze for longer than usual, ensuring the target looks away first. This means you are asserting your dominance.

The Eyes are Very Important in Relaying To Women that you are an Alpha Male who can Take Control, Protect Them, and Keep Them Safe.

Use this position of power to assess your targets, and if your selected hottie looks down after breaking eye contact, she is interested. If your target merely looks away it means that they are not particularly interested in you right now.

In most societies, including developed ‘Western’ society, the person who looks away or breaks eye contact first is viewed as being submissive. This is not usually appealing to most women so avoid it at all costs.

However you feel inside, it is essential to maintain a steady gaze with the hint of a smile and to remain feeling completely confident and in control of the situation.

Using silent language to establish yourself as the Alpha Male in any group will show that you are well able to combine being a provider with being protective and without losing your status as the ‘top dog’.

It also shows your potential targets that you are a master of social rules and etiquette and leads them to believe that they will be safe in your hands.

You may think that you are a great talker, and have a huge number of highly successful strategies at your disposal with a decent enough score rate. Perhaps you have trained yourself to become an excellent listener too, and squirrel away all relevant and useful information on your target.

However Successful in the Dating Field You Are, you’re Never A Don Juan or Casanova Unless you can Decipher Just What Women Are Thinking.

Despite your capabilities in these areas, you should become familiar with reading body language and sooner or later, you will realize that this is the secret key to unlock what that hottie is really thinking.

If a picture says a hundred words, then the lift of an eyebrow can speak volumes. But you have to be able to decipher the code. Key areas to watch and pay attention to are her eyes, her arms, and her hands.

Be Careful: Women May Say One Thing Yet Feel The Exact Opposite, so Knowing How To Read Her Signals Is Crucial.

Whilst guys have different meanings for words women use, it can be hard to understand their real meaning with dialogue alone. But when it comes to body language, the signals are rarely wrong. They are produced subconsciously, mostly without the woman’s knowledge, and so can provide vital clues and feedback as to your progress. Ideally, what the body language tells you and what she says should match, but very often they can conflict, and studying body language will be your only way of finding out for sure what this cutie is really thinking.

The biggest giveaway and the most highly expressive feature to observe are her eyes. Simple basic rules can tell you a great deal. Holding eye contact with you while you are speaking means she likes what she hears, and certainly wants to hear more.

If the Eyes are The Window to the soul, Her eyes are the Window to Your Chance of Scoring Her – or Not At All.

If her eyes are flickering all over the place while you are talking, she is not fully engaged in your conversation and might well be checking out the other guys since you have clearly lost her attention.

Sometimes harder to spot, but a truly definitive test, is the pupil, or black part of the eyeball. If it grows in size as you chat, she is interested, and likes what she is seeing as well as what you are saying. If on the other hand they contract to tiny pinpricks, then you need to urgently reassess your tactics and try again. This is foolproof since pupil dilation is a completely autonomic process.

Any Successful Don Juan knows that He Needs To Stay Alert For Any Signal She May Convey, because your reaction It Could Make Or Break The Evening.

Being aware it is time to switch tack and revise your tactics ‘on the hoof’ is essential, and should be second nature to Don Juans or Casanovas who score regularly. In the split second you notice a significant change in her body language, you should be prepared to tailor your response to reflect her reaction.

Let’s clear up one thing, a couple of minor negative moves to start with does not mean you should give up and back off. It could just be that one small thing was not to her taste, but maybe you can remedy it. But it is essential to be quick to pick up on the negative and to reassess your moves accordingly.

Learn From Your Mistakes: take note of The Things That Make Her Back Off and Try A Safer Move For The Meantime.

Maybe that joke was rather too risqué for the lady, in which case you need to try a different and subtler technique. If her body language after the negative reverts to positive, then give it another shot.

This is something the Don Juan or Casanova knows instinctively, but can be learned over time. Don’t get too up close and personal too fast, respect her boundaries and comfort zone and use it to afford you a better opportunity to view her entire body, and consequently gain the full benefit of assessing her body language.

Showing her that You Respect Her Personal Space Endears Her To You and Allows You To Establish Yourself As A Gentleman.

You will also add points in keeping out of her personal space and be considered the perfect gentleman, which can only add to your chances of a score. Is she crossing her arms over her chest while looking vacant? Bad sign. Definitely time to change tactics. Has she crossed her legs with the upper leg facing towards you? Good sign. Keep on doing whatever you are doing, it is working. Is she playing with her hair or licking her lips? Both are signs she likes what she is seeing and hearing.

These are all fantastic guides to the Don Juan or Casanova, and should be taken into account in every case. They help you as part of the overall impression and are pretty much fool-proof. The information you gain from studying body language is highly worthwhile and will pay you back in greatly increased scores.

In Reality, Women have Often Already Decided Early On Whether To Let You Pass Go With Her Or Not, so you’ll be Doing Her A Favour by Interpreting Her Signs Accurately.

You may find this hard to believe, but typically a woman has decided whether you have permission to pass go with her or that you will get your marching papers quickly, and conveys this via body language signals long before the thoughts are put into words.

Being able to decipher her body language gives you the one up on your target every time. It may even allow you to save face and back off before she actually gives you your verbal dismissal, thus saving your ego from any damage.

As with most things in life, the more often you do it, the more proficient you get at it. It is something very worthy of study and the efficient use of this tool will give serious Don Juans or Casanovas the upper hand each and every time they try to score. Plenty of positive body language can mean only one thing – you have scored big-time and are about to enjoy the fruits of your labour.

Casanova and the Enigma Machine: Cracking the Code of Feminine Behavior in the Dating Scene

You’ve done everything you can to be more attractive to women, but also you need to learn how to spot the women who are most likely to be interested in you at any given time.

Begin by Acknowledging that you Face a Superior Enemy, Reared from Childhood in Warfare and Espionage.

The truth is most guys find it hopeless to read a woman’s intentions. Is she into me or isn’t she? Actually, men fail to recognize 80% of the signals that women send them. The reason is very simple, women are much better than men in sending and understanding non-verbal cues because from a young age they have been taught how to read people. Since childhood, women have been sending and receiving non-verbal signals all the time.

You Miss Out on Great Opportunities and will Even Offend Women, if you Can’t “Decode” Their Behavior.

Women get very frustrated when guys that they really like fail to get the hint of the non-verbal cues that they are sending towards them while guys that they’re not so keen on keep hitting on them! For women, what they are communicating through their non-verbal signals and/or body language is perfectly clear they will never say anything because that is not how it works. No self-respecting woman will ever come right out and tell a man what she thinks of him. Although there may be some women out there who will, they’re usually the rule breakers in other areas of life as well.

Therefore, the facts of the matter are that women spend their time sending carefully crafted non-verbal signals, which we completely miss out on because we’re men. In the meantime, we miss great opportunities because we don’t know when they like us and they think we’re dissing them because we are not responding positively to their signals!

Your Approach should Involve Both Learning to Decode Women’s Signals and Actually Keeping An Eye Out For Them. Knowledge Without Awareness is Useless.

What do you have to do?
You have to develop and observant attitude and learn how to spot the non-verbal cues of a girl who’s interested in you so you can hit the ground running. You need to learn to read women’s non-verbal signals so that you don’t lose out on opportunities that are staring you in the face.

Take a Calm, Broad View of her Behavior As A Whole. Do Not Fixate on A Single “Safe” Spot or Get Distracted By Nervousness. Your State Of Mind Affects What You See, and How You See Your Environment.

Obviously, the first thing you have to do is keep your eyes open. The surest way to tell if a girl is interested in you is to see if she is checking you out. The problem is that most guys, especially those with low self-confidence, have tunnel vision. They either look at where they’re going or at their feet. Somebody could be staring right at them and they’d never notice. It’s time to get eyes all around you and use the surroundings to your advantage!

Your Observational Skills can also Help You to Find Gorgeous Girls that would only Catch The Attention of A Man of Taste And Discernment—Without Getting Caught!

You’ll get numerous benefits by keeping your eyes open. First of all, you’ll start to see how many hot babes are actually out there surrounding us all the time, but most guys don’t have their eyes open to see this. Second, you’ll be able to check really hot chicks out at a glance because you’ve already established a habit of taking in the presence of the people around you. You won’t ever make the mistake of being too obvious because a lingering gaze when you’re already looking around and checking out the area in front of you will not look out of place. Lastly, of course, if a woman is looking your way and checking you out, you’ll certainly be able to intercept her glance in time to send an answering glance of your own.

Keep Your Eyes Open All The Time. A Real Casanova Does Not Limit His Hunting Grounds To Singles Bars.

So make it a habit to always look around you, whether you’re in the grocery store or on the street. Make keeping your eyes open a habit. Never assume that at any given moment a woman isn’t checking you out.