Women view Canned Conversation Starter Lines as Boring And Unoriginal, so make sure you Avoid Them At All Costs.

No matter what your friends say about canned conversation starter lines, do not make the mistake of using them when striking up a conversation with women. First, women are aware of them much more than you can imagine. Second, canned lines lack originality and freshness. Although they might have worked before they are as passé as yesterday’s news headlines.

There are No Magic Words that Work Each Time with women, so swearing by any is Bound To Bring Nothing But Failure into any Don Juan’s or Casanova’s dating life.

One of the hardest things to do is to start up a conversation with a woman to get her interested in talking and knowing more about you. What makes it even tougher is the fact that there is no magical word man can use that will make women fall for them. In fact, if you use cliché pick up lines (which some of your friends swear by) you may even be signing your own death sentence in the dating game, leaving you more frustrated than ever before.

One of the most common misconceptions among men is that they try to pick up women with an opening line—if this is what you believe then you are starting on the wrong foot. Starting a conversation with women is simply a means to establish a beachhead from which to proceed to achieve your objective, getting to know the woman better.

You can Make Any Hot Lady Interested In You by Talking About Interesting Things.

This is the most important reason you must avoid canned lines because they are a blatant display of a tasteless and unimaginative attitude. When you talk with a woman (or any person for that matter) make it a point to make the person you are talking with to get interested in what you have to say, make the other person feel comfortable and establish a common ground! If you are able to achieve all three, then you are definitely on your way to getting whatever it is you want—be it a promotion at work, a sales contract or a weekend with a beautiful woman!

Practice makes perfect — even in Picking Up Women, so make sure that you Learn From Each Dating Experience That You Have.

To be able to do this on the fly takes practice (and a certain amount of failure along the way) because every situation and woman is different. Whatever you have to say should be formulated and made up on the spot, faster than you can blink your eyes! This requires the investment of time and effort and lessons learned from failures that you would surely encounter as you go along. However, you should never allow failures to give you reasons to stop rather take the lessons learned from your missteps as eventually you will succeed. It’s very similar to planting a fruit tree; it doesn’t bear fruit until it’s time to bear fruit!

A True Don Juan or Casanova is aware of the importance of the FIRST type of Conversation Starters–Situation Specific Lines–which Combine Observations and Creativity to Engage A Girl In Talking.

Conversation starters are generally categorized into three major types, which you can modify depending on the situation at hand.

Situation Specific Lines

Wherever you happen to be, there’s surely something around that makes for a nice conversation starter—be it the ambience of the place, the design of the building, the color scheme, even the reason for being in the same place with a woman who catches your fancy, which you can use to start a conversation matter-of-factly.

In this instance, creativity is key since everybody else happens to be looking at the same environment variables all at the same time! This is also the safest way for newbies to get started.

The SECOND type of Conversation Starters, Compliments and Flattering Remarks, should be Used with Extreme Caution.

Compliment and Flattering Remarks

This is an advanced technique and should be used with caution. Never give a woman a compliment about her physical features. You can use compliments to start a conversation (but never over do it). Comment on the perfume she’s wearing, the color scheme of her clothes, her combination of accessories etcetera.

Just keep in mind that whenever venturing into the area of using compliments to start a conversation that you are simply showing appreciation and do not forget to smile!

Open-ended Questions are the Ultimate Conversation Starters because they Take Advantage of Women’s Need For Listeners to their Stories.

Open-ended Questions

Asking open-ended question never fails because most women love to share their opinions with others. Make sure to follow up with deeper and probing questions as the conversation progresses in order to keep the tempo to your advantage.

When talking with women, always remember the following red flags in order not to step on your tongue!

1. Never use remarks that contain sexual innuendoes.

2. Keep the introduction as basic and simple as possible.

3. Always make eye contact and never forget to smile.

Women of All Backgrounds love being with Don Juans or Casanovas who are Confident, Natural, and are Great Listeners.

4. Ask the woman about herself in relation to the situation both of are in. Allow the conversation to progress spontaneously.

5. Relax and don’t get nervous, remember, you have what it takes and it should show. When you are relaxed, you are in a better position to carry on the conversation based on what she’s saying.

6. Learn how to listen. You have to listen closely to what she’s saying so that you can intelligently keep the ball rolling. Women like good listeners!

Be Sensitive to A Woman’s Gestures, Mannerisms, and Need for Affection.

7. Actions speak louder than words so you need to pay attention to her body language. By her actions, you can tell if you are making her feel comfortable, which means you can pursue talking to her or you can adjust your style to make her comfortable and feel at ease.

8. Show your interest in her by asking for her phone number and if she gives it to you, don’t just send her an SMS, make it a point to call. If she gives you her number, that means she’s interested!