Do Not Give in To Hot Bitches If You Want to Keep Them Interested – A Paradox
August 22, 2009 in | Casanova Dating and Attraction Techniques | by Casanova System
Men are born with the natural thinking that they have to please women. Nice guys tend to adhere to that belief. To the contrary, those who succeed in attracting women, notably the bad boys, break the rules and tend to be self centered. Although they would not in any way submit or give in to the demands of any woman, they are far more successful in dating and relationships than nice guys. Nice Guys fail to understand the meaning of “Shit Tests”, which are tests used by women to test the strength of a man’s frame, ie his psychology, and his level of self-esteem. Lack of these attributes is a direct turn-off to women. So, as attracting women goes, project strength in these two attributes. But as far as impressing women as a friend is concerned, you can act to continually please her but she will lose her respect of you over time.
If a man would easily submit and give in to the demands and caprices of women, he would condition women’s minds to think that he could be played around with. When this happens, challenge is eliminated on the part of women, who would at the same time find boredom being around such men. Attraction is “off”. They could also develop the ‘spoiled brat’ mentality in that they would be naturally asking for too much every time they need to. The lack of self-esteem from these men when you could be played around with and walked over, is also evident and an instant turn-off to women, regardless of how nicely you may be treating them back. Worse, they would expect their men to always give in to them. We see this in the pampered hotties all the time. It is not the fault of one man. Other men have given this power to them and they expect to get it each time from other men.
A man should realize that in such situations, the best way to handle such women is to show them who is dominant. Women are attracted to dominant men. Not only would this help put an end to her abusive ‘bitchy’ behaviours, it would also make her more attracted to you. We are talking about attraction versus friendship here. Women are supposed to be the submissive gender. If men give in or cave in to demands, they would end up looking like they are sharing common women’s traits. They would be viewed as “nice friend” at best, and a “pushover” at worst. For a woman to be attracted to you, then start behaving and acting like a real men, with masculine power, self-esteem, dominance and confidence if you want to seriously attract a woman and keep her interested in the long term.
Be the boss, set the rules, and let her follow you… the reason that so many hot women find bad guys irresistible and prefer to hang around them rather than the typical nice guys who don’t present much of a challenge.
