The first time you have sex can be awkward. You are not used to one another and you don’t know what the other person likes. Your anticipation is at such a high level that you don’t know how long you can hold off before coming. Never give in to the temptation to take things hard and fast.

Take time to explore one another before taking your clothes off. Take some time to cuddle and hold her. Stroke her hair, her face, her shoulders, her arms. Continually reconnect by gazing into her eyes. Tell her what you like about her and what attracts you to her. Make sure she knows how much you’re enjoying being with her at that moment.

You can Find Out that She Wants It Badly by Making Her Undress Both You and Herself. Then You’ll Be Certain That She’s Into You.

When it comes to actually taking your clothes off, guide her hands to your shirt and have her undress you first. When she takes the initiative, it will be clear that she is fully into having sex. You should always be the first one to get naked (or just down to your boxers) during the first time you have sex. This will make her more comfortable. Ask her to undress herself for you. When a woman undresses herself, it signals her commitment to having sex, and she can take advantage of the erotic potential of stripping.

Letting Your Partner Know How Much You Like Her (especially her face and her body) would Make Her More Confident and Ready to Go To Bed With You.

The more reassurances you can give her that you find her beautiful, the better. Most women are extremely self-conscious about their bodies and feel uncomfortable undressing before a man. Don’t be surprised if she wants to retreat under the covers before going completely naked. You can help her feel more comfortable by dimming the lights or turning them off and lighting some candles in the corner to set the mood and put romantic element in high gear.

Use Your Fingers And Lips to Set Her Mood and Make Her Feel More Intimate With You.

Spend as much time on foreplay as you can. Kiss her. Kissing makes a woman feel appreciated, warm, and connected to you. Run your fingers through her hair, lightly suck on her lower lip, and trace her lips with your tongue. The more areas of her body you can stimulate, the better. While you’re kissing her, make sure you’re using your hands to caress her body gently. A light brush stroke with the very tips of your fingers can set her skin on fire.

When French kissing, start gently and only probe the front part of her mouth with the tip of your tongue. French kissing shouldn’t be sloppy or forceful.

Real Casanovas Do NOT Stop Themselves From Making Sounds In Bed. After all, Those Soft Sounds You Make Turn Women On Too.

Listen to the sounds she makes. Sounds can be incredibly erotic and can tell you that what you’re doing is turning her on. You don’t have to be silent in the bedroom, either. Women have told me that they appreciate it when a guy makes quiet sounds—such as an exhalation, a soft groan, or a faster breath—in the bedroom, because it turns them on, too, and tells them when they’re doing something right. These sounds connect you to one another and keep sex from feeling impersonal. Avoid dirty talk unless she starts it first.

In Bed, Make Sure that Your Hands and Tongue Are Dedicated for Her Erotic Stimulation And Pleasure.

The more time you spend on foreplay, the more intense her sexual experience will be. Don’t forget to use your hands and tongue wherever possible. Kiss your way down her body and back up again. The inner thigh is a particularly sensitive area, so are the top of the buttocks and small of the back. Trace circles on her skin with your tongue.

Use Simple, Gentle Techniques to Prepare Her For The Sizzling Finale. Let Her Revel in These Titillating Moments.

Lick the sensitive skin underneath her arm. Let your moist breath warm the back of her neck before you kiss it softly. Nibble on her ear. Find her erogenous zones on her hips, trace the length of her spine with your tongue, and tell her how attractive you find her dimples, her skin, the curves of her body. Trace circles around her breasts and flick her nipples lightly with your tongue. Remember to use a gentle touch at all times. Touching a woman’s breasts roughly can be painful for her, and nothing destroys her willingness to have sex more than discomfort.

Tease Her Gently until She Asks For It Herself, and When She Does, Beware Of How Much Built-up Pleasure She Would Release!

These techniques can actually be more effective in bringing a woman to the brink of orgasm than trying different sexual positions. If you can, hold off on actual penetration for as long as possible. Wait until anticipation has driven her crazy. The more you can tease her and entice her, the stronger her orgasm will be when she has it – and the same for you.

Contrary to the evidence on superior sexual prowess, no man has really perfected the art of lovemaking. No man is perfect. Sexually, he may perform excellent today, but his woman’s satisfaction might not be as intense tomorrow. No one could claim not being guilty for some of the most common sexual blunders committed by men.

Men who aim to be consistently great lovers should deal with the following sexual blunders. Moreover, these mistakes should be re-considered and avoided to achieve consistency of superior sexual performance.

A Perception that Foreplay Starts with Sexual Stimulation

Many men are not aware that women are emotional and romantic creatures. Men should realize that the key to a great sexual act is not straight-forward foreplay, but seduction. There is a need to masterfully and manipulatively make a woman have sex with a man. If women love oral sex as a form of foreplay, wait patiently to make her long for it. Before a man should head towards the most erogenous zone, he should learn the art of giving passionate embraces, kissing and fondling. Such activities bolster any woman’s intense feeling and longing to be physically loved.

Neglecting the Clitoris, Missing the G-spot

Most men fall prey to the misconception that penetration is still the best and most certain strategy to bring about the Big O. There is a need to refresh Female Anatomy 101. First reviewer lesson: The woman’s main orgasmic trigger is the clitoris. Thus, it should never be ignored during intimate moments. Second reviewer lesson: The G-spot is not mythical. It could be found along the vagina’s front wall, a little lower or higher or more into a side than another. It could take the size of a small pea or a noticeable quarter. Another reminder: men should make sure their women are aroused before making the experimental search.

Focusing on Self-performance, Pleasure and Techniques

Above all, men should pay attention to the needs and likes of women. Only a few men know that pleasure lies deeply into attaining mutual sexual satisfaction. Sex should be made pleasurable to both parties.

Ignorance about Women’s Naughtiness

As mentioned, women generally like to start with romance. Once into it, they almost always fantasize to do kinky and naughty acts. During intimacy, women get further aroused by their explicit fantasies, and not many men are aware that women are full of naughty sexual fantasies in their memory banks. The romantic side of them gets toned down and the wilder personality emerges. Men should let women get on and fulfill their fantasies. However, any man should not overdo it and make a woman act like a hot porn star. Porn is just fantasy. Women may still have inhibitions despite libido and it will not be appropriate pushing them to act out their fantasies.

Thinking that Size is Most Important

The truth is that most women still prefer good performance over size. Most of the time, men fantasize of being porn stars, with all the huge glory of shafts. True enough, huge packages may tend to be novelty, but some women may just feel pain having intercourse with ‘oversized’ men. Average may be enough as long as the stuff works best.

Lastly, Believing that An Orgasm is Enough

It is a common knowledge that women are plain multi-orgasmic. They could not be fully sexually satisfied unless they reach two or more orgasms. Men should explore numerous and different ways to make their women explode. Creativity could be the key.