Out on dates, you should be able to take the pressure of keeping your woman engaged. Of course, you do not want to bore her and make her dread the moment she agrees to go out with you. To keep her up and interested, you should be able to pull off and tell several stories and anecdotes, which should all be quite interesting, fun, and engaging.

Telling stories is One Powerful Means of Drawing Women Closer to Your Ears—and the Rest of your Body

Guys, did you know that through telling stories, you could actually establish or start up sexual tension between you and your date? She could instantly feel a sexual attraction if she sees her connection to you. That is why as much as possible, you should learn the art of masterfully telling stories. You need not be a master story teller. But you could surely make your story telling ability better in your aim to seduce women.

Many men fail to impress dates because they could not sustain fun and easy conversations. Many men fail to build up sexual attraction because of their inability to arouse the interest of women. You might agree that most men commit mistakes when trying to do so. Here are some don’ts you should avoid when trying to seduce any woman using stories in your conversations.

Make sure you Build Her Energy Up and Stay With Her until She Reaches Climax (of the story)

Women hate it when men hop on to the next story when the first one seems still not ended. Remember that stories have climax, too. Women surely want to get to that end of your story, so give her the satisfaction to do so. After every story, you may spend several minutes trying to discuss any meaning, profoundness, or depth in your story. At least give every story its due attention before deciding to hop on to the next one. I bet you may already be itching to tell your next one, but the night is still young. You can have more time later.

Divert the attention to her every now and then to show that you’re not only a storyteller but also an attentive partner

When telling your story, perhaps you could also commend her for being a nice and attentive listener. You may tell her how pretty and interesting she is as you continue telling your story. You should not take the attention all to yourself. In several moments during the date, you should let her know how focused you are to her.

Keep those Explicit ‘R-rated’ Sexual Stories in Your Head until she is obviously Very Comfortable and Ready to Hear them

Many men, in their pursuit to easily get laid, immediately tell sexual stories on first encounters. There is nothing wrong to that. In fact, some men testify that this style works. However, in general, women would surely be turned off and could be uncomfortable when you immediately jump into that bandwagon on hour 1. You may seduce her verbally just by using subtle sexual innuendos instead. Do not bring about sex-related topics until you feel she has already built comfort being around you.

Every Don Juan or Casanova Became Who He Is now by Being Attentive to women and Sensitive to their Needs and Wants

It is good to tell sexy and naughty stories, but do not go overboard. You should still be sensitive to her feelings and her sexuality. Many men fail to seduce women through stories because they tend to overdo their efforts, making their stories offending in many ways. Remember to get the feel of the woman you are with before assuming she is like other girls you dated before who are always game when it comes to highly explicit sexual stories.

Avoid Sounding, Looking, and Acting like A Pervert – unless you Discover and Guarantee that She Is Attracted to Them

You should not in any way create an impression that you are sex starved and are desperate to get laid tonight. When telling stories to seduce and impress a woman, remember not to sound, look, and act like a total pervert. Rarely will you find women who are turned on by perverted ways of men. It is safer to assume that not all women are like that. If during the date, you have found out she likes perverted men, then it is time you act like one. Otherwise, stay decently sexy.

If you want to Stick to Her Memory (and later on, Her Body), then Avoid Long, Dragging, and Boring stories – Go For Short and Exciting Ones

In your desire to impress a woman, perhaps you might have ramped up your memory bank so you could have plenty of interesting stories to tell. Choose the shorter stories. Your woman surely will not want to hear novels on your date. Keep your stories, short, lively, and highly interesting.

Be a Gentlemanly Don Juan by Letting Your Date Laugh First before you join her in the fun

If you are telling anecdotes or funny stories, remember not to laugh at yourself. It may be too funny that you could not resist laughing at your own story, but make sure you finish delivering it first before you laugh. It is also better if you laugh with her instead of you laughing all by yourself while she stares and look at you confusingly.

Take your time in Establishing Yourself as a Great Story Teller and Wonderful date and she’s Bound to Want You Even More

Every story you tell her should be treated equally. You may have lousy ones, but try to spend as much time on those as you spend more time telling the interesting and fun ones. Do not worry that you will bore her. If you strive harder to tell her every story in a fun and interesting manner as you could, even the most boring story will turn into an interesting one. Recognize the value of good and effective delivery, taking note of your voice tone, facial expressions, and physical gestures.

Avoid Praising Yourself, and if you couldn’t, Salvage Your Humble Reputation as soon as you can

You may not be able to resist throwing comments during or after every story. You may opine about the characters or plot of your own stories. It is okay, but do not try to inject bragging comments as doing so may spoil all your efforts. You should not sound too proud. If you fail to hold yourself, try to stage a redemption by saying, ‘I may have sounded boastful or something, but what I meant was that I just got very lucky.’ This way, she may continue building up a good impression about you.

Get Her Participation by Asking Her Opinion during Various Stages Of Your Stories—she’ll love you for it

It will be most effective if you will make your every story as interactive as possible. You may eventually enjoy doing all the talking, but remember you are out to impress and seduce her. You can get her involved in your stories by asking her questions during openers or soliciting her comments during your stories. Doing so could make her feel more important and could make her more interested and up all night. Share the limelight as often as you could.

Cap each story off with a Good Punch Line or an appropriate Pickup Line combined with a Hint of Sexual innuendo

Summarizing every story is a way to make her develop good impression of you as a story teller. You do not need to spend so much time wrapping up. A sentence or two will do. This is also the part where you could logically and easily throw your sexual innuendos and teasing pick up lines. You may ask her if she wants to experience the kinkiness and excitement in your recently concluded sexy story. Or you may try other lines that may not be directly related to your story. Just make sure you are not overdoing it, or else she may immediately turn uncomfortable and call the night off without you even getting to the first base.

Men, you should be raving about the next statement. Talking about sex or sex-related matters with any woman could be a prelude to actually having it. For guys who could make conversations so engaging, that women tend to stick more until something more intimate happens, getting laid is so easy. You surely will not want to be included in the demographics of men who screw up by failing to gear conversations with women towards that direction.

You can Learn How to Use your Gift Of Gab to Get Women In Bed, just like any Tried-and-Tested Casanova

Are you a great storyteller? If not, do you want to be one? Do you want to use storytelling as a creative strategy to hit on any woman you like? If you are on the affirmative, then you should learn how to inject and use sexual innuendos in stories so you could effectively and immediately seduce any woman you desire.

Is it easy using sexual innuendos in conversations to flirt with and seduce women? If you are that determined to do so, you could easily infuse sexual innuendos and use them creatively to your favor. You could actually tease, flirt, and seduce just by filling your statements with sexual implications, connotations, and innuendos. Try it and be surprised with the possible consequences. Here are several ideas to help you do so.

Project your Own Desires using her own statements—She’ll Be Entertained and Aroused Both At The Same Time

Do you want to invoke a little humor that will surely make any woman laugh? Look for or at least make up sexual innuendos in her words. You could start by jokingly accusing her of trying to seduce you. When she mentions something about tiredness and bed, run a joke by accusing her of trying to get you into bed. You will surely love it when she starts getting more comfortable with you. Before you know it, your innuendos could already be up for something you want to do with her tonight.

Let her Cozy Up for Some Storytelling as Warm-Up for what Might Lead to A Hot Time Later In Bed

Women surely will not want to get bored. They are fascinated by men who provide no dull moment. If you want to keep her up, tell interesting, funny, and really engaging stories. To set the mood for intimacy, you could incorporate sex and flirting into your stories. Sexual innuendos are subtle means of introducing and tackling sex topics and subjects into the conversation. If she rides on and goes along with your innuendos, it might be one of your lucky nights.

Convey that you’re a Much Sought-After Stud by cleverly Infusing It (or Connotations of it) in Your Conversations

One of the practical ways of sexual innuendos in stories is that you could use such statement to indirectly convey your sexual message. So instead of you telling directly how great a lover you are, you could tell it indirectly. For example, if she happens to say you are good at keeping a date entertained, you could tell her jokingly that you are indeed very good at a lot more other things. The message will be that you are a stud. Start from there and let her feel the urge to know more about you more. Perhaps, she is already out to prove if you really are the stud she thinks.

Touch on The Topic of Sex when she Least Expects It, in a Very Light and Unoffensive Manner

It is always great to sexually flirt with a woman through comparing casual activities to things exclusively found and done in the bedroom. For instance, if you give a glass of water to your date, you can run a joke like, ‘Today, you seem like you are on the receiving end. I bet you also like to be on the giving end at times.’ Do not forget to smile and see how her face lights up.

Use the idea of Payback Creatively by letting Her Mind Wander to More Exciting Means of Paying each Other Back

Many men find this style easy and naughty. After she thanks you for doing a nice deed, you could crack a half-meant joke like, ‘You are welcome. You could opt to pay me back later.’ If she did a nice thing and you want to thank her, use the opportunity for your sexual innuendo. You could say, ‘I will pay you back. I might be short of cash now. Could you think of creative payment options?’

Work your way to Becoming A Wordsmith: Use Double-meaning Words to your Seduction and Dating advantage

What is good about the English language is that it is packed with so many terms that you can readily twist around to convey sexual messages. How about juicy, fast, wet, hard, and hot? Are they prompting you to think about kinky stuff? There are many other similar words. If you practice adding sexuality to daily conversations, you will soon get to master this style.

Let her know she is A ‘Naughty’ Girl – and soon She’ll Be Acting Exactly Like One!

Telling her how naughty she is always works. She may not mean to be kinky and naughty, but let her realize how her words and deeds create sexual meaning and connotations. Smile and keep your eye contact with her as you do so.

Set the Right Mood and make the Best First Impression by Using Unique Conversation Starters

The opening of your conversation sets a make or a break; if you do not pull it off rightly, you may totally screw the opportunity up. Thus, when getting into a conversation during dates, strive to be interesting and original especially prior to your intention to tell sexy and naughty stories, which are aimed at further seducing her. As a tip, start by asking her opinion about an interesting topic, which you think she is mostly interested in. You can subtly infuse your mild, yet flirty sexual innuendos after her statements. Again, be creative and cautious at the same time when doing it.

Be a true Casanova by Rehearsing Some Catchy, Cocky, and Sexy Pickup lines so you’ll Get Her Ready When She’s not

Only a few guys know some of the best and most effective pickup lines that could also serve as sexual innuendos. If you are not good at coming up with your own creative lines, maybe you can spend some minutes memorizing some. Here are some of the most amusing, naughty, yet effective sexual innuendos-slash-pickup lines: I’ve got a job for you, but take caution because it blows; I think I would fall in bed with you; It is not Christmas but you should know Santa’s lap is all the time ready; I’m like a dog who needs to bury his bone; Nice pair of legs there. What time do they open?

Intentionally Misinterpret Her Words to send her imagination RUNNING Wild and free to what you Implied

If you are running out of antics to be funny and statements to showcase your targeted sexual innuendos, try this trick. Intentionally misinterpret her words, but be sure you do it in a way you could make her laugh. For example, you are suggesting the two of you to come to the bar to get some drinks, wait until she says, ‘Let’s do it.’ Immediately turn to her saying, ‘Let’s do it? Really? Right here? Don’t you want to do it somewhere more private?’ Expect her chuckles after a while.

While a Smile might Bring People to A Closer Friendship, it usually Brings A Couple Farther from The Bed

Women are intrigued by men with serious faces. Try mastering the art of telling jokes and funny stories without laughing or smiling too much. If you smile and laugh often during the date, she might get overly comfortable and you two might lose the sexual tension. Strive to keep a straight face even when telling funny stories and cute sexual innuendos.

Women hate dull moments. One of the most dreaded possibilities women avoid these days is dating a boring and self-centered man. If you want to be active in the dating scene, you need to ramp up your story telling ability. If you are able to pull off good and interesting anecdotes, jokes, and stories you surely are always up to attract, seduce, and bed any woman you like.

Seduce any woman you like using your sense of humor and Wonderful Array of Funny Stories

Men should realize that comedy pieces or funny stories are staples in storytelling. To be safe, it is always better and more recommended to tell funny stories than serious ones. You could easily make any woman comfortable with you if you are able to make her smile and laugh along with your stories.

When telling funny stories, you should still remember that you are out to impress her. Always be self-conscious so that you will not overdo and spoil your initiative. Here are some practical guidelines that will surely help you deliver your funny stories better and in the process successfully impress and seduce any woman.

Be ready to get real and Tease yourself to Show Her Your Down-to-earth and Fun Side

You need not make fun of yourself, but you could tell some of your funny and amusing experiences. You could begin your dates by telling her more about yourself. Doing so could help make her feel more comfortable being with you. Perhaps, you could start by telling some funny instances and experiences you had yesterday or last week. Remember to tell your stories as if they happened only yesterday.

Establish an Intimate Connection with her by Talking with Her Like A Best Friend Does

Women should instantly feel the level of comfort between you and her. When telling your stories, that level of comfort should still show. The trick is to tell your story like you are telling it to your best friend. If you take this kind of mental conditioning, you can easily take off nervousness, giving you more chance to tell your stories like a real pro. The result could be pleasing as you could surely impress any woman you date.

Start being a True Don Juan by Injecting Erotic Stories or Sexual Innuendos in your conversations

Surprisingly, women are also thinking more about sex like men do. Most of them will be entertained and delighted to hear sexual stories. But if you are still not that comfortable telling one, you could focus on your casual and wholesome stories, but be sure not to miss sexual innuendos, which are subtle ways of sexually flirting using your words and statements.

Finish Off Your story with An Effective One-liner as Punch Line to seal the deal with your attentive target

Funny stories must have punch lines. You should realize that comedy antics, anecdotes, and funny stories seem to exist for the punch line, which is usually a one-sentence statement to cap and wrap the entire piece. Make sure your date still hangs on and keeps interest until your funny story reaches its punch line. Be cautious, though. It could be considered a crime to throw jokes and funny stories that have no punch lines.

Hook any hot woman with your strong and funny personality that they just could not resist!

Story telling is the best way you could display and showcase your sense of humor and your overall personality. By successfully pulling off funny stories and running hilarious jokes, you are making it clear to your date that you are gifted with a good sense of humor. Women like men like you. They do not want to be in company of boring and dull men. By being a good storyteller, you are also showcasing your good personality.

Talk to Impress: make sure your Confidence Remains High All Throughout The Night if you want to earn this girl

Women love confident men. You can showcase your overall confidence by the way you tell your stories all night. You do not need to look arrogant. You could simply be comfortable with the situation, look her straight into her eyes, and speak clearly and comfortably. Try not to stutter or run out of words, as doing so could easily give away your level of discomfort, anxiety, and pressure. Do not let your date feel your stress. Remember that you are out to impress her. If you want something good to happen tonight, you should be confident you could succeed at doing so. Start from there.

Be a real Gentlemanly Don Juan by Letting Your Date Laugh at your jokes—and join her in

Some men get annoying by laughing at their own stories or jokes. It is practically okay to laugh, but make sure you do so along with her. It will make her feel more comfortable around you if you will laugh together. But it would do otherwise if you laugh while she stares confusingly trying to figure out what is really going on. You certainly would not want to look like a fool, would you? You better choose the stories you will tell so that you will not be out of control.

Be Creative and Resourceful in finding ways to Let your date Have A Good Laugh

You may use things and people around to add fun and laughter to your story. How to do it? Here’s an example. Suppose a lady with huge ‘behind’ walks by. Make your date notice that observable feature and say, ‘Looks like Jennifer Lopez is currently in the house.’ If you run out of stories and funny antics, why not trying looking around and making fun of everyone. She will surely get good laughs. Do not overdo it though, as you may create an impression that you are making fun of everyone behind his or her back. And be careful when talking about or making fun of other people. Do not let them hear you make your date hilarious at their expense.

A little Exaggeration could Go A Long Way in terms of Making your Target Comfortable in Your Presence

You can make her laugh all the way by exaggerating. If an obese woman walks by, you may guess her weight and use exaggeration. How about telling your date you think the woman weighs 1,000 pounds? Or you could also make fun of your date by exaggerating her embarrassment. If she says she is not comfortable with the way her hair is done, say, ‘Yes, and I do not want to comment on that but it is really humongous.’ She will definitely smile or better, laugh. You can use her hair as a source of laughter all through the night.

Slowly inject sex into your conversations by Giving Your Opinion on Some Kinky Shows and Items

You may talk about your favorite kinky movie like Austin Powers or kinky television series like Sex and the City. To lead the conversation towards sex, think of some funny lines, situations, or scenes and ask her if she has ever done similar acts. Be amazed at how she eventually opens up and makes you take a peek into her private life. Take this as a queue as you march yourself up to a really fun and sexy night.

Use Clever Pickup Lines after your story’s Punch Line as your Finale to the Story—and Opening to Some Wild Action tonight

As she laughs all her heart out, you may seize the opportunity to throw up your sexy pick up line. How about telling her ‘Trust me when I say I am only kinky during the first time.’? How about another pick up line: ‘My word for the day is legs. Come with me and let me spread the word.’? You will be surely amazed at where good humor could take you.

Not many men are aware that women also think much about sex like they do. That is why a lot of guys often prefer to be ‘safe’ when conversing with women during dates. In general, many men think sex-related topics are taboo, which should be avoided during dates. Now is the time men realize the dawn of new dating and seduction techniques, especially when aiming to attract women through conversations.

If you Wish to Attract A Woman and Make Her Eager For More, you’ll need to Cleverly Insert Innuendos into Your Conversations.

You will find it much easier to establish chemistry with a woman if you would effectively flirt a little through bringing in sex topics into conversations. However, you should watch your words and your overall manners because certainly, taking the effort too far could undoubtedly backfire. How do you arouse her interest, keep her engaged, and set the mood for some kinky action? Sexual innuendos in your stories, anecdotes, and statements could truly serve as subtle and at the same time effective technique in attracting and seducing women.

Slowly but Surely is the Way every Expert Don Juan injects INNOCENT Sexual Innuendos into SEEMINGLY Normal Conversations.

Before you get into more details, set your mind to stimulate the woman you are targeting subconsciously through a good mix of interesting, funny, and sexy stories. Why are sexual innuendos effective tools when you aim to attract and seduce women? The reason is quite logical: the exciting topic of sex is subtly introduced and eventually discussed in a thrilling, yet non-threatening and non-offending manner. If you will be able to deliver stories with sexual innuendos, you could surely establish necessary sexual tension the attractive way.
Here are some tips:

Prime yourself as a ‘bad boy’—Women like FRANKNESS and are Easily Enticed By a ‘Bad Guy’

Before you get into a date or any conversation with women you plan to seduce, you should first condition yourself to become a sexy and naughty bad boy. This way, you could take away your inhibitions so you could take the guts to deliver your sexual innuendos without hassles. Instead of striving not to offend her, why not attempt to go straight into subtle sexual discussions? In a few minutes, you would notice that the woman would instantly turn comfortable and be willing to get into your game. You can take it from there.

Get into the Sexual Topic from the Side: a Friend’s ‘Sexcapade’ could Help you out

If you are still not comfortable about opening up the topic of sex in a date, you could intend to approach the subject in a sideways direction. You could start by sharing a humorous, yet interesting sexual story about a friend of yours The story need not be true. Your friend could also be fictional. The point is that you are starting to hit on her.

Spice it up and TURN the Heat HIGH Up with the Proper Accompanying Facial Expressions and Gestures

Women are easily bored when hearing uninteresting and dragging stories. You could spice up an ordinary-sounding one by focusing on your delivery. You may not be the master story teller, but you could use facial expressions and gestures to make her engaged. You can also use your face to emphasize your sexual innuendos. Women usually find it sexy.

Subtly Inject some Sensual (and not necessarily sexual) Acts into your Fabricated (or Real) Story

If you want to make it more subtle, you may tell wholesome and clean stories. But if you are creative enough, you could still strategically manage to infuse some sexual angle to it. You may tell a fairytale, but still inject sexiness by subtly discussing how the princes and princesses make out. How about that for an idea?

Display your Crafts as a Real Don Juan or Casanova by being Naughty (not rude) and Playful, but also Sensitive to Women’s reactions

The advantage of using sexual innuendos is that you could be naughty without necessarily being rude. Little taint in a hero could make women very interested. When trying to be naughty through your sexual innuendos, always make sure to monitor her reaction. If she looks a little unpleased and uncomfortable, change your gears for a while until she finds coziness around you.

Connect with Your Target on a Deeper, More Intimate level by keeping Your Attention on Her

In any form of story telling, there is a need for every story teller to ‘connect’ with listeners. The same goes if you are telling a story to a woman in a desire to impress her. If you are integrating sexual innuendos into your stories, the more you should aim to establish and keep rapport. Look into her eyes as you roll out your story. Try to exude your sexiness and your desire to have her when you get to the part of your story where you intend to flirt with her.

Use Specific and Lightly Erotic body actions to Get her Body ready for More action

To heighten the sexual tension and attraction, you may intend to strategically use mannerisms and body language. You may start holding her hand lightly then try to massage it lightly while you go on to the sexual part of your story. You can also lightly touch her shoulders, her face, or even her hair as you continue your story telling and maintain your eye contact.

Take advantage of Deadpans to BRING COLOR to the Boring details of your Stories—before she gets bored herself!

A deadpan is technically an edgy part of any story. Use it to spice up several boring details of your story. Everyone knows that all stories have their own ups and downs. During the down part, boredom usually sets in. If not properly addressed, your date will surely feel bored and you may find it harder to bounce back. To state a deadpan, set aside any inhibitions and try to be candid as you can. Then, try to infuse several sexual innuendos to make her more interested and more attentive.

Use Vivid, Sexy, and Descriptive language in Getting her interest and making her Imagination Roll Beyond Her Control

In story telling, you should know that using the most vivid and most descriptive words will always hold up listeners’ interest and excitement. If you are describing a woman in the story, tell all about her vital statistics, hair color, facial features, her vivacious curves, and her sexy physical attributes. Doing so would enable your date to be more visual. Then, try to be as vivid and descriptive when telling parts of stories that involve lovemaking. Doing so not only facilitates for a great use of sexual innuendos. You could also arouse her feelings, her interest, and her curiosity to get more into you.

Take all your time as a storyteller; You’ll Never Be Sorry when She Takes All The Time With You Tonight

As the night goes through, the more you want to end the date and take her somewhere private where you can get laid. But do not get into rush. You still have to set her mood. When telling her a story, never give in to the temptation to finish your pieces in a hurry. It will do you better if you hang on a little more and make her more engaged and yearning for more. She may be interested to spend the entire night listening to your stories. If that happens, you have a greater chance of getting what it is you want from her tonight.

Tickle her imagination and humor by incorporating Well Thought-of Pickup Lines and Innuendos Into Your Story

Remember to throw several funny, naughty, and kinky pick up lines or sexual innuendos while you are telling a story. Here are some effective and sure funny lines you might want to memorize:
-I am looking for some treasure. Could I check around your chest?
-You practically have more curves compared to a race track.
-Are you good at jigsaw puzzles? Come with me and let us put all our pieces together.
-Let me loosen your tight belt for you.
-I am dreaming about making you the most satisfied woman on the planet tonight.

As an experienced Don Juan or Casanova, you will already know that each pickup you achieve is unique and no two are ever the same. Some guys are lost at sea when trying to think of what to talk about to achieve a successful score.

If You Want To Score As Well As any Don Juan or Casanova, you’ve got to Learn Which Topics to Steer Clear From Discussing with Your Targets.

Know and take to heart that there are certain subjects that you should just never bring up with women, no matter what the circumstances may be. Do your ego a favor and avoid these topics to save yourself from the inevitable rejection. These subjects are not just unmentionables – they are to be avoided at all costs if you want to be a top scorer.

You are trying to establish yourself as a cultured gentleman, respectful, thoughtful, and wise in your target’s mind. So avoid espousing on any completely outlandish beliefs no matter how much you think they are true if you want to score.

No chick wants to hear you mumble on and on about conspiracy theories on acts of terrorism, and neither do they want to hear the ramblings of what can come across as a babbling buffoon. Discussions of this nature do nothing to bolster your image in her eyes and should be well locked away before you leave home.

Political and Religious Topics are Two Major Issues to Shelve In Your Closet before you can even blurt them out to (and lose) your date.

On occasion, conversation will lead to discussions about politics or religion – those can be fruitful subject areas. But be careful about blabbing on about pet beliefs that may give her the feeling you might be difficult if she gets to know you. Be ready for an instant turn off if you slip into this domain.

Sometimes it can be difficult to assess exactly what are considered ‘way-out’ theories. Some subjects, like those mentioned above, are obviously an instant turn off, but others can be acceptable to some and utterly abhorrent to others.

Be Extra Careful of The Topics You Delve Into if you wish to Score That Hot Chick, because Every Woman Has Different Beliefs About Issues.

In these situations, it is better to be conservative. Do not allow yourself to wander off subject and remember to keep the types of subjects within what most people would consider a socially acceptable and polite area. Spotting the cutie of the month and expounding to her about the CIA guy who has been following you for a month is the last thing an experienced and successful Don Juan or Casanova would do if he wants to score that hottie.

This can be a fine line to walk. On the one hand, your target is quite reasonably going to want to know something about your past, but there is no need to go into every gory detail about past dating disasters.

In Dating Someone (especially for the First Time), choose to Discuss The Positive Sides and Avoid Unearthing Your Dating Failures And Mishaps.

Try to be honest and stick to the positive side of your dating history, without revealing any private matters that are best forgotten. In ideal circumstances you should try to avoid this subject altogether, but for a persistent hottie, try to only give her the abbreviated summary of your past dates, and not a blow by blow description of your latest break-up.

This may seem pretty obvious, but droning on about your future plans for a large family in a leafy suburb is not the ideal subject for scoring with that foxy lady you have targeted.

Couples in relationships tend to consider this subject but it is definitely something to completely avoid when trying to impress a new lady. Lots of men think that by ‘admitting’ that they want to settle down to suburban bliss will hook that special someone. In reality, the opposite is true. You would be seen as a desperate saddo who is searching for anyone to mother him and his obnoxious kids. This is diametrically opposed to the quintessential Don Juan.

There are Specific Taboos that you need to keep in mind in order to Not Drive That Hot Lady Away.

Acceptable areas for conversations include your wish to travel more or to go back to school to improve your skill sets, but if nothing else in this article sticks in your mind, remember this, never mention your marital aspirations or relationship requirements. That should be considered a definite no-no if you want to stand a chance in scoring this chick.

Topics of a mundane and routine nature may fill in the empty spaces in conversations, but they are not what your cute little hottie wants to hear from a personable gentleman.

Woman Search For Adventures just As Much As We Men Do, so Keep Your Personal Regimes To Yourself.

Drone on about your ability to grow a beard in three days or how you enjoy mowing the lawn on the weekend will switch her off almost instantaneously. So avoid any subject that falls into the daily routine category, whether it is the packed commuter trains or the daily chat round the water cooler. Seasoned Don Juans and Casanovas know that this boring drudgery is not what will float her boat.

The main difficulty with avoiding this subject is that it all too easy to slip into chatting about daily routines to fill awkward silences. If you reach this stage in the conversation before you have finished the starters you may be in trouble.

It sounds like it is time to deploy number two tactic pronto if you are not going to lose the attention of, and the possibility of a score here.

Recall the List of Interesting Topics You’ve Listed Way Ahead of Time before she could Even Think of Seeking Companionship with A Better Conversationalist Out There.

If all else fails and you feel yourself drowning at sea, drag up an interesting or amusing anecdote or ask her opinion on real life issues which are important to most people. Seasoned Don Juans or Casanovas are aware that lulls in conversation can be deadly to a score, and take measures to have plenty of backup subjects with which to entertain their target.

Many guys don’t understand what is meant by a ‘bad boy’. It conjures up men doing bad things to women like abusing women in one way or another.

But in realty a ‘bad boy’ is just a man who does not please a woman by doing everything she expects or asks for when she expects or wants it.

Any Don Juan or Casanova who Wishes to Get Any Girl’s Interest should Learn What A True ‘Bad Boy’ Is: One Who Puts His Own Interests Before Any Girl’s (No Matter How Hot She Is).

It is this seeming lack of interest in the ‘bad boy’ that attracts her interest and labels the man who dares to behave in this manner the tag of ‘bad boy’. So in one way of thinking, being a bad boy is actually a good thing.

In essence, the characteristic that makes a good guy a bad boy is that the bad boy always puts his own best interests, and himself, before that of any lady.

A prime example of bad boy behavior would be canceling a date with a woman simply because a more enticing dating opportunity presented itself at the last minute. When viewed from the seasoned Don Juan or Casanova’s angle, all that the bad boy is really doing is playing the game – without the disguise of doing it solely for the woman’s interest.

So now you see how easy it is to be a good ‘bad boy’. All you have to do is to allow your own self-interests to become your main goal, and don’t turn yourself inside out trying to fit in and please any woman, no matter how cute. Players who have been doing this so long that it becomes second nature to them may find this hard to do at first.

Women are accustomed to guys who do what they want, when they want it. Pleasing them in any way that they can. So a guy who does not conform to these types of actions, is classed as being ‘bad’. In truth the women are curious as to why the ‘bad boy’ acts differently and in doing so you will certainly raise the question in a woman’s mind.

Classic Well Known Bad Boys

It helps to Choose Bad Boys To Emulate, although you don’t need to follow their fashion getup as much as you need to Copy Their Devil-May-Care Attitude Toward Women.

Classic ‘bad boys’ of the silver screen like Marlon Brando, James Dean and Sean Penn spring to mind. They all have the tough exterior, leathers, tattoos, but more significantly they all have the ‘couldn’t care less attitude’ which women find so appealing.

Act Indifferent Towards Her

Hot women are not used to being treated indifferently by guys. Most guys will do anything for them, but bad boys refuse to play her game, and instead, concentrate on their own, making them even more attractive and difficult to attain for the determined hottie.

Dressing The Part Helps You Focus on Bad Boy Traits

Of course, it helps if you are halfway good-looking, but getting your mind around acting the part of the bad boy is much more important than actually dressing like one. Although if you do, you are likely it will give you more credibility in your own mind, as well as that of the ladies.

Traits To Copy To Put You In Bad Boy Mode:

Be the Maverick Who Stands Out From The Crowd

Stand out as a certified Don Juan from the rest of the male pack by Conforming To Your Own Set Of Preferences.

Don’t slavishly follow the latest styles of clothing. Adapt them to your own individual style and strut your stuff. This conveys the message that you know about style but prefer to stick to your own rules, rather than everyone else’s. It marks you out as a leader, not a follower.

Dare To Be Different And Revel in Being Bold

In a bar, be decisive about what you want, don’t simply follow the rest of the guys. Allow the ladies to order first because as a Casanova, you are still a gentleman, but then be strong and stand out from the crowd.

Keep Personal Details Elusive For The Bad Boy Effect

Women Love the Mystery of Bad Boys; so make sure that you Keep Enough Questions On Her Mind that makes her Go On A Quest For You!

Don’t give away information about yourself and never tell anyone more than you absolutely have to about you or your life. Keep your business to yourself and appear elusive. The more enigmatic you seem the better, women love a puzzle.

Show Fickle & Impulsive In a Good Way

Allowing your maverick nature to show in some way will intrigue any woman. Maybe a song comes on you just love, so you grab the nearest hottie (not the target) and whirl her off into a wild frenzy of close action on the dance floor. Only to drop her as soon as the song ends.

These types of ‘bad boy’ actions make your target feel she wants to learn more about you, and to be around you. She is intensely curious as to why you are like you are and intends to find out. These are all positives from the ‘bad boy’ attitude.

The Bad Boy Is Bad – Not Rough Crude or Mean

Just to clarify, although a ‘bad boy’, using this persona you should not be dishonest, deceitful, mean, crude or rude. The bad boy is still a gentleman. His attitude to most things is classic indifference, he could care less either way, especially those things which seem to matter to the others.

Standing alone, he really does not seem to give a damn whether the attention of the most gorgeous lady in the room is on him or not. But it is very likely it will be, for the same reason.

His aloofness makes him appear somewhat unattainable, a definite attraction with any determined woman. Most women love a challenge and always want what it appears they cannot have.

This nonchalant attitude makes him seem unattainable, and even more of a catch in the eyes of the women in his presence. Women are likely to compete fiercely for his attention.

Winning over a seeming maverick who does not appear to care one way or the other is great kudos to a woman. She will be perceived that that much better herself for having pulled off the seemingly impossible.

Rock-Solid Self-Confidence is the Key To Winning The Interest Of Every Hot Momma in your list.

The main factor in pulling off this ‘bad boy’ act is to be supremely self-confident. You can still flirt with woman, but you will be more selective as the ‘bad boy’ and only go for the cream of the crop, who by now will be flocking to your side to discover what is so different about you. The less attainable you appear to be, the more interest you will generate.

Act Disinterested In Women

Standing alone, he really does not seem to give a damn whether the attention of the most gorgeous lady in the room is on him or not. But it is very likely it will be, for the same reason.

Be Great In The Sack And Women Will Spread Word

Woman love to talk, they talk to anyone, and to each other more particularly. To harness the power of female gossip, make sure that you are impressive when it comes to skills in the bedroom.

This blog Casanovasystem.org has many articles on this subject to help you learn more about being a superstar between the sheets. But bad boys tend to go that one step further and act even more dominant. Teasing her until she is out of her mind with desire is one aspect that makes her realize that you can please her or leave her, and do exactly as you please.

Keep Every Woman Guessing Things About You—including whether She Could Turn You Into A Nice Guy Using Her Own Charms!

Another well known ‘bad boy’ trait is to be unpredictable. Take her immediately with barely controlled passion one minute, and then contrast this with a long slow adventure into something she is not familiar with. Be imaginative and use your creativity in capturing this alluring woman with your individual style.

Be Slightly Aloof To A Woman

His aloofness makes him appear somewhat unattainable, a definite attraction with any determined woman. Most women love a challenge and always want what it appears they cannot have.

This nonchalant attitude makes him seem unattainable, and even more of a catch in the eyes of the women in his presence. Women are likely to compete fiercely for his attention.

What Makes Bad Boys So Attractive To Hotties?

You are probably wondering why The Perfect Ten or that gorgeous hottie gives her bad-boy such power and control over her.

The trick to this is fairly easy – she never knows what he will do next. He appears mysterious, doesn’t give away too much about himself, and that kind of mystery is a challenge to a woman who is used to getting things her own way. His confident manner and consistently confident approach entrances her.

Another reason those hot women are attracted to bad boys is that they feel that with their experience and love they can change that bad boy into a nice guy. They represent a challenge to her femininity that is irresistible.

Hot women are not used to being treated indifferently by guys. Most guys will do anything for them, but bad boys refuse to play her game, and instead, concentrate on their own, making them even more attractive and difficult to attain for the determined hottie

Become More Spontaneous and Less Predictable

To keep that hottie attracted to you, you need to play it another way. Instead of returning acts of kindness with even bigger and immediate acts of kindness what you need to do is become more spontaneous and less predictable.

Bad Boys Don’t Suffocate Her With Boredom

Establish Your Reputation as a Carefree, Confident, and Independent Guy, and soon You will Have Women Doting On You!

Bad boys can have an ego the size of Texas, be loud and opinionated but at heart, don’t really care what anyone else thinks of them. It is even possible to be a complete jerk and still score that hottie.

The truth is that bad boys are unpredictable. They don’t ramble on and on about the latest ball game, or bore her to tears with the details of that latest upgrade to your classic car. It is this same old behaviour again and again which will in the end drive her away from the nice guy, and into the arms of that dangerous unpredictable bad boy.

There is another variety of nice guy that will drive her nuts too – that is the normal man who turns into a quivering mass of nerves when approaching a hottie. He is likely to ramble on in the same way as hundreds of other nice guys before him. Again, this is a sure-fire killer of interest in hot women. They’ve heard it all a thousand times before.

And no matter how good looking this guy is, the second she spots that he is going to be a nice guy, just like every other nice guy she will lose interest and know that this is yet another guy she can have and wind around her little finger. So why should she bother?

Learn To Create Attraction Over Affection

If you are the kind of guy that thought showering your woman with gifts and doing everything you can think of to treat her like your Queen is the way to hang on to that hottie, think again.

There can be too much of a good thing you know. This doesn’t mean being nice now and again and treating her to something you know she will love occasionally is a bad thing.

To keep that hottie attracted to you, you need to play it another way. Instead of returning acts of kindness with even bigger and immediate acts of kindness what you need to do is become more spontaneous and less predictable.

You are trying to maintain her attraction to you rather than growing her affection towards you, and giving too many nice things and behaving exactly as she thinks you will is going to reduce your value in the attraction stakes.

The last thing you want her to think of you as is a reliable old comfortable pair of shoes. The ones she wears when she is cleaning up the yard as she knows they don’t pinch and are reliably comfortable and always there. We tend to take regular and reliable things for granted, they lose their mystery and therefore there attraction.

By Challenging Women’s Instinct to Keep A Man Interested In Them and Them Alone, you will find that indeed, Women Enjoy Being With A ‘Bad Boy’.

Using bad boy tactics will counter this very effectively. Keep her walking on eggshells, never quite knowing what to expect from you. You will appear more of a challenge.

Warning – This Routine Can Become Addictive

When you first take on this ‘bad boy’ attitude it may all seem very false to you, and you are bound to take some practice to really get into it. But it is worth persevering, as the rewards are great.

When you start getting positive feedback by scores you thought you could never pull off, the role will become second nature to you. You will learn how to adapt your attitude to any given scenario to reap the rewards.

If you are a Don Juan who’s keen on keeping your relationship with the woman you’re currently with, avoid taking her for granted.

You may find this hard to believe, but it is much easier to take another man’s woman than you might think. Most men (especially in long term relationships) neglect their woman and take the relationship for granted. They stop thinking about how to please her and generally don’t bother to pay attention to her needs.

This makes it much easier for other men to grab the opportunity and steal your woman. A man who neglects his relationship (and woman) is easy to spot. And thus the woman is a prime target for other guys.

You can Keep Any Woman You Like Forever Yours by Keeping Her Satisfied and Feeling Cared For.

A little caring and tenderness is required to keep the lady happy and to nurture the relationship. By neglecting her, whether it is ignoring her when you are concentrating on sports or never offering to help around the home, all these are signs to her that you are losing interest in her and taking her for granted.

Fulfilling your woman’s needs should be your number one priority. If they are not, you can be sure there is another guy just around the corner who will make sure she is happy.

That’s right guys, if your woman has a new male ‘friend’, particularly if she has not had them before, then you could well have something to worry about. And if she insists he is ‘only a friend’ then you could well have more problems ahead unless you get your act together and show her you care like you used to. Follow these seasoned Don Juan or Casanova tips to succeed and keep your woman …

A Handful of Don Juans or Casanovas Have Gotten It from their Experience that No Man Could Ever Go Wrong by Being Open and Honest with Their Partner.

If you want your relationship to be long term, then you must ensure that your feelings towards your woman are always open and honest. In this way you will never have to worry about what she is doing because you have a strong foundation of trust that makes the relationship secure and long lasting.

Contrary to what Most Men Assume, Women actually Admire Men Who Share Their Troubles, Fears, and Insecurities with Them.

This may seem like a no-brainer but there are so many guys out there that bottle up their feelings, keeping everything to themselves and not being completely honest with their partner.

Even if you do feel like this, discussing it and getting it all out in the open will be a huge relief to you. It will also have the guaranteed effect of her respecting you even more for being a man and telling her how you feel. These are both attributes which help the two of you work together to make the relationship that much stronger and keep the partnership going from strength to strength.

When your partner starts to doubt your feelings for her and when being careless and thoughtless or being so tied up in your own ‘thing’ that your neglect her starts to eat away at what you two had, the red flag should be waving.

Any Sensible Man should be Wary of the Signs that His Girlfriend Is Starting To Feel Neglected, before she is Whisked Away by a Less Worthy Man.

When a woman senses that you no longer care for her in the way you used to, she will be unhappy and has probably tried to bring the problem up with you. If there is a man ‘friend’ on the horizon, he may be ready to take her off your hands – and all because you were neglectful.

If this has the ring of truth about it and you know in your heart that you have been taking her for granted, and putting your own needs and fun way ahead of hers, then this is your wake up call.

If you wish to Keep A Woman Glued To You, you need to Treat Her In The Same Manner as When You First Started Dating.

If this is the situation you find yourself headed for, and you have a ‘good’ woman, then it is highly possible that your neglect towards her is driving her to consider her other options. And when another man is in the wings, friend or no friend, it is much easier for her to decide enough is enough.

In the beginning you knew that you had to respect her, and take care of her at all times. But over time you got absorbed into other interests and neglected to do the required ‘upkeep’ on the relationship, putting your needs ahead of hers. The damage done to relationships by this type of neglect can be irreversible.

Revive Her Desire For and Interest In You by Openly Discussing Sex and Preparing Wild Nights with Her.

Using the need for sex to your advantage is a valid way to arouse her interest in you again. The new guy she has lined up is probably just waiting for the time when she can resist him no longer. The caring friendly shoulder to cry on phase will move swiftly to an intimate relationship, at least that is what the new guy is waiting for.

Your best technique for using this to your advantage is to make sure you talk openly about what each of you needs. Visit your local sex shop and buy some toys to spice up the action in the bedroom and take advantages of different environments such as a cheap motel or in the car, anywhere which makes her feel aroused. The most important aim of this strategy is to make her feel desired physically and emotionally.

Next its time to surprise her and allow her all the free time to do what she wants when she wants. When she has become so used to all your attention again, and is basking in your admiration and kindness towards her, you might want to suggest that she spend some time with her new man friend.
This can be a risky strategy and is only to be recommended if you are quite sure that all the extra love and attention you have lavished on her in the past couple of months has paid off.

Use Reverse Psychology to Reinforce Your Concern and Affection For Her, Both of which are Enough to Make Any Woman Cozy Up To You.

You can say that you don’t want to be responsible for her neglecting her friends and understand if she would like some time with them. This will appear to make you even more loving and attentive, and will probably result in her wanting to spend more time with you.

Assuming she sees him now, he will soon pick up on the fact that she is not going be intimate with him and set his eyes on someone else’s woman. At this point your partner will see him for what he really was – a vulture waiting to jump on her.

The last step is to keep adding passion upon passion. Don’t let her think that you only changed your habits and became more loving because of the threat of another guy. As long as you keep your woman’s needs completely fulfilled you shouldn’t have anything to worry about.

Use the Very Same Techniques that Work For Any Successful Don Juan or Casanova in dating, in Wooing Your Own Girl and Winning Her Back Before You Even Lose Her.

Many women are emotionally needy for a variety of reasons and they often need men to validate them. They want men to assure them that they are desirable, sexy and beautiful and that they are loved for more than just being an efficient housekeeper with cooking abilities.

The key to achieving this is to take her out someplace special, like her favourite restaurant or a movie and take the time to talk to her. Ask about her aims and desires in life and what she dreams of achieving. Try to avoid the trap of falling into discussions about the kids or home repairs.

She wants to know that you cherish and care for her deeply on an emotional and physical level.

The biggest mistake that most men make is that they become too used to being comfortable and their tiniest needs taken care of, by their loving partner, on a daily basis.

The result of this is that they take their woman for granted. To counteract this feeling within her, before it is too late, compliment her from time to time. There is no need to do it too often as that may seem phony.

Just pick something about her and tell her how much you like it. You used to boast about being a ‘new man’ and helping with the dishes – what happened to that?

If you enjoy your car you maintain it from time to time, don’t you? Well it is even more important to protect and maintain the relationship with your partner.

Even when you do spend time in taking care of your woman’s needs, you are still going to come across rough times. That is just life. There are always times of great elation and times of feeling low in all relationships, and this is perfectly normal.

In times like this, stay very much aware of the positives in your life. Don’t lament over what could have been. We all make choices and we are all adults and we live with those choices.

Focus on how well she takes care of you, how much she always puts what you need first. You should be reciprocating and, if you are not, you could be in for trouble.

The best way to keep your union a strong one is to focus on the positive aspects and to work together in improving those that are not so positive.

The main thing is to give your partner the proper attention she deserves on a daily basis and in this way hard times will not seem so very hard, and will in fact pull you two together. A positive attitude is very likely to re-create a positive relationship with your special lady.

If you sense your partner is about to leave you, and you know she is feeling dissatisfied, then there are steps you can take to turn back the clock and revitalize your relationship with her.

Any seasoned Don Juan or Casanova can Tell The Difference between ‘Bad Hair Days’ and Days when She Is Most Bothered With What You Are Doing (or not doing) right.

Logic tells you that it is not always ‘that time of the month’ and no, ‘bad hair days’ don’t last for weeks.

You worked hard to make this gorgeous lady your girlfriend, so why let her go when it looks like she is thinking of moving on if you are not ready to?

As unlikely as it may seem to you right now, it could be that you are doing something (or not doing something) without even realizing it, which is having a bad effect on your relationship.

To help you figure out what to do so you can keep your girlfriend, follow the seasoned Don Juan or Casanova’s advice and tips to recapture the rapture of your early relationship…

Keep Your Eyes Locked In On Her and Your Mouth Shut Whenever There are Hotter Women Around.

Cardinal rule number one – no matter how attractive another woman is, never check out the competition in front of your lady. She knows you look at other women, and even that you think some of them are hot, but she does not want to see it and certainly does not want to hear about it.

Keep those times you check out other women to when you are with your guy friends. This is a number one complaint of many women and you would be wise to take it to heart if you really want to keep your woman.

Listen Well, Treat Her Best, and Give Her All of Your Attention—short and sweet techniques to keep your relationship sweet and long.

At a basic level, you should be doing three things. You should listen to what she has to say, and react appropriately. You should go that extra mile to be nice to her and to make her feel good. And finally, probably what women consider the most important of all, give her your full attention.

Now may be the time to ask, do you really like that hobby of yours more than you enjoy having the comforts and pleasure of your woman?

In all your relationships, always remember to Keep Your Duties As A Man and Provider In Order To Stop It From Ending.

As the guy in this relationship, you need to remember that you have to take care of your lady. You should avoid her having to open doors and also paying for herself. Both of these are bound to make her grouchy if she has to do them and it puts across the feeling to her that you are just not looking after her (and therefore don’t value her) like you used to.

Women have it in their genes to seek out a protector, someone who will care for them, and there is bound to be an element of this in your relationship with her. Are you falling down in your duties as ‘the man’?

In long-term relationships it is simple to fall into the habit of taking her for granted. And the longer the relationship, the easier it is to do. Guard against this as it is the death knell of long-term relationships.

Every successful Don Juan or Casanova knows that to Keep A Woman His, he has to Keep Surprising Her and Showing Her His Care And Affection.

Take some time to think back to the beginning of your relationship: the time when you showed her your sensitive and caring side. Did you used to take her to see chick flicks that she enjoyed but now you only go to see sports or action films?

Surprise her with dinner followed by the latest chick flick and you will be amazed at the result, and reap the rewards later that night.

Next, you need to rekindle her interest – and maybe you have been pretty boring lately, rambling on about your hobby and not talking to her about her interests or maybe spending more time doing what you want to do instead of thinking of her?

A lover who is a source of exciting small surprises and a well of hidden talents is every woman’s ideal partner. Just make sure you are this person to her if you want to keep her.

Real Men Know When & How To Accept Help, Especially If That Help will Help Save Their Relationship.

If your lady suggests some kind of counselling, then don’t be shocked and refuse point blank. Keep an open mind. As much as you hate the idea, this type of intervention can often help you both and stop the relationship from collapsing. You may also gain great insight about yourself and realise that you have strengths you never even knew you had.

If your Girl is a Definite Keeper, you’ve Got To Be Extra Careful to Keep Her Yours and Only Yours No Matter What.

Spend some time putting your full attention on the relationship and make shiny what has gone dull between you. Only from this perspective are you likely to be able to identify where things are going wrong.

Don’t wait until she is packing her things before you take action – it may be too late. Come up with a plan, stick to it, and try to keep your lady by your side.

There are many other great catches out there, but why hand her over to some other guy after all the time and effort you put into getting her in the first place. Keepers are much harder to find than one night stands.

Do Thoughtful Things For Your Girl and Learn to Look At Things From HER PERSPECTIVE.

You may not be the best handyman, electrician or plumber, but it is usually the guy who has to fix stuff around the house. If you have been neglecting things lately and the trash is piling up, or you haven’t offered to help with the household chores lately, you better think about it. Remember boasting that you were ‘a new man’ and always helped with the dishes after a meal?

Think back to all the thoughtful things you used to do to please her. When you can again be like the person you were, you will once again find the love you had.

As a Don Juan or Casanova you should understand that most women simply do not view sex in the same way that men do. Women want intimacy, and in many cases, in order to have that, they have sex.

Men on the other hand think that if they are having sex then they automatically have an intimate relationship.

Another aspect of taking responsibility is saying those three little words – “I am sorry.” Some men find it impossible to say this, but if it spells the difference between keeping her and losing her, even if you think you have done nothing wrong, isn’t it worth saying?

There are Three Simple Rules to Keep Any Relationship Afloat and Happy: Communicate, Communicate, and Communicate.

Take time to analyse your communication with her. This is a vital element of any relationship and you need to be aware of it.

You are both adults. You need to ensure that every single issue between you is discussed and brought out in the open and brought to a satisfactory conclusion for both parties if the relationship is to continue.

The simple act of discussing problem issues will make you both feel better. And it will prevent minor issues snowballing into a completely out of hand situation.

This is bad communication at root, and great communication is vital if you are to have a happy healthy long-term relationship.

Bars and clubs are not the easiest environment for picking up women and in fact may present several challenges you would not face in other locations.

Practice Makes Perfect—This Rule applies even in the Realm of Picking Up Hotties In Bars And Clubs!

Give yourself a head start by putting in some practice, especially if you are nervous. Being relaxed will come as second nature to you if you practice putting your personality on display.

Ideally, while you are refining your game, go out at least three or four times a week to clubs. Lots of guys feel more comfortable in going to another town where no-one knows them, which gives them a psychological edge to their game.

Follow these useful tips on how to pick up women successfully in bars and clubs, and not come off looking like a sleaze…

Remember the Double Standard in terms of Approaching The Other Gender When Drunk: it’s Perfectly Fine with us men (actually, it’s great!) If It’s The Woman Who Is Drunk, but Not The Other Way Around.

This is rather a puzzle and to some degree, there appears to be a double standard at play here. Women often get drunk and kind of sloppy when they go out to a bar or club, and it seems perfectly acceptable.

But if a man approaches a woman and he appears to be even slightly drunk, he may as well give up before he starts. To approach a woman when you are drunk, as much as you feel it boosts your ego, it a big mistake.

You are likely to let yourself down and to embarrass the female thus ruining your chances almost before you have opened your mouth. Breaking all the rules of being a player (and gentleman) and acting like a sleaze ball are so much easier when you are drunk.

So enjoy your beer, but do not drink so much that it clouds your judgment and makes you obnoxious or appear out of control.

Make Any Woman Crave For More About You (and of you) by Heading To Exit Before It’s Too Late.

Always leave the conversation first, making the woman want to talk to you more. Do not exhaust the conversation as an awkward silence can be death for a pick-up and she will lose interest fast.

Have in your mind already a good way to conclude the conversation, before you begin. Something like “I’d love to hear more but I have to go now. Let’s talk some more over dinner maybe next week?” These ploys only go towards making you seen like a kind of mystery.

Take Advantage of the Fact that Women Enjoy Grooving On The Dance Floor to Get Closer To Her, in More Ways Than You Could Think Of.

Most hotties love to show their moves on the dance floor, and it also gives you a chance to show off your latest rhythm and movement together action.

Dancing is one of the most sensual things a couple can do, so getting her onto the dance floor is a great move on your part.

The Law of Supply and Demand Works Just As Well In The Dating Field as it does in the markets: Use It to Make Her Want to Know You More!

If you have successfully approached a woman and you can feel that there is a good chemistry between the two of you, the next step is to get her contact information.

Everyone has at least one e-mail address these days, so ask her if she does. Once she has said yes, she is much more likely to write it down for you.

Another way of dealing with this, which incorporates an element from another tip is for you to suggest swapping information and catching up with each other another time. Introducing the element of elusiveness will only help her to want to see you again more quickly based on the standard rule of ’supply and demand’.

Using your cell phone is easier and more casual than exchanging numbers. Casually hand her your cell after you have told her you must leave, and she will feel obligated to type in her number. Soon as she has, tell her you will call her cell right now, to make sure she has your number.

Keep Her Guessing About Who’s Got The Hots For Her, and Get To Score while You’re At It.

If there is a hottie in your office and you know your colleagues are planning their usual Friday night drink before heading home, ask a friend to find out if your target is going to be there.

If your (preferably male) friend asks her, and she says she has no plans to do so, your friend and colleague can casually say that her attendance was hoped for, but leaving out by whom.

In this way the hottie goes and you will have your opportunity to score, but she will have no clue as to who has their eye on her.

A great way of connecting with other businesspeople on a social basis is the traditional Happy Hour after work, usually on a Friday night. Most offices have a ‘local’ bar where they go to unwind on Fridays, and to interact socially, rather than on a business basis.

If there is a hottie in your office and you know your colleagues are planning their usual Friday night drink before heading home, ask a friend to find out if your target is going to be there. If she reveals she has no plans to do so, your friend can casually say that her company has been requested, but of course, leaving out again by whom.

A True Don Juan Knows How to Use His Senses to Observe The Girl He Likes and Plans His Next Moves Based on His Observations of the Scenario.

This may be more difficult than it seems. Follow these player’s tips to get it right from the start and make a successful pick-up in what can be a difficult environment.

It is likely that you will have plenty of potential targets if you are out clubbing or pubbing on a Friday night. Before you even think of selecting your target, take some time to observe the top two and try to analyze their situation.

Is she alone? Or is she waiting for someone? Is she with a group of friends? If so, you do not necessarily need to give up. It is likely that if she is in a group the group will divide and split as the evening goes on, thus making it much easier for you to get her attention.

Observe her to see if she appears bored or unhappy. Maybe she did not really want to go and feels rather out of place in such an overwhelming and often noisy environment. In which case she is likely to be grateful to you for suggesting you go to a coffee bar or bistro for a quiet chat.

Use Her Weaknesses to Make Her Feel Insecure, and Once She Is, she will Do Anything and Everything To Please You.

This technique involves picking up on a woman’s weaknesses and vulnerability and using them to playfully disqualify them from the game.

They will then find you a challenge and work hard to gain your approval which opens up the possibilities for extended dialogue.

Before approaching her, use extended eye contact to test whether she is interested. Catch her gaze then hold it until she looks away. If she does this with you a couple of time, use the bartender to offer her a drink from you. This will pique her interest even more in you, the mysterious gentleman.

Finding women in bars who want attention is pretty simple. Check out the women who keep scanning the bar and making eye contact. Does it look as though she put a lot of effort into looking ‘hot’?

When you approach your target, don’t do what she expects you to do, like buy her a drink; instead, come up with something fun which has an emotional edge like celebrity drama.

Anything will work if you are assured and confident in yourself. And remember that practice makes perfect.

Most women hate pick-up lines. They recognize them and have mostly heard them all before.

So instead of falling into the trap of using some worn-out cliché, be creative and start a conversation with your target that will light her fire as well as be an icebreaker.

A Truly Effective Conversation Opener Piques A Girl’s Interest and Makes Her Want to Continue Talking With You for Hours On End.

The aim of an effective opening line is to start a conversation she will want to continue. You need something that will capture her interest in a chat and help you to find out more about her. Using a tired clichéd pick-up line is likely to have the opposite effect on her.

Ensure you are natural and confident in your approach. Appearing confident is essential even if you are not feeling it.

These valuable effective openers from the seasoned Don Juan or Casanova’s personal vault will pretty much assure you of success…

A Rule Of Thumb for Popular Don Juans or Casanovas is to NEVER Compliment Any Woman On Her Appearance Or Her Body, but instead Other External Attributes Of Hers.

There is one absolute rule here – never compliment a woman on her looks. You can admire her style, her purse, her dress-sense, or her shoes but never ever admire her body.

Complimenting a woman on something like her style is always an effective conversational starter. By complimenting her on her choices you will immediately stand out from the other guys who have hit on her.

You may also compliment her about the unusual color of her eyes or hair, but don’t be tempted to mention any other part of her anatomy, no matter how enticing she is.

Many Don Juans or Casanovas Rely on Another Factor in Making Their Conversation Starters: the Surroundings, in which case you’ve Got To Be Attentive of What Happens Around You.

Another way to strike up a natural conversation with a woman is to observe something around you.

Like if you are waiting in line for take out coffee and you see a big fat old guy driving a brand new tiny red sports car jump the traffic lights with a scream of tires, you may base your opening line upon that situation.

So you might say something like “Nice car, shame he can’t tell red from green. Unlike you, I love that green jacket, it’s my favourite shade of green”. This is a double whammy as you are using a situational opener, but combined with a personal compliment about her good taste.

Remember this: Men who Say Conversation Starters Naturally And Confidently Never Fail to Capture Any Woman’s Interest.

These are deceptively simple, and devastatingly successful. But with this strategy it is essential that you keep your approach natural and confident.

You could just approach her and say “Hi” or “Hi – I’m Jim, what’s your name?” You are not using any gimmicks or tricks; you are being straightforward and honest in your approach and that will automatically score you points.

So long as you appear to be spontaneous, completely confident and natural, these disarmingly honest approaches rarely fail.

Make Her Very Interested In You by Appearing As If You’re Interested In Someone Else Other Than Her.

This is one of the most effective opening lines, and is also one of the most successful. Asking her view on something makes you immediately seem unthreatening in her eyes, which is a huge bonus.

When selecting your question, be creative. Try to make it a question that will pique her interest in you and lead on to more conversation. A good example of this is to ask “Who’s your friend?” to a woman who is with someone else. She will immediately wonder why you are asking about her friend and not her. This will doubtlessly lead to more conversation.

Try not to get too engrossed and don’t forget to impose a time limit upon your conversation. Make some excuse to cut the conversation short, even when it is obvious to you that she is interested in continuing the conversation.

LIMITING The Time You Spend in Showing Interest In A Girl has a HANDFUL of Benefits that Make It Truly Worthwhile For Your Purposes.

Another must is that you impose some kind of time limit on your contact with her while you are using your conversation opener.

You want to make a great impression by being confident and natural, but you should also be trying to gain her interest so she want to speak to you further, and for a longer time.

Seeming like you have forever to chat can be intimidating to women, so make up some excuse like “I have to be back in the office in five minutes”. In this way, your target will not be worried about you being some kind of stalker who will pester her all day long. She will immediately feel more relaxed and confident about talking with you.

Another aspect of restricting time, is limiting yourself once you ’spot’ a target. Make sure that the time between you making lingering eye contact with her and the time you actually approach her is no longer than five seconds – yes, as quick as that.

This is not some mysterious rule, it is simple common sense. If you allow yourself even a minute to consider all the possible consequences of your approach, you will talk yourself out of even approaching her to start with.

Don’t Let Your Inner Voice Talk You Out of Your Don Juan or Casanova strategies; Act Quickly or You’ll Risk Losing That Girl!

Any longer than five seconds and your inner voice will start to persuade you that the rejection is not worth the risk. Don’t even allow the time for all those negative thoughts to appear. You will also come over to the woman as being confident and a man of action, who follows through confidently, which all women appreciate.

Many wannabe players just lounge around looking at women; they don’t have the courage to approach a woman from cold. And being one of those who actually does marks you as a man among men before you have even opened your mouth.