Conventionally, nice guys are men that parents want their daughters to date. However, in reality, good men usually end up failing in comparison to bad boys. Most women are almost instantly attracted to alpha males and bad boys, who are out to please just themselves. One of the main reasons why nice guys fail in dating and relationships is that they are almost always nervous around women.

Most women love men who are confident and who could tackle any situation. Nervous men are almost always like losers who could not face all challenges with confidence. Good men are usually shy especially in social situations and women dislike that.

Women would not like to act as the dominant partner or mate that would guide their men. They prefer being taken care of and being ruled over. And bad boys are good at doing exactly that.

Nice guys could have a standing chance if they could learn to be confident especially around their women. They should strive to overcome timidity and shyness especially when they are with women in social situations, where all eyes are prying. Alpha males and bad boys are always confident and are not shy of anything, even if they have all the reasons to be so.

Human psychology often tends to be ironic. Have you ever wondered why nice guys fail in dating and relationships while bad guys always get laid and chased by hot women? There are many reasons why and one of those is that nice men tend to chase women meticulously; they call too often and even pay surprise visits. Doing so does not do any good because women often feel suffocated by the act. “Nice guys” should realize that space is needed so that women would miss them.

How would any woman miss a guy who is calling almost every minute and showing up without notice at the doorstep or office building lobby?
To some, this could seem romantic but surely, after some time, it would tend to be annoying. No woman in her right mind would want to end up with a man like that.

It is funny how most women unknowingly like to do the chasing instead of the other way around. This is how bad guys and alpha males tend to outshine and outdo their nice guy counterparts. Sometimes, the best way to attract women is to make them miss you and chase after you.

Have you ever noticed that most nice guys tend to act like ‘doormats’ to women? They are stepped on, they are submissive to women’s demands, and they keep on chasing. Worse, women tend to act heartlessly, making nice men look stupid and funny even in public. Do you think those women enjoy doing so? Of course, not. Women hate it when they become monsters that step on the rights of nice guys. But they have to do so to be able to dispose them. Those are pathetic men.

If you want to do good in dating and relationships, you should never ever allow any woman to treat you like her doormat. Do not chase after her and give in to all of her demands. Maintain your dignity by acting according to your personal principles and thinking. This is how bad boys and alpha males succeed in dating. Do not show you fear losing her.

Adopt the bad boy image and ways in dealing with such situations. Instead of acting like a doormat, act like women’s masters. You should make the rules, not her. If you think doing so would not work, just realize that women also love challenges. They like clinging on to men whom they think they could not rule no matter how or what they try.

Women are naturally turning away from guys whom they think are creepy. That is why every man should strive harder not to be perceived by women as creepy. Most of the time, women find some guys creepy not because of how they look, but mostly because of how they act. In this way, motivation and strong will could very well help men stop being creepy.

Coming from that point, remember that it is the action that makes some men appear like creeps. If you think women find you creepy, you should not entirely blame your looks. To be able to not scare women, you should assess yourself and try immediately to curtail, modify, and improve the following traits you may have:

-being pushy,
-stalking women,
-feeling socially awkward,
-acting nervously,
-being overly emotional, and
-acting weirdly.

Several other creepy actions tend to totally turn off women. Creepy men act and talk as if he was destined to be with a woman. He often thinks and acts as if he could not live without a specific woman even if they only just met. These traits are logically and practically off. Try your best not to adopt or exhibit such thoughts, actions, and traits.

The best way to attract and seduce women is to gain their trust. In turn, the best way to earn their trust is to be honest. Women are naturally instantly attracted to honest men because they build an impression of trust and overall comfort. It is in human psychology that anyone would earn trust more if you are open to divulge things against your own self interest. How could you do it?

To be able to create an impression of overall honesty, you should try to admit your flaws and reveal them to any woman, whom you intend to get to bed with. For example, you could immediately tell a woman you have an unwanted mole in a hidden part of your body. You could also tell her how you feel nervous when around beautiful women though you are putting up a front that you are very confident about yourself.

This strategy works because as she believes your minor imperfections, she would also be ready to know and believe your major perfections. If you are that open, you could surely instantly gain her trust. After that, you could move slowly but surely to convince her to have sex with you. Seduction would be consummated.

Do nice guys really always finish last in the dating game? At first glance, it may seem so but a deeper analysis into the theory suggests that it is not. Then how come most of the hot-looking babes we see are wrapped around the arms of not so nice guys?

To Excel In The Dating Game, Any Don Juan or Casanova should know the Real Connotation of ‘Nice Guy’, Based On What Women Truly Search For In A Guy.

The inconsistency lies in the operational definition of the word nice. Women tend to like men who treat them with respect, shows self-confidence, can face up to challenges (physical or mental) and who can handle themselves regardless of the situation without showing off their masculinity. It is the classic nice guy/bad guy combination that women go for.

If you Want to Have Any Woman You Like, you’ve Got to Show Her that you are Nice Enough To Care For Her, and Bad Enough to Protect Her Whatever The Circumstance.

Women prefer men who are not only physically stronger than them, but also someone who can protect them should the circumstances call for it. They don’t like pushovers, but equally they hate arrogant men at the same time! There are two aspects to the notion of “strength” here, one that is “physical” and the other “psychological”. Women frequently run tests on men just to assess how strong their minds are. If you have a strong frame, you will telegraph that you are a dependable, masculine male – a leader (ie alpha male), and they will be more prone to follow you.

If you want women to like you, then you have to cultivate an impression that they can be safe whenever they are with you. Women basically want to feel protected, respected, and safe yet pampered and doted on all at the same time. If you want to succeed in the dating game, you have to develop this kind of nice but bad-ass attitude that makes women weak at their knees!

Any Man can be a True Don Juan or Casanova if he is able to Project Himself as Both A Protector and A Lover.

Women naturally gravitate towards men with authority and power. Taking a cue from this observable fact, it is not surprising that a lot of women go for men who have a streak of the wild in their bearing and character. It makes for a more exciting relationship, as many women claim.

As a rule, women are more attracted to men whom they see as a protector and a lover at the same time. They totally abhor and shrink back from having relationships with men who are submissive, emotionally dependent and are too nice.

Women Secretly Enjoy Fantasizing about Having Bad-Ass Men Who Could Treat Them In an Especially Nice Manner.

Deep in their subconscious, women fantasize about being ravaged by men and having a relationship with guys who display bad-ass attitudes is one way of making their fantasy a reality!

Nice and mild-mannered guys often get pigeonholed as friendly material, not the boyfriend material women want to have fun and enjoy life with on the wild and adventurous side. That is simply because they come across as deferential. Deference is a sign of weakness, and women are programmed by evolutionary instincts to be turned off by weakness. They are only attracted to the strong.

Satisfy Women’s Desire for Adventure by being the Adventurous, Carefree Man that they Desire Being With.

Women, just like men, always have a liking for excitement and adventure and they will do anything they can to get it, which is why you see a lot of arm-candy type of women wrapped around the arms of men who successfully display a devil-may-care attitude.

If you want to succeed, you have to put in enough work in order to repackage your persona as one who posses a tough guy and bad-ass attitude but who can also be gentle and loving – “Double sides” to your persona.

How do you do this?

Back Up Your Claim as a Tough Guy by Developing Your Body and Use It To Make Her Feel Secure And Desired.

1. Get some muscles and get rid of your bulges. Enroll in a martial arts class in order to learn how to defend yourself and develop muscles. This way you can back up your bad-ass attitude should it be necessary.

2. Take care of her as if she is a very delicate crystal; never forget to be a gentleman. Always make her feel safe and loved.

3. Flirt with her in a brazen manner but only between the two of you. Let her know that you are sexually attracted to her but don’t overdo it otherwise she may misinterpret that you think of her as a slut!

Act in A Carefree Manner and Never Allow Anyone To Treat You Badly (If You Can’t Protect Yourself, She’ll Doubt If You Can Protect Her).

4. When you find yourself in confrontational situations, don’t let anyone run roughshod all over you. Learn how to stand your ground in a diplomatic manner. Show her (and everybody else) that you are no pushover!

5. Develop an I-don’t-care-attitude. If a woman turns her back on you, just shrug your shoulders and move on. Don’t give her any power over you regardless how beautiful and likable she may be. This is the true, time-tested and proven technique to deal with and attract bitchy women, while not being “walked over” by them. If you can hold your own ground and maintain your power, you will have them surrendering willingly to you. Of course, other aspects to not be overlooked as you achieve this are hithertho mentioned above.

Keep in mind that women prefer men who appear aloof and self-confident. To them, this is a sign of power and independence. Learn how to wake up a woman’s motherly instinct and you will be on your way to getting more than a fair share of weekend fun everywhere you go!

If you aim to make your first date with a woman a real success, strive not to allow her to ‘interview’ you. Be aware that women are naturally talkative and inquisitive. During first dates, they would show real interest in you to the point that they would come across to know everything they want to know about you. There is nothing wrong about her knowing much about you. But to make her more intrigued and interested, it would be advisable to make yourself mysterious to her for the longest time, by giving partial answers to her questions, or answers that “fire off” new questions in her mind, thus leading her to get curious and ask more questions, or find that there is a lot more about you that is interesting but still unknown to her. That will very likely pave the way for a second date, a third date, etcetera and increase the chance of building a long-term relationship with her.

Women naturally want to make sure they are not going out with losers. Show them that you are different from other guys – unique. To avoid interviews, play a woman’s question around about your personal life. If she asks ‘What do you do for a living?’ or ‘How much money do you make?’ give a silly response like ‘Why, I suppose you are not one of those materialistic and superficial women?’ You do not need to sound offended and defensive. Be careful not to create arguments throughout the conversation, by sounding playful during the conversations. It would help if you make her talk more all throughout the night.

You have to be strategic enough when aiming to seduce any woman especially during dates. You may already have heard that women tend to be attracted more to good-smelling men. There is truth to that and many women could attest. Target a woman’s sense of smell if you want to completely seduce her.

You should not go out to a date without cleaning your body or at least taking a shower. Wear good perfume or cologne if you want to enhance your animalistic appeal. Several studies have proven that most women are easily turned on by men who smell so good. Perfumes and colognes do not have to be expensive to make wonders.

As you aim to impress a woman strategically through your smell, do not forget to pay attention to how your breath smells. As you eat, drink, and smoke during the date, your breath may not smell good as it should be. Any woman is easily turned off by foul smelling breath especially prior to kissing. The trick is to bring a handy mouthwash with you or some pieces of breath freshening chewing gums. You should smell good inside and out to be able to attract women.

If you are finding it hard to catch attention of hot women in a bar, a restaurant, or any other public place, you should try out establishing ‘triangulating’ eye contact. You should realize how effective eye contact could be. There are so many messages your eyes could convey and you could use your pair as your advantage.

To do the triangulating eye contact, you need to first aim to draw much attention to yourself. To do this, you should begin by fiddling your collar or flicking dust off your shoulder or sleeve. By this time, you should already have drawn some attention. If you caught eye contact with a hot woman, try to hold her gaze for a few seconds more. Then break it by looking downwards to her nose, her lips, and then her chin.

The triangulating eye contact is effective in communicating your desire to know more about the woman you are eyeing on. It could also convey your desire to be intimate. Now it depends on whether she is also interested in you. If she is, it would be clear from signals of her body language.

After you have made sure she is into you, slowly approach her with the aim to impress her, so you could invite her out and probably take your relationship to the next level from that of ‘strangers’.

To attract and seduce women during dates, you should use the right brand or type of cologne or perfume. Many women are instantly turned on by good-smelling men. Unfortunately, not all brands or types of colognes and perfumes are effectively providing men with the “animalistic and irresistible appeal”. You have to choose the right cologne or perfume to make yourself irresistible to women.

There are about 3,000 different ingredients of cologne or perfume for men. Such ingredients include extracts from flowers, fruits, animal musk, woods, and herbs. Formulas of colognes vary according to brands and types. The chemistry reacts differently in every person. Have you ever noticed that some colognes or perfumes may smell very good in your friend but not in you? It is just natural, and there is nothing wrong with that. The scent of colognes is affected by its combination with the skin.

You have to determine reaction to your skin and resulting changes to scents before buying such products. What may smell really good in one man may not be effective in you. The scent of the cologne you put on must also match your personality. You should strive to smell impressively if you want to impress and seduce women.