In case you are not aware of it, your insecurity makes women look at you with contempt and disgust! One thing most men are not aware of is that women can see (and smell?) if a man is insecure or not. They can sense right away if a man lacks self-esteem or is confident even before he utters a single word.

Women Have a Strong, Innate Sense that allows them to Distinguish from Afar Men who Lack Self-Confidence and “Real” Men.

If you think a woman is way out of your league, she’ll know right away even from afar but if you exude confidence in your actions (and seeming lack of interest in her), she will see you confident, strong, desirable and as a challenge.

When it comes to the dating game and man-woman relationship, self-confidence is the primary key, without it is suicidal plain and simple!

Don Juan, listen up! To Get the Girls you Want, you’ve Got to Know and Believe that You Can Do Anything and Succeed All By Yourself.

Self-confidence spells a can-do attitude that does not require anyone’s approval, it is a belief in one’s self that you have what it takes to succeed—at work, in love, in a man-woman relationship and in almost anything you put your mind on. It is not however the same as conceit or arrogance.

Fret not if you’re Not Born with Self-Confidence, because Any Hopeful Don Juan or Casanova can Gain It Through The Proper Mindset.

Self-confidence can be either natural or learned, so don’t despair if you think you don’t have it or your friends tell you that you lack self-confidence. It is a positive state of mind or way of thinking, which you have to adopt in order to succeed.

Self-Confidence Entails that you keep in mind that A Strong And Real man Holds The Power To Decide, and Not The Girl You Like.

Without self-confidence, the trust in your self that you have what it takes, that a woman will like to meet you, that you can hold your own against the competition, you are already toast even before everything has begun! You have to remember, in the dating game, it is you who makes the decision not the woman you will approach. It does not matter if she turns you down, its’ her loss not yours! This is the kind of attitude you need to adopt.

Knowing and Believing that You Deserve Only The Best would Bring To You Only The Best, including the Best Women.

You have to conquer your fear of rejection because it will hinder you from having total confidence. Learn how to visualize your success! You have to believe that you deserve the best things life has to offer. And once you have this mindset, pretty soon you will learn that you don’t have to settle for the second best. The same holds true in a man-woman relationship.

If you are confident, the more chances you have of getting the woman that you dream about. The reason is because she will be impressed with your positive aura and she will be more than determined to find out more about you, to know what makes you tick which most shy men do not have.

Making a Simple List Of Your Objectives in the Dating Game would Make It Easier for you to Achieve Each And Every One Of Them while Having Fun.

Make it a point to set goals and priorities when you go inside a bar or any place where there are single women whom you can possibly hook up with. Having your goals and objectives clear gives you an advantage over other men. Your goal doesn’t have to be to bring home the first woman that you happen to like. Make your goals simple, so that you’ll have fun in accomplishing them especially if you are new to the dating game or just getting back in.

Precision in your Dating Objectives will Lead You to the Precise Person to Hook Up With For The Night.

Your goal can be as simple as talking to a woman who’s wearing a perfume that you happen to like (make sure you know the brand of the perfume or something that smells similar to it) or who’s wearing silver or bead accessories. Keeping your goals simple at the beginning makes them easier to accomplish and will give you the necessary workout to gain self confidence as you go along.

Big Things Start Small; so Start With Small Dating Goals and you’ll End Up Accomplishing Bigger Ones In No Time.

Gaining self-confidence does not happen overnight or over a single weekend. It takes constant practice. Before you know it, you have made bigger goals for yourself and have achieved them without breaking a sweat!

Whatever goal you set, make sure that it does not apply to any one particular girl and that it is not dependent on the other party’s (or someone else’s) response. Your goal is yours alone and not any one else’s, it’s up to you how to achieve it but you have to achieve it. You have to maximize each and every opportunity you get and learn from any mistakes or missteps that you make in order to succeed.