Women have a huge amount of curiosity, and if you can manage to spark their interest they’ll stop at nothing to find out everything about you.

How can you use this natural instinct of women to your advantage?

In Their Core, Women Are More Interested in Your Exciting, Private Life Than in Your Basic Info.

1. Stimulate her interest. Women love to be intrigued. Though they ask questions about what you do, they really don’t want to know the bare bone facts about your life, they want to know if you have an interesting lifestyle!

Leave Her Hanging For More Info About You. Then She’ll Go Out Of Her Way to Get It From You.

Never tell her everything she wants to know. Drop hints about exciting things you’ve done or exotic places you’ve visited but don’t explain. Make her work to earn the privilege of learning more about you.

Keeping a bit of obscurity is an effective technique to make women feel challenged, captivated, and dying to know more about you. You’ll find that women will start seeking you out and trying everything possible in the hopes of getting to know the real you.

Make Yourself Stand Out From The Crowd and Fit In Her Wish List.

2. Make women take notice of you. The only way you can do this is if you don’t blend in the crowd of people around you. Although this may take quite an effort, you’ll find that being noticed starts to feel good after a while. One way to get noticed easily is by utilizing the power dressing principle.

Keep Experimenting with Your Style and Improving Your Looks to Find Out What Women Truly Dig.

Women readily notice men who have a coherent theme in the way they dress. Women also notice men who are dressed expensively. For some reason, chicks dig guys in suits. A suit represents power and money, and women love that.

Unique hairstyles or facial hair can also make you stand out. Keep changing your look. Try the unshaven look for a week, then try a goatee, then a beard, then sideburns. Try growing your hair a bit longer, try a buzz cut, and even try shaving your head. Experiment until you find the hairstyle that gets the best response. However, make sure that you’re not copying the same style that everyone else has otherwise you will still be just one among the crowd who all look the same!

Employ Special Items that Grab Ladies’ Attention and Give Them All The More Reason to Know You.

You can also have a prop that draws people’s attention. It could be anything as long as it’s out of the ordinary and unusual. No matter what it is, as long as it draws attention, it will give women the perfect opening line to ask you what it is and where you got it because they see something interesting about you and would like to know more.

Make your Ladies Love You For Liking Your Job, by Choosing Appropriate Descriptions for Your Means Of Living.

3. Inject your job with creative interpretation but never divulge what you do for a living right away. Never give women any reason to have a preconceived notion of who you are. Keep them guessing a bit of about yourself and what you do.

On the first date, describe what you do in such a way that it seems cool to her. Remember, your job is a large part of your identity, so don’t say anything negative like you hate your job or hate your boss even if you actually do feel this way. If you’re a systems analyst or a programmer tell her instead that you develop custom software applications for clients; if you’re a lawyer tell her that you’re a defender of the oppressed! The secret is in describing your work as something that is interesting and exciting!

Ladies could Use A Couple of Fun Stories Courtesy of a Well Traveled Casanova who Generously Shares His Exciting Adventures.

4. If you have visited interesting places, especially those that are out of the ordinary, make sure that you drop it casually in your conversation. This is a clincher when it comes to attracting women. Women love hearing about interesting and exciting places especially about other countries they’ve never been to. If you have travelled overseas, you’ll suddenly look worldlier in her eyes. And attractive too. Use your vacation adventures as a launch pad to dating success.

Ladies Dig A Confident Gentleman, but Not An Arrogant Jerk. So make sure you Take Her “No” Lightly and Use It To Your Advantage.

5. Always have self-confidence. I can never stress this enough but never, ever think that self-confidence is the same as arrogance. Every time you go out on the strip or anywhere else, tell yourself that you’re a prize catch. Never get sidetracked by a woman’s “no”. Work your way around it and make her see that she deserves you.

Women always test men; they want to see how hard a man will pursue them if they make it difficult for him. This is where self-confidence works best. Never assume that because a woman rejected you, she’ll never be interested in you.

You Can Make Her Turn Her Curt “No” to A Full-blown Desire For You by Focusing Attention On Other Ladies.

If this is the case, talk to her friends or other women around you. If she sees you talking to other women and getting their attention, she’ll be intrigued. Women always give men a second chance. See whether her reaction is inviting or still just as cold. If you catch her checking you out, you know that she’s inviting you to try again. This time, make her work a bit harder. It’s her turn to put in the effort. If she’s eager, she’ll put in the effort. If she’s not, you’ll know she was just leading you on, and you’re perfectly within your right to excuse yourself and walk away.

Six Traits Women Absolutely Love in Men

Women May Claim To Have Unique Traits, but Real Casanovas Know that Some Things are Valued In Common Across The Board.

There are six traits that women absolutely love about men, which many men do not have any inkling about! Check out what these six traits that all women look for and find out if you have them or not. If not, then it’s about time you get to work to acquire them!

The Connection Between Humor And Sexiness is Closer Than You Might Think. Exploit This Connection and Reap The Benefits!

1. Humor is Numero Uno for most women. Women easily fall in love with men who can make them laugh. The reason is very simple really, because laughter produces the exact same physiological symptoms as attraction and sexual arousal. This means that the more you can make a woman laugh, the more she will think that she’s becoming irresistibly attracted to you.

It may be difficult to make a total stranger or a new acquaintance laugh at your jokes but if you can demonstrate your sense of humor then you’re on the right track.

The best way to show off your sense of humor is by teasing women in a flirtatious manner especially if you can seamlessly tie it in to the current situation and put her in the limelight in a playful (not offensive, mind you) manner. For women, a guy’s sense of humor is not only an indication of intelligence but also of a fun-loving attitude—someone who’s great to hang out with!

Sweep Her Off her Feet and Melt Her Like Putty in Your Hands By Channeling Your Energy, Focus and Attention to Her 100 Per Cent.

2. The ability to charm women is a very strong turn-on. Learn how to love everything about women. Make them feel alive, appreciated, more feminine and desirable. Men who can completely channel their attention to a single woman in the midst of many can make even independent and strong-willed women weak at the knees.

Show appreciation not only for a woman’s physical attributes but also her intellect and opinion on most things and I guarantee you’ll have more than you can handle.

Women Still Value and Admire Traditional Masculinity, even if They Tell You Otherwise, and even if They Do Not Consciously Know It Themselves.

3. Do not be afraid to display your masculine traits to women no matter if they tell you that you spend too much time playing your favorite sport, having a six-pack with your buddies or going to the gym three times a week. Although they may find this annoying, at the same time it reassures them that you are a real man and this reinforces her femininity.

Do not change your lifestyle simply because the woman you want to date at the moment tells you to or says something to the effect. Never be apologetic for who you are and what you enjoy doing.

Being who you are with no apologies is to your advantage. Your attitude will attract women who are captivated with guys who are real men and can say no to women.

Life Experience is Attractive To Women, Even (or maybe especially) If Some Of It Was Unpleasant Or Regrettable. Don’t try to Pretend To Be An Innocent or A Blank Slate.

4. Be realistic and tell your life story the way it is. For women the ultimate turn on are real men who’ve lived life. What does this mean? Women are mostly fascinated by guys who are authentic and are not pathetic. Do you ever wonder why there are women who fall madly in love with men who’ve been in prison or have kids out of wedlock?

These are real men, men who were not afraid to take risks and have been scarred but managed to pull through their trials and challenges. These men are works in progress that women want and fall for because they fancy themselves as the one who would have the chance of making these men complete!

Women empathize easily with men who have gone through difficult and challenging experiences in life. Women are irresistibly attracted to men who are imperfect yet striving towards some sort of perfection because they see themselves as the woman who can provide that missing factor for him to succeed.

Be Aware that An Accomplished Casanova Does Not Live As If Women Are A Full-time Job.

5. Independence is another trait women always look for in a man. Women love men who live busy and exciting lives that they seem not to have time to go out on dates. These men are always on the go, taking the weekend off to go snorkeling or camping in the mountains in order to get away from the 9 to 5 drudgery of work! And believe it or not, women also want to have this kind of lifestyle—exciting, challenging and definitely not boring!

These men do not need anybody to live life the way they want to live it! And when women see you as one, they will definitely want to be share that life with you!

If you want to attract hot women, then you have to work and repackage your lifestyle as an independent person. This makes you more interesting and desirable to women. Do not compromise and arrange your life around women, the secret is in making them want to change their lifestyle so that they can be with you. This will not happen if you are the same as their co-worker who breathes a 9 to 5 lifestyle from Monday to Friday and simply watch TV on weekends. Where is the excitement and independence in that?

Even If You are Not A Big-Shot (yet), you can Attract Women by Demonstrating Your Skills, Drive, And Ambition.

6. Success is a trait that women always look for in men. However, this does not mean that you have to be successful already; it means that you have to show women that you have what it takes to succeed in life. Successful men fascinate women because of the power, status, and financial independence that they can bring into their lives.

Regardless of the kind of work you do – a mechanic, a pump jockey, a bar tender or a club pro, the important thing is how you carry yourself. How you dress, how you communicate with others, how you value your work and your strength of character. Women understand that men are continually in pursuit of success and they can see that. Present yourself as a successful person in process and you’ve got it made!

Whatever you do, evaluate your own traits and determine which ones you have and do not have so that you can have women falling all over you in no time.

Casanova and the Enigma Machine: Cracking the Code of Feminine Behavior in the Dating Scene

You’ve done everything you can to be more attractive to women, but also you need to learn how to spot the women who are most likely to be interested in you at any given time.

Begin by Acknowledging that you Face a Superior Enemy, Reared from Childhood in Warfare and Espionage.

The truth is most guys find it hopeless to read a woman’s intentions. Is she into me or isn’t she? Actually, men fail to recognize 80% of the signals that women send them. The reason is very simple, women are much better than men in sending and understanding non-verbal cues because from a young age they have been taught how to read people. Since childhood, women have been sending and receiving non-verbal signals all the time.

You Miss Out on Great Opportunities and will Even Offend Women, if you Can’t “Decode” Their Behavior.

Women get very frustrated when guys that they really like fail to get the hint of the non-verbal cues that they are sending towards them while guys that they’re not so keen on keep hitting on them! For women, what they are communicating through their non-verbal signals and/or body language is perfectly clear they will never say anything because that is not how it works. No self-respecting woman will ever come right out and tell a man what she thinks of him. Although there may be some women out there who will, they’re usually the rule breakers in other areas of life as well.

Therefore, the facts of the matter are that women spend their time sending carefully crafted non-verbal signals, which we completely miss out on because we’re men. In the meantime, we miss great opportunities because we don’t know when they like us and they think we’re dissing them because we are not responding positively to their signals!

Your Approach should Involve Both Learning to Decode Women’s Signals and Actually Keeping An Eye Out For Them. Knowledge Without Awareness is Useless.

What do you have to do?
You have to develop and observant attitude and learn how to spot the non-verbal cues of a girl who’s interested in you so you can hit the ground running. You need to learn to read women’s non-verbal signals so that you don’t lose out on opportunities that are staring you in the face.

Take a Calm, Broad View of her Behavior As A Whole. Do Not Fixate on A Single “Safe” Spot or Get Distracted By Nervousness. Your State Of Mind Affects What You See, and How You See Your Environment.

Obviously, the first thing you have to do is keep your eyes open. The surest way to tell if a girl is interested in you is to see if she is checking you out. The problem is that most guys, especially those with low self-confidence, have tunnel vision. They either look at where they’re going or at their feet. Somebody could be staring right at them and they’d never notice. It’s time to get eyes all around you and use the surroundings to your advantage!

Your Observational Skills can also Help You to Find Gorgeous Girls that would only Catch The Attention of A Man of Taste And Discernment—Without Getting Caught!

You’ll get numerous benefits by keeping your eyes open. First of all, you’ll start to see how many hot babes are actually out there surrounding us all the time, but most guys don’t have their eyes open to see this. Second, you’ll be able to check really hot chicks out at a glance because you’ve already established a habit of taking in the presence of the people around you. You won’t ever make the mistake of being too obvious because a lingering gaze when you’re already looking around and checking out the area in front of you will not look out of place. Lastly, of course, if a woman is looking your way and checking you out, you’ll certainly be able to intercept her glance in time to send an answering glance of your own.

Keep Your Eyes Open All The Time. A Real Casanova Does Not Limit His Hunting Grounds To Singles Bars.

So make it a habit to always look around you, whether you’re in the grocery store or on the street. Make keeping your eyes open a habit. Never assume that at any given moment a woman isn’t checking you out.

A Woman who Looks Like She is Assessing or Scoping You Might Actually Just be Glancing in Your Direction for Some Other Reason. Learn the Difference.

You have to be aware that not all women whom you will notice looking at you may actually be checking you out. There is the big possibility that she could have just caught your gaze by mistake or by chance. Knowing how to evaluate and qualify seemingly non-descript glances between unintentional and deliberate is indispensable—knowing how to do it from a distance gives you an even better advantage.

There are Some Steps You can Take to Figure Out if A Woman has been Checking You Out. This is Essential Dating Strategy.

Here’s what you need to do to determine if the woman’s gaze and interest in you is intentional or not.

 Verify her interest by briefly holding her glance and smiling at her.

 If she looks away quickly when she sees notices that you have caught her gaze, then keep your eyes focused on something near her.

 You can then linger to see if she sends any more looks your way. If she found you attractive, she would not be able to help herself and would take the chance of looking at you again!

 If you catch her second glance, smile at her.

 If she smiles back at you or glances away with a blush of embarrassment and then looks back at you for the third time, you definitely know that you’re onto a sure thing. The rest is up to you!

Have Statistics on Your Side by Watching Out for Available Opportunities. Don’t Limit Yourself to the “Usual” Scenes like Parties And Bars.

You have to be aware that this does not happen every day, which is why you need to be very observant otherwise opportunities will quickly slip by like quicksilver sliding across a smooth surface! It’s all about numbers, the more women you circulate, the higher the probability that you will meet a woman (or women) who are attracted to you.

Women may Throw You Signals, but at the End of the Day, the Ball Is In Your Court.

However, once you meet that woman, you need to make the next move. This is how things work! The woman who has been checking you out will know when you’ve picked up her non-verbal cues, and she’ll expect you to approach her.

Here is what you can do once you have detected and verified that she has been checking you out.

 Do not make your approach directly in a beeline manner! Approach her in a slow but indirect manner.

 Take your time but don’t lose sight of her. Wait just long enough to make her wonder if you really did catch her signal. Doing this puts her in an anticipatory mood. Anticipation is incredibly appealing to women! The more opportunities you give a woman to anticipate something, the happier she would be when she finally gets it!

Do Not Rush. Make Your Target Wait For You A Little Longer. Both of You will be Happier with The Results of A Little Teasing.

After a short while, walk towards her indirectly, in a meandering manner, until you are just a few feet away so that she cannot fail but notice you. Your approach should be in such a way that you will appear to be doing something else instead of making a direct approach. Raise the anticipation factor higher by one notch by waiting a few moments before saying anything.

You may have Conducted All Necessary Tests, but Prepare this Backup Measure, to Take Account of Anomalies.

Don’t introduce yourself or offer her a compliment right away instead make a comment on the environment or the place’s ambience. This is your most neutral and safest move—just in case you misread the signal from afar. If her response is friendly, then go ahead engage her in a one-to-one conversation.

Are you almost fed up by the numerous seduction tips coming from the therapy circuit? Do you want to try something else other than psyching yourself up, being funny-cocky, using affirmations and teasing just to get a woman to bed? Surely, the tried and tested formulas can help you get into your way into effectively seducing women, but you should be aware there are still unexplored, and therefore very exciting, techniques on how you can get laid tonight.

Are you aware of findings of several dating studies showing that about 20% of seduction strategies men never usually use could yield a success rate of up to 80%? Men who are into seducing women to get laid often feel they are experts in the dating scene and that they already know everything there is to know. Sadly, most of such men forget about the basics of seduction. It might be of help if men will also get exposure to some of the seduction techniques used by lesbians.

Have you ever wondered why lesbians seem to be magnets when it comes to dating and seduction? Men should be alarmed that lesbians are slowly outpacing some men when it comes to seducing women. Surprisingly, many straight women also fall into lesbian seduction techniques, not just out of curiosity but also because of the natural care and tenderness lesbians emulate. Admit it or not, many men get so much into getting laid they forget to be gentle, caring and naturally tender towards women. Need to know more? Here are some effective seduction techniques that lesbians use, which surely will be effective when adapted and practiced by men.

Using emotional, yet Powerful words to Comfort and Assure women

Men often forget about the basic element of romance. Most women like to be showered by flattering, comforting and romantic words. Many lesbians seem to have mastered this aspect, being active in the poetry and spoken word scene. Did you know where the word ‘lesbian’ originated? The term was derived from the name Lesbos, an isle in Greece where famous poet Sappho was believed to have written some of her earliest and most romantic outputs.

Learn to Show Interest in a Woman by Ignoring Her

You could go to a bar full of hot women that you want to bring home tonight.If you got a target, only take glimpses of her. See how she reacts after some minutes that you take short glances but never really act to make the first move. Many women like challenges, as well. Alcohol could be a great factor of the possible success or failure of any seduction technique. Wait until it gives courage and removes the inhibitions of the woman.

Dance Gracefully when Partying at a Bar and Hitting at a Really Attractive Woman

Lesbians know that dancing is an effective technique in seduction. Synchronized rhythms in dance movements facilitate establishment of rapport among women. The frenzied pace of dance tracks at bars could set the environment for a first kiss or series of kisses between a man and a target woman.

Relieve the Impact of Passion, Friendship and Intimacy

Women certainly go after passionate caresses and kisses, the thrill of chasing, the joy of submission and the triumph of possession. Be genuinely interested in a woman and intend to do your best to please her. You might also try exploring her body using your mouth in an innocent, gentle, yet expert way. It also helps if you understand the nature and anatomy of the female body so you will know which parts and areas you could passionately tickle.