Many men commit the mistake of pushing sex too hard to women. Many women are not comfortable to the idea, especially when they hardly know a man well. You should understand that patience pays off. Of course, most men are after sex in dates and relationships. There are even men who meet with women just to have sex.

If you want to ramp up your image and have a better chance of totally and completely seducing any woman, you should make it a point NOT to push very hard for sex. Enjoy the company of a woman and do not be too aggressive to initiate sex. If she is not receptive to your body language, it is time you decide to keep your cool for some time.

A woman would need to build up trust and comfort with you, as she reins in on her desires, even if there is clear and rising sexual tension. If she gives in to you easily, she will feel sluttish, cheap and promiscuous. A woman wants to know that you are not there just for sex, and will leave her as soon as it is over. She needs that security. Evolutionary reasons guide this mindset. Since the dawn of time, a woman has limited days of producing and releasing an egg every month, and so she has to be very careful over choice of partner she uses for procreation. If a particular partner she mates with leaves, she will have lots of hardships, difficulty and trouble mothering her offspring. For this fact, she has to be very careful and picky in choice of a partner, which also makes sex with any woman in general harder than with a man. A man, on the other hand, has the ability to breed almost at all times, and for him it is also about competition with dominant males for a female to breed with, or his genes will likely be weeded out of existence.

If you understand the above as facts, it would help you get more patient in making any woman you attract feel more comfortable and trusting in you before you proceed to get intimate. As you bide your time, you would be surprised how she could turn around and be the one – instead of you – that initiates sex. It pays to wait, but it could be well worth all your patience and efforts.

Many men study and adopt traits that women like. However, if you have certain deal-breaking behaviors, these might outweigh your attractive traits.

Dating success does not come easy. You’ve overhauled your wardrobe, upgraded your grooming habits, successfully adopted a bad guy attitude, learned all the right tricks, can talk on a wide variety of topics and listen attentively to women for attitude yet you still experience being passed over by women for the other guy! What is the matter, you ask yourself.

The reason for your disappointment can be most likely due to behavior patterns or personality traits that turn-off women. Analyze your behavior and make the corrections as necessary in order to enjoy the dating scene to the fullest!

Five personality traits that turn women off and you must put right

Perhaps you are trying to come off as confident, but are going too far and coming off as conceited or crude.

1. Never equate self-confidence with arrogance. A very fine line separates self-confidence from arrogance or over-confidence. You have to be aware of this otherwise it can result in your failure to get in on the action. Always be the gentleman but never the overbearing type of person.

Although this may work for women who are completely unsure of themselves it certainly does not work for majority of the women out there. There is no valid excuse to forsake basic courteousness especially when dealing with women. Some women may prefer being treated like dirt but I doubt if you will enjoy the company of such women.

There is no need to brag about yourself, if you’re good, you’re good—it will always come up to the surface and there is no need for doing your own drumbeating! Never fail to be polite and give women the respect they deserve while maintaining a self-confident attitude.

You might be being too stiff, either coming off as over-eager or too shy. Relax, and you can give off a more balanced impression.

2. Refrain from being overly aggressive as it can turn women off, worse it may frighten them away! Establish eye contact but never stare at a woman, more so if the woman is gorgeous looking.

Learn to relax and always put a smile on your face (but don’t grin like an idiot!) so that you will appear disarming despite your eagle eye gaze as you survey the bar or anywhere you happen to be. Make yourself fit in any crowd, be it in a museum, nightclub, book fair or a convention.

Check your body language when you are in completely unfamiliar surroundings. Do you cross your arms, stay in a corner or simply stare at people? If so, then you’re doing it all wrong. Regardless of the situation, familiar or not, you should relax and fit in—this is indicative of your degree of self-confidence, a fact that women notice all the time! Learn how to work a room.

You might be confusing quantity with quality as far as talking goes. Babbling is a common nervous habit. Try to see if it is a habit of yours.

3. Do not talk too much! Nervous people tend to talk too much, on the other hand women are naturally talkative! There already is a conflict of interest, sort of. Do not fall prey into this trap, as you would certainly lose whatever brownie points you may have gathered so far!

If you have to talk, then talk…but do it in an interesting manner like you’re telling a story giving only the highlights and not the nitty-gritty details about your life, work, past time and others. Do not ever engage in a Q&A, you are not in a job interview and neither is she!

Draw her out by asking questions and the moment you see an opening, start teasing her comfortably keeping in mind to avoid sexual innuendoes until she starts laughing and feeling at ease.

Do not be intimated by natural silences, instead use it to your advantage by acting as naturally as possible and remember to keep your voice modulated so that she can understand you even if the background is noisy.

Making choices can be difficult, but sometimes you just have to man up, stop dithering, and take the consequences as they come.

4. Women are easily turned off by men’s indecision. They have no respect for men who can’t make a decision on their own but respect those who can, regardless if the decision is wrong!

For women, decisiveness is a big plus factor. It encompasses a whole range of desirable characteristics they are looking for in a man—strength, success potential, self-confidence and the bad guy attitude all package in this one word.

Women can never stand indecision on the part of men because they see this as a sign of weakness. They see decisiveness as a positive dominant attitude but not domineering that they feel suppressed. Taking a stand is a big plus factor when dealing with women, they will ultimately respect you for it. Never be afraid to make mistakes when making your decision, turn it to your advantage by laughing at your expense!

Despite the popularity of brooding vampires and sulky rock stars, emulating such people will only make you seem like bad company.

5. Never allow yourself to get moody the moment you step out of your apartment, leave your moodiness, pessimism and grouchiness behind. Women are naturally attracted to men who are energetic and full of life.

Remember, women easily get attracted to men who lead adventurous and exciting lives but if you happen to be in a bad mood then no matter how exciting your life, your mood sends all the wrong signals to people around you.

Every time you go out, leave your testy mood behind and embrace the world and all its possibilities of good fortune. Always plan to have a good time whenever you go out and take it as a chance to lighten up and have fun. Leave behind any negative baggage or issues you may have, the woman you meet does not deserve to be the garbage bin of your frustrations!

Being attractive to women is not just about having all the required traits on a checklist. It is also about avoiding undesirable behaviors.

If you discover that you are somehow exhibiting any of the above, the best thing you can do is to correct your attitude pronto otherwise all the preparation you’ve gone through will not be worth anything. Dating is very similar to marketing a product, the only difference is that you can rectify your weak points and strengthen them to make yourself even more desirable! Be the man that women enjoy meeting because they get to laugh, relax, enjoy and have a good time.

There is a reason why successful romance novels have the same plot and archetypes: many women have the same ideals, even if they insist otherwise.

Have you ever wondered why women read romance novels? If you have a sister, acquaintance or officemate ask them if they read these types of novels. If they say yes, ask them to give you a brief description of the novel’s hero.

Ninety-nine per cent of the time, they will describe the novel’s hero as one who is good looking in a rugged manner–dominant, authoritative, successful and self-assured. A self-made man who engages in strenuous physical activity to keep fit.

This is the reason most women like to read romance novels–in their mind they fantasize about the hero and that they are the heroine in the novel! And because of the conditioning brought on by reading romance novels, women try to live out their fantasies in the men they would like to have relations with in real life!

This then makes it easier to qualify the six traits and behavior that women are looking for in men:

Use the bad-boy archetype to your advantage. In other words, be Wolverine, not Cyclops, to your Jean.

1. Women have a strong preference for men who personify the ‘bad’ guy—one who is assertive, unconventional and independent. A man with an attitude of aloofness, one who doesn’t beg for acceptance. For women, this kind of man spells superiority, control and authority.

Women may have fantasies about dating leaders and high-fliers, but will still go for someone who looks like he’s headed for success.

2. Success is one characteristic women are always looking for. This does not that the man always needs to be the boss man or the head honcho in the firms he’s working for or even owns the firm—women are realistic, they will settle for a man with the potential to be successful in the future. How do you acquire the traits of a successful person? You dress for success; it’s all about power dressing! Invest in clothes that complement your physical appearance, your clothes do not necessarily have to be signature brands. Your clothes should communicate understated elegance. Women have an eagle eye when it comes to fashion so make sure that your clothes ensemble are complementary and not tasteless.

Try to look like a busy bee instead of a social butterfly, and women will swarm all over you!

3. Men of passion are another of women’s weaknesses. Women equate a man’s passion for work and lack of time to socialize as one of the ultimate turn-on because they see a man driven by ambition. One who has no time to spare for commonplace and frivolous behavior like barhopping! If you elect to develop this profile, make sure that you package yourself as someone who would rather enjoy challenging and strenuous past times other than going to bars or a nightclub. A weekend camping in the mountains, rock climbing, snorkeling or even just riding the mountain bike on the trail are leisure pursuits that seem awesome to women because it is out of the ordinary. It makes them wonder why you would rather not chase them, which arouses their interest in finding out what make you tick!

Giving women what they want means not always giving them what they want. Such is the Tao of Casanova.

4. Learn how to say NO to women! This may seem antithetical but, believe it or not, if you start saying no to women the more they will get attracted to you! Although you’ve most probably been taught to be nice to women all the time, learning to say no to women and making them believe that your world does not revolve around them makes them respect you more. Of course, saying no does not mean simply saying no for the sake of contradicting women, you have to back up your no with a reasonable and logical explanation to make them think twice. Women simply love men who do not bow down to their whims and wishes—they find these kinds of men more challenging and attractive! Women do not like yes men!

Persistence can be your friend. A rejection to your approach does not necessarily mean a rejection of you as a person.

5. Do not accept no from women. Although this is inevitable, accept their no answer or rejection gracefully and with complete indifference. Moreover, don’t simply go away—do like the military does: retreat, regroup, reassess your plan and go on the offensive again using a different approach! With the proper encouragement and enough time, most women will change their mindset about you and completely forget what it was that made them say no in the first place. Women respect men who do not take no for an answer!

Put effort and imagination into your outings. Be willing too off the beaten track, and you will then find the gates thrown open to you.

6. Be unpredictable and impetuous! Women love adventure and they are always eager to be in one. This means that when you invite them on a date, do not settle for the ordinary—take them out canoeing, rafting, or go for a drive in the next county. Avoid the monotonous dinner at the local restaurant no matter how good the food may be, give her something to tell her friends about the following week. Girls go weak at the knees for this stuff! These type of activities fires up their imagination because it remains true to form in the romance novels that they often read!

If you can successfully cultivate these six behavior patterns, you are on your way to having more than a fair share of weekend adventure with women that take your fancy!

Being a Good, Witty Talker can only Take You So Far, since Women Can Be Very Picky With Others’ Words.

Conversation openers that may lead to sexual encounters are highly situational and extremely dependent on the woman and her mood. Although most dating gurus claim that they can put any woman in the right mood for sex, this is totally false. How can you squeeze water from a stone? Not in this lifetime, or even the next, right?

Singles’ Establishments Make Great Hookup Venues, but it’s Also True That Not Everyone Goes Home Lucky.

However, since most casual encounters between members of the opposite sexes occur in a conducive environment like a bar or a club, getting hitched for the night or the weekend is highly probable since 95% of people who patronize the place are there either for fun, games, to unwind or have casual sexual encounters—if they happen to like one another.

Any male in the hunt for the weekend therefore has a 50-50 chance of scoring on a mark for the night or the weekend. How then do you increase your chances to 75% or more? In this type of environment, knowing what to look for, how to approach women and keep them interested as well as understanding a woman’s body language and non-verbal cues are the keys to your success. As simple as the situation may seem, most men are lost and do not know what to do when flirting with women!

In Such Environments, Understanding The Messages Sent Out By A Woman’s Body Is Essential To Success. Know what she’s thinking about, even if she herself doesn’t know it.

This is why a clear understanding of a woman’s non-verbal cues is very important and a necessity. Body language is a combination of voluntary and involuntary reactions towards a wide range of stimuli such as feelings, words and actions or touch of another person. If you can’t interpret a woman’s body language, she’ll probably just stand up, leave you and you won’t ever realize the reason why! Women send out non-verbal signals to men whom they like so that the man can approach her BUT if you do not know what these signals are, then nothing’s going to happen!

Body Language Is Often More Revealing Than Verbal Communication. The good news is that women tend to use the same gestures and body language to mean the same things. Once you learn it, you can apply it everywhere.

Eighty percent of the time, women employ subtle but unmistakable non-verbal cues while talking with men. If you are able to pick up on these non-verbal cues, then before the evening wears on you would have been more successful at building attraction, establishing a connection between you and her and hopefully take her home with you for the night compared to all the other clueless guys!

Non-Verbal Cues to Look For

Women use three types of non-verbal cues to communicate their interest in men. If you are able to pick up and develop these cues correctly then the encounter can definitely lead to a great sexual liaison between the two of you!

Think of Her Body as a Magnet being Pulled In The Direction of Whatever or Whoever Interests Her The Most.

Clue No. 1: She either leans or moves towards you whenever she wants to say something or make a point. It is the nature of women to move closer to whatever interests them, regardless of what they are doing. The same behavior pattern holds true when they are in a conversation with men whom they find interesting or attractive. They will lean or move closer towards you to signify a deeper interest in taking things further but will hold back if you do not show any interest. If you are observant and are aware of her body postures during a conversation, you can tell if she’s into you or not.

If She Reaches Out To You with Her Hands or facial expression, You’re In Luck!

Clue No. 2: The woman initiates physical contact accidentally or during the course of a conversation or by establishing eye contact and holding it for longer than 5 seconds, most often with a smile! If a woman initiates physical contact, it is a positive sign that she’s giving you the motivations to take the moment into a more physical or intimate level. People, women more especially, do not unnecessarily break the physical barrier unless they are attracted to the other person!

She’s Probably In The Mood if She Seems To Like Your Naughty Comments or Sexual Innuendoes. You Could Be In for A Wild Night.

Clue No. 3: The last tactic women employ to suggest their attraction to the opposite sex and make them react to their overtures is by responding positively to a man’s sexual innuendoes, jokes and repartees or by making comments along the same line herself! A woman who responds positively and is not offended by sexual topics is either consciously or subconsciously thinking about physical intimacy.

Keep note that although women send these they are very subtle in doing so because they do not want to be branded as cheap or promiscuous. Obvious though the signs may be women anticipate that you will make the initiative to take things to the next level. If you know what to look for, you can easily establish a closer connection and get her number or if you’re really lucky, even go home with her on the same night!

Do you remember the first time you ever rode a roller coaster? You can never forget the mixed feelings of fear, thrill, excitement, anticipation and everything else all at the same time yet you keep going back and taking the ride all over again.

Pretty exciting to say the least and intimidating but something you can never get enough of even if deep inside you, you feel like your internal organs are going through a blender! This is a person’s natural reaction to a situation that is fearsome but at the same time satisfying, that of conquering the seemingly unconquerable!

Take the challenge of being the best Casanova you can be — without women knowing what you’re up to!

It’s all about challenge and an individual’s acceptance of a challenge—direct or indirect. Adopting this practice in the dating game takes finesse, self-confidence, and lots of practice because it has to be done in such a way that the woman you are doing it to would not even be aware of what you are trying to do.

Attract women (instead of repelling them) by catering to their needs, but not too much that you end up turning them off.

Taking a cue from the general behavior of women, you are a step ahead in the game already because women automatically tend to have a bête-noir on men who cater to them too much. Men who consistently accommodate women and do too much to get their attention and approval provide no challenge to them. Regardless of what they say in public, women actually like their men to be a challenge even if they vehemently deny it.

Put the roller coaster technique to good use by using it on any woman you desire.

This is where the roller coaster technique (RCT) comes into good use to men’s advantage. It’s actually simply giving any woman an emotional roller coaster ride to make her experience and anticipate with eagerness the highs and lows of being with you. Giving the roller coaster treatment to any woman (or person for that matter) is actually a very effective way of dismantling a person’s programmed emotional defenses because the object of the technique becomes unsure of what really is because of your seeming indifference!

Women love challenges and roller coaster rides, so treating them indifferently would make them more eager to get to know you.

Your feigned indifference coupled with your roller coaster technique presents you in a different light—one who is an enigma and a challenge at the same time. And what do most women go for in men? More women are attracted to men who are mysterious and are a challenge to them because they want to know why their charms (and physical attributes which worked so well before) suddenly don’t matter to you!

A real Casanova like you are don’t need objects to make women like you; your mysteriousness is more than enough to captivate them.

The roller coaster technique is even more effective if you use it the very first time you meet a woman! The dating game is all about attracting women not because you have a nice car, designer clothes, or wads of cash in your wallet but attracting them because you are able to present yourself as a mystery and challenge to them right from the very beginning!

The alternating highs and lows of the roller coaster technique need to be executed very subtly and always with a smile, so that the woman reacts to any troughs (sinking feeling) or crests (delight) with anticipation and excitement.

The roller coaster technique is just as effective as a real roller coaster in making women excited in every turn.

Just like the physical roller coaster ride, the technique make women revel in the excitement of each twist and turn because they totally enjoy the buzz it gives them—it is something out of the ordinary which they do not have in their daily lives!

To succeed in making RCT work for you, do not forget the following action items:

Keep in mind you have to deliver your lines very matter-of-factly and with a smile to keep a woman off balance.

Excite women by simply being and acting like an exciting person yourself. Incorporate excitement into your life!

Women prefer meeting men who can offer them excitement in their lives because they want the same in their lives. Attracting women entails a lot of work, which is why you have to inject the excitement factor right at the very beginning so that she will see you as the prize catch!

Start engaging in outdoor activities in your spare time in order to develop a lifestyle other than your regular 9 to 5 schedule on weekdays.

Do not make your lifestyle fit that of any woman otherwise they’ll think of you as a patsy —the type of person they try to avoid!

Show the ladies how independent you are and how happily you live even without a woman, and they’ll flock to you.

Make it appear that you can live your life without them—if you can pull this off, women will gravitate to you as if you’re the only man on the planet because they would like to be THE ONE to succeed in being part of your life!

Lastly, always tease them in a sexual manner to let them be aware that you are sexually interested in them! Not in a blatant and offensive manner but in an understated but obvious style by touching them lightly in the arms, the shoulders when the opportunity presents itself.

In case you are not aware of it, your insecurity makes women look at you with contempt and disgust! One thing most men are not aware of is that women can see (and smell?) if a man is insecure or not. They can sense right away if a man lacks self-esteem or is confident even before he utters a single word.

Women Have a Strong, Innate Sense that allows them to Distinguish from Afar Men who Lack Self-Confidence and “Real” Men.

If you think a woman is way out of your league, she’ll know right away even from afar but if you exude confidence in your actions (and seeming lack of interest in her), she will see you confident, strong, desirable and as a challenge.

When it comes to the dating game and man-woman relationship, self-confidence is the primary key, without it is suicidal plain and simple!

Don Juan, listen up! To Get the Girls you Want, you’ve Got to Know and Believe that You Can Do Anything and Succeed All By Yourself.

Self-confidence spells a can-do attitude that does not require anyone’s approval, it is a belief in one’s self that you have what it takes to succeed—at work, in love, in a man-woman relationship and in almost anything you put your mind on. It is not however the same as conceit or arrogance.

Fret not if you’re Not Born with Self-Confidence, because Any Hopeful Don Juan or Casanova can Gain It Through The Proper Mindset.

Self-confidence can be either natural or learned, so don’t despair if you think you don’t have it or your friends tell you that you lack self-confidence. It is a positive state of mind or way of thinking, which you have to adopt in order to succeed.

Self-Confidence Entails that you keep in mind that A Strong And Real man Holds The Power To Decide, and Not The Girl You Like.

Without self-confidence, the trust in your self that you have what it takes, that a woman will like to meet you, that you can hold your own against the competition, you are already toast even before everything has begun! You have to remember, in the dating game, it is you who makes the decision not the woman you will approach. It does not matter if she turns you down, its’ her loss not yours! This is the kind of attitude you need to adopt.

Knowing and Believing that You Deserve Only The Best would Bring To You Only The Best, including the Best Women.

You have to conquer your fear of rejection because it will hinder you from having total confidence. Learn how to visualize your success! You have to believe that you deserve the best things life has to offer. And once you have this mindset, pretty soon you will learn that you don’t have to settle for the second best. The same holds true in a man-woman relationship.

If you are confident, the more chances you have of getting the woman that you dream about. The reason is because she will be impressed with your positive aura and she will be more than determined to find out more about you, to know what makes you tick which most shy men do not have.

Making a Simple List Of Your Objectives in the Dating Game would Make It Easier for you to Achieve Each And Every One Of Them while Having Fun.

Make it a point to set goals and priorities when you go inside a bar or any place where there are single women whom you can possibly hook up with. Having your goals and objectives clear gives you an advantage over other men. Your goal doesn’t have to be to bring home the first woman that you happen to like. Make your goals simple, so that you’ll have fun in accomplishing them especially if you are new to the dating game or just getting back in.

Precision in your Dating Objectives will Lead You to the Precise Person to Hook Up With For The Night.

Your goal can be as simple as talking to a woman who’s wearing a perfume that you happen to like (make sure you know the brand of the perfume or something that smells similar to it) or who’s wearing silver or bead accessories. Keeping your goals simple at the beginning makes them easier to accomplish and will give you the necessary workout to gain self confidence as you go along.

Big Things Start Small; so Start With Small Dating Goals and you’ll End Up Accomplishing Bigger Ones In No Time.

Gaining self-confidence does not happen overnight or over a single weekend. It takes constant practice. Before you know it, you have made bigger goals for yourself and have achieved them without breaking a sweat!

Whatever goal you set, make sure that it does not apply to any one particular girl and that it is not dependent on the other party’s (or someone else’s) response. Your goal is yours alone and not any one else’s, it’s up to you how to achieve it but you have to achieve it. You have to maximize each and every opportunity you get and learn from any mistakes or missteps that you make in order to succeed.

If you are running out of creative and strategic ideas to make a woman give in to your sexual advances during a date, you could try a strategy that would surely be effective. Why not give her a light massage to stimulate her body and her erogenous zones? You could do such an act even if you are in restaurant, a bar, or other public places.

To convince her to allow you to give her light massage (especially at the back), you could mention in conversation with her how stressed and worn out she looked from a long day of work. You may volunteer the information that you know how to give an instant relaxing massage. You could tell her you do not need to go private to do so and that you could actually proceed to massage her upper back and neck while she sits down.

As your palms touch her upper back and neck, press gently, as if tickling her. Do not put much pressure, as doing so might hurt her muscles a bit. Remember that your goal is to turn on her switch so that she would be open to getting intimate with you tonight. You could tease her by saying you know more but such techniques need to be in private, while she is lying down.

Kinesthetic, more commonly known as ‘kino,’ is the use of the sense of touch in conveying ideas and messages. The concept came from the natural idea that mammals have natural liking for being touched by other mammals, particularly of the opposite sex. It is just logical to some people, so touching could be creatively and strategically used to induce, initiate or heighten sexual tension and attraction with women.

A man should understand that it is innate to most women to like being touched by men. If you aim to constantly flirt with any woman you are sexually attracted to, you could ‘test the waters’. Start by touching her in a friendly and wholesome manner in parts of the body that are often touched through friendly gestures, such as the hands, the arms, and the hair. A woman who is not violently reacting to friendly gestures should be considered open to flirty touch.

The key is to build trust and comfort first. Any woman who is trusting of you and who is comfortable with you could be an easy target. Just monitor her reaction every time you use kino so you could determine if you could proceed to flirting with her and touching to seduce her. Many men could attest that the strategy works.

What is good about kinesthetic or kino is that, if used properly and in the right situation, it never runs out of favorable results. Through the years, many scientific studies have proven the power of touching in personal communication. If you aim to eventually seduce a woman, you should use kino or touching to your advantage. Did you know that most women remember conversations with men more fondly when there is casual touching during the talk?

How do you do it? You should by now be familiar about how friendly and casual touching could be a cordial gesture in conversations. You certainly shake hands when meeting people or touch shoulders and arms. You could do so when conversing with any woman. Start by taking her hand and holding it while you talk. Some women would not be comfortable with the gesture, but for many who would be, the conversation would just be fondly memorable.

While talking to her, you could hold her hands and give her palms gentle massage that would surely relax her. You could also start to flirt by touching her hair or her cheeks. Just remember to remain interesting and engaging when telling your story so she would truly be astounded in the conversation.

You could effectively use kinesthetic or touching gestures to make any woman you like feel more special and loved. You should realize that you could be touchy in a special way during your friendly conversation. If you do so effectively, you would find that seduction comes naturally. How could you do it? Here are some good suggestions:

As you sit beside each other or face-to-face in a restaurant or bar, look into her eyes as she speaks and start to quickly brush off her hair that partly covers her face. You could also pretend as if something is stuck in her hair. When you do the brush off technique, you could also stroke her cheek gently as if you are wiping off a fallen eyelash.

Notice how the woman blushes and feels all the more comfortable with you. Such gestures are acts that lovers normally perform. If you perform them on a woman (consciously but make them feel you did it subconsciously), you surely would make her feel secure and comfortable, as if you are her lover. Some women also perceive such “touchy” guys as innocent and pleasurable at the same time.