You must have noticed that men and women have completely opposite ideas on just about everything. The differences are magnified when looking at the dating game. Men don’t have many hard and fast rules about a pickup, whereas females have dozens designed to protect and further their own goals.

A prime example is a guy scoring at a club. He instantly forgets the guys he arrived with and those guys get it. On the other hand, when one of a gaggle of girls hooks up with a guy in a club, the rest of the women become like clucking mother hens, hovering and being generally protective of her.

Any Veteran Don Juan or Casanova Knows The Importance of Dating The Girl’s Friends For More Reasons Than One.

Make no mistake, meeting her friends can be one of the toughest challenges a player can face. You will want to take an overview of your opportunities amongst her friends and after your current target is in the past, seek to expand your connections of more available hotties. Simply put, get friendly with her friends – but not too friendly. The eye of your current hottie will be firmly assessing your attitude to her friends so keep it friendly and not even slightly flirtatious.

A true Don Juan or Casanova does not cheat on any woman so you must proceed with caution, employing tact, patience and sincerity to gather details about possible future hookups with other hotties amongst her friends.

If your current hottie is relatively new, and you want to plan a romantic interlude, it is unlikely that you will know her personal preferences yet.

Any True Don Juan or Casanova is aware of the Rules and Techniques of Knowing One’s Current Date while Knowing A Potential Future One – At The Same Time.

Strike up a conversation with that gorgeous girlfriend of hers ostensibly to find out your current hottie’s likes and dislikes, so you can incorporate her likes into a future date.

The girlfriend will be happy to help and will also be impressed with your thoughtfulness towards her friend. Later when the current hottie is no more, the gorgeous friend will remember your thoughtfulness, which will give you an automatic edge.

This technique is a double whammy – showing you as a thoughtful gentleman with your present hottie, whilst lining up another as a future target.

It would be a mistake to ignore your current hottie’s friends because you can use this time to create new connections which will benefit you in the future.

Date In The Present To Find More Dates In The Future—this Technique is Very Useful For Every Hopeful And Determined Don Juan or Casanova.

She is likely to see your suggestion of meeting her friends as a positive sign that you want to get to know her better. This makes you appear like the perfect gentleman.

Aim for achieving a light friendly banter with her friends and address them in a friendly way whenever you meet them. In having a conversation with one of her friends while she is in the ladies’ room, if your technique is right, you will be earning points from both of them.

The Art of Being A Don Juan or Casanova requires that you Find The Perfect Median in terms of Your Friendliness With Her Friends.

Be aware that you could risk upsetting your current partner if you are over-friendly with her girl friends, so made sure you are not overtly friendly but strike the exact balance between being friendly but not over-familiar. This needs careful handling but encapsulates the art of the player.

If you spot one of her friends who is obviously recovering from being dumped, this is one of those golden opportunities for the player. But it is not so easy as consoling her and then making a move.

Your aim here is to be someone she can pour her heart out to, a friend like her girl friends rather than a man to lean on. Maintain your distance but be sympathetic and supportive of her. It’s kind of like you are there for her, but at the same time you are not.

If she is the vindictive type or feels she has a score to settle, then she may well be looking for revenge by engaging in a retaliatory sexual fling. This is the perfect scenario for the player – a score which needs no planning, go ahead and enjoy.

The Key to Dating Her Friends is to be Present At All Possible Times With Them, leading you to A Win-Win Situation that Only Don Juans or Casanovas Could Create.

Put simply, if you are not there, then nothing can happen. Engineer situations where you are invited along with ‘the girls’. You may have to endure movies which are not to your taste, but it will be worth the sacrifice.

In going along with a group meet like this, you are giving yourself plenty of future opportunities.

Another ploy is to casually drop in on her when you know in advance that at least some of her friends will be there.

Your thoughtfulness will be appreciated and yet again, your moves will be taken to be considerate and kind. The perfect win-win scenario for a player.

Being primarily a social chameleon, changing from romantic partner to platonic friend in the blink of an eye, you should try to keep ‘in’ with her group of friends, even after your liaison with her is over.

If you cut yourself off from her completely, you will lose the connections you have so carefully constructed with her gorgeous girlfriends.

Even When you are Done Dating The Girl, you may still Find Smart Ways To Remain In Good Terms (and be a possible date) To Her Friends.

You should strive to remain social acquaintances (this is vastly different from being friends). Try to manipulate the situation so that a favourite weekend hangout meet is still acceptable, so that you can only improve upon your rapport with the group of hotties who are her friends.

Obviously, if the break up does not go according to plan, it will be difficult to keep within the circle of her acquaintances. An emotionally traumatic split is going to mean that there will be little opportunity for scoring with one of her friends. So do your best to ease out of the situation leaving the lady with as much dignity as possible.

Blaming Yourself For The Breakup is One Time-And-Tested Means of Staying In The Loop Of Her Dateable Friends.

A good vehicle for this approach is to blame yourself. You can see she is great for you but you just have this thing about commitment. You are hoping to get over it but for now, it is deeply entrenched. This also gives her the idea that if she allows you to stick around with her group, you may change your mind and want her back.

It’s worth repeating that hot women usually have hot friends. But remember that being a player means that you have a reputation to consider and maintain.

Don Juans do not cheat or give outright lies to satisfy their vanity. Being sleazy is completely counterproductive to the sensibilities of a Don Juan.

So resist all urges to do un-Don Juan like actions and your circle of red hot hotties could only increase.